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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Like you have plenty to hold on to while I fuck you.

I love a females body that will jiggle while I fuck it.

Your ass looks huge. I'd love to fuck it.

Am I the only one who gets these insults that guys are sure are compliments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on who is saying it and how.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't say I've had those comments but looking at your pictures you do have a great arse.

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By *ltra72Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

It’s like when guys call women sluts, surely women don’t like this ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was asked last night if I'd had booty implants lol, wasn't meant nor taken as insulting.

I think you need to judge on the context.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like you have plenty to hold on to while I fuck you.

I love a females body that will jiggle while I fuck it.

Your ass looks huge. I'd love to fuck it.

Am I the only one who gets these insults that guys are sure are compliments "

I think this type of clumsy insult comes from guys wanting to say something, but but being able to either be honest or articulate enough to get it right. Without putting words into your mouth I’m guessing “I love your arse” would be received better but that seems like a really generic thing to say so it gets followed up with something less pleasant to hear. I guess there’s also a line between the difference of wanting to hear they like your x y or z and of why they like it. I love your Tits, they remind me of my neighbour… etc. hopefully there is solace in knowing they are appreciative in some way and willing to say so, even if they have (as they say in Finland) “a mouth full of ugly things”

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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You’ve got a great body for a mum

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I often get told I have a big arse. And I do, so I’m usually first to mention it’s voluminous size. I think a lot of men do really like a big bum though.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

You look great...for your age.

I always laugh when people say this, (it's not just men). Just say "you look great" don't add a condition.

Someone once told me I'd look good if I had money and when I was younger that I'd look great when I was older .

They don't intend to insult

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By *ltra72Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"You look great...for your age.

I always laugh when people say this, (it's not just men). Just say "you look great" don't add a condition.

Someone once told me I'd look good if I had money and when I was younger that I'd look great when I was older .

They don't intend to insult "

I get the “ you look great for your age” on a daily basis , several times . I’m not a fan but I don’t take offence, I see it as a clumsy compliment.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Why would anyone want to fuck a fat c@#t like you?"

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By *ltra72Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


""Why would anyone want to fuck a fat c@#t like you?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You look great...for your age.

I always laugh when people say this, (it's not just men). Just say "you look great" don't add a condition.

Someone once told me I'd look good if I had money and when I was younger that I'd look great when I was older .

They don't intend to insult

I get the “ you look great for your age” on a daily basis , several times . I’m not a fan but I don’t take offence, I see it as a clumsy compliment.

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I think thats the smart way to see it. Well intentioned but slightly cack handed.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Yes get the bum one often and the good for age one! Love em though x

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

OMG

Sorry to take amusement at this, but some of these backhanded compliments have made me cackle as much as they've made me face-palm.

I'm pretty sure I'm guilty of clumsily insulting people I'm trying desperately to compliment, but as the general consensus in here suggests, I promise you it comes from being an awkward idiot with good intentions rather than a vindictive prick.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OMG

Sorry to take amusement at this, but some of these backhanded compliments have made me cackle as much as they've made me face-palm.

I'm pretty sure I'm guilty of clumsily insulting people I'm trying desperately to compliment, but as the general consensus in here suggests, I promise you it comes from being an awkward idiot with good intentions rather than a vindictive prick. "

It can be amusing at times

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"OMG

Sorry to take amusement at this, but some of these backhanded compliments have made me cackle as much as they've made me face-palm.

I'm pretty sure I'm guilty of clumsily insulting people I'm trying desperately to compliment, but as the general consensus in here suggests, I promise you it comes from being an awkward idiot with good intentions rather than a vindictive prick.

It can be amusing at times "

I'm glad to hear it! You are most definitely incredibly attractive, so you absolutely shouldn't take a badly thought out compliment too personally.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I gave a deep male grunt of approval o/p when I saw your profile picture. Says it all really without uttering any words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually get "nice cock for an old bloke"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look good for your age....jeez thanks.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I can’t say I’ve ever encountered any of those comments in my 3 + years on fab

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By *urved HunnyWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"It’s like when guys call women sluts, surely women don’t like this ?"

I hate being called a slut, really really do

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By *all Guy 00Man
over a year ago

Dumfries

Get quite a few.

From derogatory comments about to weight to comments abouts my dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are one of the hairiest guys I’ve seen

I mean thanks but talk about giving me a complex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whether something is intended as an insult is in the mind of the person saying it. Whether it is perceived as an insult is in the mind of the person hearing it.

