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Why are older women so attractive??

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By *el111 OP   Man
over a year ago

Essex/London

Are all men attractive to older women or is it only some ??

I absolutely love them

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

See other thread. We’re all fat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See other thread. We’re all fat "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See other thread. We’re all fat "

And jaded to fuck

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

Bradford


"See other thread. We’re all fat "

Mr Hayes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They aren’t attractive people are attractive, regardless of age - my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are all men attractive to older women or is it only some ??

I absolutely love them "

I can confirm all men are not attractive to this older woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are all men attractive to older women or is it only some ??

I absolutely love them "

I’m guessing you mean “attracted”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are all men attractive to older women or is it only some ??

I absolutely love them

I can confirm all men are not attractive to this older woman. "

Names or it didn’t happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are all men attractive to older women or is it only some ??

I absolutely love them

I can confirm all men are not attractive to this older woman. "

Older? I swear you're not a day over 25

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

I’ve always had a thing for older woman and my current fwb is 20 years older than me

Dunno why lots of guys are like that. I think it’s a fantasy thing though. Because lots of young red guy lust over older woman, but I think the majority wouldn’t consider one for a relationship. Which makes me think it’s more of a lust/fetish kinda thing

Something about older female teachers maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love older women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what you class as older....

But, it's because we have had longer to grow into our faces and bodies?

Most things get better with age.....

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Are all men attractive to older women or is it only some ??

I absolutely love them "

Oh wait. Attractive or attracted?

If it’s attractive then yeah we have to take what we can get at this age.

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By *angler 321Man
over a year ago

Hereford

I love women older than myself, I love their confidence, and the fact they know what they want and tend not to play games.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Some will be, some won't x

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds


"Are all men attractive to older women or is it only some ??

I absolutely love them "

No. Preferences. Just like not everyone is beautiful as there needs to be a balance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cause you couldn't fuck your friends mom when you were 14 but now you can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are all men attractive to older women or is it only some ??

I absolutely love them

Oh wait. Attractive or attracted?

If it’s attractive then yeah we have to take what we can get at this age. "

I was starting to think it was only me that saw this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are all men attractive to older women or is it only some ??

I absolutely love them

Oh wait. Attractive or attracted?

If it’s attractive then yeah we have to take what we can get at this age.

I was starting to think it was only me that saw this "

Nope, not just you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was younger late 20's early 30's.

I was attracted to women that were in their mid to late 40's.

Nothing has changed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all older women are attractive... to me

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Are all men attractive to older women or is it only some ??

I absolutely love them

Oh wait. Attractive or attracted?

If it’s attractive then yeah we have to take what we can get at this age.

I was starting to think it was only me that saw this

Nope, not just you"

See I do pay attention sometimes

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

[Removed by poster at 12/01/22 12:25:50]

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

With age comes confidence. Maybe it's not just a woman's physical appearance that Yiu find attractive, I know I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are all men attractive to older women or is it only some ??

I absolutely love them

Oh wait. Attractive or attracted?

If it’s attractive then yeah we have to take what we can get at this age.

I was starting to think it was only me that saw this "

Oh, I spotted it alright, but couldn’t be arsed commenting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not all older women are attractive... to me "

Well, this is it. No one can say they’re attracted to an entire demographic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not all older women are attractive... to me

Well, this is it. No one can say they’re attracted to an entire demographic!"

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not all older women are attractive... to me

Well, this is it. No one can say they’re attracted to an entire demographic!

Exactly "

Well you can say it, and often if said demographic is say the largest one on the particular site you are saying it on

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By *ategoodbyeMan
over a year ago

Hertfordshire


"Cause you couldn't fuck your friends mom when you were 14 but now you can "

Obviously. You need to wait 2 years.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Are all men attractive to older women or is it only some ??

I absolutely love them "

Must be those American tan tights and big knickers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cause you couldn't fuck your friends mom when you were 14 but now you can

Obviously. You need to wait 2 years."

I was kinda going more for the lasting impact of the desire for the unattainable at such an impressionable age...

