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"Unfortunately some will have verified themselves and may use other people's pics so it's hard to say. Once you get used to the site you'll be able to spot them "Can people fake the photo verification? | |||
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"It's getting beyond a joke with fakes an people wanting money for shit "It honestly is, everyday new ones pop up and I just wish it wasn’t like this. It really does ruin the site | |||
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"Cross references the verifications. Look at who has verified them, then look at who has verified those verifications, and so on. If there's a reasonably wide network there, they are probably genuine, unless they are running around twenty verified profiles of course, but that's unlikely. " Yupp, this is something I try to do. But some people have hidden the verifications. | |||
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"Unfortunately some will have verified themselves and may use other people's pics so it's hard to say. Once you get used to the site you'll be able to spot them
Can people fake the photo verification? "Apparently so | |||
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"Cross references the verifications. Look at who has verified them, then look at who has verified those verifications, and so on. If there's a reasonably wide network there, they are probably genuine, unless they are running around twenty verified profiles of course, but that's unlikely. " Not everyone shows their verifications | |||
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"Unfortunately some will have verified themselves and may use other people's pics so it's hard to say. Once you get used to the site you'll be able to spot them
Can people fake the photo verification?
Apparently so"Oh wow. We’ll just now I told someone if they can FaceTime/call to prove they are real but they said they don’t do FaceTimes which was a big red flag. | |||
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" Oh wow. We’ll just now I told someone if they can FaceTime/call to prove they are real but they said they don’t do FaceTimes which was a big red flag. " Maybe they have Android... | |||
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"Unfortunately some will have verified themselves and may use other people's pics so it's hard to say. Once you get used to the site you'll be able to spot them
Can people fake the photo verification?
Apparently so
Oh wow. We’ll just now I told someone if they can FaceTime/call to prove they are real but they said they don’t do FaceTimes which was a big red flag. "I don't do facetime, give my number out or anything as stated on my profile. I mean imagine if I did to everyone who asked. I prefer to chat get to know someone. You can usually tell by the way people speak if they're full of shit or not | |||
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" Oh wow. We’ll just now I told someone if they can FaceTime/call to prove they are real but they said they don’t do FaceTimes which was a big red flag. Maybe they have Android..." Wattsapp works on all devices haha | |||
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"Unfortunately some will have verified themselves and may use other people's pics so it's hard to say. Once you get used to the site you'll be able to spot them
Can people fake the photo verification?
Apparently so
Oh wow. We’ll just now I told someone if they can FaceTime/call to prove they are real but they said they don’t do FaceTimes which was a big red flag.
I don't do facetime, give my number out or anything as stated on my profile. I mean imagine if I did to everyone who asked. I prefer to chat get to know someone. You can usually tell by the way people speak if they're full of shit or not"True but from text you never know someoen, that’s why if they can call/FaceTime it’ll show if there real and willing to go more personal | |||
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" Wattsapp works on all devices haha" Almost all modern smartphones* 
That is still giving your number to a potential loon. I prefer lil sub's approach of talking and getting to know them. | |||
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" Wattsapp works on all devices haha Almost all modern smartphones*
That is still giving your number to a potential loon. I prefer lil sub's approach of talking and getting to know them. "True, I shall do that from now on. So much thinking just to see if someone’s real or not. Why can’t it be simple | |||
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" Wattsapp works on all devices haha Almost all modern smartphones*
That is still giving your number to a potential loon. I prefer lil sub's approach of talking and getting to know them.
True, I shall do that from now on. So much thinking just to see if someone’s real or not. Why can’t it be simple "Oh the simple life we can only dream of | |||
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"I am acutely aware that many hide their verifications, and I can never quite work out why because, you can select the verifications that you wish to show, therefore even just one or two dating back over the number of years a person has been on here, should be interpreted as a user with experience, who is not going to be a daydreamer, time waster or wannabe, with the verification summery revealing the big picture of a persons popularity. Hidden verifications send alarm bells out to me straight away, and the person doesn't even get as far as an invitation to meet. " I hide mine because I don't want guys to think a meet with them may be the same, and they do. In example one may have said we did something so they'll immediately think I'm down to do that with them.  | |||
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"I am acutely aware that many hide their verifications, and I can never quite work out why because, you can select the verifications that you wish to show, therefore even just one or two dating back over the number of years a person has been on here, should be interpreted as a user with experience, who is not going to be a daydreamer, time waster or wannabe, with the verification summery revealing the big picture of a persons popularity. Hidden verifications send alarm bells out to me straight away, and the person doesn't even get as far as an invitation to meet. I hide mine because I don't want guys to think a meet with them may be the same, and they do. In example one may have said we did something so they'll immediately think I'm down to do that with them. "Understandable | |||
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"Unfortunately some will have verified themselves and may use other people's pics so it's hard to say. Once you get used to the site you'll be able to spot them
Can people fake the photo verification?