If its factual and a guy says he likes it then I don't personally think it's an insult. I understand why you would find it insulting though so it's not the kind of thing I would say without knowing it would be well recieved. That's more about tact though than whether or not the comment is an insult.

Mr

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

You'd be pretty if you weren't ginger is the one that hurt the most.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You'd be pretty if you weren't ginger is the one that hurt the most.

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Your pretty and have beautiful red hair - two compliments for the price of one

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whether something is intended as an insult is in the mind of the person saying it. Whether it is perceived as an insult is in the mind of the person hearing it.

If its factual and a guy says he likes it then I don't personally think it's an insult. I understand why you would find it insulting though so it's not the kind of thing I would say without knowing it would be well recieved. That's more about tact though than whether or not the comment is an insult.

Mr"

"I want to get my hands on your massive tits" is horny from my friend. From anyone else I'd be pissed off.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"You'd be pretty if you weren't ginger is the one that hurt the most.

Your pretty and have beautiful red hair - two compliments for the price of one

Mr"

Why thank you, not too shabby looking yourself either

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About

Ah the good ol' back handed compliment.

You've got a cute face for radio presenter

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can’t say I’ve ever encountered any of those comments in my 3 + years on fab "

Well lucky you then. I guess

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By *eneralPMan
over a year ago

other

“It’s not you, it’s me…”

Yeah, YOU don’t like me

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"You look great...for your age.

I always laugh when people say this, (it's not just men). Just say "you look great" don't add a condition.

Someone once told me I'd look good if I had money and when I was younger that I'd look great when I was older .

They don't intend to insult "

I had that one once.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

You speak really well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you're the best TV on this site" I mean it's not an insult but still a bit of a Huh? Moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You speak really well "

That’s a great one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You speak really well "

I've had that one...but then, I do look like a pup from the ghetto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like you have plenty to hold on to while I fuck you.

I love a females body that will jiggle while I fuck it.

Your ass looks huge. I'd love to fuck it.

Am I the only one who gets these insults that guys are sure are compliments "

They're compliments & true

Get over yourself

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By *ad Bod AdonisMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

If you lost 20 pounds you'd be quite attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like you have plenty to hold on to while I fuck you.

I love a females body that will jiggle while I fuck it.

Your ass looks huge. I'd love to fuck it.

Am I the only one who gets these insults that guys are sure are compliments

They're compliments & true

Get over yourself "

Nah. She can find them insulting if they're directed at her. You might find having your ass called huge a compliment but I wouldn't.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford


"You speak really well

That’s a great one "

It’s one of those ones that absolutely says more about them than it does me

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford


"You speak really well

I've had that one...but then, I do look like a pup from the ghetto"

I don’t know what they expect or want me to sound like but I’m all about shattering expectations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You'd be pretty if you weren't ginger is the one that hurt the most.

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That brings back horrible memories of when it was said to me. Another popular one was 'you're not bad for a ginger'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a message saying "I saw your pictures and judged you, read your profile and was surprised to see how intelligent you are"

Like wtf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oooh, your English is really good" Which is usually a precursor to..."where were you born?"

And is then followed by me saying "cheque please"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When someone calls me skinny.

Even though i’m not, i’m healthy and fit.

Plain rude.

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"You look great...for your age.

I always laugh when people say this, (it's not just men). Just say "you look great" don't add a condition.

Someone once told me I'd look good if I had money and when I was younger that I'd look great when I was older .

They don't intend to insult

I get the “ you look great for your age” on a daily basis , several times . I’m not a fan but I don’t take offence, I see it as a clumsy compliment.

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You look great for your age MissAdventure69.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I have a condition, and not trying to hide it, I do receive my fair share of insults

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is actually now a thread which starts with many people on here look good for their age - I didnt start it

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Some lady (she was actually fit) messaged saying "she liked my profile & i looked like a real man just what she was looking for"

Instant turn off for me! I find the phrase 'real man/woman' insulting

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By *eMyLoverWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Someone called me a dead bitch on here yesterday I think I dodged a bullet there by not meeting up with him x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone called me a dead bitch on here yesterday I think I dodged a bullet there by not meeting up with him x"

Lucky escape!!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Someone called me a dead bitch on here yesterday I think I dodged a bullet there by not meeting up with him x"

I'm sure he's back at the crèche today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As ever you’re to old !