But ya that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not all older women are attractive... to me

Well, this is it. No one can say they’re attracted to an entire demographic!

Exactly

Well you can say it, and often if said demographic is say the largest one on the particular site you are saying it on"

Right, ok, let’s split hairs. Yes, technically of course you CAN say it. But as far as claims go, is it not a little ridiculous and far-fetched?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously not every 'one' but as a preference its who I would choose. That's not to say younger women are not attractive.

All women are in their own way

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.


"Are all men attractive to older women or is it only some ??

I absolutely love them

Must be those American tan tights and big knickers."

American tan tights and big knockers, now we're talking.

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By *arkcoMan
over a year ago

Lichfield

I wasn’t aware of my interest in older women until I was 23.

I ended up on the receiving end of a passionate seduction by a friend of my parents who was 20-years older than myself. This was the start of several months of encounters. All very enjoyable.

The attraction? There was a higher level of confidence that was pretty irresistible. The lady in question had a good job, lots of insight into life, the universe etc and I enjoyed the intellectual stimulation as well as the physical.

I guess it’s obvious…but it’s the individual rather than their age that matters. A good memory though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not all older women are attractive... to me

Well, this is it. No one can say they’re attracted to an entire demographic!

Exactly

Well you can say it, and often if said demographic is say the largest one on the particular site you are saying it on

Right, ok, let’s split hairs. Yes, technically of course you CAN say it. But as far as claims go, is it not a little ridiculous and far-fetched?"

I may have phrased that poorly.

I agree entirely.... my point it is that it's said on fab about more because the age demographic here is higher

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

x

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By *el111 OP   Man
over a year ago

Essex/London


"Are all men attractive to older women or is it only some ??

I absolutely love them

Must be those American tan tights and big knickers."

It's definitely something..

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Well I’d definitely agree

K

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By *UCKiliketofuckMan
over a year ago

kettering

I agree to

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Most definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the knitting for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the knitting for me."

Finished your hat. With or without a pompom?

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

I'm retired, so I'm guessing I'm the Oldest Swinger in Town xxxxx Suzi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the knitting for me.

Finished your hat. With or without a pompom?"

Stop talking durrrrty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not mentally ready to be referred to as an older woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not mentally ready to be referred to as an older woman. "

Mature girl?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not mentally ready to be referred to as an older woman.

Mature girl?"

Mature sounds a little dull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not mentally ready to be referred to as an older woman. "

Biddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not mentally ready to be referred to as an older woman.

Mature girl?

Mature sounds a little dull"

MAWILF?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not mentally ready to be referred to as an older woman.

Mature girl?

Mature sounds a little dull

MAWILF?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not mentally ready to be referred to as an older woman.

Mature girl?

Mature sounds a little dull

MAWILF?

"

Middle aged woman I would like to fuck.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

It's my big numbered birthday this year. I will be nearly as old as the hills I will be climbing to celebrate, followed by party in a club (gang bang) xxxxx Suzi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a question we always ask ourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not mentally ready to be referred to as an older woman.

Mature girl?

Mature sounds a little dull

MAWILF?

Middle aged woman I would like to fuck.

"

Ohhhhh marginally better.

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Confidence that only comes from experience

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By *el111 OP   Man
over a year ago

Essex/London


"Confidence that only comes from experience "

I woman that knows what she wants is sexy

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By *oublethefunMan
over a year ago

royston

From my own point of view the male that is I have always been attracted to older wimen both when younger and now at 57 years old.

For me an older woman has had a life time of learning about the opposite sex and gets to know what guys like/dislike and what works for themselves. This breeds confidence in themselves and know how to work that they have got.

With age also comes with being less prohibited in the bedroom and knowing what they like or dislike.

It's all very well having the so called perfect young figure but if you don't know how to use it and your female prowess then it can be an anti climax.

The biggest sexual organ we all have is the brain and when stimulated the right way sparks can fly.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Are all men attractive to older women or is it only some ??

