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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are a strictly no secrets couple in our relationship. We believe that honesty and openness is the key to our relationship.. this shocks many of the people we play with or message us asking for meets. We play together and separately . I always say hot does not need permission to play as we discuss everything either of us plan to do. It shocks me the amount of people who are shocked about the openness of our relationship. Do you agree . Honesty and openness is key to any couple who swing

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"We are a strictly no secrets couple in our relationship. We believe that honesty and openness is the key to our relationship.. this shocks many of the people we play with or message us asking for meets. We play together and separately . I always say hot does not need permission to play as we discuss everything either of us plan to do. It shocks me the amount of people who are shocked about the openness of our relationship. Do you agree . Honesty and openness is key to any couple who swing "
Totally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we agree totally with you, we too used to play alone but found it hard for ppl to understand that we both could play alone and be up front about it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are a strictly no secrets couple in our relationship. We believe that honesty and openness is the key to our relationship.. this shocks many of the people we play with or message us asking for meets. We play together and separately . I always say hot does not need permission to play as we discuss everything either of us plan to do. It shocks me the amount of people who are shocked about the openness of our relationship. Do you agree . Honesty and openness is key to any couple who swing "

I agree, and would add honesty and openness is the key to a relationship, full stop.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks we want for your reply. Nice to see we are not only ones .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We agreed when we began swinging river years ago that those were are only rules we abide to when swinging or we would stop

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been swinging over 5 years now

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Honesty in swinging is crucial - but then, for me it is crucial in everyday life as well.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Honesty in swinging is crucial - but then, for me it is crucial in everyday life as well. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think that most couples who swing will have this attitude.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Openness and honesty is part of our marriage and everyday life as well as our swinging relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honesty in swinging is crucial - but then, for me it is crucial in everyday life as well.

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Us too

Wolf

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are a strictly no secrets couple in our relationship. We believe that honesty and openness is the key to our relationship.. this shocks many of the people we play with or message us asking for meets. We play together and separately . I always say hot does not need permission to play as we discuss everything either of us plan to do. It shocks me the amount of people who are shocked about the openness of our relationship. Do you agree . Honesty and openness is key to any couple who swing

I agree, and would add honesty and openness is the key to a relationship, full stop."

Spot on!!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

total honesty is the only way swinging or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree, I find it difficult to understand how a couple can swing without being totally honest and open.

If any of the 'domestics' Ive witnessed in clubs is anything to go by, it must cause problems in their relationship??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honesty in swinging is crucial - but then, for me it is crucial in everyday life as well.

Us too

Wolf

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Same here if we weren't as open and honest as we are i don't think we would have survived That's when you start keeping secrets from each other. It also becomes hard to tell each other what your thinking.

Or do i sound mad?

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I totally agree, I find it difficult to understand how a couple can swing without being totally honest and open.

If any of the 'domestics' Ive witnessed in clubs is anything to go by, it must cause problems in their relationship??

"

I believe that swinging should be off the cards when there is a problem in the relationship - swinging can never cure problems, it can only mask them temporarily but then it will inevitably lead to a greater rift.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I totally agree, I find it difficult to understand how a couple can swing without being totally honest and open.

If any of the 'domestics' Ive witnessed in clubs is anything to go by, it must cause problems in their relationship??

I believe that swinging should be off the cards when there is a problem in the relationship - swinging can never cure problems, it can only mask them temporarily but then it will inevitably lead to a greater rift. "

Spot on, well said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honesty in swinging is crucial - but then, for me it is crucial in everyday life as well.

Us too

Wolf

Same here if we weren't as open and honest as we are i don't think we would have survived That's when you start keeping secrets from each other. It also becomes hard to tell each other what your thinking.

Or do i sound mad? "

no not at all.

Those things get in the way then, and make it hard to talk with your partner - been there done that in previous lives. Thankfully these days I'm really really lucky in having a partner I can discuss anything with, and as we think so alike - it's as easy as breathing. You can take on anything then can't you...it's so easy

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We totally agree. I don't think swinging as a couple would work without honesty and openness.

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"Thanks we want for your reply. Nice to see we are not only ones . "

As a MM cpl, 1 Gay, 1 Bi.

Bi male sometimes meets fems / cpls alone, honesty is what has kept us together for 23 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single fem, I am open and honest about being on FAB looking for suitable playmates for NSA fun.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"We are a strictly no secrets couple in our relationship. We believe that honesty and openness is the key to our relationship.. this shocks many of the people we play with or message us asking for meets. We play together and separately . I always say hot does not need permission to play as we discuss everything either of us plan to do. It shocks me the amount of people who are shocked about the openness of our relationship. Do you agree . Honesty and openness is key to any couple who swing

I agree, and would add honesty and openness is the key to a relationship, full stop."

That saved me typing.

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By *ethany10Couple
over a year ago

falkirk


"We are a strictly no secrets couple in our relationship. We believe that honesty and openness is the key to our relationship.. this shocks many of the people we play with or message us asking for meets. We play together and separately . I always say hot does not need permission to play as we discuss everything either of us plan to do. It shocks me the amount of people who are shocked about the openness of our relationship. Do you agree . Honesty and openness is key to any couple who swing "

We are exactly the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are open with each other, nothing hidden, no secrets, good.or bad.

It works for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, I have to admit that Mr J believes in honesty between us and others that we play with....

He knows he has it from me, as I am married and my husband is fully aware of everything Mr J and I do. Hell we even get to play altogether from time to time. I am a lucky girl, but if there is no honesty and openess then it could not go on. I have to be honest with my husband and Mr J, its not in my nature to be dishonest in all fairness, i hate it.... really do.

Mrs S xx

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast


"We are a strictly no secrets couple in our relationship. We believe that honesty and openness is the key to our relationship.. this shocks many of the people we play with or message us asking for meets. We play together and separately . I always say hot does not need permission to play as we discuss everything either of us plan to do. It shocks me the amount of people who are shocked about the openness of our relationship. Do you agree . Honesty and openness is key to any couple who swing "

We too are very much the same where we play alone and trust each others judgement on potential playmates....without trust and honesty we wouldnt be here

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Do you agree . Honesty and openness is key to any couple who swing "

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

i'd like to think that honesty is important in any area of life?

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