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Not plucked up the courage to go yet or even if its our thing, might have to go for a drink and social then see how it goes.
If any ladies like what they see and want to chat more about a solo meet with just me (mrs) feel free to message or wink  | |||
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"I need to move to England "It is warmer here in the winter, and generally cooler in the summer. Instead of the weather constantly trying to kill you, it just aims to depress by being mostly damp and grey... | |||
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"Evening ladies , I'm loving this thread ! Where is va?" Psylocke said at the top, somewhere in the St Neots area, Bedfordshire. Fab info page is here https://www.fabswingers.com/clubs/439 | |||
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"Evening ladies , I'm loving this thread ! Where is va?" Hi C, got to be a long way over to Bedfordshire from East Devon... I don't think there is anything much in clubs in Devon or Cornwall The nearest place that I know of is Route69 club in Weston-Super-Mare, which is a nice but small place. I have called in there a few times as a driving break when I've been travelling between Cornwall and Manchester, certainly more fun to spend a couple of hours than going to a service station, also better/cheaper coffee!
I guess it would be possible for two or three of the ladies over in the south west to rendezvous and car share for a trip over to a social party across the country? Or vice versa, for folk from the north or east to travel together down towards the south and west. All meet up somewhere central, say Stonehenge at Mid-summer midnight  | |||
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"Evening ladies , I'm loving this thread ! Where is va?" Near St Neots Cambridge/Bedford way. | |||
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"Thanks I've been to a club in Torquay and hoping to get to route 69 at somepoint. Xx but want to find some other single women to meet n get to know x " Oh yes, I've heard of the place in Torquay, but vaguely thought that it hadn't made it through covid. It was sort of on my list of places to maybe get around to eventually when I was visiting the south-west. You should ask around some of the ladies on here who are in Devon/Cornwall/Somerset and try to arrange a trip somewhere between you. Quite a few of you have been saying that you would love to go clubbing but seemed to be a bit shy about asking each other... | |||
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"Evening ladies , I'm loving this thread ! Where is va? Hi C, got to be a long way over to Bedfordshire from East Devon... I don't think there is anything much in clubs in Devon or Cornwall The nearest place that I know of is Route69 club in Weston-Super-Mare, which is a nice but small place. I have called in there a few times as a driving break when I've been travelling between Cornwall and Manchester, certainly more fun to spend a couple of hours than going to a service station, also better/cheaper coffee!
I guess it would be possible for two or three of the ladies over in the south west to rendezvous and car share for a trip over to a social party across the country? Or vice versa, for folk from the north or east to travel together down towards the south and west. All meet up somewhere central, say Stonehenge at Mid-summer midnight "If there is anything a enough interest I’m happy to arrange meet ups/socials in central locations or do a tour around the core group on here! | |||
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"Is this one of those indirect campaigns against single men? "Norhing wrong with single men, just not the topic of this series of threads. | |||
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"Is this one of those indirect campaigns against single men? "Please read the first post on this thread rather than make an assumption. Wish you all the best on fab. | |||
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"St Neots is Cambridge way right? Just thinking logistically coz id be coming from cornwall x " yes it is near Bedford | |||
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"St Neots is Cambridge way right? Just thinking logistically coz id be coming from cornwall x yes it is near Bedford " Never ventured that way before. I don’t drive so either need to buddy up with someone or find a train route x | |||
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"Sooo tinder is failing miserably for me. Sadly. Matched a few people but the conversation soon dies. X" Try thinking of something original. x | |||
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"Yo Smarties! I’m doing good. Just made dinner and chatted with the kids. I won tickets to go and see the Lion King in London. It was bloody awesome!!! I’m just chilling now. How’s your week been smarties? " Oh wow that's amazing! I've had a great week. Nice day off yesterday  work was dull today. Looking forward to the weekend | |||
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Hope you all have a great evening
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"Absolutely gutted that this is not doable for me. If anything comes up midlands based id be up for that in a heartbeat
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We could do a tour! "will it include the States? | |||
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"Absolutely gutted that this is not doable for me. If anything comes up midlands based id be up for that in a heartbeat
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We could do a tour! will it include the States?"I will start a fund up now! | |||
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"TOPIC FOR DISCUSSION!!!!! What was you first or worst encounter with a woman? Comedy experiences are welcome! My very first girlfriend was at uni. She was probably the first out lesbian I had ever met. I was living in a squalid house and in a box room where you could just literally fit a single bed in. Despite that I sat on the other side of the room until she made the first move. She came over to kiss me and then shoved her finger in my mouth - I thought she was checking out my teeth after a while. I actually can’t remember the kiss just her finger counting my teeth. V strange. " Hello thread 5 x First encounter question … I’m just sat here grinning thinking about it - I’ll need a moment to put it into words … blisssssssful has that many s’s though right? xx | |||
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"TOPIC FOR DISCUSSION!!!!! What was you first or worst encounter with a woman? Comedy experiences are welcome! My very first girlfriend was at uni. She was probably the first out lesbian I had ever met. I was living in a squalid house and in a box room where you could just literally fit a single bed in. Despite that I sat on the other side of the room until she made the first move. She came over to kiss me and then shoved her finger in my mouth - I thought she was checking out my teeth after a while. I actually can’t remember the kiss just her finger counting my teeth. V strange. " It was my first threesome in 2018. I’d had a few kisses over the years but nothing major. I literally just dived straight in  .
