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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you start off with your lightest implement like a flogger or do you go straight in with something harder like a cane and work back to the softer things?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A little spanking with a quick build up to full on whipping.. im not talking about light whipping with a flogger, im talking full on whip cracking lashes across my back

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Depends upon how much of a dick I've been

(Mrs)

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

I adore impact play, on a recent meet with a fwb he blindfolded me on all fours on his bed, strapped my ankles into a spreader bar and my wrists into another, he began tracing my body with various different implements, asking how it made me feel, how the pressure was, alternating between gentle strokes and strikes on various parts of me, his breathing and the excitement I could feel from him every time I asked for more of something, be it a pin wheel, a feather, flogger, crop, paddle etc made for an unbelievably arousing experience xx

I enjoy mixing it up x

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I like her to go straight for the hard stuff like a knee in the bollocks

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"I like her to go straight for the hard stuff like a knee in the bollocks "

welcome back

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Depends on my mood to be honest. One day I may want a more sensuous warm up to something heavier. Then the next straight into it.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Oh and I don't think we've ever worked back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Building up from hand/flogger to belt to cane. Starting off sensuous and ending up ..well, harder

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

It depends on the bottom's style of play, whether you have played with them before. and how they feel on the day. Unless the bottom is on mission It is always important to gauge the bottom's ability first. I have people say they are used to playing hard and then tap out on the lightest strokes.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I like her to go straight for the hard stuff like a knee in the bollocks "

I can do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like her to go straight for the hard stuff like a knee in the bollocks

I can do that "

Get to the back of the queue...

Lol joking x

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Do you start off with your lightest implement like a flogger or do you go straight in with something harder like a cane and work back to the softer things? "

What about you lovely?

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

It completely changes depending on a million different factors...

My headspace, the temperature of the room, where in my cycle I am...

One of my most cathartic sessions was an exceptionally hard caning from cold, the endorphin release and the tears were phenomenal

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By *aliceWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Primal so very much mood and connection dependent but for longer or sustained play sessions gently warming up the skin is normally the way things go

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you start off with your lightest implement like a flogger or do you go straight in with something harder like a cane and work back to the softer things?

What about you lovely? "

Generally start softly and work up, I don't like canes though they hurt like a bitch

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Do you start off with your lightest implement like a flogger or do you go straight in with something harder like a cane and work back to the softer things?

What about you lovely?

Generally start softly and work up, I don't like canes though they hurt like a bitch "

I have a love/hate relationship with them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you start off with your lightest implement like a flogger or do you go straight in with something harder like a cane and work back to the softer things?

What about you lovely?

Generally start softly and work up, I don't like canes though they hurt like a bitch

I have a love/hate relationship with them

"

Haha! I think that's my general relationship with impact play. I love it but damn some of it hurts.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Do you start off with your lightest implement like a flogger or do you go straight in with something harder like a cane and work back to the softer things?

What about you lovely?

Generally start softly and work up, I don't like canes though they hurt like a bitch

I have a love/hate relationship with them

Haha! I think that's my general relationship with impact play. I love it but damn some of it hurts. "

Haha but I like the hurt, played last night and boy do I know it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you start off with your lightest implement like a flogger or do you go straight in with something harder like a cane and work back to the softer things?

What about you lovely?

Generally start softly and work up, I don't like canes though they hurt like a bitch

I have a love/hate relationship with them

Haha! I think that's my general relationship with impact play. I love it but damn some of it hurts.

Haha but I like the hurt, played last night and boy do I know it "

A nice little reminder every time you sit down?

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By *rangesmartieWoman
over a year ago

Devon

I like it both ways. It depends on my headspace on any given day.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Do you start off with your lightest implement like a flogger or do you go straight in with something harder like a cane and work back to the softer things?

What about you lovely?

Generally start softly and work up, I don't like canes though they hurt like a bitch

I have a love/hate relationship with them

Haha! I think that's my general relationship with impact play. I love it but damn some of it hurts.

