FabSwingers.com forum: Looks or personality

By *ranimallxl5 OP Man
over a year ago

Winchester

As this is a site aimed at sex rather than romance. Do you really care of they are funny or a nice person? Is it all about their looks because you're not going to really chat to them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, that counts me out

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Breathing.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Both. But if I don’t like a face none of it matters anyway. I need to like the face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both. But if I don’t like a face none of it matters anyway. I need to like the face. "

Yep, this.....

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"Both. But if I don’t like a face none of it matters anyway. I need to like the face. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks if just a quick meet but personality if want to know them for more

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Looks initially then personality

might look great but with a crap personality instant turn off

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"As this is a site aimed at sex rather than romance. Do you really care of they are funny or a nice person? Is it all about their looks because you're not going to really chat to them?

Definitely personality. Yes I have to like the way they look for that initial attraction but if they're an absolute shit-stick of a human being then it doesn't matter how hot they are.

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Facial attraction first, then personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Facial attraction first, then personality "

Needy bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As this is a site aimed at sex rather than romance. Do you really care of they are funny or a nice person? Is it all about their looks because you're not going to really chat to them?

Definitely personality. Yes I have to like the way they look for that initial attraction but if they're an absolute shit-stick of a human being then it doesn't matter how hot they are.

LvM"

Shit-stick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Facial attraction first, then personality

Needy bitch

Always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there has to be a certain amount of physical attraction as well, it's not the be all and end all, but it helps...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Facial attraction first, then personality

Needy bitch

Always

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Both.

The site is heavily sex based, but that doesn't mean I want to fuck someone who I couldn't get on with or enjoy being around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We chat to all our meets. I need to know their name, address, employment status and bank details before I take my clothes off.

Personality is a big thing for me. I need to be attracted to them look and personality wise.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"We chat to all our meets. I need to know their name, address, employment status and bank details before I take my clothes off.

Personality is a big thing for me. I need to be attracted to them look and personality wise. "

Damn. And things started so well.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Personality mostly for me,yes there has to be some attraction but I'm not into just fuck and go meets anyhow. So I have to actually like the person I'm with regardless if it's a one off meet or more. It's why I do a social first before anything else happens. If they have a shitty personality there is no way I would want to go any farther with them even the thought of just shagging someone that I may not particularly like makes my skin crawl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they’re full of personality I can get past them looking like a chewed up jelly baby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks capture my attention, personality keeps it

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I've got to be able to have a laugh with them first.

Then they can admire my rugged good looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks to a certain extent but personality it's massive with us

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Looks initially, because I'm not going to find out if I like their personality if I don't find them attractive. But I have to at the very least not dislike them (different levels of this depending on the situation, in a club it's mainly looks, for a more extended meet I'd want to know them a bit better)

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Looks first, then personality on a very shallow level. There's no way you can get to know someone properly after an hour in Starbucks

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Personality as I only sleep with friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks to draw me in but personality to keep me there xxx

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Personality first for me

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

As having sex with someone generally bigger and stronger than I am as a woman puts me in an extremely vulnerable position it is essential to at least like the person I'm fucking. Trusting someone not to hurt me is essential too. I don't want to be near anyone who thinks any hole's a goal.

Looks are in the eye of the beholder but personality and having a good connection are more important. How people look can change once you know someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad to see so many People saying personality, makes me feel like I have a chance haha.

A personality will definitely keep me interested too

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By *al kalMan
over a year ago

london

Has to be the right blend of both.

Not into sexing with mannequins... not yet anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I don’t know someone I’ll be attracted to their looks initially, but if I know the person it could be their personality,,, hope that makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personality as I only sleep with friends."

Hi friend x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its a one off meet then 90% looks - what does it matter if she's a bitch or a bore etc (or her perception of my personality), as long as we have great sex that one time she could be Shipmans secretary for all I care. As long as she's in lust for the duration of the meet we can happily hate each other on the way out.

If there's a chance of a repeat performance then it changes significantly and personality would be far more important. Another factor of course is what you will be getting up to together. I got into a lot of bother last week when I suggested this so I'll leave it at that!!!