You’re to fat !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few messages on here along the lines of

"I've always wanted to fuck a older woman"

I'm only 32 ffs most of them have been off blokes maybe a few years younger than me so yeah ok, I am older than them but I don't want to be classed as a older woman yet.

I don't feel like a proper grownup yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some lady (she was actually fit) messaged saying "she liked my profile & i looked like a real man just what she was looking for"

Instant turn off for me! I find the phrase 'real man/woman' insulting "

I find being called a real woman a turn off. It just seems to put others down by default.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone called me a dead bitch on here yesterday I think I dodged a bullet there by not meeting up with him x"

That is more than unpleasant - its nasty - I hope it didnt upset you too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Christ people can be nasty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being called a "pervert"

When all you have done sent a nice polite CLEAN message to what you thought was a nice sounding women, who's profile does not have any restrictions

Really pis.....es me off

J xx

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford


""Oooh, your English is really good" Which is usually a precursor to..."where were you born?"

And is then followed by me saying "cheque please"

"

Where are you from?

No….where are you ‘really’ from/Where are you parents from?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“I’ve never slept with a black woman”

Not my problem

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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield


"You look good for your age....jeez thanks. "

I can see why that'd be insulting. Good is an understatement. You look *amazing* for your age.

...oh...

...wait...

I got that wrong, didn't I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your only on here because you lack social confidence and your ugly

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford


"Your only on here because you lack social confidence and your ugly"

Nothing complementary about that! That’s just vile

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

The bloke I lost my virginity to (who was a fair bit older than I) thought it would be a great time to comment on my love handles.

Thankfully I then went on to have a long term relationship with a man who made me feel like sex on legs and who himself was a sex god.

That’s karma, bitch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"“I’ve never slept with a black woman”

Not my problem "

I can imagine that gets on your wick! I get "always wanted an older woman" - yeah, and? Are we all interchangeable?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"“I’ve never slept with a black woman”

Not my problem

I can imagine that gets on your wick! I get "always wanted an older woman" - yeah, and? Are we all interchangeable? "

It does because as far as I know my vagina is the same as yours and any other womens, but there was that one time it was giving away gold coins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"“I’ve never slept with a black woman”

Not my problem

I can imagine that gets on your wick! I get "always wanted an older woman" - yeah, and? Are we all interchangeable?

It does because as far as I know my vagina is the same as yours and any other womens, but there was that one time it was giving away gold coins "

Minted!

It's just objectifying people isn't it whatever the "feature" is that people hone in on.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I sent a pic to a well known forum couple who started a facepic Friday thread a few years ago.

Rather than reciprocate in the spirit of their own thread they decided it would be much more fun to tell me that I might be hot if I wasn't Irish.

Strangely they've never suggested that approach when they tell us all to be kind and look out for each other.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

This may not count, but find it painful when you've been chatting to someone and then ghosted without any explanation.

.

Saying nothing can be just as hurtful.

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By *eMyLoverWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Someone called me a dead bitch on here yesterday I think I dodged a bullet there by not meeting up with him x

That is more than unpleasant - its nasty - I hope it didnt upset you too much.

No I'm ok It wasn't the first time someone said something nasty to me I don't care I think in a situations like that you know who is a man and who is a boy still

Thank you for asking tho xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone called me a dead bitch on here yesterday I think I dodged a bullet there by not meeting up with him x

That is more than unpleasant - its nasty - I hope it didnt upset you too much.

No I'm ok It wasn't the first time someone said something nasty to me I don't care I think in a situations like that you know who is a man and who is a boy still

Thank you for asking tho xx"

I suppose the plus is that you saw early on that he was spiteful and petulant

Ive only had abuse a couple of times but then I dont get many messages. I think its me not liking celery that tips them over the edge

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By *elshman78Man
over a year ago

South Wales

Not acceptable, but I’m sure nervous have a big part to play in this I suppose.

Some guys find it very hard to talk to women & also watch to much porn.

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By *elshman78Man
over a year ago

South Wales

P.S. you do have a fantastic ass though.

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By *ustauseerTV/TS
over a year ago

Sedgemoor

Omg I couldn’t tell untill you spoke. Fuck off innit. It’s always quite hilarious watching people try and interact with me because some of them have no idea how to speak to women and it’s incredibly apparent when they try speak.