Haha but I like the hurt, played last night and boy do I know it

A nice little reminder every time you sit down? "

Just a bit

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I like her to go straight for the hard stuff like a knee in the bollocks "

Missed you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like her to go straight for the hard stuff like a knee in the bollocks

Missed you "

Aim better!

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

I start off with a feather and build up to two feathers

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

It depends on the many many factors at play however I can usually tell what luna needs/desires by they way she interacts with myself and others and what kind of mindset she is in, sometime I will start her off with some sensory/sensual with the intentions of stepping it up but sometimes the session takes on it's own path and develops into edge play for example with no to very little impact play, our play time is never fully planned out or set in stone as much like life it's very dynamic.

Mr Hayes.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I don’t start off with the lightest implement, but I do usually warm them up, not always though.

Sometimes it is good fun to go straight in hard and heavy. But it does depend on who it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I start off with a feather and build up to two feathers "

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

If I'm being kind, I'll warm them to with a few hand spanks, but if they've been disobedient, straight in with the cane

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I pretty much just like hands.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Think the psychology around fractionation is brilliant in impact play.

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

Godstone

My belief is that really heavy impact play needs warming up before to stand less chance of drawing blood/splittng skin?

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"My belief is that really heavy impact play needs warming up before to stand less chance of drawing blood/splittng skin?"

Some of us may like that though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My belief is that really heavy impact play needs warming up before to stand less chance of drawing blood/splittng skin?

Some of us may like that though "

I was going to say that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would it not depend on the situation? lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My belief is that really heavy impact play needs warming up before to stand less chance of drawing blood/splittng skin?

Some of us may like that though "

Come again?

Im not alone?

Wish i found a dom woman who would leave me with countless scars.. shes out there i know it!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I like her to go straight for the hard stuff like a knee in the bollocks "

What about sleeping nekkid in an Igloo? Probably on a par with taking a crack to the balls

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"My belief is that really heavy impact play needs warming up before to stand less chance of drawing blood/splittng skin?

Some of us may like that though

I was going to say that "

What a surprise to see you here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My belief is that really heavy impact play needs warming up before to stand less chance of drawing blood/splittng skin?

Some of us may like that though

I was going to say that

What a surprise to see you here "

I know, who’d have thought

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"My belief is that really heavy impact play needs warming up before to stand less chance of drawing blood/splittng skin?

Some of us may like that though

I was going to say that

What a surprise to see you here

I know, who’d have thought "

Shocking I tell you

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

Sorry to be the voice of caution but I would remind people of the law around BDSM and the need to self police descriptions or else this thread may disappear.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My belief is that really heavy impact play needs warming up before to stand less chance of drawing blood/splittng skin?

Some of us may like that though "

Some of us want to be able to sit down afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My belief is that really heavy impact play needs warming up before to stand less chance of drawing blood/splittng skin?

Some of us may like that though

Some of us want to be able to sit down afterwards "

That’s the best bit

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

floggers light ? we have a soft lambs leather flogger that is big and heavy certainly not a light option very very thudy also a large flogger made from cut rubber strips again nothing light about this very very harsh much worse than a cane . find paddles are good for impact after a warm up with a soft latex spatula very ouchy thank you tesco

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"floggers light ? we have a soft lambs leather flogger that is big and heavy certainly not a light option very very thudy also a large flogger made from cut rubber strips again nothing light about this very very harsh much worse than a cane . find paddles are good for impact after a warm up with a soft latex spatula very ouchy thank you tesco "

I've used a soft ish flogger, as in not stingy so it was the only soft example I could think of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry to be the voice of caution but I would remind people of the law around BDSM and the need to self police descriptions or else this thread may disappear."

Well i just had a read about operation spanner. Never knew there was such a thing. Didnt mention anything about self-harm though i.e. resulting from poor mental health but it was just the wiki that i read, didnt read any in depth articles

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My belief is that really heavy impact play needs warming up before to stand less chance of drawing blood/splittng skin?

Some of us may like that though

Some of us want to be able to sit down afterwards

That’s the best bit "

My arse hurts just thinking about it, think I'd rather be electrocuted

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"My belief is that really heavy impact play needs warming up before to stand less chance of drawing blood/splittng skin?

