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By *eicJ OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Leicester

I'm really into the entire "sissy" way of lifestyle and this would be a huge step.

I would lock the cage, superglue the lock and cut the keys.

Don't worry, very easy to maintain hygiene in this cage.

Do I make the plunge?

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it!

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

What if you need to remove it in an emergency? Do you have a plan of action for that? Bolt cutters or the Fire brigade?

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By *eicJ OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Leicester

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By *eicJ OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Leicester


"What if you need to remove it in an emergency? Do you have a plan of action for that? Bolt cutters or the Fire brigade? "

I don't think it will ever really be an issue, but I get what you're saying.

It's part of who I am, so, I will have to figure it out when the time comes.

I'm pretty sure it will cut with bolt cutters yes.

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility


"What if you need to remove it in an emergency? Do you have a plan of action for that? Bolt cutters or the Fire brigade?

I don't think it will ever really be an issue, but I get what you're saying.

It's part of who I am, so, I will have to figure it out when the time comes.

I'm pretty sure it will cut with bolt cutters yes."

What about a key safe or key holder? Do you not trust yourself to not remove it? Won't you just use bolt cutters anyway?

I hope there are no metal detectors in your immediate future

Chastity is a fascinating experience though. Good luck and have fun with it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's a decision only you can make. I couldn't do it.

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By *eicJ OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Leicester


"What if you need to remove it in an emergency? Do you have a plan of action for that? Bolt cutters or the Fire brigade?

I don't think it will ever really be an issue, but I get what you're saying.

It's part of who I am, so, I will have to figure it out when the time comes.

I'm pretty sure it will cut with bolt cutters yes.

What about a key safe or key holder? Do you not trust yourself to not remove it? Won't you just use bolt cutters anyway?

I hope there are no metal detectors in your immediate future

Chastity is a fascinating experience though. Good luck and have fun with it "

I've thought about a key holder, but can't find someone I trust enough in that regard. Where as if I was to do it myself it would be all down to me.

As for bolt cutters, I don't actively own any, so wouldn't be an easy option out.

I also don't own a lockbox

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By *eicJ OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Leicester


"It's a decision only you can make. I couldn't do it."

Well, I think I'm ready for it, but just need a view from others.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

It will have to be removed at some stage so I don't see any point in going to such extremes as breaking the keys and super glueing it. They are not made to be a permanent on anyone. I understand that it's what you want but think about how you will have to get it removed and wasting the time of those who will have to do .Give the keys to someone you trust would be a better option.

But it's your body so do what ever you want .

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

Isn't someone else having the keys part of the chastity kink, the being owned and denied part I mean. Would it not feel hollow eventually if you superglued the lock yourself, unless of course you are doing it to punish yourself?

You are entitled to do it any which way you like, I'm just curious to know your thinking behind the superglue

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By *eicJ OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Leicester


"Isn't someone else having the keys part of the chastity kink, the being owned and denied part I mean. Would it not feel hollow eventually if you superglued the lock yourself, unless of course you are doing it to punish yourself?

You are entitled to do it any which way you like, I'm just curious to know your thinking behind the superglue "

True true. Might have a rethink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put the key in one of those safe deposit boxes at a train station in another town. Too difficult to get to on a whim but there if needed.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

w

I’m gonna go out on a leg here and suggest that permanently locking your genitals in a device isn’t a great idea

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Maybe you'll be more clear headed about this after a nice wank

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place

Get help.

Seriously.

Its far too extreme.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m gonna go out on a leg here and suggest that permanently locking your genitals in a device isn’t a great idea "

Nothing is permanent whilst hacksaws exist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it op if that’s what you want

Also would say for the lock use a master lock or a cheap tsa or amzon best locks

They can be easy raked open

Even a two year old could get in to a mater lock without the key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whay happens if you accidentally superglue your fingers, cage and bits together? Superglue is a magnet for fingers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m gonna go out on a leg here and suggest that permanently locking your genitals in a device isn’t a great idea "

What do you mean most locks are a joke even a 2 year old can open them

Have a look at LPL

https://m.youtube.com/c/lockpickinglawyer/videos

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Why don't you buy a safe to put the keys and keep it at home

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

Oh I couldn't all that wonderful Pleasure to be had...

If its what you want go for it but definitely have a back up plan. Our health care workers/emergency services have enough going on without dealing with anything medical etc that may arise in the future with your decision, if that makes sense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Medically I can't see this being a great idea

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

What is the longest you've been locked away for so far?

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Isn't someone else having the keys part of the chastity kink, the being owned and denied part I mean. Would it not feel hollow eventually if you superglued the lock yourself, unless of course you are doing it to punish yourself?