The guy said he loved it as we both just went all in on each other for ages, 69, got a good lil video of it too that I love to look back on.
It confirmed what I guess I already knew, that I was bisexual, and was just the start of many naughty adventures | |||
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"TOPIC FOR DISCUSSION!!!!! What was you first or worst encounter with a woman? Comedy experiences are welcome! My very first girlfriend was at uni. She was probably the first out lesbian I had ever met. I was living in a squalid house and in a box room where you could just literally fit a single bed in. Despite that I sat on the other side of the room until she made the first move. She came over to kiss me and then shoved her finger in my mouth - I thought she was checking out my teeth after a while. I actually can’t remember the kiss just her finger counting my teeth. V strange. It was my first threesome in 2018. I’d had a few kisses over the years but nothing major. I literally just dived straight in .
The guy said he loved it as we both just went all in on each other for ages, 69, got a good lil video of it too that I love to look back on.
It confirmed what I guess I already knew, that I was bisexual, and was just the start of many naughty adventures "My minds going now
I just remember first going down on her, letting my tongue explore her, gently flicking my tongue on her clit, how soft her lips were against my tongue, how she tasted, softly sucking on her clit, hearing her moans as my tongue went inside…. when we were in 69 and I could get my hands on her peachy bum too and just having it all in my face.
I was so turned on and knowing she was making me feel how I was making her feel, huuuge turn on | |||
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"TOPIC FOR DISCUSSION!!!!! What was you first or worst encounter with a woman? Comedy experiences are welcome! My very first girlfriend was at uni. She was probably the first out lesbian I had ever met. I was living in a squalid house and in a box room where you could just literally fit a single bed in. Despite that I sat on the other side of the room until she made the first move. She came over to kiss me and then shoved her finger in my mouth - I thought she was checking out my teeth after a while. I actually can’t remember the kiss just her finger counting my teeth. V strange. " My first experience was supposed to be ff with inked there capturing pics only. She was a tattoed curvy brunette jand it was hot. She gave me the most mind blowing orgasm. We only joined fab for me to discover my bi side but that soon changed. Downside of the meet was she tasted like an ashtray. Ive kissed ppl who smoke with no issue before but her mouth tasted bad, i just didnt kiss her much  | |||
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"TOPIC FOR DISCUSSION!!!!! What was you first or worst encounter with a woman? Comedy experiences are welcome! My very first girlfriend was at uni. She was probably the first out lesbian I had ever met. I was living in a squalid house and in a box room where you could just literally fit a single bed in. Despite that I sat on the other side of the room until she made the first move. She came over to kiss me and then shoved her finger in my mouth - I thought she was checking out my teeth after a while. I actually can’t remember the kiss just her finger counting my teeth. V strange. " Worse experience. Got into bed. Started removing clothes and kissing. Get the giggles, she giggles a little too hard and farts except it wasn’t. She followed through poor girl. She’d had a lot of Prosecco. So my nursing side kicked in ran her a shower. Changed the bedding. Safe to say the mood was killed. Let her sleep and went and slept on the sofa. Very awkward goodbye the next morning. My best was a night with a gorgeous sexy woman recently. We got through her toy collection and then again in the morning. Very hot x. | |||
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"Oh and my first well I think I’ve always known I like girls. I fancied my best friend we went to Ann summers and bought a toy together. I used it on her. She would often just get naked infront if me and tease me. She knew I liked her. But my first proper bi experience I remember going down thinking what the hell do I do here but it went well and now I can’t get enough. Haha " I’m going to need a minute | |||
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"TOPIC FOR DISCUSSION!!!!! What was you first or worst encounter with a woman? Comedy experiences are welcome! My very first girlfriend was at uni. She was probably the first out lesbian I had ever met. I was living in a squalid house and in a box room where you could just literally fit a single bed in. Despite that I sat on the other side of the room until she made the first move. She came over to kiss me and then shoved her finger in my mouth - I thought she was checking out my teeth after a while. I actually can’t remember the kiss just her finger counting my teeth. V strange. Worse experience. Got into bed. Started removing clothes and kissing. Get the giggles, she giggles a little too hard and farts except it wasn’t. She followed through poor girl. She’d had a lot of Prosecco. So my nursing side kicked in ran her a shower. Changed the bedding. Safe to say the mood was killed. Let her sleep and went and slept on the sofa. Very awkward goodbye the next morning. My best was a night with a gorgeous sexy woman recently. We got through her toy collection and then again in the morning. Very hot x. " Oh lordy! 