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By *olly SwallowsTV/TS
over a year ago

Sexville

You look pretty good for a dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This may not count, but find it painful when you've been chatting to someone and then ghosted without any explanation.

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Saying nothing can be just as hurtful. "

I agree CG. It's really crappy. I am trying atm to be much more upfront with chats if I don't want to keep talking. Rather than just fade out or never say anything. I need to go do that now actually.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"This may not count, but find it painful when you've been chatting to someone and then ghosted without any explanation.

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Saying nothing can be just as hurtful.

I agree CG. It's really crappy. I am trying atm to be much more upfront with chats if I don't want to keep talking. Rather than just fade out or never say anything. I need to go do that now actually. "

You very upfront with me. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This may not count, but find it painful when you've been chatting to someone and then ghosted without any explanation.

.

Saying nothing can be just as hurtful.

I agree CG. It's really crappy. I am trying atm to be much more upfront with chats if I don't want to keep talking. Rather than just fade out or never say anything. I need to go do that now actually.

You very upfront with me. X"

A few things men have said on other threads made me think I need to be very clear. Rather than shy away from saying it straight .

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"This may not count, but find it painful when you've been chatting to someone and then ghosted without any explanation.

.

Saying nothing can be just as hurtful.

I agree CG. It's really crappy. I am trying atm to be much more upfront with chats if I don't want to keep talking. Rather than just fade out or never say anything. I need to go do that now actually.

You very upfront with me. X

A few things men have said on other threads made me think I need to be very clear. Rather than shy away from saying it straight ."

Well. I'd rather be told to 'Get lost', than be ignored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re too young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This may not count, but find it painful when you've been chatting to someone and then ghosted without any explanation.

.

Saying nothing can be just as hurtful.

I agree CG. It's really crappy. I am trying atm to be much more upfront with chats if I don't want to keep talking. Rather than just fade out or never say anything. I need to go do that now actually.

You very upfront with me. X

A few things men have said on other threads made me think I need to be very clear. Rather than shy away from saying it straight .

Well. I'd rather be told to 'Get lost', than be ignored. "

That's the message I've received from guys. I don't tell anyone to get lost - I block if someone has been rude. I politely say that I'm not looking to chat/meet and happy fabbing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven’t had any hurtful messages as yet. Some weird and overly sexual, yes. But most are respectful and not insulting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You'd be pretty if you weren't ginger is the one that hurt the most.

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Can relate, don’t think people realise how insulting and hurtful it can be

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


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Well. I'd rather be told to 'Get lost', than be ignored.

That's the message I've received from guys. I don't tell anyone to get lost - I block if someone has been rude. I politely say that I'm not looking to chat/meet and happy fabbing. "

You was very polite to me.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I haven’t had any hurtful messages as yet. Some weird and overly sexual, yes. But most are respectful and not insulting."

I try not to be weird, but just a little sexual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You'd be pretty if you weren't ginger is the one that hurt the most.

"

What a cunt that person was.

I’ve just gone back and read all these comments properly. I would never tire of slapping these cheeky bastards!

Hugs to anyone who’s had to put up with this horseshit.

And apologies for my swearing - I just HATE people like this!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“ You look so prettier than me, and I’m a real girl “

Errrr I sense the passive aggressiveness of it all…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"“ You look so prettier than me, and I’m a real girl “

Errrr I sense the passive aggressiveness of it all… "

WTF?! Talk about a backhanded compliment

I honestly feel like doing a Hulk smash after reading this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"“ You look so prettier than me, and I’m a real girl “

Errrr I sense the passive aggressiveness of it all… "

That is such a backhanded compliment! Toxic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven’t had any hurtful messages as yet. Some weird and overly sexual, yes. But most are respectful and not insulting.

I try not to be weird, but just a little sexual. "

I had noticed But mostly you’re just cuddly and cute x

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I haven’t had any hurtful messages as yet. Some weird and overly sexual, yes. But most are respectful and not insulting.

I try not to be weird, but just a little sexual.

I had noticed But mostly you’re just cuddly and cute x"

Awww. Come here you. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven’t had any hurtful messages as yet. Some weird and overly sexual, yes. But most are respectful and not insulting.

I try not to be weird, but just a little sexual.

