FabSwingers.com forum: Do people who use forum's get more meets?

By *he love cats OP Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

Just wondering since using the forums have you struck up a rapport with people and ended up meeting them?

Has using the forum made no difference whatsoever.

Do you think there's more meets to be found in the chatrooms?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shagged them all.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Shagged them all."

I missed out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shagged them all."

We’re all fucking eachother

Joke

You reap what you sow some people use the forums to make friends not hook up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shagged them all.

I missed out there

I tried, you where selling fucking sandwhiches

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

The last time I did a spread sheet the people who got the most meets were the ones that spent more time setting meets up and less time chin wagging in the forum.

Anyway ..... sex with a forumite is a bit like fucking someone at work ... you realise that you really shouldn't have.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Shagged them all.

I missed out there

I tried, you where selling fucking sandwhiches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The last time I did a spread sheet the people who got the most meets were the ones that spent more time setting meets up and less time chin wagging in the forum.

Anyway ..... sex with a forumite is a bit like fucking someone at work ... you realise that you really shouldn't have. "

Noted not to shag you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forums for social not sex.

Although we have fucked some forumites as a couple and they don't know it was me.

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

The chat rooms just seem to be a thirsty sausage fest.

Ladies/couples probably have a very different experience.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

You could sign an agreement never to use the forums again ....... up to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the opportunity arose I would definitely meet people from the forum. Whether that's a social meet or for sex. But as it happens, we aren't meeting at the moment. I like to know someone's character before I let them pull my knickers to the side.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I rarely chat to anyone outside the forums. I use it as an extra filter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't have a clue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never been in the chat rooms, so I couldn’t tell you.

I’ve met people as a direct result of forum interactions.

I’ve also met people as a result of messaging profiles directly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the opportunity arose I would definitely meet people from the forum. Whether that's a social meet or for sex. But as it happens, we aren't meeting at the moment. I like to know someone's character before I let them pull my knickers to the side. "

I wanna slide inside your knickers

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Never been in the chat rooms. Wouldn’t even know where they are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I haven't met people from forums , but more have been added to my hot list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yet to meet anyone off the forum.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

"Never been in the chat rooms. Wouldn’t even know where they are!"

You know the swimming pool at the end ? The one that overlooks the ocean ?

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

"Just wondering since using the forums have you struck up a rapport with people and ended up meeting them?

Has using the forum made no difference whatsoever.

Do you think there's more meets to be found in the chatrooms?

Xx"

I think they’re a great way for people to become part of the community.

They’ve helped me, and I suspect that’s true for a lot of single guys

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Never been in the chat rooms. Wouldn’t even know where they are!

You know the swimming pool at the end ? The one that overlooks the ocean ?"

Oh right! Sounds worth a visit!

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Socially 100% yes...

Sexy Time maybe 50/50

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

" I like to know someone's character before I let them pull my knickers to the side. "

I'll provide character references if I an wear them as a hat

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Yep I have met people I saw on the forums first.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We met each other on the forums

We’ve met a few forum people for socials.

The forums are good to get a better understanding of peoples personality.

They are just a small part of FAB though - there’s a whole other world of hidden gems who don’t use the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Posting in the forums has never made any difference for me one way or the other...that I've noticed anyway.

I just pop in when bored and already been through 'normal' forums elsewhere

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I have met forumites and had no issues. Its a good way to assess their "Nutty Score" before venturing into knife range

No qualms about meeting anyone i like, forum or not. However, I suspect that it makes me less scary in comparison to my pics.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

Chat rooms have led to many more meets than the forums have for me personally

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

"Never been in the chat rooms. Wouldn’t even know where they are!

You know the swimming pool at the end ? The one that overlooks the ocean ?

Oh right! Sounds worth a visit!"

Well go to there. Go right. Chat rooms right in front of you. Red door with a massive cock on it.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Never been in the chat rooms. Wouldn’t even know where they are!

You know the swimming pool at the end ? The one that overlooks the ocean ?

Oh right! Sounds worth a visit!

Well go to there. Go right. Chat rooms right in front of you. Red door with a massive cock on it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums are the route to unlimited vag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I like to know someone's character before I let them pull my knickers to the side.

I'll provide character references if I an wear them as a hat

Nobody likes to wear a wet hat

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

"Never been in the chat rooms. Wouldn’t even know where they are!"

You can join the cam rooms but not cam.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

" I like to know someone's character before I let them pull my knickers to the side.

I'll provide character references if I an wear them as a hat

Nobody likes to wear a wet hat "

You saying I would make them wet ?