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"TOPIC FOR DISCUSSION!!!!! What was you first or worst encounter with a woman? Comedy experiences are welcome! My very first girlfriend was at uni. She was probably the first out lesbian I had ever met. I was living in a squalid house and in a box room where you could just literally fit a single bed in. Despite that I sat on the other side of the room until she made the first move. She came over to kiss me and then shoved her finger in my mouth - I thought she was checking out my teeth after a while. I actually can’t remember the kiss just her finger counting my teeth. V strange. Worse experience. Got into bed. Started removing clothes and kissing. Get the giggles, she giggles a little too hard and farts except it wasn’t. She followed through poor girl. She’d had a lot of Prosecco. So my nursing side kicked in ran her a shower. Changed the bedding. Safe to say the mood was killed. Let her sleep and went and slept on the sofa. Very awkward goodbye the next morning. My best was a night with a gorgeous sexy woman recently. We got through her toy collection and then again in the morning. Very hot x. Oh lordy!
I'd have been straight out of there!
*Note to self no prosecco when sparkles and smartie get together*"Haha. Oh no we can definitely have some drinks but I’m going to be far too focussed on other things hehe xx | |||
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"WOMEN WHO MEET WOMEN ALONE! Welcome to what I hope is a growing group of women who want to find other women to socialise, flirt, fuck or meet their person here. The group is open to all people who identify as women and who are interested in having sex with other women alone (rather than requiring a male partner to be involved too). Trans women are, of course, welcome, as are non-binary people who would like to be here. I would ask all those who post on here to be respectful of an individual's identity and if you have any concerns send me a private message. MEN - Please respect this space allow the women to do their own thing without you! EVENT EVENT EVENT 28 JANUARY: ALL WELCOME!! Bi Night at VA2 (formerly Vanilla Alternative), near St Neots, run by the delightful TattooedTalent. I am going to this event with a few friends and you're all welcome to join me if you'd like to. It is an 80's themed night but dressing up is not compulsory. We could meet up in the bar at the start and have a drink and a chat. I'll be around all evening to hang out so no one has to feel like a spare part. If you've never been to a club before, or if you're just a little nervous, I'm happy to meet you beforehand in the car park or a nearby cafe so you don't have to walk in alone. The staff are lovely. VA2 is a fantastic, well-run club and Bi Night is loads of fun. You don't have to play and you don't have to get naked in the main areas. Drop me a message or answer here on the thread if you'd like to come. Let me know if you are going to come!" This sounds like what I need to brighten up the winter! Never been to a club before though and would be by myself so def would like someone to maybe have a drink with first or at least to hold my hand on the way in haha. I'd be coming from pretty far off though so may not be viable for this one - do you know if there are any (cheap pref!) hotels nearby? More central meets too would be amazing, let's get together girls! | |||
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"TOPIC FOR DISCUSSION!!!!! What was you first or worst encounter with a woman? Comedy experiences are welcome! My very first girlfriend was at uni. She was probably the first out lesbian I had ever met. I was living in a squalid house and in a box room where you could just literally fit a single bed in. Despite that I sat on the other side of the room until she made the first move. She came over to kiss me and then shoved her finger in my mouth - I thought she was checking out my teeth after a while. I actually can’t remember the kiss just her finger counting my teeth. V strange. " We had a last minute surprise meet with a woman last year, she gave me the best oral I'd ever recieved ever. EVER. I lay back with her head between my legs and my bare feet resting and rubbing on her lovely big soft ass and it was incredible. C x | |||
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"TOPIC FOR DISCUSSION!!!!! What was you first or worst encounter with a woman? Comedy experiences are welcome! My very first girlfriend was at uni. She was probably the first out lesbian I had ever met. I was living in a squalid house and in a box room where you could just literally fit a single bed in. Despite that I sat on the other side of the room until she made the first move. She came over to kiss me and then shoved her finger in my mouth - I thought she was checking out my teeth after a while. I actually can’t remember the kiss just her finger counting my teeth. V strange. We had a last minute surprise meet with a woman last year, she gave me the best oral I'd ever recieved ever. EVER. I lay back with her head between my legs and my bare feet resting and rubbing on her lovely big soft ass and it was incredible. C x" Sounds heavenly! | |||