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By *entative_steps7781Couple
over a year ago

Home

There has to be a level of it that is based on looks, but its not be all and end all.

We aren't really looking for one off meets, so need to have a good personality too, or at least one that fits in with us!

MJ x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything starts with looks...then you discover personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both for sure x

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

It's about attraction...looks do come into it, as does personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly has to be both for me, but personality can often change the way I perceive a persons looks, if that makes sense..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality - face is a bonus…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As this is a site aimed at sex rather than romance. Do you really care of they are funny or a nice person? Is it all about their looks because you're not going to really chat to them?

Definitely personality. Yes I have to like the way they look for that initial attraction but if they're an absolute shit-stick of a human being then it doesn't matter how hot they are.

LvM"

Have to agree with this.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Both. But if I don’t like a face none of it matters anyway. I need to like the face. "

Correct.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I don’t look at their personality when I’m pounding their love hole

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

It has to be both. Either one could be the cause of us not being interested.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

For women on a site such as this they choose on looks regardless of anything else. For men, not so much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personality mostly for me,yes there has to be some attraction but I'm not into just fuck and go meets anyhow. So I have to actually like the person I'm with regardless if it's a one off meet or more. It's why I do a social first before anything else happens. If they have a shitty personality there is no way I would want to go any farther with them even the thought of just shagging someone that I may not particularly like makes my skin crawl."

Same

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Both would be good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Certainly has to be both for me, but personality can often change the way I perceive a persons looks, if that makes sense.."

Makes sense

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I don’t look at their personality when I’m pounding their love hole

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Personality and attitude are far more important

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By *oonshadowWoman
over a year ago

COVENTRY

Some sort of facial attraction and nice personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For women on a site such as this they choose on looks regardless of anything else. For men, not so much."

I hope you’re not talking for all women here.

Much of it does go on personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Breathing."

You are so fussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here, more personality. I have the attention span of toddler so pretty things alone don't work for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its always looks first thats human nature but its not the only thing ...

op the way you put it is like your just wanting to empty your ball thats going to put alot of people off swinging is swinging its deffo more than just sex fab is a swingers site if you want just sex theres other sites out there

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

This site for most people is not just for sex it is for the social side of life too. So personality has a big influence on if I'd meet someone or not.

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By *exy Ruby 100 300Couple
over a year ago

unknown

Looks first.as there has to be a physical attraction R x

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By *arte_Blanche_NECouple
over a year ago

Northern

"As this is a site aimed at sex rather than romance. Do you really care of they are funny or a nice person? Is it all about their looks because you're not going to really chat to them?

100% personality is just as important as looks

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Has to b both really x

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

More about looks, but they can't be dull either.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

It's both for me. I need the initial attraction but also like to have a laugh with someone. If they are as dull as dishwater then they wont do anything for me. Sex should be fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Balance of both is nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both, I need to fancy them, but I need a connection usually too.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I wouldn't sleep with someone that isn't a nice person in general, personality is very important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Breathing."

Haha

very true for some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's got to be looks at first, no matter how funny or exciting you are women want look twice at you on here if you ain't a good looking lad

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

Looks then personality

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By *renchFantasyCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Has to be looks and not being a complete moron

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

Face initially. If I can't kiss them, it goes no further.

But after I've kissed them, they need to have a personality that engages me & draws me in.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Is a pulse mandatory?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to have some kind of attraction, personality definitely and has to have a sense of humour. Some people are too serious

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"It's got to be looks at first, no matter how funny or exciting you are women want look twice at you on here if you ain't a good looking lad "

But looks are subjective. I don't refer to guys as "good looking" or not, I say whether they're attative to me. X

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"It's got to be looks at first, no matter how funny or exciting you are women want look twice at you on here if you ain't a good looking lad

But looks are subjective. I don't refer to guys as "good looking" or not, I say whether they're attative to me. X"

*attractive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is a pulse mandatory?

More of a preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's got to be looks at first, no matter how funny or exciting you are women want look twice at you on here if you ain't a good looking lad "

That's not true in my case, I can't speak for other ladies though.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I do pretty well on here and I have a face only my mother can love. They must be seeing something else in me is all I can say !??

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