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By * kiss like morphine OP   Man
over a year ago

The gravelly bit next to the shed

Plain and simple question for a Sunday evening confessional.

Are you a perv?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Of course.

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

I think we all are aren't we ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certified one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, next question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plain and simple answer. Yes.

*you can block me now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absofuckinglutely

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

Pride myself on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

No.

I am not a sexual deviant nor do I suffer from paraphilia ....

I know the term is used loosely and in a jokey manner for those who are lustful but it's not a label I'd wear given that labelling demonises sexual behaviours and I'm not for that ......

Sex is sex ( unless it's something non consensual )

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By *anilla-sinCouple
over a year ago

lancs

Yep…

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No.

I am not a sexual deviant nor do I suffer from paraphilia ....

I know the term is used loosely and in a jokey manner for those who are lustful but it's not a label I'd wear given that labelling demonises sexual behaviours and I'm not for that ......

Sex is sex ( unless it's something non consensual )"

This

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

I'm going to be the only non perv on this site at this rate.

The rest of you go and stand over the other side......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont search profiles for naughty pictures or request naughty pictures so would like to think I'm not, but I am on Fab

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth


"Certified one"

Ooh, how do I get a certificate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely. I Just found a profile that made me drool.

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

Godstone

Nope, all pure and innocence here

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Depends what the definition of ‘perv’ is. If it’s “someone who enjoys watching or joining consensual adult men and women fucking the living daylights out of each other” then I probably plead guilty as charged. If you’ve got other definitions in mind, probably not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Indeed....I'm nice about it though

;)

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely I couldn’t pass the profiles without having a look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How very dare you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely I couldn’t pass the profiles without having a look "

You perved at me and I most definitely perved at you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

According to the Cambridge English Dictionary, a Perv is described as to look at or behave towards someone in a way that shows sexual interest, and that they or others find unpleasant.

So, no I'm not a perv. There's a difference between staring at a granny accidentally flashing her knickers whilst she sits down in 'Spoons and a milf wearing an anklet & carrying a potted pampas grass, making eye contact before flashing her shaven pussy in the dunes of a naturist beach or swingers club.

Hope that helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooo god no I am a angel ha ha if you believe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I think of the word perv, predator is the next word. Has the word perv now become something else in this woke society?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pervy in a consensual way, yes

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

No x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been called a pervert by a girlfriend and she didnt mean it as a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I think of the word perv, predator is the next word. Has the word perv now become something else in this woke society?"

How did you manage to crowbar 'woke' into this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely I couldn’t pass the profiles without having a look

You perved at me and I most definitely perved at you. "

I would have messaged you but I’m outside your age filters, so I’ll leave this here and await your message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I think of the word perv, predator is the next word. Has the word perv now become something else in this woke society?

How did you manage to crowbar 'woke' into this?

"

Because I've seen this word thrown around a lot recently in the real world and on here. If someone ever said it to me I'd think of it as someone calling we a creep or something like that. But other people consider it banter.

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By * kiss like morphine OP   Man
over a year ago

The gravelly bit next to the shed

Interesting the reaction to the word perv.

It seems to have a sway between cheeky and something darker?

That sly side glance and low cut blouse is pervy?

But openly gawking and leering at the boobs is wrong?

To pervert or perversion is to deviate from the norm so has pervert been perverted?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Plain and simple question for a Sunday evening confessional.

Are you a perv? "

Maybe just a little bit of a perv.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

I just like perusing profiles on Fab ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess many like to have people perve their pictures.

A topic for another thread, perhaps OP

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By *hunkymonkey81Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting the reaction to the word perv.

It seems to have a sway between cheeky and something darker?

That sly side glance and low cut blouse is pervy?

But openly gawking and leering at the boobs is wrong?

To pervert or perversion is to deviate from the norm so has pervert been perverted? "

This is what I'm asking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh most definitely, but love the real thing to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess many like to have people perve their pictures.

A topic for another thread, perhaps OP "

Why is is called perving and not just looking? Do you perv at porn? No you watch it. Is this site just the same?

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

Who isn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess many like to have people perve their pictures.

A topic for another thread, perhaps OP

Why is is called perving and not just looking? Do you perv at porn? No you watch it. Is this site just the same?"

It’s not that deep

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

I will always find a pervy mind in a woman absolutely fascinating and unquestionably alluring!

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By *ustdaveHantsMan
over a year ago

chippenham

Absolutely without a shadow of a doubt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess many like to have people perve their pictures.

A topic for another thread, perhaps OP

Why is is called perving and not just looking? Do you perv at porn? No you watch it. Is this site just the same?

It’s not that deep "

So the word has now become less as an insult and more of a banter thing as the years have progressed?

What is going description of the word perv?

