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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Back 20 years and give your younger self any advice then what would it be?

Mine would be buy shares in Apple and don’t date my last two ex gf’s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine would be don't sell the London flat rent it out

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Nothing, I wouldn't listen to a 65 year old woman whatever age I was

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nothing, I wouldn't listen to a 65 year old woman whatever age I was

That seems fair enough

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mine would be don't sell the London flat rent it out"

Sound advice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep fit, fast metabolism won't stay that way binge drinking and eating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t give up work when you have children, maintain some financial dependence

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Keep fit, fast metabolism won't stay that way binge drinking and eating."

I suffer the consequences of this daily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are not fat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That school isn’t all that bad, really should of stuck at it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You are not fat "

Who, me?

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Holibobs

Don't start smoking go on holiday instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy bitcoin

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By *omerset1976Man
over a year ago

Burnham

Wow…. Too much to list on here! 20 years, I’d change a lot of things, every part of my life would be different, some minimal but some major. Every part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t send that message you life will be totally different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two things from odd points of view;

1. Wished I'd explored my Bi side sooner

2. Bought that bloody Farm House I wanted grrrrrrrrr

J xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Advice I'd give my younger self is :

1) Think before you speak (this applies to various situations)

2) When the handsome and funny Kevin tries to kiss you, don't run away!

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

Invest in apple

Porto will win the champions league in 2004 and Greece will win the euros, get an accumulator done.

Take up the trade you want, your folks are wrong about 6th form.

23 is too young for marriage

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

"Advice I'd give my younger self is :

1) Think before you speak (this applies to various situations)

2) When the handsome and funny Kevin tries to kiss you, don't run away! "

Bridges?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NEVER GET MARRIED

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Invest heavily in Bitcoin when it initially came out and wait a few years to become a multi millionaire

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Leave now whilst the kids are young cos you are stronger than you know and the years ahead will be full of misery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My would be keep a prize don't gamble more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you meet Victoria, marry her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get rid of Nigel Farage, Boris Johnson and Jacob Rees Mogg. Make it look like an accident though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Get rid of Nigel Farage, Boris Johnson and Jacob Rees Mogg. Make it look like an accident though. "

07662154327 that’s my phone number from 20 years ago, I’ll help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In about 20 years there will be some sort of pan.....

(Instantly becomes vaporized in front of younger me, traumatizing me and causing an (ir)rational fear of post and pans)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy Bitcoins when they first came out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Advice I'd give my younger self is :

1) Think before you speak (this applies to various situations)

2) When the handsome and funny Kevin tries to kiss you, don't run away!

Bridges?"

Roads?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Advice I'd give my younger self is :

1) Think before you speak (this applies to various situations)

2) When the handsome and funny Kevin tries to kiss you, don't run away!

Bridges?

Roads? "

Tunnels?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever the wind takes me

Don’t sell the house!

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Buy all the Bitcoin you possibly can, and don't date *her*

LvM

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Take more photographs. Buy apple and early bitcoin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always wear sunscreen....

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

"Advice I'd give my younger self is :

1) Think before you speak (this applies to various situations)

2) When the handsome and funny Kevin tries to kiss you, don't run away!

Bridges?

Roads?

Tunnels?"

Carriageway?

to clarify I was asking if the Kevin mentioned was one Kevin Bridges

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

"Buy all the Bitcoin you possibly can, and don't date *her*

LvM"

I'd have thought you'd be passing on the playbook to your younger self

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Invest every penny you have into BTC

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would tell myself not to be so shy and to pick up on the signs from the ladies. I could have experienced so much more. But then again, I guess I may not have been the person I am now....swings in roundabouts I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many things to write here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy an almanac

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

"Buy an almanac "

Don't forget to warn yourself about the kid and crazy old scientist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Buy an almanac

Don't forget to warn yourself about the kid and crazy old scientist "
and stay out of hill valley

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These are always difficult, because if you change something in the past I'd be unlikely be where we are now, experienced the things I have experienced, discovered my real self. Took many years and much pain, but would I want to change where I am now?. Different life but would it have been a good life?

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Don't stay with and eventually marry your ex fwb just because she got pregnant.

Instead stay friends with her, be a father to the child, and support them both.

Everyone will be happier in the long run.

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By *elshman78Man
over a year ago

South Wales

"Buy an almanac

Don't forget to warn yourself about the kid and crazy old scientist and stay out of hill valley "

Design a time machine that doesn’t require 1.21 gigwatts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would tell my 5 year old self to not be so difficult growing up because my future kids will only act the same and my mother will be in her element with a smug smile on her face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gut instinct always

Don't allow yourself to be swayed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy shares in Apple, Amazon and to keep an eye out for Tesla.... and dont reject Kate Patterson just because you thought it was the right thing to do, let that girl sit on your face and ride you to oblivion....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different career choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You are not fat

Who, me?"

No. It's the advice I'd give myself then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Buy an almanac

Don't forget to warn yourself about the kid and crazy old scientist and stay out of hill valley

Design a time machine that doesn’t require 1.21 gigwatts

Or invent the 'Mr Fusion' before you invent the time machine....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just stay away from all the men!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just stay away from all the men!!"

All of them? Seems a bit drastic

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

Not to sell the 3 bedroom detached house to go and buy a larger property that I couldn't afford.

Don't ask my girlfriend to marry me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You are not fat

Who, me?

No. It's the advice I'd give myself then lol"

Oh ha this was after the gym post, I took it as a motivational pep talk

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

"Buy an almanac

Don't forget to warn yourself about the kid and crazy old scientist and stay out of hill valley

Design a time machine that doesn’t require 1.21 gigwatts

Or invent the 'Mr Fusion' before you invent the time machine...."

I never though Doc invented the Me Fusion, just had one fitted when in the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just stay away from all the men!!

All of them? Seems a bit drastic "

Yes all of them

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

"Buy an almanac

Don't forget to warn yourself about the kid and crazy old scientist and stay out of hill valley "

It'd be for the best

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just stay away from all the men!!

All of them? Seems a bit drastic

Yes all of them"

Fair enough! Arseholes those men

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

Go travelling don't get married until later in life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t waste half your working life in a small family business… you’re only part of the family whilst you’re an underpaid asset.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start liking yourself, dickhead

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

"Start liking yourself, dickhead"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a tough one - I feel 20 years ago people were trying to give me advice but it’s hard to understand that at 18 depending on the delivery. Hmmm so I think I’d suggest a few boring ones alongside some ones to live a little differently, more wild or travel a bit more. I wasn’t unhappy then or now, so I can’t complain too much so it’s hard to say what would be ‘better’ with advice to go crazy or live a different way etc. And who knows how that would have panned out

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