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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For the last few weeks I have had someone in my office flirt with me and tonight she tried to kiss me despite having a boyfriend!!! I am not her manager but she is a few grades below me on the corporate ladder! She is smoking hot and I would not give a second thought if I met her in bar but what would you do in an office environment???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Meet her after work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be on it like a car bonnet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At 31 you have to ask us????? best drink tea and have a lay down.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"At 31 you have to ask us????? best drink tea and have a lay down."

I think she has thing for men in authority rather than me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then drink tea and go get a girlfriend.. best be safe than sorry.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"At 31 you have to ask us????? best drink tea and have a lay down.

I think she has thing for men in authority rather than me!"

Hire a Policeman's uniform

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Then drink tea and go get a girlfriend.. best be safe than sorry."

The guy is only trying to start a forum discussion, no need to be quite so offhand.

OP I would take caution with this, it is flattering to have a pretty girl flirt with you but at work its not really worth it. Play it down, keep it friendly but professional

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I were you I would stay away, best to keep personal life and work as two separate entities. Plus if she finds out, it could get ugly in the workplace and you wouldn't want that now would you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men in authority hey- what's her number.... Mal

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"For the last few weeks I have had someone in my office flirt with me and tonight she tried to kiss me despite having a boyfriend!!! I am not her manager but she is a few grades below me on the corporate ladder! She is smoking hot and I would not give a second thought if I met her in bar but what would you do in an office environment??? "

NEVER get involved with anyone you work with.

EVER.

No matter how 'hot' 'rich' or 'sweet'

Doesn't matter how you think you can handle it.

Will she be okay if you don't want to continue ?

What if she talks about you to others?

What if she makes things up ?

This is your life and income.

Don't risk it for a few minutes of relief.

Have a wank , a cuppa and find someone you are not going to have to deal with in work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a cliched thrill in the stationery cupboard. Better to regret the things one has done and all that ... Xx

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

p.s. Your status says it's awkward bumping into your ex in the pub....... imagine bumping into an ex every day in work....

Noooooooooooooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends how much you value your job. I would blow her out originally, telling her you really want to but working together puts you off and then I'd respond to any texts going and let her think she was working her magic on you - agree to meet her for a social (somewhere hush hush) then I'd fuck her over the car bonnet!!!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

and then kill her ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and then kill her ?"

Mmmm I'd say that would put a dampener on the evening?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

A little.

She'd still be at his place of work the next day though if he didn't.

Maybe he could marry her and leave her at home then.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

would never want to mix work with pleasure, have seen it go wrong mny times and its never pretty

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"would never want to mix work with pleasure, have seen it go wrong mny times and its never pretty"

Which is the pleasure bit ?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"would never want to mix work with pleasure, have seen it go wrong mny times and its never pretty

Which is the pleasure bit ? "

if you dont know by now Granny best invest in some cats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and then kill her ?"

Maybe, you'd have to find a good wig so you could impersonate her at work though so no suspicions were raised, maybe scalp her?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"would never want to mix work with pleasure, have seen it go wrong mny times and its never pretty

Which is the pleasure bit ?

if you dont know by now Granny best invest in some cats "

How rude!

I've never kissed a cat or photocopied with one.

Why would I want a cat ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"and then kill her ?

Maybe, you'd have to find a good wig so you could impersonate her at work though so no suspicions were raised, maybe scalp her? "

Oh now you're just being needlessly violent.

What colour wig d'ya think ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and then kill her ?

Maybe, you'd have to find a good wig so you could impersonate her at work though so no suspicions were raised, maybe scalp her?

Oh now you're just being needlessly violent.

What colour wig d'ya think ?"

Wouldn't it depend on the method of killing? Possibly blood red?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Slight problem in that im probably shorter fatter and older than she is ....... im sure the red wig'll fix all that tho ....

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

you know the answer...

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

'Smoking hot' tells you you should leave it alone.

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

work and women dont mix im sorry to say

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Mr and I met at work and we're still together many years later. It does work out sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can get awkward if and when things go wrong. Been there, done that myself, and I avoid any office fling/romance at all cost nowadays.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"work and women dont mix im sorry to say "

Yet many of us are in the workplace I'm sure you meant that at work get on with the work, it's not playtime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have got involved with people at work plenty of times and never had a problem. Find out what she wants and then decide.

I predict an incident at the xmas party

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Absolutely and definitely... keep the two separate. It is about professional boundaries! Besides colleagues may notice the "sizzle" and it can cause a lot of problems - it is just not worth it for the sake of some fun. Now if either of you left the company... then that is a completely different story.

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By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby

Heard this before "keep it separate" "never see anyone from work" The funny thing is most relationships, long term and short, start in the work place! Most of us would not be here if our parents had 'not dated anyone from work' and neither would my kids!

OP, Go for it but take the usual cautious steps as she is already seeing someone.

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