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"My first kiss with a girl was hilarious (for me). Bit of back story: The summer I did my GCSEs, some friends and I worked in a school uniform shop. Our supervisor, A, was a woman, she was an out lesbian. The off-licence next to our shop was closing down and selling off stock cheaply. We got paid cash. Weekly. Between us we bought a shed load of booze and A hosted a party/sleepover. At said sleep over A invited a friend, G. Unbeknownst to us, this was A and G's first meet. G was 18, so a couple of years older than us, and a couple of years younger than A. They'd met in an AOL chat room. A and G didn't really get on, but G and I hit it off and spent all night talking. At that point I knew I was bi. But wasn't out (for no other reason than I didn't feel a need to be public, I was quite comfortable with it). G and I kept in touch after that night and on the day we got our GCSE results a few weeks later, another friend, H and I went down to G's home town for drinks and to stay the night. We met some of G's friends in the pub and one of the girls told a story about walking in on a couple getting down to it and shouting "your flies are undone". D*unk us thought this hilarious. Back at G's house. We're all lying in the dark talking. G confesses she's never kissed a girl before. I offer to kiss her and she accepts. I lean over and kiss her. It wasn't terrible, but it went on for what felt like a long time. Suddenly a voice in the dark yells "your flies are undone" and we fell apart laughing. Probably one of those you had to be there stories. G went to uni shortly after and once she got settled we lost touch. " That warmed the cockles of my heart x | |||
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"TOPIC FOR DISCUSSION!!!!! What was you first or worst encounter with a woman? Comedy experiences are welcome! My very first girlfriend was at uni. She was probably the first out lesbian I had ever met. I was living in a squalid house and in a box room where you could just literally fit a single bed in. Despite that I sat on the other side of the room until she made the first move. She came over to kiss me and then shoved her finger in my mouth - I thought she was checking out my teeth after a while. I actually can’t remember the kiss just her finger counting my teeth. V strange. Worse experience. Got into bed. Started removing clothes and kissing. Get the giggles, she giggles a little too hard and farts except it wasn’t. She followed through poor girl. She’d had a lot of Prosecco. So my nursing side kicked in ran her a shower. Changed the bedding. Safe to say the mood was killed. Let her sleep and went and slept on the sofa. Very awkward goodbye the next morning. My best was a night with a gorgeous sexy woman recently. We got through her toy collection and then again in the morning. Very hot x. " Thank go’s your could handle the clean up. | |||
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"WOMEN WHO MEET WOMEN ALONE! Welcome to what I hope is a growing group of women who want to find other women to socialise, flirt, fuck or meet their person here. The group is open to all people who identify as women and who are interested in having sex with other women alone (rather than requiring a male partner to be involved too). Trans women are, of course, welcome, as are non-binary people who would like to be here. I would ask all those who post on here to be respectful of an individual's identity and if you have any concerns send me a private message. MEN - Please respect this space allow the women to do their own thing without you! EVENT EVENT EVENT 28 JANUARY: ALL WELCOME!! Bi Night at VA2 (formerly Vanilla Alternative), near St Neots, run by the delightful TattooedTalent. I am going to this event with a few friends and you're all welcome to join me if you'd like to. It is an 80's themed night but dressing up is not compulsory. We could meet up in the bar at the start and have a drink and a chat. I'll be around all evening to hang out so no one has to feel like a spare part. If you've never been to a club before, or if you're just a little nervous, I'm happy to meet you beforehand in the car park or a nearby cafe so you don't have to walk in alone. The staff are lovely. VA2 is a fantastic, well-run club and Bi Night is loads of fun. You don't have to play and you don't have to get naked in the main areas. Drop me a message or answer here on the thread if you'd like to come. Let me know if you are going to come! This sounds like what I need to brighten up the winter! Never been to a club before though and would be by myself so def would like someone to maybe have a drink with first or at least to hold my hand on the way in haha. I'd be coming from pretty far off though so may not be viable for this one - do you know if there are any (cheap pref!) hotels nearby? More central meets too would be amazing, let's get together girls! " Hey Nicole! I’m going so if you need someone to show you round the club and chat at the bar just let me know. Happy to set up another club night more central next time! | |||