I had noticed But mostly you’re just cuddly and cute x

Awww. Come here you. Xx"

See, it’s not hard to be nice, is it?! You and me CG, we should run a masterclass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you wasn't brown I'd fuck you haha "

Whhhaaaat? This cannot be for real. I am seriously gonna combust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you wasn't brown I'd fuck you haha

Whhhaaaat? This cannot be for real. I am seriously gonna combust "

Lol I thought this got deleted

I found it quite funny... haha

Don't stress I'm not xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you wasn't brown I'd fuck you haha

Whhhaaaat? This cannot be for real. I am seriously gonna combust "

Yeah, unfortunately it's believable and very real. As is "ooh, you're not like the others.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you wasn't brown I'd fuck you haha

Whhhaaaat? This cannot be for real. I am seriously gonna combust

Yeah, unfortunately it's believable and very real. As is "ooh, you're not like the others.." "

Holy shit!

The word ‘bitch’ doesn’t even cover it. Honestly speechless that some think it acceptable to say that to a fellow human being.

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By *weettonguedMan
over a year ago

Bideford


"You look great...for your age.

I always laugh when people say this, (it's not just men). Just say "you look great" don't add a condition.

Someone once told me I'd look good if I had money and when I was younger that I'd look great when I was older .

They don't intend to insult

I get the “ you look great for your age” on a daily basis , several times . I’m not a fan but I don’t take offence, I see it as a clumsy compliment.

"

You look unbelievable good forca youngster Misadventure

After all most people on here are youngsters compared to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too old, too young, but it’s the ‘too delicious’ that hurts the most

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"“ You look so prettier than me, and I’m a real girl “

Errrr I sense the passive aggressiveness of it all…

WTF?! Talk about a backhanded compliment

I honestly feel like doing a Hulk smash after reading this thread "

Absolutely! At the beginning it kinda feels like a great compliment until you think about it and go… WHAT THE FUCK!! toxic

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


""Oooh, your English is really good" Which is usually a precursor to..."where were you born?"

And is then followed by me saying "cheque please"

"

Oh bugger - I asked about your origins - mostly because you have very kissable looking lips though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“You look exotic, but I can’t seem to tell where your parents are from Tho, where are they from?

Are they from South America? You kinda look you have some oriental in you, or maybe Middle Eastern… “

“You are so lucky you stay this colour in the winter, I’d pay for that”

Kids with Mixed parents’s problems

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Having sex with you would be like having sex with a robot.

Hair is for monkeys.

Charming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Oooh, your English is really good" Which is usually a precursor to..."where were you born?"

And is then followed by me saying "cheque please"

Oh bugger - I asked about your origins - mostly because you have very kissable looking lips though! "

You didn't insult me at all as I understood the context of your question and you did actually tell me. Xx

However, I was referring to a totally different scenario when the questioner clearly has a sub agenda and one which I'm very familiar with, unfortunately.

I normally then say,

If you prick us, do we not bleed? If you tickle us, do we not laugh? If you poison us, do we not die?

Nah, kiddding...course I don't waste my breath on them...they won't have read any Shakespeare

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Having sex with you would be like having sex with a robot.

Hair is for monkeys.

Charming "

Sounds like a true Shakespeare

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Having sex with you would be like having sex with a robot.

Hair is for monkeys.

Charming

Sounds like a true Shakespeare "

they should be so lucky to find out

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Having sex with you would be like having sex with a robot.

Hair is for monkeys.

Charming

Sounds like a true Shakespeare

they should be so lucky to find out "

To be or not to be - definitely not to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like you have plenty to hold on to while I fuck you.

I love a females body that will jiggle while I fuck it.

Your ass looks huge. I'd love to fuck it.

Am I the only one who gets these insults that guys are sure are compliments "

Can't work out why you get those said to you at all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i got told that i would never find a husband if i didnt lose weight,because men dont like fat women. That comment which was given to me when i was 22 plagued me all these years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like you have plenty to hold on to while I fuck you.

I love a females body that will jiggle while I fuck it.

Your ass looks huge. I'd love to fuck it.

Am I the only one who gets these insults that guys are sure are compliments "

For your age you look really good...like I'm some sort of attractive antique!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s like when guys call women sluts, surely women don’t like this ?"

I can't abide being called this or being asked if I wanted to be someone's "slut".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some of these are gross

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s like when guys call women sluts, surely women don’t like this ?

I can't abide being called this or being asked if I wanted to be someone's "slut". "

I don't mind the word from a FWB but a stranger in his first message can sod off!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look good FOR YOUR AGE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"“You look exotic, but I can’t seem to tell where your parents are from Tho, where are they from?

