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"Came back on here after a break but it seems I’m still nobody’s “type” so I’m admitting defeat. There’s no point carrying on. Good luck everybody. X" Well you give it your best Good luck in the real world | |||
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"Thanks Sally but can’t even get anybody to engage in a chat let alone meet. " Go to a club or social and chat to loads of people face to face. | |||
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"Just the same old story “sorry, not my type”. I guess I just have to accept I’m too ugly. " You’re not ugly at all. I think it’s like this for most men and on top of that you’ve got a lot of people not meeting because of current circumstances. Like someone said, get involved in the forums. I 100% wouldn’t be here if the forums weren’t. Do stay x | |||
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"If I’m nobody’s “type” on here how will that be any different at the clubs where everybody from here goes to?" Stop sulking an grow some balls. Have more confidence in yourself and battle on. | |||
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"Just the same old story “sorry, not my type”. I guess I just have to accept I’m too ugly. " It isn't about being ugly, which you aren't. As others have said, try clubs, organised socials and engaging in the Forum without an eye on it leading to anything physical. | |||
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"If I’m nobody’s “type” on here how will that be any different at the clubs where everybody from here goes to?" Because the difference between a profile and face to face is night and day. If I were meeting and we were closer, I would certainly ask you for a social (if you're not attached) but now I've seen your updates and post here, I'd be very reticent. What were you expecting to happen when you joined? | |||
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"If I’m nobody’s “type” on here how will that be any different at the clubs where everybody from here goes to?" You and I are the same age. You're 6' and I'm 5'6".....now, who do you think has a better chance of being someone's 'type', whether it's here or outside Fab? | |||
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"That's a shame. You wouldn't be what we're looking for (as you say straight) and too far away if you were but you are certainly not ugly by any stretch so don't put yourself down!! Your beer pic - is that somewhere in Germany? T" Yes it’s in Munich. Beautiful city. Thanks for your kind words but my self esteem is rock bottom. Every single lady I try and introduce myself to says the same thing. “Sorry not for me” or “sorry not my type”. It’s nothing to do with people not meeting due to covid, I never get as far as discussing meets. | |||
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"That's a shame. You wouldn't be what we're looking for (as you say straight) and too far away if you were but you are certainly not ugly by any stretch so don't put yourself down!! Your beer pic - is that somewhere in Germany? T Yes it’s in Munich. Beautiful city. Ah, Munich! Been there many times. Love it! Thanks for your kind words but my self esteem is rock bottom. Every single lady I try and introduce myself to says the same thing. “Sorry not for me” or “sorry not my type”. It’s nothing to do with people not meeting due to covid, I never get as far as discussing meets. " | |||
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"I get so little replies on here I've taken to messaging my self rejection messages " You could message yourself and arrange a meet and see if you turn up | |||
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"I get so little replies on here I've taken to messaging my self rejection messages You could message yourself and arrange a meet and see if you turn up " | |||
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"I get so little replies on here I've taken to messaging my self rejection messages " I call myself sea because even the tide won't take me out | |||
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"Just the same old story “sorry, not my type”. I guess I just have to accept I’m too ugly. " You're not ugly at all. I don't fancy Tom Hardy or Jason Momoa but that doesn't mean they are ugly. | |||
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"Just the same old story “sorry, not my type”. I guess I just have to accept I’m too ugly. " No such thing as too ugly! (Read my profile!) But also there is nothing attractive about a guy who withdraws from the world and cuts and runs because he believes he cannot win. So you makes your choices and you live with them Good luck in the future and kisses from me xxx | |||
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"I get so little replies on here I've taken to messaging my self rejection messages " Ha ha. That made me smile. Cheers for that. | |||
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"Dude I was gonna leave here because of the horrible messages I receive. But that's what they want, so I'm staying. Also when women on here mention they get too many messages to reply etc etc. I'm like, really? Because I certainly don't get many. But I'm making an effort in forums now. Try not let it get to you. Just enjoy life as it is for now. " I like your posts. | |||
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"Dude I was gonna leave here because of the horrible messages I receive. But that's what they want, so I'm staying. Also when women on here mention they get too many messages to reply etc etc. I'm like, really? Because I certainly don't get many. But I'm making an effort in forums now. Try not let it get to you. Just enjoy life as it is for now. I like your posts. " Same but I'm outside of your age range or you definitely would have got at least 1 message x | |||
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"If I’m nobody’s “type” on here how will that be any different at the clubs where everybody from here goes to?" Honestly it’s so different in a club setting. I haven’t read the replies before this but I can bet many will tell you and agree, you might pass a profile on here - see them in a club and it’s another story… Best way to meet people is in a swingers club | |||
