FabSwingers.com forum: 1st meet, social or go straight in

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hopefully get my first girl experience soon

Not sure what's best coffee and chat or go straight in before the nerves start lol

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By *ich_ChesterMan
over a year ago

Chester

Think it depends on what feels right for the both of you. Take it as it comes it might surprise you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd go for social and a few drinks to ease nerves and let conversation flow. You can see if you there's any sexual feelings then too.

Good luck! X

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Always a social first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What did you discuss, ie expectations?

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

I personally don't ever go to a social with any more expectations than it being a social, it has on occasions turned out to be more but only when it felt right by both or all parties, it's so easy to just ask how relaxed the other person feels and if they feel you might meet again to take the next step, it helps to gauge how things are, if they are more experienced than you let them take the lead. That works from my perspective but I appreciate your circumstanced are different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hopefully get my first girl experience soon

Not sure what's best coffee and chat or go straight in before the nerves start lol "

Often being in the right place at the right time, or experience has taught me where there is a greater opportunity, FAB not included.

To answer you OP, sure everyone is different, usually a relaxed chat maybe over a drink, finding common ground, but generally if the chemestry is there you'll know immediately, kind of undressing each other.

Hope you find what you are looking for and hope it will be trully amazing experience for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight in for us. Time is not easy to come by. We chat a bit. Arrange meet and 99% of the time end up fucking shortly after a few drinks and chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a social, a meet is a two way street

I've walked away from a meet in the past when they have expected play straight away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for a drink,chat and flirt then head somewhere more private.

Hope you have a great time.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Always a social first then if all good arrangements are made for more x

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Of course asocial first but if the planets align then who knows

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Purely depends on how I am feeling, I've done both and had amazing times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of course asocial first but if the planets align then who knows

This is kinda true sometimes, my latest experience was simply a chance conversation.

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By *etCloseMan
over a year ago

north

Go with your gut and be comfortable to say no to something without it causing offence or ruining the night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say social first to get to know each other better

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