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"It's a 3 year apprenticeship "great good job I'm patient  | |||
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"Hi been here 3 weeks I'm polite friendly an had no interest. Am I doing something wrong? Not looking to go through the site just meet someone for abit of fun "Top quality presentation is everything. | |||
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"welcome to the life of a fab maleis it that bad?" Single males outnumber women and couples by about 100-to-1 based on most estimates. Women and couple ladies can get hundreds of messages a day, every day. Any message you send has to beat all of the chaff. It’s a numbers game and I’m afraid you have to play it if you want to be here. Reading profiles properly and picking up on key points will set you apart from many. Get used to rejection; being polite guarantees nothing, but it never hurts.  | |||
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"Find and attend a club. Make actual friends there. Get verified as they’ll prob be on here. Clubs are mentioned on this site. The links will take you to the club pages so you can pick an appropriate night. " thank you | |||
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"welcome to the life of a fab maleis it that bad?" Good times, follow bad times | |||
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"Hi been here 3 weeks I'm polite friendly an had no interest. Am I doing something wrong? Not looking to go through the site just meet someone for abit of fun
Top quality presentation is everything. "thank you | |||
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"Have no expectations and try not to be a dick. You'll survive.... maybe" I'm polite an don't harass but keep plodding on thank you | |||
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"3 weeks..is that all? Some guys have been here for 5 /6 months before they get a bit of interest let alone a meet, hang in there bud! " thank you | |||
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"Hi been here 3 weeks I'm polite friendly an had no interest. Am I doing something wrong? Not looking to go through the site just meet someone for abit of fun "You're a drug (420) using bi guy who says his straight you're going to get lots of meets I'm surprised your not into triple digits by now. No, really it's not how it works you will need to do some leg work especially if you're looking for women and couples. | |||
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"Hi been here 3 weeks I'm polite friendly an had no interest. Am I doing something wrong? Not looking to go through the site just meet someone for abit of fun
You're a drug (420) using bi guy who says his straight you're going to get lots of meets I'm surprised your not into triple digits by now.
No, really it's not how it works you will need to do some leg work especially if you're looking for women and couples."im not a user but don't mind been around people that use it im on as much as I can be so leg work in progress thank you | |||
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"welcome to the life of a fab maleis it that bad?" worse | |||
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Good luck and have fun OP but treat it as fun and not too serious.
No whiney status updates is my one real bit of advice | |||
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"Definitely agree with the going to a club. You will come across better with veris from meeting, especially if you come across as a nice guy. For single ladies they get so many messages and couples you must make sure respect is shown to the male half. You need to stand out a bit. You want your blurb to read really well and be grammatically correct with good punctuation too. It sounds silly but it really matters. Females really do read the blurb. Make it sound good." I will stat with clubs im always polite to the male half out of respect im dyslexic so do struggle with grammar abit but thank you for your input | |||
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"Expect nowt, chat loads and laugh their knickers off
Good luck and have fun OP but treat it as fun and not too serious.
No whiney status updates is my one real bit of advice"thank you | |||
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"oh and dont venture into the virus forum that place is rough" thank you bear it in mind | |||
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"Just had a squint at your profile… you say you’re straight, but in your bio you say you’re new to your bi side….. this will put potential partners off… either your straight or your bi curious, If you didn’t have tattoos, and lived near me, I’d probably chat to you and see where it went… " thank you | |||
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"Just had a squint at your profile… you say you’re straight, but in your bio you say you’re new to your bi side….. this will put potential partners off… either your straight or your bi curious, If you didn’t have tattoos, and lived near me, I’d probably chat to you and see where it went… thank you" That's more than I got when I joined, lol | |||
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"3 weeks is nothing. Give it three years...and then don't get your hopes up too much." thank you | |||
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"Definitely agree with the going to a club. You will come across better with veris from meeting, especially if you come across as a nice guy. For single ladies they get so many messages and couples you must make sure respect is shown to the male half. You need to stand out a bit. You want your blurb to read really well and be grammatically correct with good punctuation too. It sounds silly but it really matters. Females really do read the blurb. Make it sound good.I will stat with clubs im always polite to the male half out of respect im dyslexic so do struggle with grammar abit but thank you for your input " It’s good to be honest about that. People will then be empathetic rather than think you just aren’t bothered. Clubs are definitely a good move. Try chams on a Friday. There are some genuinely lovely guys who have been going for years. If anything else they will give you some great advice too. It’s good to have friends on the scene as well as play mates. | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 06/01/22 14:06:51]" friends would be good as not just after a quick thrill thank you | |||
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"Hi been here 3 weeks I'm polite friendly an had no interest. Am I doing something wrong? Not looking to go through the site just meet someone for abit of fun "You are competing with 200+ other guys sending messages to each female on any given day. It's a numbers game. | |||
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"Hi been here 3 weeks I'm polite friendly an had no interest. Am I doing something wrong? Not looking to go through the site just meet someone for abit of fun "Have a browse through the forum topics - plenty of threads attending to precisely this issue. | |||
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But seriously, just try and focus on making your own profile as good as it can be, attend group socials or a club if you're brave enough. It's all about what you put in that determines what you get out of it. Good luck  | |||
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"You've been here for the 3 weeks over the festive period, did you expect it to be non stop sex on offer to you?" no not at all but a conversation would be nice | |||
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"It's a 3 year apprenticeship great good job I'm patient "Good to hear that you are patient, don’t go leaving the site after 3 wee….. oh wait | |||
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"It's a 3 year apprenticeship great good job I'm patient
Good to hear that you are patient, don’t go leaving the site after 3 wee….. oh wait " | |||
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"Hi been here 3 weeks I'm polite friendly an had no interest. Am I doing something wrong? Not looking to go through the site just meet someone for abit of fun "And 'poof' another guy expecting free easy sex vanishes. Like magic!! | |||
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