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"Dude I was gonna leave here because of the horrible messages I receive. But that's what they want, so I'm staying. Also when women on here mention they get too many messages to reply etc etc. I'm like, really? Because I certainly don't get many. But I'm making an effort in forums now. Try not let it get to you. Just enjoy life as it is for now. I like your posts. " Awww thanks, that's sweet. | |||
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"I get so little replies on here I've taken to messaging my self rejection messages Ha ha. That made me smile. Cheers for that. " There you go; it needn't only be about the 'hunt' here. Sometimes, you can find that uplift and lightheartedness too. | |||
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"Dude I was gonna leave here because of the horrible messages I receive. But that's what they want, so I'm staying. Also when women on here mention they get too many messages to reply etc etc. I'm like, really? Because I certainly don't get many. But I'm making an effort in forums now. Try not let it get to you. Just enjoy life as it is for now. I like your posts. " As do I. Seaw*ed indeed...tsk. | |||
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"Dude I was gonna leave here because of the horrible messages I receive. But that's what they want, so I'm staying. Also when women on here mention they get too many messages to reply etc etc. I'm like, really? Because I certainly don't get many. But I'm making an effort in forums now. Try not let it get to you. Just enjoy life as it is for now. I like your posts. As do I. Seaw*ed indeed...tsk." | |||
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"Dude I was gonna leave here because of the horrible messages I receive. But that's what they want, so I'm staying. Also when women on here mention they get too many messages to reply etc etc. I'm like, really? Because I certainly don't get many. But I'm making an effort in forums now. Try not let it get to you. Just enjoy life as it is for now. I like your posts. Same but I'm outside of your age range or you definitely would have got at least 1 message x" I assume you mean Myrtle. | |||
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"Came back on here after a break but it seems I’m still nobody’s “type” so I’m admitting defeat. There’s no point carrying on. Good luck everybody. X" Have you cheered up a bit? | |||
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"This is sad to read. Why not stay and become a little more active in the forum x" You are right , you can get more noticed in the forums than just sending messages | |||
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"Came back on here after a break but it seems I’m still nobody’s “type” so I’m admitting defeat. There’s no point carrying on. Good luck everybody. X" It can be hard work and frustrating on here sometimes , it’s a shame even if it’s just to chat , it’s annoying that one’s you can end up chatting with and who you would like to meet are always miles away . Bring more active on forums get you noticed more than messages , give it a bit more time | |||
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"Came back on here after a break but it seems I’m still nobody’s “type” so I’m admitting defeat. There’s no point carrying on. Good luck everybody. X" Good looking, young enough and single. Fill your boots on the dating sites. I would. | |||
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"You could spice up your profile a bit, change your pics, hide face pics and put in ‘face pic on request’ that would normally happen after a wee chat, which allows your personality to come through first. " Ha ha! Code for “your ugly mug is putting people off”. Cheers for the confidence boost! Lol xx | |||
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"You could spice up your profile a bit, change your pics, hide face pics and put in ‘face pic on request’ that would normally happen after a wee chat, which allows your personality to come through first. Ha ha! Code for “your ugly mug is putting people off”. Cheers for the confidence boost! Lol xx" Hey - that works for me. | |||
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"Thanks everybody for your kind messages of support. I won't be leaving after all as I’m now friends with a hot, sexy girl on here who wants to sit on my face xx" | |||
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"Dude I was gonna leave here because of the horrible messages I receive. But that's what they want, so I'm staying. Also when women on here mention they get too many messages to reply etc etc. I'm like, really? Because I certainly don't get many. But I'm making an effort in forums now. Try not let it get to you. Just enjoy life as it is for now. I like your posts. Same but I'm outside of your age range or you definitely would have got at least 1 message x I assume you mean Myrtle. " Everyone it seems lol x | |||
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"If I’m nobody’s “type” on here how will that be any different at the clubs where everybody from here goes to? Stop sulking an grow some balls. Have more confidence in yourself and battle on." | |||
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"Thanks everybody for your kind messages of support. I won't be leaving after all as I’m now friends with a hot, sexy girl on here who wants to sit on my face xx" again all the best | |||
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"Thanks everybody for your kind messages of support. I won't be leaving after all as I’m now friends with a hot, sexy girl on here who wants to sit on my face xx" She sounds like a keeper. Lol | |||
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"Thanks Sally but can’t even get anybody to engage in a chat let alone meet. " The chatrooms seem to be a closed group and you must be established there. Any time I go in, there is just an acknowledgement of my presence and then I'm ignored so I don't bother anymore. | |||