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"TOPIC FOR DISCUSSION!!!!! What was you first or worst encounter with a woman? Comedy experiences are welcome! My very first girlfriend was at uni. She was probably the first out lesbian I had ever met. I was living in a squalid house and in a box room where you could just literally fit a single bed in. Despite that I sat on the other side of the room until she made the first move. She came over to kiss me and then shoved her finger in my mouth - I thought she was checking out my teeth after a while. I actually can’t remember the kiss just her finger counting my teeth. V strange. Worse experience. Got into bed. Started removing clothes and kissing. Get the giggles, she giggles a little too hard and farts except it wasn’t. She followed through poor girl. She’d had a lot of Prosecco. So my nursing side kicked in ran her a shower. Changed the bedding. Safe to say the mood was killed. Let her sleep and went and slept on the sofa. Very awkward goodbye the next morning. My best was a night with a gorgeous sexy woman recently. We got through her toy collection and then again in the morning. Very hot x. Thank go’s your could handle the clean up. " Bodily fluids don’t phase me if she has thrown up though that would’ve been different can’t so sick. X | |||
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"TOPIC FOR DISCUSSION!!!!! What was you first or worst encounter with a woman? Comedy experiences are welcome! My very first girlfriend was at uni. She was probably the first out lesbian I had ever met. I was living in a squalid house and in a box room where you could just literally fit a single bed in. Despite that I sat on the other side of the room until she made the first move. She came over to kiss me and then shoved her finger in my mouth - I thought she was checking out my teeth after a while. I actually can’t remember the kiss just her finger counting my teeth. V strange. " My first trans-lesbian experience, that is first experience with a woman after I'd started coming to terms with my gender and presenting as female: This was about five years after I'd realised that I'm (mostly) female in my head. A couple of years of slowly going from a hairy bloke questioning his gender, to discovering the trans support groups in Manchester, to gaining the confidence to show myself out in the world. Then about three years of public life - bi-gendered, pretending to be male for work to family members, but female for pretty well every other part of my life. So this was five years as trans with no form of sex at all, and several years previously as male with no form of sex. Maybe ten years since my previous (pretty catastrophic) attempts at any form of sexual relationship. There was a woman that I'd come into contact with in my female social life, from India and in England to do a PhD at Manchester - mature student. She was part of my social circle, shared interests in film, music, art and a bunch of other things. Must have been at least two years from first meeting her, gradually finding ourselves at the same events etc. Sometimes several of us had been out places in my car, showing her and her friends places around the Manchester area. One summer evening after a movie with the gang, there were just the two of us left and she said "lets go for a drive somewhere, it's a nice evening, is there somewhere with a view?". Half an hour later we were parked on top of a hill overlooking the Manchester cityscape, lots of lights twinkling. I was leaning across pointing out places, our faces came near, and she kissed me... A few minutes later we were half naked with the car seats flattened down. It was her first experience with male or female (Indian culture). My first experience with a woman as a woman. We stayed together until she completed her PhD and had to return to India. The relationship had to be secret, none of her friends and particularly her parents could find out about it or it would destroy her reputation (Indian culture...). It was impossible for her to stay in England because of visa rules - the government has made it pretty well impossible for anyone with brown skin to be allowed to work here unless they have a couple of million to donate to the tory party. (Even marriage does not give residency rights, there are many English/foreign married couples who have been forced to live apart in different countries because their income does not meet the requirements.) It was impossible for me to visit her in India (unmarried woman living with her parents...). That was about six years ago. There have been a few sexual encounters with women (mostly one offs) via fab, but nothing approaching a relationship. A couple of experiences with couples. I really don't know quite how anybody views my gender, whether what I see as a lesbian connection they see as a heterosexual connection. Hence I find it very hard to make the first move, I flirt, but really need the other person to lean over and start any physical contact... | |||
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"Gooooooood morning ladies! Happy Sunday. What are the plans for today? Mine are mostly resting after last night's exertions, and drinking coffee" I'm going for a Loch swim today *brrr | |||
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"Gooooooood morning ladies! Happy Sunday. What are the plans for today? Mine are mostly resting after last night's exertions, and drinking coffee I'm going for a Loch swim today *brrr" What were you up to last night and how was your swim? | |||
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"Afternoon ladies. I’m so craving a females touch! Grrr. Tinder is slow. I’m gonna have to up my game haha x" I hear you but hang on in there! Women are harder to crack virtually | |||
