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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

but what precisely turns you on in a profile? I am not talking about pictures or certainly not photos alone, but more about the content, the langauge and the tone of a profile.

So what is sexy?

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

Someone who makes me laugh/smile at their profile. Straight talking, intelligent (ish).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A cheeky sense of humour

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

huge chip on shoulder

pedestal of self importance

homophobic tone, not the fact that they are not interested as I like the honesty but the manner in which it is delivered is a huge downer

asking to be wined and dined

RANT after RANT after RANT

just for starters

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

oops, I misread

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

what is sexy..

Humility

Confidence

Responsibility

and big cocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples who don't take this too seriously... If that comes over in their profile, it's going to get on our Hotlist far quicker.

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By *kywatcherMan
over a year ago

Southwick

Mine I hope

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc


"oops, I misread"

Lol thought you liked the whole treat em mean kind of person then

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley


"huge chip on shoulder

pedestal of self importance

homophobic tone, not the fact that they are not interested as I like the honesty but the manner in which it is delivered is a huge downer

asking to be wined and dined

RANT after RANT after RANT

just for starters"

Wit, sign of intelligence, sense of humour, to name but a few but mostly tone of profile

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"oops, I misread

Lol thought you liked the whole treat em mean kind of person then "

oh no, too much hard work

I would rather stroke the clit or cock than an ego....

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

sense of humour ! wins every time

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc


"oops, I misread

Lol thought you liked the whole treat em mean kind of person then

oh no, too much hard work

I would rather stroke the clit or cock than an ego...."

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By *upitersmileCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Soh is a must, cheekiness and intelligence are high up there too

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

For me it is intelligence and I am not talking about academia - I am talking about a common sense and openess to life couple with a sense of humour.

I agere with View that humility is attractive and when it is combined with confidence (not a contradiction in my mind) then it is very sexy.

I like down to earth people who have droppped their baggage with their pants so I dont have to worry about issues of insecurities at a later stage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sense of humour and cheekiness definitely, and being able to laugh at oneself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people who say they are clean, tidy and smell nice.

not too serious, confident but not cocky.

warm and friendly, and they like sex a lot, not meeting for chit chats and coffee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humour, honesty, no expectancy and an understanding of the 'common sense' approach to all things Fab.

Combine that with an interesting set of pictures that allow you an insight into their personality as well as an accurate representation of their physical attributes - and my eye is caught!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a nice rear _iew of a longlegged lady, hip hugging miniskirt and white knickers. And if she's wearing a nice pair of knee length boots too, it would send me reaching for the Kleenex.

Who gives a fuck what the profile says

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

someone who is quietly confident, can get their likes and dislikes across in a positive manner. Looking at their profile and be able to get all the information i require. Without how they are going to lick my fanny for hours and there going to be the best shag ive had and go into details about past meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like confidence, humour and intelligent conversation. If that shows up in the actual meeting, then even better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sense of humour ! wins every time "

There was an Englishman, Irishman & Scotsman...............

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"sense of humour and cheekiness definitely, and being able to laugh at oneself "

What she sez

Daz, shut up, a massive set of norks is not on my criteria...well, not at the very top of the list anyway

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley


"For me it is intelligence and I am not talking about academia - I am talking about a common sense and openess to life couple with a sense of humour.

I agere with View that humility is attractive and when it is combined with confidence (not a contradiction in my mind) then it is very sexy.

I like down to earth people who have droppped their baggage with their pants so I dont have to worry about issues of insecurities at a later stage "

You mean I have to wear pants

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"For me it is intelligence and I am not talking about academia - I am talking about a common sense and openess to life couple with a sense of humour.

I agere with View that humility is attractive and when it is combined with confidence (not a contradiction in my mind) then it is very sexy.

I like down to earth people who have droppped their baggage with their pants so I dont have to worry about issues of insecurities at a later stage

You mean I have to wear pants "
Good point

Now then as I like unwrapping presents.....;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a profile which indicates the writer is intelligent, has a sense of humour, is confident and gives me a sense of being able to hold a good conversation with. Someone who is individual and confident in their own persona who does not try to appeal to all.

A profile which is upbeat and does contain any negativity is a good thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oops, I misread"

Hahaha!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must admit I do get drawn in to a profile if there is concise detail about the people in general, you know like and dislikes and what a person or persons are looking for themselves in others.

Going off on a slight tangent now... Since I've started useing the forums recently I find you get a good insight in to a persons persona.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"

Going off on a slight tangent now... Since I've started useing the forums recently I find you get a good insight in to a persons persona. "
Oooops, that's me buggered then...

On a more serious note : I also believe that the forum persona can help to get to know a person a little bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of sparkly wit and sense of humour........ No need to take it all too seriously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Going off on a slight tangent now... Since I've started useing the forums recently I find you get a good insight in to a persons persona. Oooops, that's me buggered then...

On a more serious note : I also believe that the forum persona can help to get to know a person a little bit. "

Yep!

Just bear in mind the sense of humour of some - else no-one that posted on the Halloween thread is ever getting a meet again! Lol

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"

Going off on a slight tangent now... Since I've started useing the forums recently I find you get a good insight in to a persons persona. Oooops, that's me buggered then...

On a more serious note : I also believe that the forum persona can help to get to know a person a little bit.

Yep!

Just bear in mind the sense of humour of some - else no-one that posted on the Halloween thread is ever getting a meet again! Lol "
Did not see that thread lol - was it that bad? I know what you mean about humour as I have seen posts which to me sounded (and seemed to be intentionally) funny but they were taken the wrong way. Nobody's fault - just the nature of things when you only have the written word plus a few emoticons and smilies. In face to face interaction you can spot immediately if somebody misheard you or if something you said is taken in an offensive way. Limitations of the written word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Going off on a slight tangent now... Since I've started useing the forums recently I find you get a good insight in to a persons persona. Oooops, that's me buggered then...

On a more serious note : I also believe that the forum persona can help to get to know a person a little bit.

Yep!

Just bear in mind the sense of humour of some - else no-one that posted on the Halloween thread is ever getting a meet again! Lol "

And i do not shag sheep!

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"

Going off on a slight tangent now... Since I've started useing the forums recently I find you get a good insight in to a persons persona. Oooops, that's me buggered then...

On a more serious note : I also believe that the forum persona can help to get to know a person a little bit.

Yep!

Just bear in mind the sense of humour of some - else no-one that posted on the Halloween thread is ever getting a meet again! Lol

And i do not shag sheep! "
OMG where on earth did THAT come from lol

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