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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone, like myself, enjoy one to ones better than group events, because I usually get told to go to clubs to make friends etc but I just don’t enjoy groups of people, I’d rather enjoy 1-3 people socials.

What’s your thoughts on this and the club scene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your thread made me wonder at what point does the number of people become a 'group'?

Five?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

4-5 plus I’d say. More towards the 5 side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"4-5 plus I’d say. More towards the 5 side "

So 4.75 upwards?

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"4-5 plus I’d say. More towards the 5 side "

If it is more than 5 a side do you need a referee?

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Does anyone, like myself, enjoy one to ones better than group events, because I usually get told to go to clubs to make friends etc but I just don’t enjoy groups of people, I’d rather enjoy 1-3 people socials.

What’s your thoughts on this and the club scene "
I won't do 121.. only do club stuff x

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By *ew sensationMan
over a year ago

widnes


"Does anyone, like myself, enjoy one to ones better than group events, because I usually get told to go to clubs to make friends etc but I just don’t enjoy groups of people, I’d rather enjoy 1-3 people socials.

What’s your thoughts on this and the club scene I won't do 121.. only do club stuff x "
. . . Just being nosey but why ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone, like myself, enjoy one to ones better than group events, because I usually get told to go to clubs to make friends etc but I just don’t enjoy groups of people, I’d rather enjoy 1-3 people socials.

What’s your thoughts on this and the club scene I won't do 121.. only do club stuff x "

Same here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"4-5 plus I’d say. More towards the 5 side

So 4.75 upwards? "

4.5 meet halfway?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"4-5 plus I’d say. More towards the 5 side

If it is more than 5 a side do you need a referee?"

Suiiiiii!

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By *byeguysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Paisley

We enjoy clubs. It’s a chance to network within the community.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Does anyone, like myself, enjoy one to ones better than group events, because I usually get told to go to clubs to make friends etc but I just don’t enjoy groups of people, I’d rather enjoy 1-3 people socials.

What’s your thoughts on this and the club scene I won't do 121.. only do club stuff x . . . Just being nosey but why ?"
its more relaxed at clubs than private meets

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I'm yet to experience clubs but this year that's going to change. I like 1 on 1 meets though and meeting couples

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By *itzi999Woman
over a year ago

Slough


"Does anyone, like myself, enjoy one to ones better than group events, because I usually get told to go to clubs to make friends etc but I just don’t enjoy groups of people, I’d rather enjoy 1-3 people socials.

What’s your thoughts on this and the club scene "

I only do gang bangs. It's rare for me to do a 1 to 1.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Does anyone, like myself, enjoy one to ones better than group events, because I usually get told to go to clubs to make friends etc but I just don’t enjoy groups of people, I’d rather enjoy 1-3 people socials.

What’s your thoughts on this and the club scene

I only do gang bangs. It's rare for me to do a 1 to 1. "
that's pretty much me to be fair x

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I can get very shy in groups so I get you completely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each has its benefits…. I’ve only been to Pandora’s once and that was for one of Feisty Butterfly’s events & I really enjoyed the social side, especially having chatted in a group beforehand and knowing who I was going to meet there. It felt safe and inclusive as a single woman. Also I liked the fact that that there were limited single & verified men there, so I felt I could observe without getting pounced on! Not saying I’m all that, either!

The clubs really need to get air con - I’d rather have fun at home!! But that comes with risks. Maybe check out 11th Feb event at Pandora’s and depending how I feel on the day - I might see you there!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does anyone, like myself, enjoy one to ones better than group events, because I usually get told to go to clubs to make friends etc but I just don’t enjoy groups of people, I’d rather enjoy 1-3 people socials.

What’s your thoughts on this and the club scene

I only do gang bangs. It's rare for me to do a 1 to 1. "

I enjoy 1-1 as I get to spend all my time solely on her. More of a connection

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can get very shy in groups so I get you completely."

I’m not really a shy person, If there’s a group I tend to sit back and observe which is all I do haha. Where as if it’s just me and 1-2 people I can talk for hours none stop.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Each has its benefits…. I’ve only been to Pandora’s once and that was for one of Feisty Butterfly’s events & I really enjoyed the social side, especially having chatted in a group beforehand and knowing who I was going to meet there. It felt safe and inclusive as a single woman. Also I liked the fact that that there were limited single & verified men there, so I felt I could observe without getting pounced on! Not saying I’m all that, either!

The clubs really need to get air con - I’d rather have fun at home!! But that comes with risks. Maybe check out 11th Feb event at Pandora’s and depending how I feel on the day - I might see you there!

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Yeah, some of us made a kik group for leeds socials etc and I was going to attend one but then I didn’t go. In my opinion I just wouldn’t enjoy it haha. Too many new people to meet haha. I prefer staying to my self which is good and bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each has its benefits…. I’ve only been to Pandora’s once and that was for one of Feisty Butterfly’s events & I really enjoyed the social side, especially having chatted in a group beforehand and knowing who I was going to meet there. It felt safe and inclusive as a single woman. Also I liked the fact that that there were limited single & verified men there, so I felt I could observe without getting pounced on! Not saying I’m all that, either!