Some of us may like that though

Some of us want to be able to sit down afterwards

That’s the best bit

My arse hurts just thinking about it, think I'd rather be electrocuted "

That could be arranged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My belief is that really heavy impact play needs warming up before to stand less chance of drawing blood/splittng skin?

Some of us may like that though

Some of us want to be able to sit down afterwards

That’s the best bit

My arse hurts just thinking about it, think I'd rather be electrocuted

That could be arranged "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My belief is that really heavy impact play needs warming up before to stand less chance of drawing blood/splittng skin?

Some of us may like that though

Some of us want to be able to sit down afterwards

That’s the best bit

My arse hurts just thinking about it, think I'd rather be electrocuted

That could be arranged "

Goddamn it frida i was gonna say that too!

Quit stealing ppls lines!

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

Godstone


"My belief is that really heavy impact play needs warming up before to stand less chance of drawing blood/splittng skin?

Some of us may like that though

Some of us want to be able to sit down afterwards

That’s the best bit

My arse hurts just thinking about it, think I'd rather be electrocuted "

You will be

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My belief is that really heavy impact play needs warming up before to stand less chance of drawing blood/splittng skin?

Some of us may like that though

Some of us want to be able to sit down afterwards

That’s the best bit

My arse hurts just thinking about it, think I'd rather be electrocuted

That could be arranged "

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"My belief is that really heavy impact play needs warming up before to stand less chance of drawing blood/splittng skin?

Some of us may like that though

Some of us want to be able to sit down afterwards

That’s the best bit

My arse hurts just thinking about it, think I'd rather be electrocuted

You will be "

Waaa

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My belief is that really heavy impact play needs warming up before to stand less chance of drawing blood/splittng skin?

Some of us may like that though

Some of us want to be able to sit down afterwards

That’s the best bit

My arse hurts just thinking about it, think I'd rather be electrocuted

You will be "

Can't wait especially when the roles are reversed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My belief is that really heavy impact play needs warming up before to stand less chance of drawing blood/splittng skin?

Some of us may like that though

Some of us want to be able to sit down afterwards

That’s the best bit

My arse hurts just thinking about it, think I'd rather be electrocuted

You will be

Waaa "

I'm sure he'll happily let you help

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"My belief is that really heavy impact play needs warming up before to stand less chance of drawing blood/splittng skin?

Some of us may like that though

Some of us want to be able to sit down afterwards

That’s the best bit

My arse hurts just thinking about it, think I'd rather be electrocuted

You will be

Can't wait especially when the roles are reversed "

Those are fighting words now

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"My belief is that really heavy impact play needs warming up before to stand less chance of drawing blood/splittng skin?

Some of us may like that though

Some of us want to be able to sit down afterwards

That’s the best bit

My arse hurts just thinking about it, think I'd rather be electrocuted

You will be

Waaa

I'm sure he'll happily let you help "

I'm sure he would too

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Impact play ....thought it was a thread about wrestling lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My belief is that really heavy impact play needs warming up before to stand less chance of drawing blood/splittng skin?

Some of us may like that though

Some of us want to be able to sit down afterwards

That’s the best bit

My arse hurts just thinking about it, think I'd rather be electrocuted

You will be

Waaa

I'm sure he'll happily let you help

I'm sure he would too "

I do need to be able to walk afterwards though

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"My belief is that really heavy impact play needs warming up before to stand less chance of drawing blood/splittng skin?

Some of us may like that though

Some of us want to be able to sit down afterwards

That’s the best bit

My arse hurts just thinking about it, think I'd rather be electrocuted

You will be

Waaa

I'm sure he'll happily let you help

I'm sure he would too

I do need to be able to walk afterwards though "

Walking can be overrated

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By *irtycpl7980Couple
over a year ago

Northumberland


"I like her to go straight for the hard stuff like a knee in the bollocks

Missed you

Aim better!"

Lucy and I enjoy this from time to

Time … I would love to be at the centre of one of these sessions with my wife and 1/2 others.

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton


"Sorry to be the voice of caution but I would remind people of the law around BDSM and the need to self police descriptions or else this thread may disappear.

