FabSwingers.com forum: Is it possible

By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

To be too nice to be sexy ?

I mean do women lust over nice guys or is it just bad boys and alpha males that make you lust full ?

I think I may be friendzoned very quickly because I’m too polite and friendly .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like nice guys.

I like bad guys.

I like hot guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She likes guys. ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Polite and friendly is NEVER a bad thing, at least not in my book.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"To be too nice to be sexy ?

I mean do women lust over nice guys or is it just bad boys and alpha males that make you lust full ?

I think I may be friendzoned very quickly because I’m too polite and friendly .

is being a woman's friend a bad thing?

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I think you can be nice and have a streak which suggests you aren’t always nice.

But it’ll change with different people as to what level of both you need.

You’ll be the right level for the right people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

I like nice guys.

Nice guys can be sexy, if they're sexy guys.

But the definition of sexy guys and the definition of nice guys is kinda subjective.

Oh it's a confusing world.

Posh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there's an element of truth in it, but not enough to warrant changing your approach. People can be put off by the strangest of things, I once saw a woman say she wouldn't meet blokes who wear a polo shirt. So yeah, I can easily imagine someone mistakenly thinking you'll be a bit dull in the sack because your nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be too nice to be sexy ?

I mean do women lust over nice guys or is it just bad boys and alpha males that make you lust full ?

I think I may be friendzoned very quickly because I’m too polite and friendly .

You can be nice and sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being nice seems to have worked for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to keep them on their toes, I’ll buy flowers but I’ll also push your kids over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you be nice without using the word nice? That could work

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Polite and friendly is NEVER a bad thing, at least not in my book. "

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Polite and friendly is NEVER a bad thing, at least not in my book. "

It’s not …

But it’s not exciting sexy really is it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if your a nice person then why are you trying to sell it ....let others decide if your nice or not ... saying your nice means nothing to others other than a gimmick to sale yourself

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I saw a post on Reddit where "nice guy" was used as a verb someone wrote "I niceguyed out of there"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been called polite and sweet. Ok it's nice but sweet is for five year olds not a grown woman FFS! Lol

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"To be too nice to be sexy ?

I mean do women lust over nice guys or is it just bad boys and alpha males that make you lust full ?

I think I may be friendzoned very quickly because I’m too polite and friendly .

is being a woman's friend a bad thing?

Not at all but it’d be nice to be wanted sexually sometime . I just tend to become friends with ladies

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"To be too nice to be sexy ?

I mean do women lust over nice guys or is it just bad boys and alpha males that make you lust full ?

I think I may be friendzoned very quickly because I’m too polite and friendly .

You can be nice and sexy

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"I like to keep them on their toes, I’ll buy flowers but I’ll also push your kids over"

Haha

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

In my opinion it’s better to lean slightly away from nice when it comes to attraction

They can’t resist a bad boy it seems

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"if your a nice person then why are you trying to sell it ....let others decide if your nice or not ... saying your nice means nothing to others other than a gimmick to sale yourself"

Hey before you jump to me selling it !

It’s what I’ve been told

“Ahh you’re lovely, you’re so nice, you’re such a sweetheart”

Never “fuck your sexy “

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"I've been called polite and sweet. Ok it's nice but sweet is for five year olds not a grown woman FFS! Lol

Yes this is what I mean

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

I'm Polite nice and friendly it's the way my parents have bought me up and it hasn't failed me yet

As for whether it makes me sexy I'll leave that for the friends that I have made on here to decide

With that said I'm having a whale of a time

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

As long as you are not a doormat. Shows weakness which women do not like.

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By *al kalMan
over a year ago

london

Just be yourself. No point trying to fit into a different mould.

Good luck

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I think you can be too nice E.g. You'd think a woman would appreciate a man being accommodating enough to wank himself dry before a meet to guarantee staying power but they're oddly ungrateful after an hour of laborious lovemaking

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"I think you can be too nice E.g. You'd think a woman would appreciate a man being accommodating enough to wank himself dry before a meet to guarantee staying power but they're oddly ungrateful after an hour of laborious lovemaking

Do people make love on fab… ?