Apparently so
Oh wow. We’ll just now I told someone if they can FaceTime/call to prove they are real but they said they don’t do FaceTimes which was a big red flag. "Yes it's not difficult with the chat rooms here to just pop on and say hi! When I suggest this some will say whatsapp but that means giving number out which I dont do anymore I'm often in chat rooms flashing anyways x | |||
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"Unfortunately some will have verified themselves and may use other people's pics so it's hard to say. Once you get used to the site you'll be able to spot them
Can people fake the photo verification?
Apparently so
Oh wow. We’ll just now I told someone if they can FaceTime/call to prove they are real but they said they don’t do FaceTimes which was a big red flag.
Yes it's not difficult with the chat rooms here to just pop on and say hi! When I suggest this some will say whatsapp but that means giving number out which I dont do anymore I'm often in chat rooms flashing anyways x"I have webcam verifications, however not everyone would be comfortable going on them as they're not private | |||
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"Unfortunately some will have verified themselves and may use other people's pics so it's hard to say. Once you get used to the site you'll be able to spot them
Can people fake the photo verification?
Apparently so
Oh wow. We’ll just now I told someone if they can FaceTime/call to prove they are real but they said they don’t do FaceTimes which was a big red flag.
Yes it's not difficult with the chat rooms here to just pop on and say hi! When I suggest this some will say whatsapp but that means giving number out which I dont do anymore I'm often in chat rooms flashing anyways x"In chat rooms flashing away.. noted hahaha | |||
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"Unfortunately some will have verified themselves and may use other people's pics so it's hard to say. Once you get used to the site you'll be able to spot them
Can people fake the photo verification?
Apparently so
Oh wow. We’ll just now I told someone if they can FaceTime/call to prove they are real but they said they don’t do FaceTimes which was a big red flag.
Yes it's not difficult with the chat rooms here to just pop on and say hi! When I suggest this some will say whatsapp but that means giving number out which I dont do anymore I'm often in chat rooms flashing anyways x
I have webcam verifications, however not everyone would be comfortable going on them as they're not private"True! But if it's just to show face dont see a problem? X | |||
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"Unfortunately some will have verified themselves and may use other people's pics so it's hard to say. Once you get used to the site you'll be able to spot them
Can people fake the photo verification?
Apparently so
Oh wow. We’ll just now I told someone if they can FaceTime/call to prove they are real but they said they don’t do FaceTimes which was a big red flag.
Yes it's not difficult with the chat rooms here to just pop on and say hi! When I suggest this some will say whatsapp but that means giving number out which I dont do anymore I'm often in chat rooms flashing anyways x
I have webcam verifications, however not everyone would be comfortable going on them as they're not private
True! But if it's just to show face dont see a problem? X"I guess not everyone would be happy showing their face on here x | |||
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"Unfortunately some will have verified themselves and may use other people's pics so it's hard to say. Once you get used to the site you'll be able to spot them
Can people fake the photo verification?
Apparently so
Oh wow. We’ll just now I told someone if they can FaceTime/call to prove they are real but they said they don’t do FaceTimes which was a big red flag.