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"Gooooooood morning ladies! Happy Sunday. What are the plans for today? Mine are mostly resting after last night's exertions, and drinking coffee I'm going for a Loch swim today *brrr What were you up to last night and how was your swim? " Went out to a club to play last night. Had a lot of fun, totally exhausted | |||
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"Gooooooood morning ladies! Happy Sunday. What are the plans for today? Mine are mostly resting after last night's exertions, and drinking coffee I'm going for a Loch swim today *brrr What were you up to last night and how was your swim? Went out to a club to play last night. Had a lot of fun, totally exhausted "Well I never! Glad you had a good time. | |||
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"I am talking to the most wonderful inspiring beautiful woman from tinder. I didn’t even know until we got talking she is trans. We are chatting loads and it’s going well! I identify as pan so gender isn’t an issue. I see the person. She’s post op anyway not that it matters. " That's encouraging to hear from a personal perspective as its something I worry about a lot, I hope it continues to go well x | |||
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"I am talking to the most wonderful inspiring beautiful woman from tinder. I didn’t even know until we got talking she is trans. We are chatting loads and it’s going well! I identify as pan so gender isn’t an issue. I see the person. She’s post op anyway not that it matters. " Wow! That’s fantastic! Let know how it goes. | |||
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"I am talking to the most wonderful inspiring beautiful woman from tinder. I didn’t even know until we got talking she is trans. We are chatting loads and it’s going well! I identify as pan so gender isn’t an issue. I see the person. She’s post op anyway not that it matters. Wow! That’s fantastic! Let know how it goes. " We’re going on a date this week! Xx  | |||
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"I am talking to the most wonderful inspiring beautiful woman from tinder. I didn’t even know until we got talking she is trans. We are chatting loads and it’s going well! I identify as pan so gender isn’t an issue. I see the person. She’s post op anyway not that it matters. Wow! That’s fantastic! Let know how it goes. We’re going on a date this week! Xx "  | |||
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"I am talking to the most wonderful inspiring beautiful woman from tinder. I didn’t even know until we got talking she is trans. We are chatting loads and it’s going well! I identify as pan so gender isn’t an issue. I see the person. She’s post op anyway not that it matters. Wow! That’s fantastic! Let know how it goes. We’re going on a date this week! Xx
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"I am talking to the most wonderful inspiring beautiful woman from tinder. I didn’t even know until we got talking she is trans. We are chatting loads and it’s going well! I identify as pan so gender isn’t an issue. I see the person. She’s post op anyway not that it matters. Wow! That’s fantastic! Let know how it goes. We’re going on a date this week! Xx
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"I am talking to the most wonderful inspiring beautiful woman from tinder. I didn’t even know until we got talking she is trans. We are chatting loads and it’s going well! I identify as pan so gender isn’t an issue. I see the person. She’s post op anyway not that it matters. Wow! That’s fantastic! Let know how it goes. We’re going on a date this week! Xx
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"Spent four hours on the phone to her today. I’m in awe she’s amazing. We’re meeting Wednesday x" that’s fantastic | |||
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"Spent four hours on the phone to her today. I’m in awe she’s amazing. We’re meeting Wednesday x" Oh how exciting!!! I hope it goes well x | |||
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"Is anyone else experienced one sided conversations or is it just me? You know the ones where you end asking all the questions to keep the conversation going? Pfft! Ok, TOPIC….TOPIC!!!!! What floats your boat when you fancy another woman? I’ve had to admit it to myself that I am a sucker for blondes and redheads. Anything that is opposite to the way I look I think. Let’s keep this thread going!!!!" I think for me it's not so much the physicality, it's the emotional and intellectual connection. Some people I find it easy to talk with and to find common points of interest and experience, other people it can be very difficult. I can't think of any one physical type that attracts me, or even any particular age group. Someone that I can talk to and neither of us feels uncomfortable. Definitely someone that takes joy in reading and music. Someone that appreciates the beauty of a sunset, or a windswept beach in winter, or the night time vista over city lights. Someone that also feels a sense of awe and respect when they look at the stars on a clear dark night. | |||