I thought the just fucked and screwed

But yes I think I don’t have the edge some bad boys / alpha’s have which women find sexy

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By *evil-AngelWoman
over a year ago

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"To be too nice to be sexy ?

I mean do women lust over nice guys or is it just bad boys and alpha males that make you lust full ?

I think I may be friendzoned very quickly because I’m too polite and friendly .

I'd like a polite and friendly guy to chat with, but who has a cheeky side to him.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

No; I don't think so. I'd much rather someone approached me as a potential friend with a flirty nature than a fuck. There's nothing wrong with being genuinely nice and not a Nice Guy - it's good to be considerate and kind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not, you can be a nice guy, and still be exciting. All the best Doms are big softies.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Nice can still be sexy. Ultimately I want to feel respected and treated well by anyone I play with.

I do know what you mean though as I hate being described as nice too. I just sounds so boring and unremarkable.

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"To be too nice to be sexy ?

I mean do women lust over nice guys or is it just bad boys and alpha males that make you lust full ?

I think I may be friendzoned very quickly because I’m too polite and friendly .

I'd like a polite and friendly guy to chat with, but who has a cheeky side to him."

Don’t mean to blow my own trumpet ….

But that sums me up perfectly

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

No. I like nice men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be too nice to be sexy ?

I mean do women lust over nice guys or is it just bad boys and alpha males that make you lust full ?

I think I may be friendzoned very quickly because I’m too polite and friendly .

I think that anyone who calls them self a “nice” or “good” person, probably isn’t. Polite and friendly is exactly what gets a response - from me, anyway. I can’t speak for others.

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Nice can still be sexy. Ultimately I want to feel respected and treated well by anyone I play with.

I do know what you mean though as I hate being described as nice too. I just sounds so boring and unremarkable.

I think some people think im boring sometimes …

I’d say I lead a more exciting life than your average joe but I don’t do drugs and rarely get d*unk

They don’t know and never find out I’m the best kisser in the north of England and I’m a comical genius

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"No. I like nice men

I’m pretty fly for a white guy

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"To be too nice to be sexy ?

I mean do women lust over nice guys or is it just bad boys and alpha males that make you lust full ?

I think I may be friendzoned very quickly because I’m too polite and friendly .

I think that anyone who calls them self a “nice” or “good” person, probably isn’t. Polite and friendly is exactly what gets a response - from me, anyway. I can’t speak for others. "

I don’t call myself nice … its what I’ve been called

I have great manners , self respect and respect for others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many women are attracted to a bad boy, until they get one.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"No. I like nice men

I’m pretty fly for a white guy

Nice tightey whiteys too. Step into my office young man

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By *il sub princessWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

Bad boys make my fanny flutter

Nice guys get more conversation

Each could lead to something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be too nice to be sexy ?

I mean do women lust over nice guys or is it just bad boys and alpha males that make you lust full ?

I think I may be friendzoned very quickly because I’m too polite and friendly .

I think that anyone who calls them self a “nice” or “good” person, probably isn’t. Polite and friendly is exactly what gets a response - from me, anyway. I can’t speak for others.

I don’t call myself nice … its what I’ve been called

I have great manners , self respect and respect for others

That’s a good thing most women don’t want to be treated like shit

But I know a few people who fall into the friend zone or are unlucky with women not because they are too “nice” but they lack the confidence to step up and move things to the next level

Women feel free to offer an alternative view but most women know within 10 seconds if they fancy you by the way you look and conduct yourself that’s your foot in the door

Personality, sense of humour and treating them well is what gets you through the door and keeps you there

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"To be too nice to be sexy ?

I mean do women lust over nice guys or is it just bad boys and alpha males that make you lust full ?

I think I may be friendzoned very quickly because I’m too polite and friendly .