I absolutely love them "

No not all men are. I know this because on a night out men of all ages pay attention to younger women and I and my contemporaries are rendered invisible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thankfully it works for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thought of being educateded by a older more expereniced sexual partner is what does it.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)


"Are all men attractive to older women or is it only some ??

I absolutely love them

No not all men are. I know this because on a night out men of all ages pay attention to younger women and I and my contemporaries are rendered invisible"

I find I'm rendered invisible in the forums, but that's probs cuz I'm part of a couple, but in the clubs.... always in the middle of things xxxxx Suzi

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Are all men attractive to older women or is it only some ??

I absolutely love them

No not all men are. I know this because on a night out men of all ages pay attention to younger women and I and my contemporaries are rendered invisible

I find I'm rendered invisible in the forums, but that's probs cuz I'm part of a couple, but in the clubs.... always in the middle of things xxxxx Suzi"

I see you

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)


"Are all men attractive to older women or is it only some ??

I absolutely love them

No not all men are. I know this because on a night out men of all ages pay attention to younger women and I and my contemporaries are rendered invisible

I find I'm rendered invisible in the forums, but that's probs cuz I'm part of a couple, but in the clubs.... always in the middle of things xxxxx Suzi

I see you "

Lol thank you xxxxx Suzi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm at the age where I'm more attracted to younger women. 20 years ago it was the opposite

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By *el111 OP   Man
over a year ago

Essex/London


"See other thread. We’re all fat "

Love to see cruves

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

I get some attention from younger guys, but I honestly believe it's the men who play the numbers game & just message lots of women on Fab, whether they are attracted to them or not

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By *el111 OP   Man
over a year ago

Essex/London


"I get some attention from younger guys, but I honestly believe it's the men who play the numbers game & just message lots of women on Fab, whether they are attracted to them or not

"

Maybe.. or maybe they just like what they see.. btw you are attractive x

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis


"I get some attention from younger guys, but I honestly believe it's the men who play the numbers game & just message lots of women on Fab, whether they are attracted to them or not

Maybe.. or maybe they just like what they see.. btw you are attractive x"

Thank you very much!!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"Not all older women are attractive... to me "

It would be weird if they were.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a mindset though, that’s what is the appeal with younger guys to the the older women on this site!

After marriage, babies, divorce etc I’m in the best shape I’ve ever been in. I’m independent and want nothing from a man.

Young guys are attracted to the fact we are not putting relationship pressure on them.. we’re not expecting marriage & kids!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women are, some women aren't. You're welcome.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

More things to say.

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By *nthony MMan
over a year ago

london

Ive always had a thing for the older lady !!!!

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

they can't runaway

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By *utspanCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

I do get more attention from young men, which is flattering… Mrs K

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"they can't runaway "

that made me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are like a good christmas pudding. Have had longer to soak up the alcohol of life.

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….


"They are like a good christmas pudding. Have had longer to soak up the alcohol of life. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus the older the easier they are....

Kidding xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are like a good christmas pudding. Have had longer to soak up the alcohol of life. "

I'm in for a penny.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)


"they can't runaway "

No but some have turbo charged mobility scooters xxxx Suzi

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"I love women older they tend not to play games. "

I still play games ... monopoly as it's a classic ... and played the logo game at Christmas

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"they can't runaway "

This is true lol

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"It’s a mindset though, that’s what is the appeal with younger guys to the the older women on this site!

After marriage, babies, divorce etc I’m in the best shape I’ve ever been in. I’m independent and want nothing from a man.

Young guys are attracted to the fact we are not putting relationship pressure on them.. we’re not expecting marriage & kids!"

I'd agree with this.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Cause we just are

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Maybe they think we are a good fuck..with all 'that's experience.

Maybe they think we don't want commitment.

Maybe they think we're less dramatic and therefore dramam free.

Maybe they want a mummy figure.

Maybe they think we'll be grateful.

Maybe they are sold on the older woman fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think for me it's because they're more sure of themselves and are less worried about saying the wrong thing which makes them a lot easier to speak to.

Conversations can flow with women my own age but there's something that just makes me feel more relaxed about speaking to older women which makes the attraction develop further

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