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"Is anyone else experienced one sided conversations or is it just me? You know the ones where you end asking all the questions to keep the conversation going? Pfft! Ok, TOPIC….TOPIC!!!!! What floats your boat when you fancy another woman? I’ve had to admit it to myself that I am a sucker for blondes and redheads. Anything that is opposite to the way I look I think. Let’s keep this thread going!!!!" Redhead here haha. I don’t have a type I don’t think. I definitely like a petite lady certainly smaller than me but then I also do like us bbws. It’s confidence. That’s what’s sexy. I tend to prefer brunettes but then again I don’t mind blondes. Haha you see. No type. If you click you click. | |||
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"Is anyone else experienced one sided conversations or is it just me? You know the ones where you end asking all the questions to keep the conversation going? Pfft! Ok, TOPIC….TOPIC!!!!! What floats your boat when you fancy another woman? I’ve had to admit it to myself that I am a sucker for blondes and redheads. Anything that is opposite to the way I look I think. Let’s keep this thread going!!!!" I confess I'm terrible for not asking questions. I'm really bad at small talk, don't want people to think I'm being nosey, and it starts feeling like an interview if we're just asking questions of each other. I basically suck at conversation. I tend to like/notice women's attitudes more than a particular physical attribute..I like that aura of confidence and control.... Self assuredness..maybe a slight air of haughtiness..a sense of reserve and untouchable Erm....I like dominant women....who could tell | |||
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"Is anyone else experienced one sided conversations or is it just me? You know the ones where you end asking all the questions to keep the conversation going? Pfft! Ok, TOPIC….TOPIC!!!!! What floats your boat when you fancy another woman? I’ve had to admit it to myself that I am a sucker for blondes and redheads. Anything that is opposite to the way I look I think. Let’s keep this thread going!!!!" Myself looks wise im attracted to curvy brunettes, I love the alternative look. Wild hair colours, tattoos, piercings. A bit of a wildchild. Im fairly quiet and im easily lead when it comes to women
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"Is anyone else experienced one sided conversations or is it just me? You know the ones where you end asking all the questions to keep the conversation going? Pfft! Ok, TOPIC….TOPIC!!!!! What floats your boat when you fancy another woman? I’ve had to admit it to myself that I am a sucker for blondes and redheads. Anything that is opposite to the way I look I think. Let’s keep this thread going!!!!" I find myself more attracted to curves, small waist, big hips and curvaceous bum is a weakness of mine. My past few lovers have been shorter than me although a fellow zena warrior princess is also perfect
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" How am I now only seeing this thread!!
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"Is anyone else experienced one sided conversations or is it just me? You know the ones where you end asking all the questions to keep the conversation going? Pfft! Ok, TOPIC….TOPIC!!!!! What floats your boat when you fancy another woman? I’ve had to admit it to myself that I am a sucker for blondes and redheads. Anything that is opposite to the way I look I think. Let’s keep this thread going!!!! I find myself more attracted to curves, small waist, big hips and curvaceous bum is a weakness of mine. My past few lovers have been shorter than me although a fellow zena warrior princess is also perfect
NBVN x"I really want to wander past you and wiggle my bum and see if i meet the specifications | |||
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"Is anyone else experienced one sided conversations or is it just me? You know the ones where you end asking all the questions to keep the conversation going? Pfft! Ok, TOPIC….TOPIC!!!!! What floats your boat when you fancy another woman? I’ve had to admit it to myself that I am a sucker for blondes and redheads. Anything that is opposite to the way I look I think. Let’s keep this thread going!!!! I find myself more attracted to curves, small waist, big hips and curvaceous bum is a weakness of mine. My past few lovers have been shorter than me although a fellow zena warrior princess is also perfect
NBVN x
I really want to wander past you and wiggle my bum and see if i meet the specifications "Please do
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Half way through the week!! Whoo hoo nearly made it to the weekend | |||
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"On the subject of being shy, and not knowing how to approach people (ladies), and signal interest, what do you ladies like to see in an intro message?" For me it's usually a) proper grammar, b) something small to bond over, e.g. asking me about my killstar lingerie, and c) some clear indication that they are into me and don't just want to have a friendly chat. Then once in person I like to chat to people and if the vibes are right I just ask them if they want to kiss with me | |||
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"Hello ladies. I’ve hidden myself just because of the potential new thing with my girl from tinder but I’m still here x x"Hope your date went well xx | |||
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"Hello ladies. I’ve hidden myself just because of the potential new thing with my girl from tinder but I’m still here x x
Hope your date went well xx"Hope you had a good time. Do we get a report? | |||
