FabSwingers.com forum: Too much too young

By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Do you think you did to much too young without having the mental capacity to deal with situations. There was alot that ive done/did far too young, before i was mentaly ready or before i could savour the moment

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

no, I grew up quick... from a single mum household, my sister and I learnt responsibility for our selves and our actions from our early teens as my mum studied for a career... was a great grounding.

I explored, discovered and embraced my sexuality at the right age and despite lots of grief that brought, I never compromised who I am because of someone else's fist or boot

so all in all, I have been blessed by a great start

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Some things I didn't have a choice and just had to get on with it. Other things, I didn't feel too young at the time but I have gained from the experience. Going celibate when I did was perhaps too young but I survived.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am still learning how to control my finances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id love to have experienced girlie holidays abroad and massive piss up weekends. Rarely went clubbing so ive missed out on those kinds of things..

grew up (despite what some may think) very quickly.. life by no means has been easy for me but id not change it. Regardless if people on here like or loath me it has moulded me to who i am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God well not necessarily too young, I am young still, but I have faced through no fault of mine, or consequences of my actions a pretty tough hand so far.

I think it is one of those things, you are dealt the cards...and just have to get on with it.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Do you think you did to much too young without having the mental capacity to deal with situations. There was alot that ive done/did far too young, before i was mentaly ready or before i could savour the moment"
Yes i grew up too fast....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a lot have said, sometimes u dont get the choice and have to grow up quick - had a hard childhood and vowed no child of mine would have it that tuff - a promise I stick to daily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I didn't grow up too fast and I didn't experience things at too young an age either.

I was brought up with older but very caring and protective parents. Even during further education I lived at home. I did go clubbing a lot but had 2 close friends and we were very good girls, staying together. Then did the usual career, marriage, mortgage, kids etc.

We have only been swinging for just over 2 years and and I only feel emotionally able to cope with it now. I was never sexually promiscuous or experimental and I'm just doing it all now instead of when I was younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I drank a lot, did some silly things very young, took a lot of drugs. I don't regret a thing. I am who I am today because of my life experiences and I'm a full on fucking legend so there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought this thread was going to be devoted to singles by The Specials...???

Oh how wrong can one be.....

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I thought this thread was going to be devoted to singles by The Specials...???

Oh how wrong can one be.....

I started singing it when I saw the title. Just put the Specials on and have a little dance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i met my first husband when i was 15 yrs old married him at 16 and divorced when i was 20, was knocked down at 20 didnt walk again for 4 months, so in the first 4 to 5 years of being an adult i went thru alot, but personally i think what happened to you in your past makes you who you are today and makes you stronger.

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

whatever happened no matter how young you were it makes you the people you are today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not had an easy life in all honesty so i have matured quickly however i'm not wanting to sit in and watch the X Factor just yet. Trying to make the most of my age. Done the whole lads holiday thing and also music festivals this year, doing the same next year. Im a student who works to fund nights out with no mortgage. Plan on staying single and enjoying my life and not settling down for a good few years.

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By *upitersmileCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Great childhood for the most part, bad teenage to early twenties, did far too much that I shouldn't have and couldn't really deal with so inevitably went down the 'bad' paths. But I wouldn't change one single thing. Looking back it gave me an awful lot of life experince and im now relaxed with myself and it has made me the strong indepent woman I am today!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I tried as much as I could (and still do in one way or another), but I don't think it was too much. To me, life at whatever age is about 'doing'.

How I see it....if it didn't kill me, I've not really got a lot to moan about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No as i was learning and at times the hard way ... its the only way. You have to live and learn . I as a wild child and i still am at times. Just have more control.

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