FabSwingers.com forum: Fast lane sex ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

After post on other forum about Hot spots for swingers .. I do like meeting people but i like to know them as make sex better for me . And meeting men or woman alone i feel safe if i have cheated and got to know them a little .. John do say at times when i meet alone how do you know its not Jake the ripper your meeting ? Clubs and things your where others are it make it safer I know. ? Its is risky meeting people you don't know for fast lane sex and yes some get off on that too the risks. I know just going out the doors a risk at times ... so i go with gut feeling when i get it wrong it knocks me for 6 thank god i don't alot of the time. And i know its a sex site .. I just like to know them a bit ..even in club i like to chat a bit first .. just make me feel not like meat. And i can lust need sex as much as most as high sex drive. lol How about you ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So how do you know its not jake the ripper your going to meet if alone ? or some nutter ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So how do you know its not jake the ripper your going to meet if alone ? or some nutter ? "

Well, I guess I like to get to know them a little first. you can never be sure you aren't going to meet a bunny boiler and the last meet I had the people were a little odd but all is well that ends well, they only chopped two fingers off!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"So how do you know its not jake the ripper your going to meet if alone ? or some nutter ? "

You don't. Bad things happen to good people. Godd things happen to good people. Good things happen to bad people.

My experiences of being attacked, sexually assualted and worse have happened at work, in a nightclub, out on the street, in my own home with someone I loved and almost married.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I think there is an element of risk in everything we do, meeting somebody in a pub or bar and going home with them is just as risky I think.

Havign said that I like to get to know somebody a little bit before any play takes place.. as like you I dont like feeling like a piece of meat... and it is just more fun to explore similarities, chemistry and meeting a level beyond sex?

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By *ighclassfunMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

You should never treat anyone like a piece of meat; you have to have standards and engage properly

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"You should never treat anyone like a piece of meat; you have to have standards and engage properly"
Indeed.. and it works both ways - in my world men deserve that same respect we expect to be given.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"You should never treat anyone like a piece of meat; you have to have standards and engage properlyIndeed.. and it works both ways - in my world men deserve that same respect we expect to be given.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You should never treat anyone like a piece of meat; you have to have standards and engage properlyIndeed.. and it works both ways - in my world men deserve that same respect we expect to be given.

yes in my world too xx

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

i count myself very lucky that i have never had a bad experience like a previous poster mentioned and i have done some very 'fast lane' things foolishly.

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

Fast lane sex can be more exciting than spending a few hours building up to it, only for it then to flop

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