Your wet panties would knock mine into a cooked hat.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I met one person from the forum in 2019. Otherwise I've used them for socials and used the search and messaging facilities to arrange meets.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

The forums have allowed me to find and get to know people that I probably wouldn't have stumbled across elsewhere on the site because of their distance from me...so technically, yes, I've met more people because of the forums, because I wouldn't have met some of the people that I have if I didn't come in here.

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

Wouldn't know where to start with the cams stuff tbh

Haven't met anyone off the forum yet.... But the pipeline is building.... Hotlist is growing and seems 2022 may be super fun after all

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

We've had one meet because of the forums. A couple who lurk but don't post saw us on here and messaged. But otherwise all our meets are from messaging local people.

There's certain forum people it would be lovely to meet and we hopefully will. I believe they know who they are

But generally we're better meeting local people as we have to organise childcare and have awkward availability. The forums are more for socialising for me

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I've met far more people than I would have otherwise through socials and the like. In terms of sexually? I'm not sure.

On the whole I think men might fare a bit better once they're known on the forum. That can be a double edged sword though because if they're too "well known", they'll go through vaghaustion and won't be as popular as they once were.

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

There are people I *would* meet on the forums, but I know that’s not the same thing. It’s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've met far more people than I would have otherwise through socials and the like. In terms of sexually? I'm not sure.

Vaghaustion

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

No. We just waste more time chatting shit lol

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By *entative_steps7781Couple
over a year ago

Home

There are definitely people that we are talking to now that we probably wouldn't if it hadn't been for the forum.

Hoping we will get to meet at least 1 of them!

MJ x

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

"The last time I did a spread sheet the people who got the most meets were the ones that spent more time setting meets up and less time chin wagging in the forum.

Anyway ..... sex with a forumite is a bit like fucking someone at work ... you realise that you really shouldn't have. "

That is so true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it wasn't for the forums, I'd have probably lasted about a month on here, perhaps less.

I've only met one person who wasn't from the forum.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I met someone through the forums and they were the best meets I have ever had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it wasn't for the forums, I'd have probably lasted about a month on here, perhaps less.

I've only met one person who wasn't from the forum. "

I thought you’d only met one person.

I feel so used.

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth

Never met a forum user or been in a chat room

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I tend to use the forums for a few giggles.

It has known to start a conversation with a lady - now and again.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I use the forums mainly to have a laugh but, have bene lucky enough to meet a few as a result. The chat rooms too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since using the forum my hair has become thick and glossy and penis has grown too! Regular use of the forum can lead to addiction.

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

No. I use fab for my sexual meets and forums for meeting people socially

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it wasn't for the forums, I'd have probably lasted about a month on here, perhaps less.

I've only met one person who wasn't from the forum.

I thought you’d only met one person.

I feel so used.

Let me know when I can use you again

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle somewhere

I only use the forums now. I like talking to new people

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Most are too far away from me to even consider meeting, so no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only use the forums now. I like talking to new people "

Same, I just like chatting to people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What or who do we compare it with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No we haven't met anyone from here but certainly use it as a filter

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Some, I suppose do

I treat forums like meeting people in a bar

different bunch of people having different conversations all round. Just have to pick which 1 fancy joining and hopefully click with that group

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use it to make New friends , and it's a bonus if I meet I do get to meet them and have some fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll let you know….

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

I’ve only met one person who uses the forums, the rest were non forum users.

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

Before Covid only ever used forums for holiday and club information.

Used the meet up section for real meets.

I feel now, after reading some of the nastier comments in certain forum threads, it would influence a meet.

Why on earth would we make the effort to meet anyone who has posted nasty or opinionated comments.

Bit like not meeting folks who have been on over a year with no verifications.

Hoping once Covid has been contained the site will revert back to a swingers meeting site and less of a normal social media platform.

Maybe it was that all along and just never noticed as never in chatroom or forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Before Covid only ever used forums for holiday and club information.

Used the meet up section for real meets.

I feel now, after reading some of the nastier comments in certain forum threads, it would influence a meet.

Why on earth would we make the effort to meet anyone who has posted nasty or opinionated comments.

Bit like not meeting folks who have been on over a year with no verifications.

Hoping once Covid has been contained the site will revert back to a swingers meeting site and less of a normal social media platform.

Maybe it was that all along and just never noticed as never in chatroom or forum."

Here here to that

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By *he love cats OP Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

"What or who do we compare it with? "

Simple really have you met people from the forum's, or you haven't met people from the forums or have you met people from the chat rooms or not. Seems to be a good mix of answers already to give an Idea. X

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

I’ve had a fair few offers for meets from the forums but they were all far away

If your willing to travel I’d say it’s a half decent way to find meets

I think you’d have better luck if you used the forum to get involved in some socials/meet-ups/clubs. Getting out there in the real world is always gonna trump anything online

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