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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fab should stop accepting new men onto the site, and just accept women for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes how very fair

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

good idea now that we are in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about couples then?

The female can come in, but not their OH?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they should cancel all single blokes profiles if they don't get a shag within a month of being here.

If you can't pull on here, there's no hope for you

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Fab should stop accepting new men onto the site, and just accept women for a while. "

too right..... union rules should apply... last in first out.... see ya!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it bothers you that much OP leave the site n just stick to havin fun in clubs since that where your veri's are from anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also what about the female/couple profiles, that are in fact men, the number of those would increase

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab should stop accepting new men onto the site, and just accept women for a while. "

that wouldn't do for me. I don't want women and need men in multiples.

Cali

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

What happens to the t girls then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a lady tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab should stop accepting new men onto the site, and just accept women for a while. "

Creative, how about a bit of ethnic cleansing while we're at it too, Mr Mugabe.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

one out all out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab should stop accepting new men onto the site, and just accept women for a while. "

Well that's just silly!

Why not ban couples as they already have some one too???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think maybe allow browsing by all but only allow messaging from verified people.(where you do the paper-name thingy for admin)

Would stop loads of new sign-ups adding to the already over-flowing inboxes of women.

Maybe also allow a 'no messages from non-verified people' filter for those that want it as well to further narrow down the field?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also what about the female/couple profiles, that are in fact men, the number of those would increase "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab should stop accepting new men onto the site, and just accept women for a while.

too right..... union rules should apply... last in first out.... see ya!!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab should stop accepting new men onto the site, and just accept women for a while.

Well that's just silly!

Why not ban couples as they already have some one too??? "

Hmm I'll remember that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab should stop accepting new men onto the site, and just accept women for a while.

Well that's just silly!

Why not ban couples as they already have some one too???

Hmm I'll remember that "

One was being sarcastic J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab should stop accepting new men onto the site, and just accept women for a while.

Well that's just silly!

Why not ban couples as they already have some one too???

Hmm I'll remember that "

One was being sarcastic J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe also allow a 'no messages from non-verified people' filter for those that want it as well to further narrow down the field?"

That already exists....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about couples then?

The female can come in, but not their OH? "

Excellent idea

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

most of the straight guys will leave if there is less cock on offer.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab should stop accepting new men onto the site, and just accept women for a while.

that wouldn't do for me. I don't want women and need men in multiples.

Cali"
+ 1

Sits on coffin

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I swear if a single male puts a thread, certain people on here just comment to b rude or put blokes down. There's nothin upsetting on this thread just an idea. Plus I did have a verification off here, but she's left the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"most of the straight guys will leave if there is less cock on offer......."

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

Let's also ban thread starters

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What about couples then?

The female can come in, but not their OH?

Excellent idea "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I swear if a single male puts a thread, certain people on here just comment to b rude or put blokes down. There's nothin upsetting on this thread just an idea. Plus I did have a verification off here, but she's left the site. "

someone is a bit touchy this evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I swear if a single male puts a thread, certain people on here just comment to b rude or put blokes down. "

Your the one wanting to stick a ban on new single males joining

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I swear if a single male puts a thread, certain people on here just comment to b rude or put blokes down. There's nothin upsetting on this thread just an idea. Plus I did have a verification off here, but she's left the site.

someone is a bit touchy this evening "

No its just most threads a single bloke has written, gets critics being rude etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's also ban thread starters "

+ people commenting on other people's threads

Oh hang on... there won't be any threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab should stop accepting new men onto the site, and just accept women for a while. "

there may be a lot of men as opposed to women but if you take the numpties out of the equation the numbers even out a bit...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe also allow a 'no messages from non-verified people' filter for those that want it as well to further narrow down the field?

That already exists...."

So why do people not use it instead of bitching about non verified people bugging them? That's why I assumed it didn't exist.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I swear if a single male puts a thread, certain people on here just comment to b rude or put blokes down. There's nothin upsetting on this thread just an idea. Plus I did have a verification off here, but she's left the site.

someone is a bit touchy this evening

No its just most threads a single bloke has written, gets critics being rude etc. "
Everyone that posts on here gets critised at some point but i do agree single guys get the brunt of it, but sometimes they are rude from the get go...no excuse though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I swear if a single male puts a thread, certain people on here just comment to b rude or put blokes down.

Your the one wanting to stick a ban on new single males joining "

Temporary, for 2months or so. It's the women on here complaining, so single men wil be happy because there would be more women and less competition. Plus women won't have as many unwanted messages

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fab should stop accepting new men onto the site, and just accept women for a while.

there may be a lot of men as opposed to women but if you take the numpties out of the equation the numbers even out a bit..."