Well i just had a read about operation spanner. Never knew there was such a thing. Didnt mention anything about self-harm though i.e. resulting from poor mental health but it was just the wiki that i read, didnt read any in depth articles"

My phone died and I am glad the thread is still here.

Spanner was a moral decision of the House of Lords overladen with homophobia but it sets out the law of what one person can do to another in terms of sadomasochism. The judges did not consider self harm.

If you are a Dom or a top.thay does hard impact play, you should be aware of Spanner and the law. Also moderators have used the law in the past to terminate threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I adore impact play, on a recent meet with a fwb he blindfolded me on all fours on his bed, strapped my ankles into a spreader bar and my wrists into another, he began tracing my body with various different implements, asking how it made me feel, how the pressure was, alternating between gentle strokes and strikes on various parts of me, his breathing and the excitement I could feel from him every time I asked for more of something, be it a pin wheel, a feather, flogger, crop, paddle etc made for an unbelievably arousing experience xx

I enjoy mixing it up x"

This sounds like heaven to me. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you start off with your lightest implement like a flogger or do you go straight in with something harder like a cane and work back to the softer things?

What about you lovely?

Generally start softly and work up, I don't like canes though they hurt like a bitch

I have a love/hate relationship with them

Haha! I think that's my general relationship with impact play. I love it but damn some of it hurts. "

Ditto

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

Bradford


"Do you start off with your lightest implement like a flogger or do you go straight in with something harder like a cane and work back to the softer things?

What about you lovely?

Generally start softly and work up, I don't like canes though they hurt like a bitch

I have a love/hate relationship with them

Haha! I think that's my general relationship with impact play. I love it but damn some of it hurts.

Ditto "

Luna loves and hates canes in equal measure, I'm rarely without one as I have a "gentlemans" walking cane that conceals a striking cane within, she said earlier this evening that she "behaves" better when I have it with me as it's a constant reminder of what may lie ahead if she plays up

Mr Hayes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you start off with your lightest implement like a flogger or do you go straight in with something harder like a cane and work back to the softer things?

What about you lovely?

Generally start softly and work up, I don't like canes though they hurt like a bitch

I have a love/hate relationship with them

Haha! I think that's my general relationship with impact play. I love it but damn some of it hurts.

Ditto

Luna loves and hates canes in equal measure, I'm rarely without one as I have a "gentlemans" walking cane that conceals a striking cane within, she said earlier this evening that she "behaves" better when I have it with me as it's a constant reminder of what may lie ahead if she plays up

Mr Hayes. "

My gosh

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

Bradford


"Do you start off with your lightest implement like a flogger or do you go straight in with something harder like a cane and work back to the softer things?

What about you lovely?

Generally start softly and work up, I don't like canes though they hurt like a bitch

I have a love/hate relationship with them

Haha! I think that's my general relationship with impact play. I love it but damn some of it hurts.

Ditto

Luna loves and hates canes in equal measure, I'm rarely without one as I have a "gentlemans" walking cane that conceals a striking cane within, she said earlier this evening that she "behaves" better when I have it with me as it's a constant reminder of what may lie ahead if she plays up

Mr Hayes.

My gosh "

I've not noticed it but since she's mentioned it she is less bratty when I have my cane with me, but now I know this info I wont be able to not torment her when we're out and about especially in a vanilla setting.

Mr Hayes

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"My belief is that really heavy impact play needs warming up before to stand less chance of drawing blood/splittng skin?

Some of us may like that though

Come again?

Im not alone?

"

Nope.

Mrs. Saisei would often come home from her D/s impact play sessions looking like she’d been in a car crash.

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there


"Do you start off with your lightest implement like a flogger or do you go straight in with something harder like a cane and work back to the softer things?

What about you lovely?

Generally start softly and work up, I don't like canes though they hurt like a bitch

I have a love/hate relationship with them

Haha! I think that's my general relationship with impact play. I love it but damn some of it hurts.

