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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone feel its easier to meet on a dating site rather than fab iv been on faceparty ,flirtomatic and even had a date off facebook but the actual sex site it's virtually impossible as a single male unless your 6 packed and 9" women's standards reach maximum on fab I find and to get a reply is killed because of male bombardment guys check it out for yourself try a dating site I guarantee you will get a date and even a REPLY !

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

best use a dating site then if it is easier. I think some make the mistake to rely exclusively on a swingers site for sex..... big mistake in my opinion if a single guy....

good luck

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

who are the nasty forum folk??

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Im lost.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Think I can count on one hand the number of guys with six packs and huge cocks I've met

Need a lot more hands to count the number of nice, genuine, real, guys I've met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wanna borrow mine ............ lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do so many people join FAB thinking they are going to get an easy shag? do they think that because we are swingers we have no decorum and will just shag anything with a pulse??

Go and have fun on your dating sites!!!!

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you


"who are the nasty forum folk??"
sorry its a quote from his profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do so many people join FAB thinking they are going to get an easy shag? do they think that because we are swingers we have no decorum and will just shag anything with a pulse??

Go and have fun on your dating sites!!!!"

Not what you said to us

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Why do so many people join FAB thinking they are going to get an easy shag? do they think that because we are swingers we have no decorum and will just shag anything with a pulse??

"
To be fair, some people dont know what decorum means and will shag owt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I disagree! Your aproach on here must be wrong as I am having more success on here than on a regular dating site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone feel its easier to meet on a dating site rather than fab iv been on faceparty ,flirtomatic and even had a date off facebook but the actual sex site it's virtually impossible as a single male unless your 6 packed and 9" women's standards reach maximum on fab I find and to get a reply is killed because of male bombardment guys check it out for yourself try a dating site I guarantee you will get a date and even a REPLY ! "

No!

I was on a dating site and no one got in my pants! All bar one...who is sat next to me now!

I went on there for a laugh, but no way to have sex!

But I have no must be 6 pack etc as I did on that site!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Why do so many people join FAB thinking they are going to get an easy shag? do they think that because we are swingers we have no decorum and will just shag anything with a pulse??

To be fair, some people dont know what decorum means and will shag owt."

That was in my younger days on here, calmed down a lot now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do so many people join FAB thinking they are going to get an easy shag? do they think that because we are swingers we have no decorum and will just shag anything with a pulse??

Go and have fun on your dating sites!!!!

Not what you said to us "

Any hole is a goal!!!!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Why do so many people join FAB thinking they are going to get an easy shag? do they think that because we are swingers we have no decorum and will just shag anything with a pulse??

To be fair, some people dont know what decorum means and will shag owt.

That was in my younger days on here, calmed down a lot now "
silly bugger

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon


"Why do so many people join FAB thinking they are going to get an easy shag? do they think that because we are swingers we have no decorum and will just shag anything with a pulse??

Go and have fun on your dating sites!!!!

Not what you said to us

Any hole is a goal!!!! "

...but some holes are own goals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was once on a bus in Edinburgh, on my way to a swinging party, the bus stopped by a pub, looked in pub window and there was my (at the time) flatmate with his dating site first date.

Just found it ironic, both of us products of the internet almost crossing paths, busy doing our thing.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Was once on a bus in Edinburgh, on my way to a swinging party, the bus stopped by a pub, looked in pub window and there was my (at the time) flatmate with his dating site first date.

Just found it ironic, both of us products of the internet almost crossing paths, busy doing our thing. "
Did you both know what the other was doing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was once on a bus in Edinburgh, on my way to a swinging party, the bus stopped by a pub, looked in pub window and there was my (at the time) flatmate with his dating site first date.

Just found it ironic, both of us products of the internet almost crossing paths, busy doing our thing. Did you both know what the other was doing?"

Kinda, remember him with daft grin on face proudly say, "yes, go myself a date tonight" and me discreet as always simply saying "cool im off out tonight"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone feel its easier to meet on a dating site rather than fab iv been on faceparty ,flirtomatic and even had a date off facebook but the actual sex site it's virtually impossible as a single male unless your 6 packed and 9" women's standards reach maximum on fab I find and to get a reply is killed because of male bombardment guys check it out for yourself try a dating site I guarantee you will get a date and even a REPLY ! "

I don't have a 6 pack (more like a party pack these days) and I definitely don't have a nine inch cock and I seem to do ok. Try having a sense of humour, that seems to work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Silly me I thought dating sites were for dating, swinging sites for swinging and sex wasn't a foregone conclusion on either.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

see... this is where I talk about handling the expectations on what people think is going to happen... well you must drop your knickers/pants for all and sundry...

A friend of mine I think said it best, "it is harder to get a meet here than it is on a dating site because people are here for good sex, not just any sex".. and I think that is what a lot of guys dont always realise....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"see... this is where I talk about handling the expectations on what people think is going to happen... well you must drop your knickers/pants for all and sundry...

A friend of mine I think said it best, "it is harder to get a meet here than it is on a dating site because people are here for good sex, not just any sex".. and I think that is what a lot of guys dont always realise...."

Preaching to the converted, but......

I did realy well at first, then moved up north and spent nigh on 18 months with very few replies and those never realy panned out...... I went on a dating site, pulled inside of a week and have dated for a while and have now got her to sign up on here (though she has only dipped her toe in at the moment, bless her).......

I know, _abio, that you and others are quite harsh on complainers but I can think of very little real change in style and substance from my days of success to my days of drought, its just the way it is.......

(of course, Im here for a good shag not a quick shag and did my "aprenticeship" on other sites so I knew I had to put effort into rustling up some meets)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"see... this is where I talk about handling the expectations on what people think is going to happen... well you must drop your knickers/pants for all and sundry...

A friend of mine I think said it best, "it is harder to get a meet here than it is on a dating site because people are here for good sex, not just any sex".. and I think that is what a lot of guys dont always realise...."

Love that, so true!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"see... this is where I talk about handling the expectations on what people think is going to happen... well you must drop your knickers/pants for all and sundry...

A friend of mine I think said it best, "it is harder to get a meet here than it is on a dating site because people are here for good sex, not just any sex".. and I think that is what a lot of guys dont always realise...."

If we are not careful we can sometimes come across as being arrogant. Most people on any site whether female OR male who are looking for sex are looking for good sex. Fabsters are not 'better people' or better at sex.

Never forget that the big difference with Fab is the dynamic. It works for some but sadly not for others.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Does anyone feel its easier to meet on a dating site rather than fab iv been on faceparty ,flirtomatic and even had a date off facebook but the actual sex site it's virtually impossible as a single male unless your 6 packed and 9" women's standards reach maximum on fab I find and to get a reply is killed because of male bombardment guys check it out for yourself try a dating site I guarantee you will get a date and even a REPLY ! "

I'd expect it to be easier to get a reply on a dating site.

I can't understand why anyone would think it the other way round ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Silly me I thought dating sites were for dating, swinging sites for swinging and sex wasn't a foregone conclusion on either. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The answer is in your question, on a dating site your looking for a date and maybe love whereas on a swinging site your looking for swinging and indulging in fantasys and fetishes and the like so if your not what people are looking for they wont invite you to join them.

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