Yes it's not difficult with the chat rooms here to just pop on and say hi! When I suggest this some will say whatsapp but that means giving number out which I dont do anymore I'm often in chat rooms flashing anyways x
In chat rooms flashing away.. noted hahaha "Yes! One of my kinks love being a excorbishonist! Most of my verris are from chat rooms here x | |||
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"I am acutely aware that many hide their verifications, and I can never quite work out why because, you can select the verifications that you wish to show, therefore even just one or two dating back over the number of years a person has been on here, should be interpreted as a user with experience, who is not going to be a daydreamer, time waster or wannabe, with the verification summery revealing the big picture of a persons popularity. Hidden verifications send alarm bells out to me straight away, and the person doesn't even get as far as an invitation to meet. " I haven’t shown mine on any account since people started to contact my veri’s, one even trying to set up a threesome and told my veri not to tell me it would be a threesome. Luckily my veri is a decent man and showed me what was said. That was the last time I had veri’s visible. Would never have them up again. | |||
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"I am acutely aware that many hide their verifications, and I can never quite work out why because, you can select the verifications that you wish to show, therefore even just one or two dating back over the number of years a person has been on here, should be interpreted as a user with experience, who is not going to be a daydreamer, time waster or wannabe, with the verification summery revealing the big picture of a persons popularity. Hidden verifications send alarm bells out to me straight away, and the person doesn't even get as far as an invitation to meet. I haven’t shown mine on any account since people started to contact my veri’s, one even trying to set up a threesome and told my veri not to tell me it would be a threesome. Luckily my veri is a decent man and showed me what was said. That was the last time I had veri’s visible. Would never have them up again. " Damn that’s kinda weird. Your pics look hella good btw | |||
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"I am acutely aware that many hide their verifications, and I can never quite work out why because, you can select the verifications that you wish to show, therefore even just one or two dating back over the number of years a person has been on here, should be interpreted as a user with experience, who is not going to be a daydreamer, time waster or wannabe, with the verification summery revealing the big picture of a persons popularity. Hidden verifications send alarm bells out to me straight away, and the person doesn't even get as far as an invitation to meet. I haven’t shown mine on any account since people started to contact my veri’s, one even trying to set up a threesome and told my veri not to tell me it would be a threesome. Luckily my veri is a decent man and showed me what was said. That was the last time I had veri’s visible. Would never have them up again. " I had a weird stalker woman contact all my veri's once slating me that I'm a slag and not who I declare to be. Rather ironic People be crazy!! | |||
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" I guess not everyone would be happy showing their face on here x" No...they might show Grumpy, Dopey, Bashful, Sleepy, Sneezy or Doc instead... | |||
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" I guess not everyone would be happy showing their face on here x No...they might show Grumpy, Dopey, Bashful, Sleepy, Sneezy or Doc instead... " Usually all the faces I show | |||
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"I am acutely aware that many hide their verifications, and I can never quite work out why because, you can select the verifications that you wish to show, therefore even just one or two dating back over the number of years a person has been on here, should be interpreted as a user with experience, who is not going to be a daydreamer, time waster or wannabe, with the verification summery revealing the big picture of a persons popularity. Hidden verifications send alarm bells out to me straight away, and the person doesn't even get as far as an invitation to meet. I haven’t shown mine on any account since people started to contact my veri’s, one even trying to set up a threesome and told my veri not to tell me it would be a threesome. Luckily my veri is a decent man and showed me what was said. That was the last time I had veri’s visible. Would never have them up again. I had a weird stalker woman contact all my veri's once slating me that I'm a slag and not who I declare to be. Rather ironic People be crazy!! " There are some real worrying types on here, like any other platform. Not sure why people wonder why some are so cautious. | |||
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"I am acutely aware that many hide their verifications, and I can never quite work out why because, you can select the verifications that you wish to show, therefore even just one or two dating back over the number of years a person has been on here, should be interpreted as a user with experience, who is not going to be a daydreamer, time waster or wannabe, with the verification summery revealing the big picture of a persons popularity. Hidden verifications send alarm bells out to me straight away, and the person doesn't even get as far as an invitation to meet. I haven’t shown mine on any account since people started to contact my veri’s, one even trying to set up a threesome and told my veri not to tell me it would be a threesome. Luckily my veri is a decent man and showed me what was said. That was the last time I had veri’s visible. Would never have them up again. I had a weird stalker woman contact all my veri's once slating me that I'm a slag and not who I declare to be. Rather ironic People be crazy!! There are some real worrying types on here, like any other platform. Not sure why people wonder why some are so cautious. " Exactly x | |||
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" Usually all the faces I show " Doc...? | |||
