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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just want to take a moment to remind people that there actually isn't any pressure to change, to make big plans or to try new things. It can actually feel a bit overwhelming when all those messages are everywhere.

You might be feeling bad for eating chocolate for breakfast and having wine for lunch over the last few weeks. Stop that. You don't need to.

You might be seeing new year new me messages everywhere and feeling like there's this huge expectation on you . There isn't. Just breathe.

You are enough. Just as you are, just as you were 2 weeks ago, 6 months ago, whenever. You are wonderful just as you are. Fact!

If you want to make changes that's amazing. If you don't though and actually if you're not sure what you want or how you feel, that's totally OK too.

2021 was a lot.

Go easy on yourself x

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By *arboyMan
over a year ago

Raunds

Here here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a great message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I just want to take a moment to remind people that there actually isn't any pressure to change, to make big plans or to try new things. It can actually feel a bit overwhelming when all those messages are everywhere.

You might be feeling bad for eating chocolate for breakfast and having wine for lunch over the last few weeks. Stop that. You don't need to.

You might be seeing new year new me messages everywhere and feeling like there's this huge expectation on you . There isn't. Just breathe.

You are enough. Just as you are, just as you were 2 weeks ago, 6 months ago, whenever. You are wonderful just as you are. Fact!

If you want to make changes that's amazing. If you don't though and actually if you're not sure what you want or how you feel, that's totally OK too.

2021 was a lot.

Go easy on yourself x

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

What a lovely opening gambit to the new year.

Totally agree. And thank you.

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By *uby StarCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Very well said. There is so much pressure on people these days coming from so many different angles. It can all be overwhelming at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I just want to take a moment to remind people that there actually isn't any pressure to change, to make big plans or to try new things. It can actually feel a bit overwhelming when all those messages are everywhere.

You might be feeling bad for eating chocolate for breakfast and having wine for lunch over the last few weeks. Stop that. You don't need to.

You might be seeing new year new me messages everywhere and feeling like there's this huge expectation on you . There isn't. Just breathe.

You are enough. Just as you are, just as you were 2 weeks ago, 6 months ago, whenever. You are wonderful just as you are. Fact!

If you want to make changes that's amazing. If you don't though and actually if you're not sure what you want or how you feel, that's totally OK too.

2021 was a lot.

Go easy on yourself x

"

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By *tarflyLouWoman
over a year ago

Preston

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think now more than ever we all need to be reminded xx

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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago

kildare

this melts my heart

what a wonderful message to read

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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago

kildare


"I think now more than ever we all need to be reminded xx"

we are all enough

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

That's so true OP.

A gorgeous message there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kindness starts by looking ourselves in the mirror and accepting who we see and loving ourselves.. Why is it so hard to do x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love this. Thank you.

Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Kindness starts by looking ourselves in the mirror and accepting who we see and loving ourselves.. Why is it so hard to do x"

Because the world conditions us to believe in possibilities, illusions and makes money from encouraging our self doubt x

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