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

We both are. V pervs on me. I'm a shy perv. I do love having a play while looking at guys pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We both are. V pervs on me. I'm a shy perv. I do love having a play while looking at guys pics."

But looking on here is the same as looking at a porn site no? It's all public unless people have chosen to hide things (if you have an account on here of course). So wouldn't that just be considered looking at stuff? When I think of the word perv I imagine someone watching someone through a window without permission

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess many like to have people perve their pictures.

A topic for another thread, perhaps OP

Why is is called perving and not just looking? Do you perv at porn? No you watch it. Is this site just the same?

It’s not that deep

So the word has now become less as an insult and more of a banter thing as the years have progressed?

What is going description of the word perv?"

It would depend entirely on the context

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes 110% I am

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Apparently when you're as old as me and on this site you automatically become a dirty old perv

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

I am a gentleman

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

A little

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a good look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess many like to have people perve their pictures.

A topic for another thread, perhaps OP

Why is is called perving and not just looking? Do you perv at porn? No you watch it. Is this site just the same?

It’s not that deep

So the word has now become less as an insult and more of a banter thing as the years have progressed?

What is going description of the word perv?

It would depend entirely on the context "

I guess so. But imagine that someone calls you a perv in public in banter and someone who has no idea who you or they are hears. They would automatically think something bad and cause confusion.

I feel like people don't fully grasp the damage a simple word can do these days

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Yes. Online I'm a total perv and I'm not coy about it.

In the real world I perv discreetly.

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I’m in the wrong place if I’m not……

….thankfully I am one. A huge one.

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By *all-flowerWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

I admit to nothing..

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Apparently when you're as old as me and on this site you automatically become a dirty old perv "

If you're going to be a perv what better type is there than a dirty old perv?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% yer lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

nr southend

Hell yes with the right person I am a 100% filthy pervert and damn proud of it aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting the reaction to the word perv.

It seems to have a sway between cheeky and something darker?

That sly side glance and low cut blouse is pervy?

But openly gawking and leering at the boobs is wrong?

To pervert or perversion is to deviate from the norm so has pervert been perverted?

This is what I'm asking "

It all went pear shaped when Babs Windsor was acceptable in both Eastenders, Carry On and Confessions of....

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Yes, I needed a hobby.

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By *inkyRebelMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Oh hell yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess many like to have people perve their pictures.

A topic for another thread, perhaps OP

Why is is called perving and not just looking? Do you perv at porn? No you watch it. Is this site just the same?

It’s not that deep

So the word has now become less as an insult and more of a banter thing as the years have progressed?

What is going description of the word perv?

It would depend entirely on the context

I guess so. But imagine that someone calls you a perv in public in banter and someone who has no idea who you or they are hears. They would automatically think something bad and cause confusion.

I feel like people don't fully grasp the damage a simple word can do these days "

My friends call me a lot worse in public.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting the reaction to the word perv.

It seems to have a sway between cheeky and something darker?

That sly side glance and low cut blouse is pervy?

But openly gawking and leering at the boobs is wrong?

To pervert or perversion is to deviate from the norm so has pervert been perverted?

This is what I'm asking

It all went pear shaped when Babs Windsor was acceptable in both Eastenders, Carry On and Confessions of...."

Who? You'll have to explain this one haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your on here then you likely are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes probably the biggest.

But I know there’s so many that would stand beside me to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess many like to have people perve their pictures.

A topic for another thread, perhaps OP

Why is is called perving and not just looking? Do you perv at porn? No you watch it. Is this site just the same?

It’s not that deep

So the word has now become less as an insult and more of a banter thing as the years have progressed?

What is going description of the word perv?

It would depend entirely on the context

I guess so. But imagine that someone calls you a perv in public in banter and someone who has no idea who you or they are hears. They would automatically think something bad and cause confusion.

I feel like people don't fully grasp the damage a simple word can do these days

My friends call me a lot worse in public.

"

I've seen lasses call other lasses slags and shit. But when it comes to guys it's a completely different ball game entirely. Not to sound sexist as I am far from it. From my experience women can get away with more than men

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By *aCaiMan
over a year ago

Telford

Yeah realistically is there anyone who isn’t a perv. It’s in our DNA

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I'm an angel

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I guess we are on here so we must be but I wouldn’t class myself as a pervert.

I don’t walk around staring at women, I also don’t think of potential porn situations when in a shop, lift, restaurant, etc. I can act normally in public I chat to women on here about everything, not just sex.

Away from others, at home, in a situation where I can be with C, then I’m a perv…

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess many like to have people perve their pictures.

A topic for another thread, perhaps OP

Why is is called perving and not just looking? Do you perv at porn? No you watch it. Is this site just the same?

It’s not that deep

So the word has now become less as an insult and more of a banter thing as the years have progressed?

What is going description of the word perv?