Fair point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I swear if a single male puts a thread, certain people on here just comment to b rude or put blokes down. There's nothin upsetting on this thread just an idea. Plus I did have a verification off here, but she's left the site.

someone is a bit touchy this evening

No its just most threads a single bloke has written, gets critics being rude etc. "

Not found that on any of my post... and I am single... guess it's how you take it! I see this as fun maybe you dont!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They could have an annual cull like they do with deer!

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe also allow a 'no messages from non-verified people' filter for those that want it as well to further narrow down the field?

That already exists....

So why do people not use it instead of bitching about non verified people bugging them? That's why I assumed it didn't exist."

There are loads of tools that this site has to offer that people don't use... then throw the dummy out of the pram when they feel overwhelmed.

All I know is that we use the ones that suit us and we're happy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They could have an annual cull like they do with deer!

XXXX"

Lol. X Or badgers 95% lol. Jokes

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"I swear if a single male puts a thread, certain people on here just comment to b rude or put blokes down. There's nothin upsetting on this thread just an idea. Plus I did have a verification off here, but she's left the site.

someone is a bit touchy this evening

No its just most threads a single bloke has written, gets critics being rude etc. "

At least it's watered down. If blokes were to stop being allowed in we would have to pick up a bigger share of abuse. Keep herding the buggers in I say

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I swear if a single male puts a thread, certain people on here just comment to b rude or put blokes down. There's nothin upsetting on this thread just an idea. Plus I did have a verification off here, but she's left the site.

someone is a bit touchy this evening

No its just most threads a single bloke has written, gets critics being rude etc.

At least it's watered down. If blokes were to stop being allowed in we would have to pick up a bigger share of abuse. Keep herding the buggers in I say "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I swear if a single male puts a thread, certain people on here just comment to b rude or put blokes down. There's nothin upsetting on this thread just an idea. Plus I did have a verification off here, but she's left the site.

someone is a bit touchy this evening

No its just most threads a single bloke has written, gets critics being rude etc.

At least it's watered down. If blokes were to stop being allowed in we would have to pick up a bigger share of abuse. Keep herding the buggers in I say "

Lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab should stop accepting new men onto the site, and just accept women for a while.

there may be a lot of men as opposed to women but if you take the numpties out of the equation the numbers even out a bit..."

And all those guys trying to beat the odds with two, three, four or more profiles!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab should stop accepting new men onto the site, and just accept women for a while.

there may be a lot of men as opposed to women but if you take the numpties out of the equation the numbers even out a bit...

And all those guys trying to beat the odds with two, three, four or more profiles!! "

why didn't I think of that one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What happens then when one has done the single men fab block?

Bit boring to go round again

I think we should ban single guys from posting on the forum unless they have 10 + verifications from female/couple posters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What happens then when one has done the single men fab block?

Bit boring to go round again

I think we should ban single guys from posting on the forum unless they have 10 + verifications from female/couple posters "

Is that just on the one profile or can they add them together? lol

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By *orkscrew CurlsWoman
over a year ago

Loughborough Leics

How dare you suggest they remove my supply of fresh meat?

I would however start to ban the multiple profilers and those yo-yo guys who come back every few weeks with a new profile (sometimes straight, sometimes bi, after they have pissed someone off and got a bad rep....)

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Fab should stop accepting new men onto the site, and just accept women for a while. "

okay.. let go with your suggestion...

since I have been here for a while... lets set "new" at those who have been here less than a year....

since you are now "part of the cull"... how do you feel???

now do you see how people could see your suggestion.... it could be seen as rather silly and could be perceived as looking out for your own self interest....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well us single guys arent here to get other guys laid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What happens then when one has done the single men fab block?

Bit boring to go round again

I think we should ban single guys from posting on the forum unless they have 10 + verifications from female/couple posters

Is that just on the one profile or can they add them together? lol "

I am sure they'll find a way of adding it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's stop folk with eyebrows joining fab, after all the site is inundated with em!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ban all the women that only meet socially!! Only let women stay if they shag at least 3 single men!

... every week......

;-)

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc


"Let's stop folk with eyebrows joining fab, after all the site is inundated with em! "

But mine are 3/4 real and a 1/4 fake, what do I do???

Shall I get my coat?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ban all the women that only meet socially!! Only let women stay if they shag at least 3 single men!

... every week......

;-) "

Why not every night?

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc


"Ban all the women that only meet socially!! Only let women stay if they shag at least 3 single men!

... every week......

;-) "

Oi shush fishy battered hair!

I aint going!!

Well til I get banned of perving or bored

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc


"Ban all the women that only meet socially!! Only let women stay if they shag at least 3 single men!

... every week......