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"I am acutely aware that many hide their verifications, and I can never quite work out why because, you can select the verifications that you wish to show, therefore even just one or two dating back over the number of years a person has been on here, should be interpreted as a user with experience, who is not going to be a daydreamer, time waster or wannabe, with the verification summery revealing the big picture of a persons popularity. Hidden verifications send alarm bells out to me straight away, and the person doesn't even get as far as an invitation to meet. I haven’t shown mine on any account since people started to contact my veri’s, one even trying to set up a threesome and told my veri not to tell me it would be a threesome. Luckily my veri is a decent man and showed me what was said. That was the last time I had veri’s visible. Would never have them up again. I had a weird stalker woman contact all my veri's once slating me that I'm a slag and not who I declare to be. Rather ironic People be crazy!! There are some real worrying types on here, like any other platform. Not sure why people wonder why some are so cautious. " I stay very cautious and the usual fakes reply with “why so many questions” | |||
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" Usually all the faces I show Doc...?" Only on Sundays | |||
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" Doc...? Only on Sundays " Well, it's Sunday. Can you please have a look at this strange growth that's just appeared? | |||
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" Doc...? Only on Sundays Well, it's Sunday. Can you please have a look at this strange growth that's just appeared?" I'll see what I can do with it | |||
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"Unfortunately some will have verified themselves and may use other people's pics so it's hard to say. Once you get used to the site you'll be able to spot them
Can people fake the photo verification?
Apparently so
Oh wow. We’ll just now I told someone if they can FaceTime/call to prove they are real but they said they don’t do FaceTimes which was a big red flag.
I don't do facetime, give my number out or anything as stated on my profile. I mean imagine if I did to everyone who asked. I prefer to chat get to know someone. You can usually tell by the way people speak if they're full of shit or not
True but from text you never know someoen, that’s why if they can call/FaceTime it’ll show if there real and willing to go more personal "I won’t give out my number, and I definitely won’t video call someone from here. If they can’t take time to get to know me, then I’m not interested. | |||
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"I am acutely aware that many hide their verifications, and I can never quite work out why because, you can select the verifications that you wish to show, therefore even just one or two dating back over the number of years a person has been on here, should be interpreted as a user with experience, who is not going to be a daydreamer, time waster or wannabe, with the verification summery revealing the big picture of a persons popularity. Hidden verifications send alarm bells out to me straight away, and the person doesn't even get as far as an invitation to meet. " They must be gutted. | |||
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"So what’s your advice on spotting fake profiles or how to catch one out? It Aha happened to me before where I’ll get blocked last minute before a meet or they just won’t send a pic etc. So any advice and tips on how to uncover the fakes would be appreciated" Tighten your message filters.... It's usually the lack of that most get through | |||
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"So what’s your advice on spotting fake profiles or how to catch one out? It Aha happened to me before where I’ll get blocked last minute before a meet or they just won’t send a pic etc. So any advice and tips on how to uncover the fakes would be appreciated" Don't do sex chat or send pics before you've met them in person. Most likely 'she' is just a man wanking. | |||
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"Unfortunately some will have verified themselves and may use other people's pics so it's hard to say. Once you get used to the site you'll be able to spot them
Can people fake the photo verification?
Apparently so
Oh wow. We’ll just now I told someone if they can FaceTime/call to prove they are real but they said they don’t do FaceTimes which was a big red flag. "Not necessarily, we've never video called, but we and those we have met are genuine | |||
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"So what’s your advice on spotting fake profiles or how to catch one out? It Aha happened to me before where I’ll get blocked last minute before a meet or they just won’t send a pic etc. So any advice and tips on how to uncover the fakes would be appreciated Don't do sex chat or send pics before you've met them in person. Most likely 'she' is just a man wanking." Realises I'm a man  | |||
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"I make everybody do a captcha request and select all boxes with traffic lights first before I engage " Do you know how many times i've failed them  | |||
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"I make everybody do a captcha request and select all boxes with traffic lights first before I engage Do you know how many times i've failed them " | |||
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"So what’s your advice on spotting fake profiles or how to catch one out? It Aha happened to me before where I’ll get blocked last minute before a meet or they just won’t send a pic etc. So any advice and tips on how to uncover the fakes would be appreciated Don't do sex chat or send pics before you've met them in person. Most likely 'she' is just a man wanking. Realises I'm a man " | |||
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"Unfortunately some will have verified themselves and may use other people's pics so it's hard to say. Once you get used to the site you'll be able to spot them
Can people fake the photo verification?