You are entitled to do it any which way you like, I'm just curious to know your thinking behind the superglue "

This is how I see it as well.

Being owned and controlled is part of the kink surely. I like bondage play but tying myself up alone has never turned me on, as I like the helplessness of being in someone else’s control (Trusted person) that’s the turn on, not the bondage.

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By *eicJ OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Leicester


"What is the longest you've been locked away for so far? "

1 week, 3 days. It was hard but definitely fun.

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By *eicJ OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Leicester

Whilst some are sharing respectful honest views, also clear some aren't into this game and feel the need to just make rude comments.

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By *eicJ OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Leicester


"Oh I couldn't all that wonderful Pleasure to be had...

If its what you want go for it but definitely have a back up plan. Our health care workers/emergency services have enough going on without dealing with anything medical etc that may arise in the future with your decision, if that makes sense? "

I get what you're saying in terms of care works etc and I've taken that into account along with what others have said.

It may be better to try "Permanent" in the way of a key holder instead.

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By *trongbobMan
over a year ago

rochester

I say go for it, a sissy should always have their masculinity stripped away by being kept locked with no hope for release

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Ultimately it's your choice OP, however it might be better to talk to people who actually know you rather than strangers..

Good luck with whatever you choose..

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility


"What is the longest you've been locked away for so far?

1 week, 3 days. It was hard but definitely fun. "

Try building up to a longer time first before deciding to lock yourself away permanently. There are unforseen complications you may encounter

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By *eicJ OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Leicester


"What is the longest you've been locked away for so far?

1 week, 3 days. It was hard but definitely fun.

Try building up to a longer time first before deciding to lock yourself away permanently. There are unforseen complications you may encounter "

Yeah, I should prob try and aim for a month. Only release for cleaning.

It's just that having access to keys is so tempting even though I do want to stay locked.

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility


"What is the longest you've been locked away for so far?

1 week, 3 days. It was hard but definitely fun.

Try building up to a longer time first before deciding to lock yourself away permanently. There are unforseen complications you may encounter

Yeah, I should prob try and aim for a month. Only release for cleaning.

It's just that having access to keys is so tempting even though I do want to stay locked."

How about putting a key into a block of ice and keeping it in the freezer. You can always defrost the ice to get to the key but it's going to take a while to do it?

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ

Agree with others advising against a permanent change that requires angle grinders glue remover etc near genitals. Say you are in an accident!

Strike us that the pleasure and obedience comes from the choice - when you *can* remove it but don't or give someone else the power to choose on your behalf. Making device permanent removes the option.

Best of luck!

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By *xTwo4FunTimesxXCouple
over a year ago

chester


"What is the longest you've been locked away for so far?

1 week, 3 days. It was hard but definitely fun.

Try building up to a longer time first before deciding to lock yourself away permanently. There are unforseen complications you may encounter

Yeah, I should prob try and aim for a month. Only release for cleaning.

It's just that having access to keys is so tempting even though I do want to stay locked.

How about putting a key into a block of ice and keeping it in the freezer. You can always defrost the ice to get to the key but it's going to take a while to do it? "

Was going to suggest exactly this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a very personal choice and up to you. Not kink shaming at all as we all like different things but a lifetime of enforced chastity seems unappealing to me, but that’s maybe because I just don’t “get” it (ie how do you get sexual pleasure out of NOT getting any sexual pleasure. Ever.)

Like I say, it’s just because I’m ignorant to the benefits and thrills of it. But as others have said, maybe trial a long period of it but with a definite “out” if you find, somewhere down the line, that actually it isn’t what you wanted after all.

Good luck my friend

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"What is the longest you've been locked away for so far?

1 week, 3 days. It was hard but definitely fun.

Try building up to a longer time first before deciding to lock yourself away permanently. There are unforseen complications you may encounter

Yeah, I should prob try and aim for a month. Only release for cleaning.

It's just that having access to keys is so tempting even though I do want to stay locked.

How about putting a key into a block of ice and keeping it in the freezer. You can always defrost the ice to get to the key but it's going to take a while to do it? "

Great suggestion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you use the bathroom? If its locked in a cage?

Sorry for daft question

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By *ategoodbyeMan
over a year ago

Hertfordshire


"What is the longest you've been locked away for so far?

1 week, 3 days. It was hard but definitely fun.

Try building up to a longer time first before deciding to lock yourself away permanently. There are unforseen complications you may encounter

Yeah, I should prob try and aim for a month. Only release for cleaning.

It's just that having access to keys is so tempting even though I do want to stay locked.

How about putting a key into a block of ice and keeping it in the freezer. You can always defrost the ice to get to the key but it's going to take a while to do it?

