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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do you get the point across that you're interested but, not come across as being desperate and willing to fuck anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On your profile I’d say, most people do read them if they are interested

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Take the time to compose a message which reflects who you are and also shows that you have read and understood their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Compose a message that shows that you’ve read the other persons profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I tend to take bits from their profile and mention it. Or use a part of their bio as the title header. It's just I have been told I come across a little strong. Almost like I'm writing a meet now message. Not my intention

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"On your profile I’d say, most people do read them if they are interested "

I should add this?

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

FAF and a dick pic removes all doubt.

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours


"Compose a message that shows that you’ve read the other persons profile "

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Compose a message that shows that you’ve read the other persons profile

This "

That's what I try to do but it just comes out as showing me as too keen

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)


"How do you get the point across that you're interested but, not come across as being desperate and willing to fuck anyone?

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Could only comment if I had an example as to how your first message actually reads xxxx Suzi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to take bits from their profile and mention it. Or use a part of their bio as the title header. It's just I have been told I come across a little strong. Almost like I'm writing a meet now message. Not my intention"

Send me a message?

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

Just to add I'm not desperate for messages......just trying to gauge where you may think you are going wrong. It's difficult to advice without an example

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How do you get the point across that you're interested but, not come across as being desperate and willing to fuck anyone?

Could only comment if I had an example as to how your first message actually reads xxxx Suzi"

I would DM you but it seems that I've hit one of your blocks

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)


"How do you get the point across that you're interested but, not come across as being desperate and willing to fuck anyone?

Could only comment if I had an example as to how your first message actually reads xxxx Suzi

I would DM you but it seems that I've hit one of your blocks "

Hope I have helped if only a little xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have this A LOT.. lol. Just have to move on. There could be so many reasons. Take on everything mentioned above and keep trying. You’ll click with someone eventually.

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