Polite and friendly doesn't equal nice guy or Nice Guy. The "Nice Guy" is the lapdog with 0 edge and no hint of having integrated his shadow in Jungian terms. Im polite and friendly and used to be a Nice Guy but in my mid 30s my attitude changed a bit and my success with women i meet has increased. In a bar or a club same old slightly cheeky and pretend to be confident but women who I meet sober and in the day i say to myself, if im attracted to her, im not interested in gaining her as a friend to be friend zoned by! That way leads to unrequited bollocks. If you meet a woman you are attracted to and the ocassion allows you to flirt a bit, just flirt.

Women like a confident guy who has the appearance of high social value and is valued by other women. You need to be someone they see as having the possibility of protecting her if needed but in total control of their aggression.

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"To be too nice to be sexy ?

I mean do women lust over nice guys or is it just bad boys and alpha males that make you lust full ?

I think I may be friendzoned very quickly because I’m too polite and friendly .

Not necessarily, I quite like shy guys too

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

How are you defining bad boy?

Rides a motor bike, owns a leather jacket, uses brylcreem and has an arrogant personality?

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"No. I like nice men

I’m pretty fly for a white guy

Nice tightey whiteys too. Step into my office young man

Oooo I like the sound of that

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"To be too nice to be sexy ?

I mean do women lust over nice guys or is it just bad boys and alpha males that make you lust full ?

I think I may be friendzoned very quickly because I’m too polite and friendly .

is being a woman's friend a bad thing?

I’ve loads of female friends.

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Bad boys make my fanny flutter

Nice guys get more conversation

Each could lead to something "

I’d like to be someone that makes fannies flutter

I’m more the guy that’ll make your old Nan (named fanny) laugh and spit her tea out and maybe her false teeth

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"To be too nice to be sexy ?

I mean do women lust over nice guys or is it just bad boys and alpha males that make you lust full ?

I think I may be friendzoned very quickly because I’m too polite and friendly .

is being a woman's friend a bad thing?

I’ve loads of female friends. "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bad boys make my fanny flutter

Nice guys get more conversation

Each could lead to something "

Just punched an old lady and mugged her at a cash machine.. how you doin

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"To be too nice to be sexy ?

I mean do women lust over nice guys or is it just bad boys and alpha males that make you lust full ?

I think I may be friendzoned very quickly because I’m too polite and friendly .

Not necessarily, I quite like shy guys too "

I’m not really shy

I’d like to think I’m just an all round nice fella

But I’ll let you ladies be the judge

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By *il sub princessWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

"Bad boys make my fanny flutter

Nice guys get more conversation

Each could lead to something

Just punched an old lady and mugged her at a cash machine.. how you doin "

Well hello

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By *il sub princessWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

"Bad boys make my fanny flutter

Nice guys get more conversation

Each could lead to something

I’d like to be someone that makes fannies flutter

I’m more the guy that’ll make your old Nan (named fanny) laugh and spit her tea out and maybe her false teeth

Well my nans dead so if you can do that call me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you read my mind from the other day OP.

I do honestly believe that nice guys win in the end but I get what you are saying. Nice guys don’t bring with them the rollercoaster of emotions. We are just solid. Yes you can drive some excitement and be sexy but it will never be the highs and lows as we are anchored to being nice

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

If a guy is polite and friendly to me I assume that he's interested in being my friend and nothing more. I need some sort of signal that he's interested in me in other ways. I quite often return from social meets with men from fab convinced that they aren't interested in taking things further because they haven't given any verbal clues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be too nice to be sexy ?

I mean do women lust over nice guys or is it just bad boys and alpha males that make you lust full ?

I think I may be friendzoned very quickly because I’m too polite and friendly .

One of my man friends is very nice. Too nice.

I prefer the one who wants to bang the fuck out of me and makes that very clear.

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Bad boys make my fanny flutter

Nice guys get more conversation

Each could lead to something

I’d like to be someone that makes fannies flutter

I’m more the guy that’ll make your old Nan (named fanny) laugh and spit her tea out and maybe her false teeth

Well my nans dead so if you can do that call me

Sorry to hear that

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