Ditto

Luna loves and hates canes in equal measure, I'm rarely without one as I have a "gentlemans" walking cane that conceals a striking cane within, she said earlier this evening that she "behaves" better when I have it with me as it's a constant reminder of what may lie ahead if she plays up

Mr Hayes.

My gosh

I've not noticed it but since she's mentioned it she is less bratty when I have my cane with me, but now I know this info I wont be able to not torment her when we're out and about especially in a vanilla setting.

Mr Hayes "

I can feel my brat retreating just reading this! I love the cane. I hate the cane. My Dom carrying one with him would most definitely work as a deterrent... mostly

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral


" I adore impact play, on a recent meet with a fwb he blindfolded me on all fours on his bed, strapped my ankles into a spreader bar and my wrists into another, he began tracing my body with various different implements, asking how it made me feel, how the pressure was, alternating between gentle strokes and strikes on various parts of me, his breathing and the excitement I could feel from him every time I asked for more of something, be it a pin wheel, a feather, flogger, crop, paddle etc made for an unbelievably arousing experience xx

I enjoy mixing it up x"

That sounds like a lot of fun!

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Do you start off with your lightest implement like a flogger or do you go straight in with something harder like a cane and work back to the softer things?

What about you lovely?

Generally start softly and work up, I don't like canes though they hurt like a bitch

I have a love/hate relationship with them

Haha! I think that's my general relationship with impact play. I love it but damn some of it hurts.

Ditto

Luna loves and hates canes in equal measure, I'm rarely without one as I have a "gentlemans" walking cane that conceals a striking cane within, she said earlier this evening that she "behaves" better when I have it with me as it's a constant reminder of what may lie ahead if she plays up

Mr Hayes.

My gosh

I've not noticed it but since she's mentioned it she is less bratty when I have my cane with me, but now I know this info I wont be able to not torment her when we're out and about especially in a vanilla setting.

Mr Hayes "

This would work unless I was super bratty, and then I would probably do something really mischievous. Like steal it and pretend to hit your butt with it, knowing it get me in a whole heap of trouble

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

Bradford


"Do you start off with your lightest implement like a flogger or do you go straight in with something harder like a cane and work back to the softer things?

What about you lovely?

Generally start softly and work up, I don't like canes though they hurt like a bitch

I have a love/hate relationship with them

Haha! I think that's my general relationship with impact play. I love it but damn some of it hurts.

Ditto

Luna loves and hates canes in equal measure, I'm rarely without one as I have a "gentlemans" walking cane that conceals a striking cane within, she said earlier this evening that she "behaves" better when I have it with me as it's a constant reminder of what may lie ahead if she plays up

Mr Hayes.

My gosh

I've not noticed it but since she's mentioned it she is less bratty when I have my cane with me, but now I know this info I wont be able to not torment her when we're out and about especially in a vanilla setting.

Mr Hayes

I can feel my brat retreating just reading this! I love the cane. I hate the cane. My Dom carrying one with him would most definitely work as a deterrent... mostly

"

That's the beauty of it we have family party coming up and the cane is going with me, I guess nothing will ever be vanilla again since I made it

Mr Hayes

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

Bradford


"Do you start off with your lightest implement like a flogger or do you go straight in with something harder like a cane and work back to the softer things?

What about you lovely?

Generally start softly and work up, I don't like canes though they hurt like a bitch

I have a love/hate relationship with them

Haha! I think that's my general relationship with impact play. I love it but damn some of it hurts.

Ditto

Luna loves and hates canes in equal measure, I'm rarely without one as I have a "gentlemans" walking cane that conceals a striking cane within, she said earlier this evening that she "behaves" better when I have it with me as it's a constant reminder of what may lie ahead if she plays up

Mr Hayes.

My gosh

I've not noticed it but since she's mentioned it she is less bratty when I have my cane with me, but now I know this info I wont be able to not torment her when we're out and about especially in a vanilla setting.

Mr Hayes

This would work unless I was super bratty, and then I would probably do something really mischievous. Like steal it and pretend to hit your butt with it, knowing it get me in a whole heap of trouble "

We have some close friends and she's super bratty and would do exactly just that to master Ren, it's fun watching how they interact with eachother.

