FabSwingers.com forum: are average/normal people better shags?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Apparently according to a mf couple (male half of the couple) who messaged me earlier, handsome/pretty people are usually pretty useless performance wise? Is this a fab fact or a fab myth?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Myth. Shags can vary dependant upon the mood of the person. What might be good one day, will be crap the next, or better. So to say pretty people are worse than average (what is average btw?) is wrong.

In my opinion of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dunno ive met some really good looking guys who have been great shags

mewt some average people who have been great shags

think it comes down to the person not how they look

some good looking people are down to earth, some are vain, i think vanity can make people lazy at sex as they think them being there is enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My guess is that there are very good looking people who are very good in bed.

By contrast, there will also be some very average looking people who are very average in bed.

Remember, of course, that no one is attractive to everyone and for the majority, the fact remains that most of us are attractive to some people some of the time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry, i made my thread sound as though I really had no clue! I was annoyed at the fact that because I had replied saying I wasn't interested because I wasn't physically attracted to him, he didn't understand that that actually did mean that i wasn't interested. He then went on to tell me that he was much better in the flesh, average/normal people are better at performing etc, yawn yawn. I did point out to him that what one person finds attractive, the other doesn't but a few more yawns and a block later finally did the trick!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry, i made my thread sound as though I really had no clue! I was annoyed at the fact that because I had replied saying I wasn't interested because I wasn't physically attracted to him, he didn't understand that that actually did mean that i wasn't interested. He then went on to tell me that he was much better in the flesh, average/normal people are better at performing etc, yawn yawn. I did point out to him that what one person finds attractive, the other doesn't but a few more yawns and a block later finally did the trick!"

Totally agree with you on that count. Yes we all after fantastic, fulfilling, exciting sexy fun but having a well balanced personality goes along way too. The guy sounds like he lacks personality and understanding. You did the right thing.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

what's a normal person

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"what's a normal person

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i is normal

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

passionate and uninhibited people are better shags,no matter how they look.

people you find handsome/pretty,are more desirable shags.

your more likely to be passionate and uninhibited,with people you find attractive,handsome/pretty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apparently according to a mf couple (male half of the couple) who messaged me earlier, handsome/pretty people are usually pretty useless performance wise? Is this a fab fact or a fab myth?"

Sounds like sour grapes to me but if you are ugly its a good hail Mary play.

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants

"what's a normal person

i is normal

GOD HELP US ALL...!

Lol!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"what's a normal person

i is normal

GOD HELP US ALL...!

Lol!

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Excuse me...what is you trying to say?! Im gorgeously lovely n fabulously normal

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By *ackandkateCouple
over a year ago

Truro

sometimes it's down to expectation. I've had experiences that I thought would have been better, simply because I really fancied them, but then again it could have been me that came up short.

There's no correlation between looks and shagging standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooo this would be a good research project for uni

Not sure the testing would be ethical or I'd be able to test enough participants in just 2wks

haha

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By *upitersmileCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

"Ooo this would be a good research project for uni

Not sure the testing would be ethical or I'd be able to test enough participants in just 2wks

haha "

Would be fun trying though lol

And if you need a research assistant......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooo this would be a good research project for uni

Not sure the testing would be ethical or I'd be able to test enough participants in just 2wks

haha

Would be fun trying though lol

And if you need a research assistant......

Hehe...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I could shag a minger to find out. But all the fit sexy guy's I have come across have always been very good to play with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it applies to an extent. Stupidly good looking people will never struggle to get anyone in the bedroom.

But i've had a few people comment on other guys they've met about "Guy X being really great looking" but not that great in bed.

Think because they find it easier to get new people all the time they don't have to put the effort in because they can get most people at the drop of a hat just by having the right look.

Whereas us Joe Average's living with reality have to make an effort with the people we do meet in a bid to impress them enough for a repeat performance.

On the plus side I prefer people being suprised that i'm good in the bedroom rather than having model looks and lacking in the action.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"your more likely to be passionate and uninhibited,with people you find attractive,handsome/pretty. "

No, its the other way round - the more attractive person feels uninhibited and worshiped and the less attractive person feels inferior and self conscious. Thats why the happiest couples are on par with each other, more or less.

another factor when the woman is super good looking is that the guy can't hold his cum back and dissapoints but if shes a bit unattractive, he can fuck her for ages and she has a great time but he ends up feeling like he devalued himself to have gone with her just for a fuck.

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