The clubs really need to get air con - I’d rather have fun at home!! But that comes with risks. Maybe check out 11th Feb event at Pandora’s and depending how I feel on the day - I might see you there!

Yeah, some of us made a kik group for leeds socials etc and I was going to attend one but then I didn’t go. In my opinion I just wouldn’t enjoy it haha. Too many new people to meet haha. I prefer staying to my self which is good and bad "

I felt the same until I went. I took a friend with me and we enjoyed the social side more that we thought we would. We’ve both since met people, who we met on that night, so they do have their perks lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn’t enjoy a club, or a social event so I’ll tend to lean towards meeting folk 1-2-1, or a 3sum.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I prefer 1-2-1 or 1-2-3 as I'm easily distracted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can honestly say I've never been to a club. I am curious though, I will have to try someday I guess. So, the honest answer is I dont know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been to a club and have no interest in doing so anytime soon.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"Does anyone, like myself, enjoy one to ones better than group events, because I usually get told to go to clubs to make friends etc but I just don’t enjoy groups of people, I’d rather enjoy 1-3 people socials.

What’s your thoughts on this and the club scene I won't do 121.. only do club stuff x "

I don't blame you Little Miss Cali, a hundred and twenty one be far too much even for you

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Clubs are great fun and, with bouncers about, are more safe where it comes to meeting strangers.

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK


"Does anyone, like myself, enjoy one to ones better than group events, because I usually get told to go to clubs to make friends etc but I just don’t enjoy groups of people, I’d rather enjoy 1-3 people socials.

What’s your thoughts on this and the club scene "

But if you go to clubs and socialise, you’re then more likely to meet people who will socialise with you in smaller groups or 1-1.

It doesn’t have to be one or the other…

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We find it's easier to go to a club to meet other couples now.

You can see all parties and have a drink chat and see where it goes.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

like bit of both you got mix things up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to a club once.

Even had fun with a lovely lady

I didn't enjoy the vibe.

Much prefer a 1-2-1 meet

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

I’d go to clubs if it wasn’t so expensive for single guys

I just can’t justify couples and women getting in for 3-5x less than me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the feedback, it’s nice knowing I’m not the only one that prefers 1-2-1’s haha. I shall think about clubs, won’t put it completely off lol

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Clubs, purpose built rooms, less entitlement and always more options regarding numbers and sexuality.

Only time I enter into 1-2-1’s is if a D/s relationship is developing and things need exploring in a more sensitive way.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Prefer clubs. You can talk to people no pressure etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attended a few clubs, a greedy girls event, all years a ago. Came away thinking they're not for me..same with meeting couples..

What I learnt about myself is that I'm very 'vanilla'. I prefer 1-2-1, I'm not a swinger, I just don't do well in groups as a rule..

I'm reconsidering that position..but not for clubs though, that's absolutely out.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Does anyone, like myself, enjoy one to ones better than group events, because I usually get told to go to clubs to make friends etc but I just don’t enjoy groups of people, I’d rather enjoy 1-3 people socials.

What’s your thoughts on this and the club scene "

I've found the club scene very disappointing to be a solo male in; if you're not with "an established group of friends" forget it. Much prefer private meets in more comfortable, intimate surroundings

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Does anyone, like myself, enjoy one to ones better than group events, because I usually get told to go to clubs to make friends etc but I just don’t enjoy groups of people, I’d rather enjoy 1-3 people socials.

What’s your thoughts on this and the club scene "

When in a club I mainly onl 1 to 1s, it's not mandatory to only partake in group activities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy the club scene, and thoroughly love watching, and playing, but I can sometimes enjoy having fun in a more private intimate meet with a couple of other people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can get very shy in groups so I get you completely.

I’m not really a shy person, If there’s a group I tend to sit back and observe which is all I do haha. Where as if it’s just me and 1-2 people I can talk for hours none stop. "

This is me

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Does anyone, like myself, enjoy one to ones better than group events, because I usually get told to go to clubs to make friends etc but I just don’t enjoy groups of people, I’d rather enjoy 1-3 people socials.

What’s your thoughts on this and the club scene I won't do 121.. only do club stuff x

I don't blame you Little Miss Cali, a hundred and twenty one be far too much even for you "
oh I'd give it a damned good try lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the feedback, it’s nice knowing I’m not the only one that prefers 1-2-1’s haha. I shall think about clubs, won’t put it completely off lol"

If you’ve never tried, you’ll never know for sure. Can you come back and update us when you try one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy both: 1-2-1’s involving hrs of play and sleazy but fun clubs with hrs of play involving numerous peeps. Is all good fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can get very shy in groups so I get you completely.

I’m not really a shy person, If there’s a group I tend to sit back and observe which is all I do haha. Where as if it’s just me and 1-2 people I can talk for hours none stop.

This is me "

Haha snaps

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks for the feedback, it’s nice knowing I’m not the only one that prefers 1-2-1’s haha. I shall think about clubs, won’t put it completely off lol

If you’ve never tried, you’ll never know for sure. Can you come back and update us when you try one? "

I highly doubt I will but never say never. From previous group gatherings I’ve been to in the past I never enjoy them

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