It would depend entirely on the context

I guess so. But imagine that someone calls you a perv in public in banter and someone who has no idea who you or they are hears. They would automatically think something bad and cause confusion.

I feel like people don't fully grasp the damage a simple word can do these days

My friends call me a lot worse in public.

I've seen lasses call other lasses slags and shit. But when it comes to guys it's a completely different ball game entirely. Not to sound sexist as I am far from it. From my experience women can get away with more than men "

Again… it’s not that deep. It’s just a bit of banter on the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess we are on here so we must be but I wouldn’t class myself as a pervert.

I don’t walk around staring at women, I also don’t think of potential porn situations when in a shop, lift, restaurant, etc. I can act normally in public I chat to women on here about everything, not just sex.

Away from others, at home, in a situation where I can be with C, then I’m a perv…

K"

Isn't that just considered flirty banter between a couple then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess many like to have people perve their pictures.

A topic for another thread, perhaps OP

Why is is called perving and not just looking? Do you perv at porn? No you watch it. Is this site just the same?

It’s not that deep

So the word has now become less as an insult and more of a banter thing as the years have progressed?

What is going description of the word perv?

It would depend entirely on the context

I guess so. But imagine that someone calls you a perv in public in banter and someone who has no idea who you or they are hears. They would automatically think something bad and cause confusion.

I feel like people don't fully grasp the damage a simple word can do these days

My friends call me a lot worse in public.

I've seen lasses call other lasses slags and shit. But when it comes to guys it's a completely different ball game entirely. Not to sound sexist as I am far from it. From my experience women can get away with more than men

Again… it’s not that deep. It’s just a bit of banter on the forums "

Fair enough. Guess I just got brought up to not joke about certain words and phrases

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By *icklowbiguyMan
over a year ago

Wicklow

I am and happy to be one.

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By *layful Couple For YouCouple
over a year ago

Lust

Yes, yes we are

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"I guess we are on here so we must be but I wouldn’t class myself as a pervert.

I don’t walk around staring at women, I also don’t think of potential porn situations when in a shop, lift, restaurant, etc. I can act normally in public I chat to women on here about everything, not just sex.

Away from others, at home, in a situation where I can be with C, then I’m a perv…

K

Isn't that just considered flirty banter between a couple then? "

And that’s what I’ll tell the judge

I guess it is…I’m just meaning the pervometer changes when with C

K

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By *andaloriansCouple
over a year ago

Malvern

Definately!

S

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By *horehouseprincessWoman
over a year ago

small town near Munich

So I'm told

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess we are on here so we must be but I wouldn’t class myself as a pervert.

I don’t walk around staring at women, I also don’t think of potential porn situations when in a shop, lift, restaurant, etc. I can act normally in public I chat to women on here about everything, not just sex.

Away from others, at home, in a situation where I can be with C, then I’m a perv…

K

Isn't that just considered flirty banter between a couple then?

And that’s what I’ll tell the judge

I guess it is…I’m just meaning the pervometer changes when with C

K"

It's not like you spy on him on a camera or through a window though right? That's what I mean

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

Of course we all are x

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Not any more

Bisexuality was considered deviant and perverse in the time and place where I grew up. In fact I could have been prosecuted for my early cock sucking and buggery lol! Any poly-relationship, or indeed any form of swinging was also considered perverse....

But then I could also have been prosecuted for the skin-colour of some of my female partners too.

That was an even worse 'Perversion' In the old South Africa.

So yes Ex-Pervert and proud of it!

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By *i_guy_sloughMan
over a year ago

Langley

I’m a colossal perv

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I am a dirty old man, or, to use an alternative term, a man. Luke

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Without a doubt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A perv? Moi? Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm...yes. Yes I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does a bear do his business in the woods?

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

Guilty......

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

That's what mirrored sunglasses were invented for

C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes x I’m a rare female perv xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perv !

Me !

Actually just a little bit !

Kinky ! Yes

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By *hisisntpofMan
over a year ago

bristol

100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what's considered a perv but I guess I am

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By *heMightySpud69Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Yup

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

For sure! X

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By *olly SwallowsTV/TS
over a year ago

Sexville

Yes. Next question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely

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By *ozapperMan
over a year ago

Lancashire

I used to be a practicing perv but now I believe I am fully qualified!

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

Totally lol

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

Yes...

Card carrying

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By *ussexboxMan
over a year ago

Ferring

Yes

Happy to prove it if I have to

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Yes. Geade AAA

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By *uby StarCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Yes. I think about sex far too much on a daily basis.

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By *dventurous_92Couple
over a year ago

Blackburn

Yes daily

Mrs x

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Um, yes. Guilty your honour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A perv? Moi? Nope "

Welcome back. Was wondering where the fish had gone

From the title 'A fish called Wanda'

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