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"Why do men say this ? As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius ![]() Oooh you look well nice | |||
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"Why do men say this ? As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius ![]() Aww thank you | |||
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"Why do men say this ? As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius ![]() Shropshire ![]() | |||
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"Why do men say this ? As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius ![]() ![]() Ok I’d like to get to know ya if ya interested you are sooooo my type | |||
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"Why do men say this ? As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius ![]() ![]() “If only we were closer” hahaha | |||
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"Why do men say this ? As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius ![]() ![]() Don't know why men ask where you from either as it's on our profile where we from lol ![]() | |||
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"Why do men say this ? As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius ![]() ![]() ![]() I did think this however I'm trying to be polite ![]() | |||
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"Why do men say this ? As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Was only asking to break the ice that’s all | |||
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"Guilty for saying this. I’m not speaking for everyone who says it but for me I say incase the lady in question replies that it wouldn’t be an issue. If they don’t reply to it you know there’s no chance. If she does then you find out the distance isn’t an issue " Just don't say it, say what you mean and want!!! | |||
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"I don’t message girls I wouldn’t travel to meet. So it is pretty pointless saying “if only” If only I was on a beach right now with a nice cold drink" I hear Brighton is lovely this time of year... | |||
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"I don’t message girls I wouldn’t travel to meet. So it is pretty pointless saying “if only” If only I was on a beach right now with a nice cold drink I hear Brighton is lovely this time of year..." If only I was closer | |||
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"there is definitely a thing as "if only you wasn't as close " too" In what sense? Someone in your area you know or a stalker at your window | |||
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"there is definitely a thing as "if only you wasn't as close " too In what sense? Someone in your area you know or a stalker at your window " someone really close to my address.. all window stalkers welcome lol | |||
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"there is definitely a thing as "if only you wasn't as close " too In what sense? Someone in your area you know or a stalker at your window someone really close to my address.. all window stalkers welcome lol" Aha Yes I had a guy message me earlier saying he knows who I am but refused to tell me who he is ![]() | |||
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"there is definitely a thing as "if only you wasn't as close " too In what sense? Someone in your area you know or a stalker at your window someone really close to my address.. all window stalkers welcome lol Aha Yes I had a guy message me earlier saying he knows who I am but refused to tell me who he is ![]() I had someone come up to me in a local supermarket and say they saw me on here ( when I had face pic ) | |||
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"there is definitely a thing as "if only you wasn't as close " too In what sense? Someone in your area you know or a stalker at your window someone really close to my address.. all window stalkers welcome lol Aha Yes I had a guy message me earlier saying he knows who I am but refused to tell me who he is ![]() I give these people a look of disgust ![]() | |||
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"there is definitely a thing as "if only you wasn't as close " too In what sense? Someone in your area you know or a stalker at your window someone really close to my address.. all window stalkers welcome lol Aha Yes I had a guy message me earlier saying he knows who I am but refused to tell me who he is ![]() ![]() yes I think she took the hint with the look I gave her too ![]() | |||
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"there is definitely a thing as "if only you wasn't as close " too In what sense? Someone in your area you know or a stalker at your window someone really close to my address.. all window stalkers welcome lol Aha Yes I had a guy message me earlier saying he knows who I am but refused to tell me who he is ![]() ![]() ![]() I’ve not met or seen anyone from fabs on here, I wonder if anyone’s recognised me when I used to have a face pic on | |||
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"Why do men say this ? As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius ![]() Why do they say this? Because they want to tell you you look great but know that there is zero chance of meeting so aren’t even suggesting it. | |||
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"Why do men say this ? As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius ![]() That's sweet | |||
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"Why do men say this ? As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius ![]() I think most people are looking for those that are more local to them. But being close to one another doesn't mean you will get along. Might be one doesn't fit what the other person is searching for but may find that with someone that say.. lives hours away. Distance shouldn't really be an issue unless you can travel of course. I once drove 3 hours to meet a lady I liked once.. would I do it again? Depends lol | |||
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"Why do men say this ? As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius ![]() It's just one of those pet hate messages I receive ![]() | |||
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"Why do men say this ? As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius ![]() ![]() Punishable by death if mentioned? Lol | |||
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"Why do men say this ? As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius ![]() ![]() Allegedly | |||
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"Why do men say this ? As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius ![]() ![]() Ah, if only you was closer lol sorry, I couldn't resist not saying it ![]() | |||
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"Why do men say this ? As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius ![]() ![]() ![]() It's ok humour is allowed and so are hats this time of year | |||
