FabSwingers.com forum: Why do people

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You’ve never spoke to send friend requests?

If I wanted complete strangers to see my pictures then they’d be public

Does anybody do this and if so, why?

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Strange. And if you accept them, they still say nothing. Most likely guys.

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By *rouble MeWoman
over a year ago

Your Hotlist

Sorry about that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sorry about that

I forgive you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never get them

A perk of being an ugly male

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

Chancers.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Unfortunately because they can. To be honest I never look at who has sent a request x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Strange. And if you accept them, they still say nothing. Most likely guys. "

Funnily enough it’s definitely a higher guy to girl ratio, none are accepted either way, fucking oddballs

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By *rouble MeWoman
over a year ago

Your Hotlist

"Sorry about that

I forgive you "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't even have friends only pics and they still do it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I put it down to my ass looking so good

now I’ve changed my pic maybe I’ll be less desirable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think yourself lucky I don't get them must be my charming personality an bad looks

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

Had this happen to me from a woman who had no pictures on her profile and a shadow avatar. Next time I checked my friends invites, she put a picture up and was pretty fit so went to view her profile and she blocked me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this some sort of reverse psychology?

You say you don't like people sending a friends request just for them to see your friends only photos, so a hot woman will send you a friends request as a joke to "bug" you when in fact you've now got access to all their friends only photos..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Think yourself lucky I don't get them must be my charming personality an bad looks

Well you’d think because I’m a sarcastic dickhead it would be enough to put people off but apparently not

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is this some sort of reverse psychology?

It wasn’t but that could work

I don’t mind them, from people I’ve spoke to, my point was why do people you’ve never spoke to do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I naively wondered (wayyyy back) if it were just another approach … like here look at our pics and see what you think. It was stoooopid I know. So I asked the forum then, before I went any further. Not that daft now lol. I guess there’s some that just like lots on their friends list do accept anyone

If I’m feeling nosey I’ll wait till they’re off and have a beak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whoops finger slipped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think yourself lucky I don't get them must be my charming personality an bad looks

Well you’d think because I’m a sarcastic dickhead it would be enough to put people off but apparently not "
try been nice works for me no one bothers me

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"I naively wondered (wayyyy back) if it were just another approach … like here look at our pics and see what you think. It was stoooopid I know. So I asked the forum then, before I went any further. Not that daft now lol. I guess there’s some that just like lots on their friends list do accept anyone

If I’m feeling nosey I’ll wait till they’re off and have a beak

Damn. It's a shame you're not daft anymore

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I've always thought it was just another way to get attention. Some guys fab all the pictures, wink, message and send a friend request. It can be a bit overkill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You’ve never spoke to send friend requests?

If I wanted complete strangers to see my pictures then they’d be public

Does anybody do this and if so, why?"

I wait until they're offline, accept nosey the pictures then delete

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You’ve never spoke to send friend requests?

If I wanted complete strangers to see my pictures then they’d be public

Does anybody do this and if so, why?

I wait until they're offline, accept nosey the pictures then delete

Smart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive removed all my friends photos, so can accept anyone who sends them unsolicited, and look at their friends pics and then unfriend them. #pettywins

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

They want wank bank material

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I get them I'll look when their offline then unfriend and block , serves them right

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I get them I'll look when their offline then unfriend and block , serves them right

Think I’ll start doing this, unless they’re hot of course

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By *uby StarCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"You’ve never spoke to send friend requests?

If I wanted complete strangers to see my pictures then they’d be public

Does anybody do this and if so, why?

I wait until they're offline, accept nosey the pictures then delete

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.I'm guilty of doing this sometimes too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s just noseyness

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By *urious_Female89Woman
over a year ago

great yarmouth

I've always wonder this.. they often have no intention of chatting either. I even get them and I haven't got any 'friend's only' pics whatsoever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've always wonder this.. they often have no intention of chatting either. I even get them and I haven't got any 'friend's only' pics whatsoever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I leave them in the invite folder. They can’t come back again then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I leave them in the invite folder. They can’t come back again then."

Oh no I can't bear that. I have to clear them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I leave them in the invite folder. They can’t come back again then.

Oh no I can't bear that. I have to clear them! "

I’m silly like that, I giggle like a juvenile at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get random friend requests from people that have on their own profile don't send us a friend request if we've never spoken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I leave them in the invite folder. They can’t come back again then.

Oh no I can't bear that. I have to clear them!

I’m silly like that, I giggle like a juvenile at it. "

I get twitchy with unread messages, much less invites. And you're giggling at them!

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I regularly get people with no photos but some verifications send requests without even talking to me and then keep looking to see if I've accepted it. It's just not going to happen, ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think am extremely lucky , I’ve not had any random friend requests.. I obviously give off the wrong impression

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By *lairekTV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester

I won't send you random friend requests.

No.

I prefer good old fashioned stalking.

By the way, where on earth did you get that bedroom wallpaper from?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybes just curious to see your pics or they thunk your profiles rocking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The reason some pictures are behind the friends wall and not in the public sections is because people do not want everyone to see them.

We have no friends but use it to send the "right" picture to people we trust when we are thinking of something more.

We do have a block list of people who do not speak but just request to see your friends photos.

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