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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Off the back of another thread, I noticed a lot of women say they wear heels for a club night. Is it like an unwritten code, are we expected to wear heels? I love my heels but unfortunately flats are starting to dictate my life in my old age. Is there anyone else that doesn't wear heels?

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

Lots do, but some don't, the young ones all seem to go in trainers

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Old age! . I didn’t wear high ones, otherwise I’m too tall! When I ventured upstairs I didn’t wear shoes. I don’t think most people did to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it really matter? As long as you feel sexy. Stockings and trainers don't really go, do they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't wear heels either, physically can't because of an old ankle break.

My local club has 3 lots of stairs so bugger walking up them in heels.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Nah everyone isn't in heels don't worry. I'd have boner control issues if that was the case anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lots do, but some don't, the young ones all seem to go in trainers "

Oh god I wouldn't go in trainers just fancy flats.

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Courtney wears heels there but loses them quickly for dancing and hot tub time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Old age! . I didn’t wear high ones, otherwise I’m too tall! When I ventured upstairs I didn’t wear shoes. I don’t think most people did to be honest. "

My date of birth is one thing but my legs are a different story, my legs and heels no longer get on I had a pair on a couple of weeks ago and only lasted 20mins and I was sitting down most of that

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

There’s no expectation in any of the clubs we visit to wear heels, I tend to wear them when I first get there, and then they’re off about half an hour later when I walk around bare foot. There’s lots of ladies in flats too so don’t worry and enjoy Miss pc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nah everyone isn't in heels don't worry. I'd have boner control issues if that was the case anyway. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say ware what your comfortable in

If you want a heel look but flats maybe try and look in to a pair off platform flats

Best off both worlds they flat but also have a platform flat on them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does it really matter? As long as you feel sexy. Stockings and trainers don't really go, do they?"
that's okay, I don't wear stockings either

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By *olly SwallowsTV/TS
over a year ago

Sexville

I always wear heels as I like how I look and feel in them.

Yea I am on my knees or back most of the time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't wear heels either, physically can't because of an old ankle break.

My local club has 3 lots of stairs so bugger walking up them in heels.

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I'm having a similar issue, I physically can't wear them anymore. What sort of thing do you wear?

Don't blame you, I wouldn't want to do that either

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By *olly_AmberTV/TS
over a year ago

Live Sussex, Work London

I went out with an 18 year old she wore trainers I wore my Louboutin Fifi

I feel young people don’t do heels as much these days

I’m comfortable in a heel wear one for work most days

Like someone said do what you find comfortable and just do you

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By *rangesmartieWoman
over a year ago

Devon

I wear heels but also have a pair of fold up ballet flats in my handbag

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would say ware what your comfortable in

If you want a heel look but flats maybe try and look in to a pair off platform flats

Best off both worlds they flat but also have a platform flat on them "

I wore flat boots last time, the ones in my pic but I want different options. I'll have a look at them, thank you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There’s no expectation in any of the clubs we visit to wear heels, I tend to wear them when I first get there, and then they’re off about half an hour later when I walk around bare foot. There’s lots of ladies in flats too so don’t worry and enjoy Miss pc "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't wear heels either, physically can't because of an old ankle break.

My local club has 3 lots of stairs so bugger walking up them in heels.

I'm having a similar issue, I physically can't wear them anymore. What sort of thing do you wear?

Don't blame you, I wouldn't want to do that either "

It's horrible isn't it. I wear ankle boots with small heel. Or in the club I'm barefoot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say ware what your comfortable in

If you want a heel look but flats maybe try and look in to a pair off platform flats

Best off both worlds they flat but also have a platform flat on them

I wore flat boots last time, the ones in my pic but I want different options. I'll have a look at them, thank you. "

Your welcome and flat boots are in most place have been doing flat over the knee boots seems heeled once have been on the way out from the clothing boutique sites that I look at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer heels. However, I've seen people in heels, flats, barefeet, flipflops... anything goes!

Be comfy and do you

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By *all Guy 00Man
over a year ago

Dumfries

Not for Mr id fall over

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"I always wear heels as I like how I look and feel in them.

Yea I am on my knees or back most of the time "

Haha me too... The number of times I've looked up at my feet and think... My heels look nice from this angle...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they are allowed as long as you don't wear them as ear rings

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

You should just wear something that you'll be comfortable and confident in. Most of the clubs anyway say that you've got to remove heels when playing on the beds or wherever, cos they are sick of getting bedding torn up by stilettos...

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I'll take my favourite fuck me heels but if I am in and out of the hit tub I'll take flip flops with me as well

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Does it really matter? As long as you feel sexy. Stockings and trainers don't really go, do they?"

Don't they? Oh dear.

OP, some of us can't wear heels (or a multitude of other shoes) for all sorts of reasons. Wear whatever is comfortable for you.

I wore flat black shoes at first but as my bad foot/ankle became swollen, I had to go shoe-less. Depending on the club, this is either not an issue (because my feet are on the footplate of my wheelchair) or means I don't move very far because I don't want to stand on something I shouldn't. I don't go too far on crutches anyway *shrug*

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think they are allowed as long as you don't wear them as ear rings "

Helpful wonko, thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Off the back of another thread, I noticed a lot of women say they wear heels for a club night. Is it like an unwritten code, are we expected to wear heels? I love my heels but unfortunately flats are starting to dictate my life in my old age. Is there anyone else that doesn't wear heels? "

Fishnets and biker boots so much better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think they are allowed as long as you don't wear them as ear rings

Helpful wonko, thanks "

You're welcome

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I can't wear heels, unless I'm lying down. I wear over the knee boots if I want to feel a bit sexy

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

Our local club dose not allow heels on the beds so most take them off before playing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wear my heels until I start to shed my clothes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wear heels because I always wear a dress to go the club. I think my flats would look strange in a dressy dress x

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

I won't go if I'm not aloud to wear my heels. - fem.

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