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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would you be able to be with someone could never give you oral?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No its a big deal for me and I don't mean 3 licks then done. I mean bury your face oral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how much you like oral, and how much you like the person that’s not giving you oral

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By *orkieBiFemWoman
over a year ago

Barnsley

No way. I dated someone and he point blank refused to go down on me or any girl. It’s the only way I cum other than a vibrator on my clit so felt like I was wiping out a huge part of my sex lift for him. He also couldn’t articulate whilst he didn’t want to do it. Anal I get but not oral…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stayed with someone for over 15 years and he never did. Really feel stupid now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if she has the old death breath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hell yeah, we'd get someone else in on the act if she didn't want to do it. I certainly wouldn't be with her if there was any more restrictions than that though!! I have no great desire for bj's anyway - I love giving oral but can take or leave a bj, so it certainly wouldn't be a deal breaker!"

Would it be if she didn't like it on her??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No way. I dated someone and he point blank refused to go down on me or any girl. It’s the only way I cum other than a vibrator on my clit so felt like I was wiping out a huge part of my sex lift for him. He also couldn’t articulate whilst he didn’t want to do it. Anal I get but not oral…"

Some strange people about! It’s one of life’s greatest pleasures going down on a girl, why even have a mouth if you’re not going to use it to it’s full potential

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you be able to be with someone could never give you oral? "

Probably not to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *uddly GoblinMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Yes, much prefer to give oral than receive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hell yeah, we'd get someone else in on the act if she didn't want to do it. I certainly wouldn't be with her if there was any more restrictions than that though!! I have no great desire for bj's anyway - I love giving oral but can take or leave a bj, so it certainly wouldn't be a deal breaker!

Would it be if she didn't like it on her??"

Oh, now that's a different thing because I really do love giving and rimming. Again we could find ways around it by bringing other people in, but until you asked I hadn't really thought about how much it would actually affect my life. I would probably be put off, yes. Thank god that is hypothetical!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn’t miss hand job but to miss out on a blow job - hell no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it's a deal breaker as if she's ot goin to give me oral there would be no 69 and I love a good old 69

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hell yeah, we'd get someone else in on the act if she didn't want to do it. I certainly wouldn't be with her if there was any more restrictions than that though!! I have no great desire for bj's anyway - I love giving oral but can take or leave a bj, so it certainly wouldn't be a deal breaker!

Would it be if she didn't like it on her??

Oh, now that's a different thing because I really do love giving and rimming. Again we could find ways around it by bringing other people in, but until you asked I hadn't really thought about how much it would actually affect my life. I would probably be put off, yes. Thank god that is hypothetical!!! "

Haha you're welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you be able to be with someone could never give you oral? "

I was with someone for 5 years who never did it. Didn’t bother me.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how nice her tits are.

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By *nto the LouWoman
over a year ago

Preston

Absolutely, I’m not really much of a fan, it’s not something I ever crave. It might be a deal breaker if I could never give it!

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Absolutely could. Receiving oral is fine.... but I'd rather give it

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By *adbod7519Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Nope. I love oral

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By *entative_steps7781Couple
over a year ago

Home

Yep, there are many other ways to make me cum, amd if it is their preference then I am completely OK with not receiving. I do love to give tho!

MJ x

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Wouldn't bother me a tiny bit. Oral doesn't turn me off, but it wouldn't make the top 100 things I enjoy either.

It'll get me off, but so will sitting on the ridge of my sofa cushions; that's setting the bar ridiculously low.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would really depend on the reason for them being unable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes...but I'd be disappointed if i wasn't allowed to give oral

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge

Not being able to give oral would be a deal breaker. Not receiving? I’d have to be pretty keen on her to be ok with that.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I'd be ok with that, wouldn't bother me at all

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Only if he was happy to accept that I would also be with others that could do that with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeh id be fine with it

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Probably not. I don’t crave it but sometimes it’s just a good way to relax, to lie back and have your muff munched.

And never is a long time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No its a big deal for me and I don't mean 3 licks then done. I mean bury your face oral "

now thats my kinda oral

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By *rixieMeWoman
over a year ago

Farfarfar away

I’ve had oral that’s left me cold and wished they’d never bothered and oral that’s blown my socks off, but until they try you never know. So I suppose what I’m saying I can take it or leave it but I would miss sock blowing oral!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a dog

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Would you be able to be with someone could never give you oral? "

No. Definitely a deal breaker for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I prefer not to receive oral anyway.

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

If I really liked her - and I was getting lots of sex - possibly. But I'd prefer to receive (and give)

Mr

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get a dog "

Pass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get a dog

Pass"

I think it’s Fetch

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By *heonix_flamesWoman
over a year ago

Midlands

I have done, and it’s been very frustrating, particularly when I’m very happy to give and they don’t. I would often choose oral over full sex so that makes it worse for me. I’m not ever anticipating being in a relationship again, but not sure I could be with someone who doesn’t do it again. Would depend on the rest of our sex life.

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By *rouble MeWoman
over a year ago

Your Hotlist

Yes I could. Not a fan of receiving or giving.

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