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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was speaking to someone last year and set up a meeting - he asked me what time suited me, so said a time, he was 3 hrs late.

This time he asked again, I said 12,…….

More fool me!

I believe in giving a second chance but he’ll not get a third!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have wasted hotels and time on so many idiots on here I just don't understand why

I wouldn't do to someone out of manners and decency

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Most are fantasists. I very rarely give anyone a second chance, let alone a third x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've experienced this too many times now, it's beginning to annoy me! Spend weeks talking, then set up a meet and nothing. The conversation stops or they don't turn up.I get more out of spontaneous meets these days saying that its better to stick to clubs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've experienced this too many times now, it's beginning to annoy me! Spend weeks talking, then set up a meet and nothing. The conversation stops or they don't turn up.I get more out of spontaneous meets these days saying that its better to stick to clubs."

I do have a lovely FB but he’s not available today…. Think I’ll have a shower and watch a dvd or Netflix maybe go out and get some munchies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Darling, never give a second chance. There’s not a chance in hell that I’d have waited 3 hours for someone.

Know your worth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Darling, never give a second chance. There’s not a chance in hell that I’d have waited 3 hours for someone.

Know your worth "

I waited 10 months for someone in here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a time waster.

Best block me now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've experienced this too many times now, it's beginning to annoy me! Spend weeks talking, then set up a meet and nothing. The conversation stops or they don't turn up.I get more out of spontaneous meets these days saying that its better to stick to clubs.

I do have a lovely FB but he’s not available today…. Think I’ll have a shower and watch a dvd or Netflix maybe go out and get some munchies"

Sounds perfect

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By *lue1Woman
over a year ago

birmingham

It’s horrendous on here sometimes as post above states a lot are fantasy’s

I stick to clubs mainly.

If they let you down name and shame them

Good luck ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Darling, never give a second chance. There’s not a chance in hell that I’d have waited 3 hours for someone.

Know your worth "

My first ever fab meet I broke down on the way to meet her I was devastated I took pics and called luckily she gave me a second chance and we became regular playmates

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"It’s horrendous on here sometimes as post above states a lot are fantasy’s

I stick to clubs mainly.

If they let you down name and shame them

Good luck ?? "

...this ^^^ and report them aswell surely?

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By *uminmyhole69Man
over a year ago

Ealing

I just accept that time wasters come with the territory and personally I just don't let it bother me, I figure I have way too much fun with genuine people to spare them a second thought I do find it funny though when they try to message you again a few weeks or months later having forgotten that they have done so previously. Sometimes I play along with them and then remind them and Lo and behold they stop mailing me...surprise surprise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s horrendous on here sometimes as post above states a lot are fantasy’s

I stick to clubs mainly.

If they let you down name and shame them

Good luck ?? "

It's against site rules to name and shame

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By *s Roxie RyderWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

It’s so disheartening

I Should of went on my instincts from the start

But like it been said lots in here are just fantasists - no intention of meeting just here for the thrill of sex chat & pics sadly

I too stupidly gave a guy a second chance but just need block and move on and harden up

Shame for the good genuine ones but that’s fab for you !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Was speaking to someone last year and set up a meeting - he asked me what time suited me, so said a time, he was 3 hrs late.

This time he asked again, I said 12,…….

More fool me!

I believe in giving a second chance but he’ll not get a third! "

His loss. Beautiful body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just posted something similar in the UK forum. I've probably been stood up half the time, probably more xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not experienced that yet. But hopefully I'll find a local lady to meet one day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I prefer to meet in clubs now then no one can let you down x

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By *uminmyhole69Man
over a year ago

Ealing

Anyone who does not turn up for a meet with any of you gorgeous people needs their head examined, I wpuld move Heaven and Earth for a meet with genuinely sexy people on here

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By *ottom charlieMan
over a year ago

washington


"Darling, never give a second chance. There’s not a chance in hell that I’d have waited 3 hours for someone.

Know your worth

I waited 10 months for someone in here "
where was he,, in prison

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a time waster.

Best block me now "

Nah you’re funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Darling, never give a second chance. There’s not a chance in hell that I’d have waited 3 hours for someone.

Know your worth "

Absolutely this! One strike and out.

Hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the no second chances, I've made that mistake too. Find someone else who is reliable xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a time waster.