Was going to suggest exactly this. "

Until you put it in a kid’s lemonade by mistake.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

Chastity is in the mind surely ?

Monks and Nuns manage without cages , locks and keys.

Good luck what ever you choose.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

Anyone remember youngsters who got married and swore NEVER to remove their wedding ring.......

Cut to years later when they have aged or 'grown' .........

Ouch......

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By *eicJ OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Leicester


"How do you use the bathroom? If its locked in a cage?

Sorry for daft question"

A chastity cage isn't fully enclosed. Most models have a whole at the end... for the obvious.. as well as a few other models having vent holes/ gaps.

If you check my pics, you'll see what I mean.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I would never recommend people glue the lock or cut the keys.

You always need a way out of any restraints.

Put the keys in an ice block, so you have access to them in case of emergencies.

I had a prior sub with a lockable day collar that she wore 24x7, but even I allowed her to remove it when going through airport checkpoints or to avoid any embarrassment with her family.

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By *ategoodbyeMan
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Think of the number of people who get divorced or need tattoos lasered off. Be very wary about doing something that you can’t undo easily if you change your mind. Because everybody changes their mind about things they were once certain of.

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By *eicJ OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Leicester

I've started the key freezing process. Great idea from those that suggested it.

Let's see how long I can keep myself locked.

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By *iM4kinkMan
over a year ago

San Antonio


"I'm really into the entire "sissy" way of lifestyle and this would be a huge step.

I would lock the cage, superglue the lock and cut the keys.

Don't worry, very easy to maintain hygiene in this cage.

Do I make the plunge?"

Well they say permanent charity invokes permanent feminization honey. And if being a slutty, gurly little gurl turns you on, go for it. Just think about all the more cocks you'll be getting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By *eicJ OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Leicester

The ice has almost fully frozen around the key now. Super excited and horny now.

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By *ategoodbyeMan
over a year ago

Hertfordshire


"The ice has almost fully frozen around the key now. Super excited and horny now."

Have an ‘ice day.

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By *eicJ OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Leicester


"The ice has almost fully frozen around the key now. Super excited and horny now.

Have an ‘ice day."

I will, thank you.

(Sits here horny as hell)

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole


"What is the longest you've been locked away for so far?

1 week, 3 days. It was hard but definitely fun.

Try building up to a longer time first before deciding to lock yourself away permanently. There are unforseen complications you may encounter

Yeah, I should prob try and aim for a month. Only release for cleaning.

It's just that having access to keys is so tempting even though I do want to stay locked.

How about putting a key into a block of ice and keeping it in the freezer. You can always defrost the ice to get to the key but it's going to take a while to do it? "

I was gonna say the same thing. Ask how long you've been locked before, and try and beat it. Also key in block of ice. On a twist, you could have 10 envelopes, and ask a freind to write a numer 1 to 15 and pop inside each one. You open one, and it has say 12 in. You lock for 12 days. Then unlock, clean ect. Then relock and open the next envelope. The antisipation (spellings) will kill you. Not knowing the next number. If freind asks, say the numbers are 'how many days your not going to have a beer/cake/hours on net flick ect. You get the idea. Hipe you like - and enjoy.

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By *eicJ OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Leicester


"What is the longest you've been locked away for so far?

1 week, 3 days. It was hard but definitely fun.

Try building up to a longer time first before deciding to lock yourself away permanently. There are unforseen complications you may encounter

Yeah, I should prob try and aim for a month. Only release for cleaning.

It's just that having access to keys is so tempting even though I do want to stay locked.

How about putting a key into a block of ice and keeping it in the freezer. You can always defrost the ice to get to the key but it's going to take a while to do it?

I was gonna say the same thing. Ask how long you've been locked before, and try and beat it. Also key in block of ice. On a twist, you could have 10 envelopes, and ask a freind to write a numer 1 to 15 and pop inside each one. You open one, and it has say 12 in. You lock for 12 days. Then unlock, clean ect. Then relock and open the next envelope. The antisipation (spellings) will kill you. Not knowing the next number. If freind asks, say the numbers are 'how many days your not going to have a beer/cake/hours on net flick ect. You get the idea. Hipe you like - and enjoy. "

Great idea. Them not knowing the true purpose I'm sure will really add to the excitement of it all.

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By *rinity666Man
over a year ago

Away for work abroad long term,

There are timed locks you can get...even bluetooth ones . check out the Cellmate range ... Good luck OP..great pix..

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds


"I'm really into the entire "sissy" way of lifestyle and this would be a huge step.

I would lock the cage, superglue the lock and cut the keys.

Don't worry, very easy to maintain hygiene in this cage.

Do I make the plunge?"

No. Over time a sissy will need to get a smaller cage and the change over should be as easy as possible.

C

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