FabSwingers.com forum: The "Not looking for Single guys" header

By *ERSHEY OP Man
over a year ago

Newton Abbot

Anyone else amazed by the amount of profiles containing that statement yet said profiles gave numerous verifications from "Single guys"... Its a crazy placed at times.

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By *ERSHEY OP Man
over a year ago

Newton Abbot

"Anyone else amazed by the amount of profiles containing that statement yet said profiles gave numerous verifications from "Single guys"... Its a crazy placed at times.

HAVE, not gave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yet they keep viewing you.

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By *il sub princessWoman
over a year ago

Worcestershire

"Anyone else amazed by the amount of profiles containing that statement yet said profiles gave numerous verifications from "Single guys"... Its a crazy placed at times.

Perhaps because people change their preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It comes up when you stop single guys from messaging you. A lot of people put that filter on to keep their inbox manageable then search for guys themselves.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Maybe they have all the single guys they need at the moment. Maybe they prefer to do their searching for single guys rather than have hundreds messaging them every day. Lots of reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet single guys but I have verifications from single guys. I don't know why that should be an issue

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I think it's to save on the amount of messages they get from single men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basically it means they’ll find you

Who knows they might have changed their preferences…

Why does it matter how others run their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can change their minds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yet they keep viewing you.

until you read a profile you dont know what they are offering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can we get a "don't want to meet anyone" version?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's because a lot of people wont meet single guys for sex, but can still receive social verifications from meeting them when they have been to a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yet they keep viewing you.

until you read a profile you dont know what they are offering "

You only need to read it once to find that out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can we get a "don't want to meet anyone" version? "

No point, it gets ignored going by my inbox.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can we get a "don't want to meet anyone" version?

No point, it gets ignored going by my inbox. "

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We use filters to save our sanity from the hundreds of cut and paste messages.

We also use threads like these to populate our block list OP.

Doesn’t mean we’re not allowed to play with single guys, we just choose to find the ones that we want..

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

"It comes up when you stop single guys from messaging you. A lot of people put that filter on to keep their inbox manageable then search for guys themselves. "

Exactly this. We're not looking for approaches from single guy's as we prefer couples meets but we do like MFM too infrequently, so we will choose when we want a threesome and who with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We use filters to save our sanity from the hundreds of cut and paste messages.

We also use threads like these to populate our block list OP.

Doesn’t mean we’re not allowed to play with single guys, we just choose to find the ones that we want.."

Can I get added to the block list

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I’m gonna do this actually. Thanks op

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

"We use filters to save our sanity from the hundreds of cut and paste messages.

We also use threads like these to populate our block list OP.

Doesn’t mean we’re not allowed to play with single guys, we just choose to find the ones that we want..

Can I get added to the block list

You haven’t qualified… yet…

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Nope.

I don't want pizza but I've eaten it many times in the past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's to save on the amount of messages they get from single men

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I would agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I prefer to do the hunting

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

We have veris from single guys we've men at social s, doesn't mean I'd have sex with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all lies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I deleted all my veris from single guys, I feel it gave the wrong impression

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We use filters to save our sanity from the hundreds of cut and paste messages.

We also use threads like these to populate our block list OP.

Doesn’t mean we’re not allowed to play with single guys, we just choose to find the ones that we want..

Can I get added to the block list

You haven’t qualified… yet…"

What are the criteria?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't meet single guys but I have verifications from single guys. I don't know why that should be an issue

So surely you've met them at some point?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

What people want, used to want as well as what they communicate they want, depends on personal preferences, experiences, varying needs as well as what they find works here.

If people find that mostly keeping a door apparently closed, helps them to keep themselves free of hassle, unwanted attention etc, then they are at liberty to use their profile and site tools in the way that they want to.

They may have previously shown as looking for single men here and found enough too, to provide the sustenance they want. Perhaps they just meet with the male half of couples.

If they assert that they don't want contact from someone like you - and haven't contacted you - it's reasonable to conclude that they haven't decided to or don't want to.

And even more reason to put your focus on the many others here instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We use filters to save our sanity from the hundreds of cut and paste messages.

We also use threads like these to populate our block list OP.

Doesn’t mean we’re not allowed to play with single guys, we just choose to find the ones that we want.."

Could not of said it better myself!!

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

We like to look for single men when we are open to meeting one, we do sometimes get bombarded with messages from them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else amazed by the amount of profiles containing that statement yet said profiles gave numerous verifications from "Single guys"... Its a crazy placed at times.

I can’t say I’m amazed by that. I don’t meet women but I have verifications from women that I’ve met at parties. I hope that’s ok with you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm amazed by the number of Straight men looking for TV/TS.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jest because somebody has met single guys in the past doesn't mean they have to continue doing so. Also have you considered they have the single guys that they want and don't want any more?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm amazed by the number of Straight men looking for TV/TS. "

Why are you amazed by that? A trans woman, is a woman? So it doesn’t make the guy not straight if he shags her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm amazed by the number of Straight men looking for TV/TS.

Why are you amazed by that? A trans woman, is a woman? So it doesn’t make the guy not straight if he shags her. "

A trans woman will have a woman's profile.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

It just stops hundreds of thirsty guys sending them "hows u" and "wuu2" messages and allows them to select and message the guys they like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm amazed by the number of Straight men looking for TV/TS.

Why are you amazed by that? A trans woman, is a woman? So it doesn’t make the guy not straight if he shags her. "

Well said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm amazed by the number of Straight men looking for TV/TS.

Why are you amazed by that? A trans woman, is a woman? So it doesn’t make the guy not straight if he shags her.

A trans woman will have a woman's profile.

Not necessarily. You know better than this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm amazed by the number of Straight men looking for TV/TS.

Why are you amazed by that? A trans woman, is a woman? So it doesn’t make the guy not straight if he shags her.

A trans woman will have a woman's profile.

Will she? A lot have TV/TS profiles - which shows they are being upfront as some people may not want to meet a trans woman/man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps because they don’t want to be inundated and will message and search themselves!

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By *winging freyrMan
over a year ago

Warwickshire

Maybe, just maybe, they don’t want to receive 100s a day from blokes that haven’t read profiles and just looking for a quick hook up.

Maybe they met the single guys at clubs or parties, places where genuine single guys go.

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

"Maybe, just maybe, they don’t want to receive 100s a day from blokes that haven’t read profiles and just looking for a quick hook up.

Maybe they met the single guys at clubs or parties, places where genuine single guys go.

This lol

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By *eet The FlintstonesCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

We have a few single guys as friends that we have met on socials and at clubs. We aren't looking for single straight guys and it's in our profile but that never stops us getting messages xx

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Anyone else amazed by the amount of profiles containing that statement yet said profiles gave numerous verifications from "Single guys"... Its a crazy placed at times.

Nope…. They don’t want to be bombarded and they may well want to do the choosing

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