Are they from South America? You kinda look you have some oriental in you, or maybe Middle Eastern… “

“You are so lucky you stay this colour in the winter, I’d pay for that”

Kids with Mixed parents’s problems

"

Yep I get all these too

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"You look good FOR YOUR AGE "

Yiu look fantastic (full stop).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Like you have plenty to hold on to while I fuck you.

I love a females body that will jiggle while I fuck it.

Your ass looks huge. I'd love to fuck it.

Am I the only one who gets these insults that guys are sure are compliments

They're compliments & true

Get over yourself "

Your right

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i got told that i would never find a husband if i didnt lose weight,because men dont like fat women. That comment which was given to me when i was 22 plagued me all these years."

Such an awful thing to say to someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy contact me on here last week saying I love your profile when can we meet? When I reminded him that he’d messaged me on a previous profile of his, arranged to meet me 20 miles from my house and then not turned up, his response was ‘ I remember who you are now, lose some weight and I might have turned up’ … charming!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You look good FOR YOUR AGE "

I dont even get that

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Oh just looking at my saved messages I’ve got a

“ I bet you used to be fit “

Now don’t ask why I save the not so nice mails …

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Yeah - apparently I'm 'fat'.

Who knew?????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I had a guy contact me on here last week saying I love your profile when can we meet? When I reminded him that he’d messaged me on a previous profile of his, arranged to meet me 20 miles from my house and then not turned up, his response was ‘ I remember who you are now, lose some weight and I might have turned up’ … charming!! "

Such a horrible thing to say to someone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh just looking at my saved messages I’ve got a

“ I bet you used to be fit “

Now don’t ask why I save the not so nice mails …"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I should know that not all white men will be interested in me. Never have I said that ALL white men are interested in me

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Considering how old you are, you don't look too bad.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Yer ma

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By *eau and ArrowCouple
over a year ago

Bromsgrove

I accidentally insulted my partner without realising the other day; I told him that he had a very comfortable penis.

I meant that it hit all the right places and felt great whilst fucking me, but "comfortable" was what summed up that thought at the time.

My fella didn't look impressed, but knew where the sentiment came from and when he told a friend of ours, he bellowed a laugh and advised me that it was insulting.

I havent retracted my "comfy penis" comment, but did try to dig myself out of the hole by clarifying what I meant and that an uncomfortable penis isn't what anyone wants lol.

#HangingMyHead #ClumsyCompliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yer ma"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m fat !

I’m northerner down south !

Hey have you’re not bbc !

Frankly my dear no what has working for bbc 1 got to do with sex lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone called me a pillow muncher the other day.

Was not needed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Asking if im shy because im not interested

I have a long list of peeves... derogative name calling is a certain block

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

“You’d look amazing if you lost weight”

Is one that pops up by people, not necessarily on here, just in general chit chat.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Always annoying when a cutting comeback comes to mind just after they’ve walked away

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I accidentally insulted my partner without realising the other day; I told him that he had a very comfortable penis.

I meant that it hit all the right places and felt great whilst fucking me, but "comfortable" was what summed up that thought at the time.

My fella didn't look impressed, but knew where the sentiment came from and when he told a friend of ours, he bellowed a laugh and advised me that it was insulting.

I havent retracted my "comfy penis" comment, but did try to dig myself out of the hole by clarifying what I meant and that an uncomfortable penis isn't what anyone wants lol.

#HangingMyHead #ClumsyCompliment"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firm believer if you have nothing nice to say move along please do not pass go do not collect two hundred pounds

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By *hebritukCouple
over a year ago

London

Can you say anything without causing offence?

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester


"It’s like when guys call women sluts, surely women don’t like this ?"

I personally can’t stand it, the last time I got called it was by a woman on here Miss pc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can you say anything without causing offence?"

Your spider is fucking huge!!!

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By *BitOfAMouthfulCouple
over a year ago

Scarborough

I got a message the other day…

You arse is massive.

Nothing more then that.

Still unsure if it was a insult or a compliment!

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By *ature BBW Lover 69Man
over a year ago

exeter

I don’t get why people feel the need to insult . I love larger women and sometimes I have to explain that I’m serious about it and not being insulting

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By *andt1995Couple
over a year ago

London

It’s an old one but a funny one

“You don’t sweat much for a fat lass” it always makes me smile.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

It really upsets me when people say..............