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"I get so little replies on here I've taken to messaging my self rejection messages " Just to see if it was possible - I messaged myself to tell myself how hot I am - then I replied back and agreed. That was a great day! | |||
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"Thanks everybody for your kind messages of support. I won't be leaving after all as I’m now friends with a hot, sexy girl on here who wants to sit on my face xx" There you go fella, your tactic worked. Desperation is the mother of ingenuity, or something.. | |||
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"I get so little replies on here I've taken to messaging my self rejection messages Just to see if it was possible - I messaged myself to tell myself how hot I am - then I replied back and agreed. That was a great day! " Now - why didn't I think of that? | |||
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"I get so little replies on here I've taken to messaging my self rejection messages Just to see if it was possible - I messaged myself to tell myself how hot I am - then I replied back and agreed. That was a great day! " I’m friends with me and I’m on my hotlist | |||
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"I get so little replies on here I've taken to messaging my self rejection messages Just to see if it was possible - I messaged myself to tell myself how hot I am - then I replied back and agreed. That was a great day! " I tried this too, sadly I got blocked straight away | |||
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"Just read through the thread OP, glad to see you are now staying. I usually take breaks, sometimes for months at a time as it all becomes a bit repetitive. I don't engage half as much in the forums like I used too and tend to talk now to more people who don't use them. Good luck OP in your future endeavours x" Oh ffs ! Why didn't you post that before I posted mine..... Oh wait ....... | |||
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"Gets even better. Me and my new hot friend have exchanged pics and we’re setting up a meet for a lovely 69 session. Thanks again for all your help and advice guys and gals xx" No one likes a show-off lol How fickle are we lol | |||
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"I get so little replies on here I've taken to messaging my self rejection messages Just to see if it was possible - I messaged myself to tell myself how hot I am - then I replied back and agreed. That was a great day! I’m friends with me and I’m on my hotlist " I might go on my own hotlist. I'd be the hottest there and that's no lie. | |||
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"Just read through the thread OP, glad to see you are now staying. I usually take breaks, sometimes for months at a time as it all becomes a bit repetitive. I don't engage half as much in the forums like I used too and tend to talk now to more people who don't use them. Good luck OP in your future endeavours x" You're a good egg Sparkle, a good egg. | |||
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"If I’m nobody’s “type” on here how will that be any different at the clubs where everybody from here goes to?" There's plenty of people out in the real world that go to clubs and parties who aren't on Fab and have never heard of Fab and as others have said there's a whole world of difference between a one dimensional online profile and a real life human being. | |||
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"Just the same old story “sorry, not my type”. I guess I just have to accept I’m too ugly. " I looked at your pics. You are NOT ugly. Cute in fact. | |||
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"Im gonna announce im leaving...see if I get a 69 or a shut the door on your way out" Shut the door chap, there’s a draft | |||
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"Im gonna announce im leaving...see if I get a 69 or a shut the door on your way out Shut the door chap, there’s a draft " 69 first please x | |||
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"I think it's more rude that you are now happy with just the one lady to sit on your face and 69 with.... what about the rest of us Females? Rude! " Who said I was happy with just one? | |||
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"Thanks everybody for your kind messages of support. I won't be leaving after all as I’m now friends with a hot, sexy girl on here who wants to sit on my face xx" • There you go! You went from zerø-to-hero in one hour! | |||
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"Im gonna announce im leaving...see if I get a 69 or a shut the door on your way out" Again? | |||
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"Im gonna announce im leaving...see if I get a 69 or a shut the door on your way out" • I'll sit on your face. It'll be zerØ-to-Nerø in 30 mins. | |||
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"Im gonna announce im leaving...see if I get a 69 or a shut the door on your way out • I'll sit on your face. It'll be zerØ-to-Nerø in 30 mins. " I wanna watch! | |||
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"If I’m nobody’s “type” on here how will that be any different at the clubs where everybody from here goes to? There's plenty of people out in the real world that go to clubs and parties who aren't on Fab and have never heard of Fab and as others have said there's a whole world of difference between a one dimensional online profile and a real life human being." | |||
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"Im gonna announce im leaving...see if I get a 69 or a shut the door on your way out • I'll sit on your face. It'll be zerØ-to-Nerø in 30 mins. I wanna watch! " Pervert. | |||
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"I get so little replies on here I've taken to messaging my self rejection messages I call myself sea because even the tide won't take me out " that made me laugh , very funny and sexy | |||
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