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"Maybe she doesn’t kiss and tell "Well it's only private gossip with us girls
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"Morning ladies, happy Friday!! I have an unexpected child free weekend, so wondering what to do with myself" Coffee with me? X | |||
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Never give up ladies there’s someone out there. I found her on tinder. X | |||
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"Morning ladies, happy Friday!! I have an unexpected child free weekend, so wondering what to do with myself Coffee with me? X" We could have coffee tomorrow | |||
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"Morning ladies, happy Friday!! I have an unexpected child free weekend, so wondering what to do with myself Coffee with me? X We could have coffee tomorrow" Oh Fuck it’s Saturday isn’t it. I forgot I have work. I’ve lost track of the days annoyingly. Sorry my lovely I’ll WhatsApp you and we can sort something xx | |||
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"Your date sounds like it was amazing Sparkles "We had coffee then went for a walk along the beach, we had a kiss and it was just instant chemistry. The plan was to go for lunch but we ended up back at hers. She cooked lunch and then we had the most amazing evening there was wine, candles, dinner etc. breakfast in bed the next morning, then I made her some lunch and then later took her out for dinner. There was lots of sex in between obviously hehehe. It was just absolutely perfect. It was my first time with a trans woman and her first time with a cis woman so we were eachothers firsts of sorts. I’m a little bit smitten. Hehehe x | |||
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"Your date sounds like it was amazing Sparkles
We had coffee then went for a walk along the beach, we had a kiss and it was just instant chemistry. The plan was to go for lunch but we ended up back at hers. She cooked lunch and then we had the most amazing evening there was wine, candles, dinner etc. breakfast in bed the next morning, then I made her some lunch and then later took her out for dinner. There was lots of sex in between obviously hehehe. It was just absolutely perfect. It was my first time with a trans woman and her first time with a cis woman so we were eachothers firsts of sorts.
I’m a little bit smitten. Hehehe x "Dang, this is so cute, wishing you bith all the best xx | |||
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"Your date sounds like it was amazing Sparkles
We had coffee then went for a walk along the beach, we had a kiss and it was just instant chemistry. The plan was to go for lunch but we ended up back at hers. She cooked lunch and then we had the most amazing evening there was wine, candles, dinner etc. breakfast in bed the next morning, then I made her some lunch and then later took her out for dinner. There was lots of sex in between obviously hehehe. It was just absolutely perfect. It was my first time with a trans woman and her first time with a cis woman so we were eachothers firsts of sorts.
I’m a little bit smitten. Hehehe x
Dang, this is so cute, wishing you bith all the best xx"Thank you my lovely. She’s incredible xx | |||
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"Evening ladies xxx what are we all up to this weekend xxx kazz " Heyyy! Working tomorrow | |||
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"Evening ladies xxx what are we all up to this weekend xxx kazz " Unexpected child free weekend. No plans and no playmates  | |||
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"Brrr minus 9 degrees F here this morning "Afternoon, Thankfully warmer here. Hope you don't have to go out? | |||
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"Brrr minus 9 degrees F here this morning
Afternoon,
Thankfully warmer here.
Hope you don't have to go out?"I’m just sitting here with my hands in my lap | |||
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"Evening ladies xxx what are we all up to this weekend xxx kazz " Hiya kazz, boring weekend here unfortunately some DIY needs doing but will have a drink later.
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"@psy it must be nearly time for thread 6?" Nearly…..x | |||
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"It's Sparkles who has gone UNLOS? If you are still having the occasional peek on here Sparkles, wishing you and your new love all the very best of happiness for now and the future. In the very nicest way, hope that you don't ever feel the need to come back here. Peace and love and all the most wonderful things, Polly xxxx" What does UNLOS mean? | |||
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"It's Sparkles who has gone UNLOS? If you are still having the occasional peek on here Sparkles, wishing you and your new love all the very best of happiness for now and the future. In the very nicest way, hope that you don't ever feel the need to come back here. Peace and love and all the most wonderful things, Polly xxxx What does UNLOS mean? " It means user no longer on site. NBVN x | |||
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"Awww I’m so happy to read about sparkles  "Yeah, I guess that I'm a big softie at heart, I go kind of gooey and misty eyed when nice people have lovely things happen. | |||
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