Apparently so
Oh wow. We’ll just now I told someone if they can FaceTime/call to prove they are real but they said they don’t do FaceTimes which was a big red flag. "I dont do face time - because I dont want to give out my number to strangers, I will meet in a public place! I Dont give out pics as Once they are out there I have no control of what happens to them x | |||
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"Unfortunately some will have verified themselves and may use other people's pics so it's hard to say. Once you get used to the site you'll be able to spot them
Can people fake the photo verification?
Apparently so
Oh wow. We’ll just now I told someone if they can FaceTime/call to prove they are real but they said they don’t do FaceTimes which was a big red flag.
I dont do face time - because I dont want to give out my number to strangers, I will meet in a public place! I Dont give out pics as Once they are out there I have no control of what happens to them x "Understandable | |||
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"Unfortunately some will have verified themselves and may use other people's pics so it's hard to say. Once you get used to the site you'll be able to spot them
Can people fake the photo verification?
Apparently so
Oh wow. We’ll just now I told someone if they can FaceTime/call to prove they are real but they said they don’t do FaceTimes which was a big red flag. "why a red flag? I wouldnt face time because i dont have face book. So dose that make me fake | |||
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"Unfortunately some will have verified themselves and may use other people's pics so it's hard to say. Once you get used to the site you'll be able to spot them
Can people fake the photo verification?
Apparently so
Oh wow. We’ll just now I told someone if they can FaceTime/call to prove they are real but they said they don’t do FaceTimes which was a big red flag. why a red flag? I wouldnt face time because i dont have face book. So dose that make me fake
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"Unfortunately some will have verified themselves and may use other people's pics so it's hard to say. Once you get used to the site you'll be able to spot them
Can people fake the photo verification?
Apparently so
Oh wow. We’ll just now I told someone if they can FaceTime/call to prove they are real but they said they don’t do FaceTimes which was a big red flag. why a red flag? I wouldnt face time because i dont have face book. So dose that make me fake
"Face time is Apple iProducts video call. I'm assuming he meant video call, rather than this specific one. | |||
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"Unfortunately some will have verified themselves and may use other people's pics so it's hard to say. Once you get used to the site you'll be able to spot them
Can people fake the photo verification?
Apparently so
Oh wow. We’ll just now I told someone if they can FaceTime/call to prove they are real but they said they don’t do FaceTimes which was a big red flag. "I don't do face time/phone calls. Due to anxiety. I'd rather meet in person. So that doesn't mean much | |||
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"I am acutely aware that many hide their verifications, and I can never quite work out why because, you can select the verifications that you wish to show, therefore even just one or two dating back over the number of years a person has been on here, should be interpreted as a user with experience, who is not going to be a daydreamer, time waster or wannabe, with the verification summery revealing the big picture of a persons popularity. Hidden verifications send alarm bells out to me straight away, and the person doesn't even get as far as an invitation to meet. I haven’t shown mine on any account since people started to contact my veri’s, one even trying to set up a threesome and told my veri not to tell me it would be a threesome. Luckily my veri is a decent man and showed me what was said. That was the last time I had veri’s visible. Would never have them up again. " Sorry to hear you experienced that, that’s fooked up  | |||
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"Unfortunately some will have verified themselves and may use other people's pics so it's hard to say. Once you get used to the site you'll be able to spot them
Can people fake the photo verification?
Apparently so
Oh wow. We’ll just now I told someone if they can FaceTime/call to prove they are real but they said they don’t do FaceTimes which was a big red flag. "We don't do facetime or similar. Our kids are usually around and they never sleep. I like to think our profile speaks for itself. Also gut instinct is key. If you think somethings off it probably is so block and move on. Surely noone is that desperate for a shag to pursue it and waste your time??? | |||
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