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Rudeness and just being polite

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it me or are we loosing some basic principles

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By *rFunBoyMan
over a year ago

Longridge

On here or in general?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it me or are we loosing some basic principles "

Just you numpty

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

2 instances this evening

A perfect conversation. Then you politely follow up. Then just get blocked

Can we all be a bit more human

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By *rFunBoyMan
over a year ago

Longridge

Probably single guys pulling one off while wife's in bed..

Move on and ignore..

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By *lexeatonMan
over a year ago

Lichfield

Haha, I read a profile a couple of days ago where the single female declared that she find poor grammar a big turn off.

I noted her status had a grammaical error, the usual "your" and "you're". I politely pointed it out because of the irony of her slating single mens grammar in her profile, to which I was blocked.

Don't bother trying to strike up friendships on here, much easier in a club mate where the people are real.

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Men and women are both guilty of being rude on here!

The problem is women don't and can't see a man's experience on here and a man can't see a woman's. I showed a male Fab friend my account and he couldn't believe the type of crude or lazy messages I get and I couldn't believe the rude replies he got from women after sending a polite message.

If someone sends me a message just saying 'hi' or 'wanna f**k' I'm not going to reply and some people think that's rude

I guess you need a thick skin on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s just about finding balance, if I message a girl I send her a nice dick, if I message a guy I send him a nice vagina, everybody seems happy and polite in their reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men and women are both guilty of being rude on here!

The problem is women don't and can't see a man's experience on here and a man can't see a woman's. I showed a male Fab friend my account and he couldn't believe the type of crude or lazy messages I get and I couldn't believe the rude replies he got from women after sending a polite message.

If someone sends me a message just saying 'hi' or 'wanna f**k' I'm not going to reply and some people think that's rude

I guess you need a thick skin on here "

That's a pretty balanced explanation

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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"2 instances this evening

A perfect conversation. Then you politely follow up. Then just get blocked

Can we all be a bit more human "

You obviously said something ordid something that changed their mind. Sometimes it's probably more polite to block rather than say, you are boring me to death now.

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

Manners are the only free thing left on the planet that we all have access to..... USE THEM

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By *aviniaCDTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds (close to GAP)


"Manners are the only free thing left on the planet that we all have access to..... USE THEM

"

Certain amount of irony in using upper case....

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle


"Manners are the only free thing left on the planet that we all have access to..... USE THEM

Certain amount of irony in using upper case.... "

Least it wasn't lost on you......

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By *rFunBoyMan
over a year ago

Longridge


"Haha, I read a profile a couple of days ago where the single female declared that she find poor grammar a big turn off.

I noted her status had a grammaical error, the usual "your" and "you're". I politely pointed it out because of the irony of her slating single mens grammar in her profile, to which I was blocked.

Don't bother trying to strike up friendships on here, much easier in a club mate where the people are real."

Did you send her a message of correction?

She might be doing that as a test and you might get lucky by taking the bait, or get a gob full!

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Probably single guys pulling one off while wife's in bed..

Move on and ignore.."

If the conversation was primarily sexual I'd agree with this - post-orgasm blocking happens a lot once a guy has shot his load (and maybe with women too, but I don't know because no woman has ever tried to elicit wank fodder from me!).

Different people will have different ideas of what is rude, and there's no way to force your idea of good manners onto others.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"Is it me or are we loosing some basic principles

Just you numpty "

Ha !

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"2 instances this evening

A perfect conversation. Then you politely follow up. Then just get blocked

Can we all be a bit more human "

Ahhhhhhhhhh this is a BLOCKING thread in disguise....

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"Manners are the only free thing left on the planet that we all have access to..... USE THEM

Certain amount of irony in using upper case....

Least it wasn't lost on you......"

I often CAPITALISE ...... I thought that aspect of etiquette went out with the lace hanky

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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago

Norfolk


"Men and women are both guilty of being rude on here!

The problem is women don't and can't see a man's experience on here and a man can't see a woman's. I showed a male Fab friend my account and he couldn't believe the type of crude or lazy messages I get and I couldn't believe the rude replies he got from women after sending a polite message.

If someone sends me a message just saying 'hi' or 'wanna f**k' I'm not going to reply and some people think that's rude

I guess you need a thick skin on here "

This reply sums it up perfectly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha, I read a profile a couple of days ago where the single female declared that she find poor grammar a big turn off.

I noted her status had a grammaical error, the usual "your" and "you're". I politely pointed it out because of the irony of her slating single mens grammar in her profile, to which I was blocked.

Don't bother trying to strike up friendships on here, much easier in a club mate where the people are real."

Found not find.

Typo on grammatical.

Run on sentence in final paragraph.

Final sentence would benefit from a comma.

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