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"Much better than ‘ if only you were hot’ or ‘if only your cock was bigger’ or ‘if only you didn’t use bad grammar’ I suppose. ![]() ![]() ![]() I've never said to anyone 'if only you were hot' I have been asked if someone's dick was big enough and I've said no. Grammar is important ![]() | |||
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"Works the other way too, as I've been told I live "too far away". I quite enjoy a trip as it's an excuse to get the motorbike out, so a reasonable distance (a few hours) isn't a problem for me. People just make assumptions (or maybe excuses)" I don't drive myself neither would I jump on trains for dick so it would be down to travelling to me. I'm just moaning today, been on fab too long past couple days and all the worms have crawled out the wood so I've got my back up ![]() | |||
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"Works the other way too, as I've been told I live "too far away". I quite enjoy a trip as it's an excuse to get the motorbike out, so a reasonable distance (a few hours) isn't a problem for me. People just make assumptions (or maybe excuses)" I tell people they are too far away because it's nicer than saying I'm not attracted to them or just don't want to meet them. | |||
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"Guilty for saying this. I’m not speaking for everyone who says it but for me I say incase the lady in question replies that it wouldn’t be an issue. If they don’t reply to it you know there’s no chance. If she does then you find out the distance isn’t an issue " Good point ![]() | |||
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"Much better than ‘ if only you were hot’ or ‘if only your cock was bigger’ or ‘if only you didn’t use bad grammar’ I suppose. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Show off ![]() | |||
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"Works the other way too, as I've been told I live "too far away". I quite enjoy a trip as it's an excuse to get the motorbike out, so a reasonable distance (a few hours) isn't a problem for me. People just make assumptions (or maybe excuses) I tell people they are too far away because it's nicer than saying I'm not attracted to them or just don't want to meet them. " I do this too. X | |||
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"Works the other way too, as I've been told I live "too far away". I quite enjoy a trip as it's an excuse to get the motorbike out, so a reasonable distance (a few hours) isn't a problem for me. People just make assumptions (or maybe excuses) I tell people they are too far away because it's nicer than saying I'm not attracted to them or just don't want to meet them. I do this too. X" I started off on here with a 15 mile limit. So it was my standard response but the pushback was ridiculous. "I could drive and pick you up and then drop you back". Suggestions of hotels all the time. It just wasn't accepted. So now I say not interested. | |||
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"Why do men say this ? As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius ![]() Are you sure it’s a distance thing? It’s possibly a saying they use often as they never get close to making a woman cum ![]() | |||
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"I think distance is perfectly reasonable reason for not meeting. We may have the best intentions but life gets in the way. " That wasn't my point. After my sarcastic response which goes over their head they are more than happy to travel. Just why say it, was what I was asking ![]() | |||
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"Nothing wrong with traveling I’m always happy to. Love that collar btw. " Thank you | |||
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"I think distance is perfectly reasonable reason for not meeting. We may have the best intentions but life gets in the way. That wasn't my point. After my sarcastic response which goes over their head they are more than happy to travel. Just why say it, was what I was asking ![]() Ahh I see, I do think there are plenty who use distance as an excuse. | |||
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"I think distance is perfectly reasonable reason for not meeting. We may have the best intentions but life gets in the way. That wasn't my point. After my sarcastic response which goes over their head they are more than happy to travel. Just why say it, was what I was asking ![]() I don't drive myself but it's amazing how many men expect me to jump on a train or even offer to pay for a taxi at a considerable distance. Generous but ridiculous | |||
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"I think distance is perfectly reasonable reason for not meeting. We may have the best intentions but life gets in the way. That wasn't my point. After my sarcastic response which goes over their head they are more than happy to travel. Just why say it, was what I was asking ![]() We are within walking distance. That’s a little too close. | |||
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"I think distance is perfectly reasonable reason for not meeting. We may have the best intentions but life gets in the way. That wasn't my point. After my sarcastic response which goes over their head they are more than happy to travel. Just why say it, was what I was asking ![]() And look at you teasing with Haribo too ![]() | |||
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"I think distance is perfectly reasonable reason for not meeting. We may have the best intentions but life gets in the way. That wasn't my point. After my sarcastic response which goes over their head they are more than happy to travel. Just why say it, was what I was asking ![]() A compliment to an extent but I'm not sure you'd necessarily see it that way. | |||
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"Why do men say this ? As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius ![]() And I would walk 500 miles and I would walk 500 more just to be the man who..... | |||
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"I don’t say that. If only you were completely naked but for a pair of boots and riding my dick whilst looking deep into my eyes. That’s my thoughts." Nice thoughts | |||
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"I think distance is perfectly reasonable reason for not meeting. We may have the best intentions but life gets in the way. That wasn't my point. After my sarcastic response which goes over their head they are more than happy to travel. Just why say it, was what I was asking ![]() ![]() Yeah sorry about that. I’ll make it private so as not to tease you too much ![]() | |||
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"Why do women say "why do men say..." like only men say that ![]() ![]() Because I wanted to know why men say it ![]() | |||
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"Why do women say "why do men say..." like only men say that ![]() ![]() ![]() Good point well made ![]() | |||
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"Why do women say "why do men say..." like only men say that ![]() ![]() You could start your own thread asking the question from a mans point of view I would be one of the first to post on it with a few war stories of my own ![]() | |||
