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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it just me that's loosing interest in being here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I go through stages of being on here, I just take a break and come back on

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Is it just me that's loosing interest in being here "

Well you've been here not long enough to experience where things are tbf and still going through a pandemic Rome wasn't built in few months

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it just me that's loosing interest in being here

Well you've been here not long enough to experience where things are tbf and still going through a pandemic Rome wasn't built in few months"

Been here a lot longer than this profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often find myself wondering the same, questioning why i’m here, a one in a billion chance of my consciousness existing and here I am but to what end, what is the meaning of it all, why am I here? oh, did you mean FAB?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Probably not.

My interest comes and goes. Don't think I logged in in 2018

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I often find myself wondering the same, questioning why i’m here, a one in a billion chance of my consciousness existing and here I am but to what end, what is the meaning of it all, why am I here? oh, did you mean FAB?"

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Is it just me that's loosing interest in being here

Well you've been here not long enough to experience where things are tbf and still going through a pandemic Rome wasn't built in few months

Been here a lot longer than this profile "

But still going through a pandemic and why exactly are you loosing interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure I'll ever lose interest in hot naked guys and hot naked women.

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent


"Is it just me that's loosing interest in being here "

It’s not just you, but I live in hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not sure I'll ever lose interest in hot naked guys and hot naked women. "

I’ll drink to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, I have lost interest in you being here!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope, I have lost interest in you being here! "
you won't miss me then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope, I have lost interest in you being here! you won't miss me then "

Who said that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope, I have lost interest in you being here! you won't miss me then

Who said that!"

No idea

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By *andlingswingersCouple
over a year ago

Woodbridge

Whatever Our Glorious Leader believes, most people are not stupid. There is a pandemic happening. Any doctor will tell you that people are still being hospitalised and people are still dying of it, and the new variant is not the "just like flu" BS he wants you to think.

All of that puts a bit of a crimp in meeting anyone new, quite apart from any issues such as profiles, pictures, too far, too old/young, quality of message and everything else.

It's a pain. Other than saying "I'll bring a lateral flow test to the first meet, we'll sit opposite on a long table, both test and if it's only one stripe after 20 minutes then we're good to go" I don't see a way forward that isn't Russian roulette. That said, bring your own pair of test strips to a meet and go slowly isn't actually a crazy idea.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Is it just me that's loosing interest in being here

Well you've been here not long enough to experience where things are tbf and still going through a pandemic Rome wasn't built in few months

Been here a lot longer than this profile "

So if that's the case you didn't lose interest to come back

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Whatever Our Glorious Leader believes, most people are not stupid. There is a pandemic happening. Any doctor will tell you that people are still being hospitalised and people are still dying of it, and the new variant is not the "just like flu" BS he wants you to think.

All of that puts a bit of a crimp in meeting anyone new, quite apart from any issues such as profiles, pictures, too far, too old/young, quality of message and everything else.

It's a pain. Other than saying "I'll bring a lateral flow test to the first meet, we'll sit opposite on a long table, both test and if it's only one stripe after 20 minutes then we're good to go" I don't see a way forward that isn't Russian roulette. That said, bring your own pair of test strips to a meet and go slowly isn't actually a crazy idea.

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That doesn't explain me losing interest in 2018

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea same, so usually hide profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, but it’s relatively early days for me. I used to feel that way sometimes when doing the online dating, so had a hiatus and then back to it when ready. We all need to refresh and reset once in a while.

Hugs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I will say though, is that if Fab consisted only of the messaging and no forum, I’d have left ages ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me that's loosing interest in being here "

What are you loosing interest in, lack of meets, messages or something else ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me that's loosing interest in being here "

There will be others feeling the same.

Take a break and don't log in and/or hide your profile perhaps.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it just me that's loosing interest in being here

There will be others feeling the same.

Take a break and don't log in and/or hide your profile perhaps."

Nothing really worth hiding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jokes aside, I deleted my old profile, took a years break from anything online, deleted social media etc and only recently came back on here, I felt/feel much better for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I will say though, is that if Fab consisted only of the messaging and no forum, I’d have left ages ago."

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Came for the search, stayed for the toot

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Nope, definitely not just you.

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By *uby StarCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Not just you. It's the forum that keeps me here, especially at the moment.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

What is your interest on here though?

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By *abrosMan
over a year ago

Orpington

get that bus trip organised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been here for 8 years and I still wonder what the hell for lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our interest comes and goes tbh

Mrs x

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

Been back for about 20 minutes after a long time away...

Thinking that might be enough for this year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not just you. It's the forum that keeps me here, especially at the moment."

Same!

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

You've been you've come back, answer you own question.

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By *atandasmileMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Losing interest."

I usually resist the urge but loosing vs. losing is one of the ones that I find difficult to let go for some reason. I guess everyone has their quirks .

For the (no doubt very few) interested souls, "loosing" means releasing something or letting it go (most examples are with animals like dogs). It's also what you call "shooting" an arrow from a bow.

Here for the grammar corrections, obviously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Losing interest."

I usually resist the urge but loosing vs. losing is one of the ones that I find difficult to let go for some reason. I guess everyone has their quirks .

For the (no doubt very few) interested souls, "loosing" means releasing something or letting it go (most examples are with animals like dogs). It's also what you call "shooting" an arrow from a bow.

Here for the grammar corrections, obviously."

Always one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often have no idea why I'm still here.

I think that's just part of the fab journey for a lot of people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with you op

I left and came back because I thought I missed it....turns out I dont miss it....the forums now just seem to be on repeat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've gone and drifted back more than once..

If I go again at any point, I think I'll hold on to my profile this time.

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By *atandasmileMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


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Always one"

Yeah, sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been here a lot longer than this profile "

^ is the truth. Wonko has been here (albeit on/off) a good while

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Been here a lot longer than this profile

^ is the truth. Wonko has been here (albeit on/off) a good while "

There are a few that would prefer I was off

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Been here a lot longer than this profile

^ is the truth. Wonko has been here (albeit on/off) a good while

There are a few that would prefer I was off "

Then block and continue to enjoy the site but you haven't still explained why you are loosing interest

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I think most of us wonder why we're here but if we decide to take a break we're usually back here before long, that's been the case for me anyway.

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

I'm just here for the tit pics and forum nonsense, I stopped worrying about meeting people years ago.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

Nope, it’s why I’ve hidden my profile. I seem to be doing that more and more lately.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Been here a lot longer than this profile

^ is the truth. Wonko has been here (albeit on/off) a good while

There are a few that would prefer I was off

Then block and continue to enjoy the site but you haven't still explained why you are loosing interest "

That's not his style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me that's loosing interest in being here "

I posted the same thing last week and honestly there is nice people as you prob will realise by what people say on here,

Have a few days brake and come back, get rid of all the negative people and speak to the ones that are nice it makes a big difference,

Happy fabbing bud

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

No dont think will ever loose interest here! X

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