Best block me now

Nah you’re funny "

Really I'm not. I'm an arsehole in disguise

There are those that would confirm it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Darling, never give a second chance. There’s not a chance in hell that I’d have waited 3 hours for someone.

Know your worth

I waited 10 months for someone in here where was he,, in prison "

Nope on here, just played hard to get

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Darling, never give a second chance. There’s not a chance in hell that I’d have waited 3 hours for someone.

Know your worth

My first ever fab meet I broke down on the way to meet her I was devastated I took pics and called luckily she gave me a second chance and we became regular playmates "

I think that’s acceptable if it’s your first meet as it can be nerve wrecking, but this guy is no newbie

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By *enm83Man
over a year ago

Stockport

Had a meet cancelled on Friday and another cancelled last minute, last night.

I know life gets in the way, but still immensely frustrating

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Was speaking to someone last year and set up a meeting - he asked me what time suited me, so said a time, he was 3 hrs late.

This time he asked again, I said 12,…….

More fool me!

I believe in giving a second chance but he’ll not get a third!

His loss. Beautiful body. "

Thank you

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I dont give a second chance may b a genuine reason but that was what I decided from start x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Had a meet cancelled on Friday and another cancelled last minute, last night.

I know life gets in the way, but still immensely frustrating"

That’s the problem - he didn’t cancel… he’s down here for a funeral and going home tomorrow, he texted me to say he was waiting on his son coming for a coffee then texted at 11.30 saying he was still there. He’s doing buses and would need two and at least 2 hrs travelling time - clearly he had no intention of coming eejit

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ

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By *enm83Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"Had a meet cancelled on Friday and another cancelled last minute, last night.

I know life gets in the way, but still immensely frustrating

That’s the problem - he didn’t cancel… he’s down here for a funeral and going home tomorrow, he texted me to say he was waiting on his son coming for a coffee then texted at 11.30 saying he was still there. He’s doing buses and would need two and at least 2 hrs travelling time - clearly he had no intention of coming eejit "

Don't bother with men who deliberately mess you around, utter shithouse. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry this happened OP. Its not a situation I have ever been in as I'm fairly new but I do believe in second chances but as others have said if it's a case where you feel they are taking the p#£s that's it for them you know you are worth more than that. I feel I would make a day of it if possible then of let down at least I have a back up to still enjoy my time even without a meet. Like I say I'm new and maybe in the future I may feel differently. As said above know your worth you are not here or deserve to be messed about.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry this happened OP. Its not a situation I have ever been in as I'm fairly new but I do believe in second chances but as others have said if it's a case where you feel they are taking the p#£s that's it for them you know you are worth more than that. I feel I would make a day of it if possible then of let down at least I have a back up to still enjoy my time even without a meet. Like I say I'm new and maybe in the future I may feel differently. As said above know your worth you are not here or deserve to be messed about. "

I’ve nosed at your profile before - I love your elf outfit lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Darling, never give a second chance. There’s not a chance in hell that I’d have waited 3 hours for someone.

Know your worth

My first ever fab meet I broke down on the way to meet her I was devastated I took pics and called luckily she gave me a second chance and we became regular playmates "

Difference is, you’re a genuine guy. He clearly wasn’t, given that he messed the OP around twice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Guys is now on my block list and I’m off to get breakfast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry this happened OP. Its not a situation I have ever been in as I'm fairly new but I do believe in second chances but as others have said if it's a case where you feel they are taking the p#£s that's it for them you know you are worth more than that. I feel I would make a day of it if possible then of let down at least I have a back up to still enjoy my time even without a meet. Like I say I'm new and maybe in the future I may feel differently. As said above know your worth you are not here or deserve to be messed about.

I’ve nosed at your profile before - I love your elf outfit lol "

Cheers the girls in costa should have know never to dare me haha

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By *adbod7519Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Second chance? Nah! I block and move on

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

southend

Wasting peoples time is shitty behaviour personally it would be no second chance from me, I dont get the time to be messed about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys is now on my block list and I’m off to get breakfast "

You haven't added me yet

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By *ltrMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"This is why I prefer to meet in clubs now then no one can let you down x"
Totally agree with above after 3 hotels paid for and then no shows after blocking

Me .although one weekend turned out ok met up with a couple and went to the attic for the first time and now my fav club

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Guys is now on my block list and I’m off to get breakfast

You haven't added me yet "

Nope

Can be arranged though

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