Blue isn't the sexiest colour underwear.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire


"Someone called me a pillow muncher the other day.

Was not needed."

What’s a pillow muncher?

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By *uffolkClareClactonDaveCouple
over a year ago

Felixstowe/Clacton-on-Sea


"I often get told I have a big arse. And I do, so I’m usually first to mention it’s voluminous size. I think a lot of men do really like a big bum though. "

That'll be me for a start. By the way, I've had a look at your pics and your bum is gorgeous hunny

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Someone called me a pillow muncher the other day.

Was not needed.

What’s a pillow muncher?"

I'd rather show you.

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"You've got lots to say for a submissive" The amount of times people assume submissives don't have opinions or it's Sam that's replying. A lot think I'm meek and which couldn't be further from the truth

R

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

“At last a female that sounds ordinary”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone called me a pillow muncher the other day.

Was not needed.

What’s a pillow muncher?"

Someone who eats pillows whilst getting ploughed. It was a scandelous statement

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can you say anything without causing offence?"

Probably not in this day and age

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about saying nothing at all?

This pisses people off more then saying anything sometimes on here lol

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

'I can understand whyyou have given up on everything'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One guy muttered" god your arse is massive " as he was doing me in doggy !!! Like I know he meant it as a compliment but I did chuckle !! Your ass is amazing would have gone down sooo much better !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One guy muttered" god your arse is massive " as he was doing me in doggy !!! Like I know he meant it as a compliment but I did chuckle !! Your ass is amazing would have gone down sooo much better !"

I'd be like

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.


"Like you have plenty to hold on to while I fuck you.

I love a females body that will jiggle while I fuck it.

Your ass looks huge. I'd love to fuck it.

Am I the only one who gets these insults that guys are sure are compliments "

I think they are ignorant fools. You have a gorgeous body and a beautiful bum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wally.

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By *eediousMan
over a year ago

Smallville


"I can’t say I’ve ever encountered any of those comments in my 3 + years on fab "

Well it’s never too late on Fab. I am sure it will be coming any day now,

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By *eediousMan
over a year ago

Smallville


"Like you have plenty to hold on to while I fuck you.

I love a females body that will jiggle while I fuck it.

Your ass looks huge. I'd love to fuck it.

Am I the only one who gets these insults that guys are sure are compliments "

I still can’t get how awesome your arse is though. Something to definitely behold!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One guy muttered" god your arse is massive " as he was doing me in doggy !!! Like I know he meant it as a compliment but I did chuckle !! Your ass is amazing would have gone down sooo much better !"

Ha my friend says stuff like that too! Can't wait to shag him again.

I like it because I know he means it. No filter, just appreciation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Like you have plenty to hold on to while I fuck you.

I love a females body that will jiggle while I fuck it.

Your ass looks huge. I'd love to fuck it.

Am I the only one who gets these insults that guys are sure are compliments

I think they are ignorant fools. You have a gorgeous body and a beautiful bum. "

Thanks

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Ending any compliment with 'for your age'.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ending any compliment with 'for your age'."

Seems to be a lot of that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Someone called me a dead bitch on here yesterday I think I dodged a bullet there by not meeting up with him x"

Defo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look fit.... for your age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ending any compliment with 'for your age'."

Yep! Mature for my age feels like I'm being told I'm not a complete bellend

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ending any compliment with 'for your age'.

Yep! Mature for my age feels like I'm being told I'm not a complete bellend"

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Ending any compliment with 'for your age'."

I normally get the end 'for a fat bloke'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ending any compliment with 'for your age'.

I normally get the end 'for a fat bloke' "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s like a dick, but bigger.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s like a dick, but bigger.

"

???

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

I constantly get the age, bum and boobs ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You'd be pretty if you weren't ginger is the one that hurt the most.

"

You are stunning and I pay to have hair the same colour as yours. Some people are idiots!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Boris is ok..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me saying hello usually does the trick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like you have plenty to hold on to while I fuck you.

I love a females body that will jiggle while I fuck it.

Your ass looks huge. I'd love to fuck it.

Am I the only one who gets these insults that guys are sure are compliments "

Although I'd never be so crude I can see a long term loving relationship where it could be taken as a complement. In my last very long relationship we use to complement each other sometimes in a way that could be insulting to others. We never ever took it as an insult as it was such an extremely small part of our lives together. It was a bit of banter.

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