;-)

Why not every night? "

I wish!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ban all the women that only meet socially!! Only let women stay if they shag at least 3 single men!

... every week......

;-)

Oi shush fishy battered hair!

I aint going!!

Well til I get banned of perving or bored "

I was meaning me to get banned for only meeting socially!

Perving is legal. Oops typo... I meant essential...

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc


"Ban all the women that only meet socially!! Only let women stay if they shag at least 3 single men!

... every week......

;-)

Oi shush fishy battered hair!

I aint going!!

Well til I get banned of perving or bored

I was meaning me to get banned for only meeting socially!

Perving is legal. Oops typo... I meant essential... "

Glad you added that lady!

It s more than legal from where I am sitting (in a freezing cold garage/smoking area lol )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck me, am totally shagged then. Man as well as liking to look like a woman. I know, i can go piss off and fuck myself

As you can tell, i have had a few glasses of Tempranillo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck me, am totally shagged then. Man as well as liking to look like a woman. I know, i can go piss off and fuck myself

As you can tell, i have had a few glasses of Tempranillo "

As a bloke... you should be hounded from the site as everyone knows that blokes don't get shagged.

As a woman... you should be given a medal for taking one for the girls and and being totally shagged.

No idea what you're drinking but *clink* cheers!!

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc


"Fuck me, am totally shagged then. Man as well as liking to look like a woman. I know, i can go piss off and fuck myself

As you can tell, i have had a few glasses of Tempranillo "

No idea what temp its whats is name is, but will give it a go!

Chin chin and all that jazz so long as you share

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab should stop accepting new men onto the site, and just accept women for a while. "

I think it would be better with even more men to choose from so lets encourage more men to join.

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc


"Fab should stop accepting new men onto the site, and just accept women for a while.

I think it would be better with even more men to choose from so lets encourage more men to join. "
+a million lol just encourage lots of people to join, and we can say who stays n who goes

Oooo our own welcoming/admin commitee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I swear if a single male puts a thread, certain people on here just comment to b rude or put blokes down.

Your the one wanting to stick a ban on new single males joining

Temporary, for 2months or so. It's the women on here complaining, so single men wil be happy because there would be more women and less competition. Plus women won't have as many unwanted messages "

See - your use of the word 'competition' gets my goat!

It's not - and should never be considered any form of 'competition' or 'challenge' ! I couldn't give a monkeys if 10,000 more single guys cropped up tomorrow. If someone's not interested in me and the content of my profile I'm not gonna chuck a hissy fit and winge - concentrate on yourself and those that interest you and who are interested in you.

Shouldn't make a difference how many others are on site - male, female or couples!!

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By *nnie2009Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

single guys have as much right to be on here as single fems or cpls. if u dont want to meet them then dont

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Can we have some more sexy guys on here...you can never have enough.....can you?

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By *on1Man
over a year ago

spain

Excuse me . Ain't it us men who make you feel good ! By chasing ?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It's the same as shoes and handbags - it doesn't matter how many there are you still need the right one for that outfit/occasion/whim.

I would be meeting every day if I could find the right men to match my mood.

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By *nnie2009Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

lol

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc


"Can we have some more sexy guys on here...you can never have enough.....can you? "

Hell no!!!

Just send them to me first just to make sure theyre sexy I'll take one or two for the team

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc


"Excuse me . Ain't it us men who make you feel good ! By chasing ? "

Nah. There's chasing, and there's stalking/being pushy!

Quite a few freak me out tbh

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc


"It's the same as shoes and handbags - it doesn't matter how many there are you still need the right one for that outfit/occasion/whim.

I would be meeting every day if I could find the right men to match my mood."

Im that moody there needs to be more of a variety!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"It's the same as shoes and handbags - it doesn't matter how many there are you still need the right one for that outfit/occasion/whim.

I would be meeting every day if I could find the right men to match my mood.

Im that moody there needs to be more of a variety!"

That's why we need the new styles to come in every season.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the same as shoes and handbags - it doesn't matter how many there are you still need the right one for that outfit/occasion/whim.

I would be meeting every day if I could find the right men to match my mood."

I'd meet several times a day if I could find enough men to put up with m... I mean, if I could find enough hot guys!

*phew, I may just have got away with that one*

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc


"It's the same as shoes and handbags - it doesn't matter how many there are you still need the right one for that outfit/occasion/whim.

I would be meeting every day if I could find the right men to match my mood.

Im that moody there needs to be more of a variety!

That's why we need the new styles to come in every season."

Oooo good thinking batwoman!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"one out all out"

OK - I'll start by getting mine out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"well us single guys arent here to get other guys laid "

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"well us single guys arent here to get other guys laid

"

Maybe you should be... how else are we to enjoy the delights of FMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM

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