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"Why do women say "why do men say..." like only men say that ![]() ![]() ![]() OK well I believe some men (or some people in general) would say it if they found someone attractive and would like to meet them, but they live miles away... Now, why would they bother even messaging and saying that if they live so far away?...they probably hope that you might want to "meet them in the middle" or that you maybe would travel to see them. ![]() | |||
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"Why do women say "why do men say..." like only men say that ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Thank you I guess it's the responses I receive after as they clearly would travel to me anyway so defeats their first message ![]() | |||
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"Why do women say "why do men say..." like only men say that ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Some people are just a mystery.. | |||
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"Why do women say "why do men say..." like only men say that ![]() ![]() ![]() Thanks, but No thanks ![]() | |||
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"Why do women say "why do men say..." like only men say that ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Shit!!! I hope you didn’t think I was coming on to you because I wasn’t ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Why do women say "why do men say..." like only men say that ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Are you OK? | |||
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"I’m not exactly sure why people would message saying that. I think it could almost be a preventative to getting rejected after saying a compliment to someone. Similar to what someone else said further up… " Makes sense | |||
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"Oh man, if only... ![]() Ah someone in my neck if the woods ![]() | |||
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"Why do men say this ? As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius ![]() Simple really. We are stupid and a few think just because they have a dick you want it. We are all that shallow | |||
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"Why do women say "why do men say..." like only men say that ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Much better thanks now I hopefully cleared that one up! | |||
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"Why do men say this ? As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius ![]() This makes more sense | |||
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"If only you were closer you’d be begging to bounce around on my dick. Its a nonsense line as if you want to meet someone distance is only one of the conditions to be assessed. Compatibility and desire are far more important, which means getting to know someone first." Agreed | |||
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"Why do men say this ? As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius ![]() On the whole men are just tarts and would **** anyone but they can only travel so far on their free bus pass or their mothers only let them out for a few hours before they need to get home for their dinner. If say that was me back in my youth and it's probably the same for most people, male and female. Now at this stage in my life I need more than just a ****. I have said it to people I have chatted to for quite some time but the distance just makes it too difficult for both of us. | |||
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"Why do men say this ? As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius ![]() Aha thank you. It's their opening line so you'd think they'd maybe find out first if it was to be difficult. Saying it to me in their first message just annoys me personally | |||
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"Why do men say this ? As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius ![]() That is when the block button is a very useful friend. | |||
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"Why do men say this ? As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius ![]() I think I need to use delete and block more ![]() | |||
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"Why do men say this ? As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius ![]() ![]() If only you could link that to the other profiles they have or the ones the will create. | |||
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"Why do men say this ? As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius ![]() ![]() Oh indeed, fabs biggest flaw | |||
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"I think distance is perfectly reasonable reason for not meeting. We may have the best intentions but life gets in the way. That wasn't my point. After my sarcastic response which goes over their head they are more than happy to travel. Just why say it, was what I was asking ![]() Think what men need to understand is most wemon want closer distance so regular meets could be arranged few don't want a one night stand and dropped a lot of men show too much desperation and it's a proper turn off x | |||
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"Why do men say this ? As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius ![]() I’ve sort of done it myself. Looking randomly at fab, tripped across a profile that’s caught my eye & boom. Absolutely stunning! 110% definitely my type! We are 200 miles apart, but I’m thinking if I can’t do anything else, at least I can make her smile on the other side of the internet with a compliment. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Any excuse for wank fodder, if they think they can butter you up for give it. They are on the block list of everyone more local, so they have had to spread their wings. They hope that a 300+ miles round trip is enticing enough for you, for a few seconds of their tugging or thrusting. Etc" This made my day. ![]() | |||
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"Any excuse for wank fodder, if they think they can butter you up for give it. They are on the block list of everyone more local, so they have had to spread their wings. They hope that a 300+ miles round trip is enticing enough for you, for a few seconds of their tugging or thrusting. Etc" ![]() | |||
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"Why do men say this ? As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Aww that's nice and thank you x | |||
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"Why do men say this ? As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius ![]() why wouldn't you meet a person in a 15 mile radius | |||
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"Why do men say this ? As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius ![]() I think you misunderstood. The 15 mile radius comment was my sarcastic response | |||
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