Mr Hayes

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Do you start off with your lightest implement like a flogger or do you go straight in with something harder like a cane and work back to the softer things?

What about you lovely?

Generally start softly and work up, I don't like canes though they hurt like a bitch

I have a love/hate relationship with them

Haha! I think that's my general relationship with impact play. I love it but damn some of it hurts.

Ditto

Luna loves and hates canes in equal measure, I'm rarely without one as I have a "gentlemans" walking cane that conceals a striking cane within, she said earlier this evening that she "behaves" better when I have it with me as it's a constant reminder of what may lie ahead if she plays up

Mr Hayes.

My gosh

I've not noticed it but since she's mentioned it she is less bratty when I have my cane with me, but now I know this info I wont be able to not torment her when we're out and about especially in a vanilla setting.

Mr Hayes

This would work unless I was super bratty, and then I would probably do something really mischievous. Like steal it and pretend to hit your butt with it, knowing it get me in a whole heap of trouble

We have some close friends and she's super bratty and would do exactly just that to master Ren, it's fun watching how they interact with eachother.

Mr Hayes "

I'm bratty but payful. Plus we enjoy having a laugh together it works for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think the psychology around fractionation is brilliant in impact play.

"

This x

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs


" I adore impact play, on a recent meet with a fwb he blindfolded me on all fours on his bed, strapped my ankles into a spreader bar and my wrists into another, he began tracing my body with various different implements, asking how it made me feel, how the pressure was, alternating between gentle strokes and strikes on various parts of me, his breathing and the excitement I could feel from him every time I asked for more of something, be it a pin wheel, a feather, flogger, crop, paddle etc made for an unbelievably arousing experience xx

I enjoy mixing it up x"

This sounds incredibly hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you start off with your lightest implement like a flogger or do you go straight in with something harder like a cane and work back to the softer things? "

I start off with my hand, a bit of a massage and light tapotement to warm up then start slow and gentle spanking. I work up slowly with different toys, also easing off now and then. I don't want to permanently damage the skin. Plus it gives a longer playtime. I think longest session was about 2 hours. I usually end with the cane.

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

Bradford


"Do you start off with your lightest implement like a flogger or do you go straight in with something harder like a cane and work back to the softer things?

What about you lovely?

Generally start softly and work up, I don't like canes though they hurt like a bitch

I have a love/hate relationship with them

Haha! I think that's my general relationship with impact play. I love it but damn some of it hurts.

Ditto

Luna loves and hates canes in equal measure, I'm rarely without one as I have a "gentlemans" walking cane that conceals a striking cane within, she said earlier this evening that she "behaves" better when I have it with me as it's a constant reminder of what may lie ahead if she plays up

Mr Hayes.

My gosh

I've not noticed it but since she's mentioned it she is less bratty when I have my cane with me, but now I know this info I wont be able to not torment her when we're out and about especially in a vanilla setting.

Mr Hayes

This would work unless I was super bratty, and then I would probably do something really mischievous. Like steal it and pretend to hit your butt with it, knowing it get me in a whole heap of trouble

We have some close friends and she's super bratty and would do exactly just that to master Ren, it's fun watching how they interact with eachother.

Mr Hayes

I'm bratty but payful. Plus we enjoy having a laugh together it works for us. "

You sound a lot like them

Mr Hayes

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We tend to only use a hand and a crop…so there’s no working up or down but C’s bum gets warmed up beforehand

We need a spanking session…

K

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"My belief is that really heavy impact play needs warming up before to stand less chance of drawing blood/splittng skin?"

Warming up is less about preventing the drawing of blood or puncturing the skin, and more about starting the persons pleasure pain response, getting blood flowing to the skin (reddening colour) as well as helping the Dom warm up.

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

For me, it depends entirely on the situation and the person. Sometimes, yes, a gentle ramping up is absolutely the right way to go, if they're new to it or have little experience of it etc. If it's someone who is attuned to it, and the circumstances demand it, then no, I'll go straight in with something "heavier".

Obviously, within predefined limits and discussions etc.

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