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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it your always 1yr over the threshold and you fancy someone lol aww well upwards and onwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might still be worth a message you never know…

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By *Booboo-Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Might still be worth a message you never know…"

You can't a lot of the time. It blocks it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Might still be worth a message you never know…"
tried oh well never mind

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Might still be worth a message you never know…

You can't a lot of the time. It blocks it.

"
yip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell me about it, I swear 45 is the upper limit for most people I’m interested in so I’m screwed in a few weeks when I turn 46!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just one of those things.

Concentrate your efforts on those who include you rather than fretting over those who exclude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can’t help who you fancy, and neither can they.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tell me about it, I swear 45 is the upper limit for most people I’m interested in so I’m screwed in a few weeks when I turn 46!"
shite eh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You can’t help who you fancy, and neither can they. "
true

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just one of those things.

Concentrate your efforts on those who include you rather than fretting over those who exclude. "
good advise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a lot of guys who are just too young. Works both ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell me about it, I swear 45 is the upper limit for most people I’m interested in so I’m screwed in a few weeks when I turn 46!"

A nice round 50 is also favoured. When I turned 51, I have to say it didn't bother me.

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By *45amMan
over a year ago

South wales area


"Might still be worth a message you never know…

You can't a lot of the time. It blocks it.

"

This

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Tell me about it, I swear 45 is the upper limit for most people I’m interested in so I’m screwed in a few weeks when I turn 46!"

I just turned 45... I'm wondering if I'm now over some people's limits lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell me about it, I swear 45 is the upper limit for most people I’m interested in so I’m screwed in a few weeks when I turn 46!

I just turned 45... I'm wondering if I'm now over some people's limits lol"

Not at all lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell me about it, I swear 45 is the upper limit for most people I’m interested in so I’m screwed in a few weeks when I turn 46!

I just turned 45... I'm wondering if I'm now over some people's limits lol"

I’ve just turned 46 and have passed some peoples upper limits.

No dramas, one door closes n all that. Glass half full.

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By *laraCouple
over a year ago

Bedford

How many of us update our age range as we also age? I don't think I've updated my single profile age range in 7 years *goes to check*

It would be better to have a relative range for acceptable ages

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I had a landmark birthday not so long ago, so I spent a while messaging people I'd always wanted to contact but whose target range I was about age out of.

Almost none of the messages ever got read, buried as they were amidst the hundreds of FAF one-liners.

Oh well. I tried! Maybe I'll bump into them in a club one day.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm screwed (or not) if 45 is considered too old then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm screwed (or not) if 45 is considered too old then "
your fine look great

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Kettering

Too old? Yes I am !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience most people that I like the look of block messages from anyone over 55,so that rules out a lot of potential fun. I do realize people have their preferences,but it can be very frustrating at times.

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By *ddaMan
over a year ago

harrogate

Age is but a number.

There are those that appreciate maturity!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Age is but a number.

There are those that appreciate maturity!"

Age is not just a number...I personally don't want to fuck someone who could be my son.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle


"Tell me about it, I swear 45 is the upper limit for most people I’m interested in so I’m screwed in a few weeks when I turn 46!

A nice round 50 is also favoured. When I turned 51, I have to say it didn't bother me. "

Possibly because you woke up 51 turned over and saw your Mrs and thought - ha - still smashing it!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At 48 I don't give AF if someone rules me out because of my age. Their loss.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"How many of us update our age range as we also age? I don't think I've updated my single profile age range in 7 years *goes to check*

It would be better to have a relative range for acceptable ages"

My age filters are dictated by my kids ages so it increases every year. I've never given any thought to my own age and if I'm outside someones range then so be it, we aren't compatible and the reverse is also true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age limits are set so anyone can message me if they want.

I don't see the concrete relation between age limits here for that and who you want to have sex with in terms of their age.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"My age limits are set so anyone can message me if they want.

I don't see the concrete relation between age limits here for that and who you want to have sex with in terms of their age."

As I said above, I don't meet, chat to or forum engage with anyone within 10 years of my eldest child who just turned 30.

I've no interest in them at all so I adjust my filters each year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it your always 1yr over the threshold and you fancy someone lol aww well upwards and onwards "
Can't you wink to show an interest instead?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At 61 I appear to be much to old. I cant claim to be younger as I sm both honest and look my age!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell me about it, I swear 45 is the upper limit for most people I’m interested in so I’m screwed in a few weeks when I turn 46!"

Yep, I'm 51 in under 3 weeks. Might as well give up now...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why is it your always 1yr over the threshold and you fancy someone lol aww well upwards and onwards Can't you wink to show an interest instead?"
yes i could one sent

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why is it your always 1yr over the threshold and you fancy someone lol aww well upwards and onwards Can't you wink to show an interest instead?"
oops outside your age limit

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

All about mindset, as DDP said, negative into a positive.

This way, at least you didn't waste your time writing a personalised message to this person who would have just rejected you for being a certain age.

You saved yourself time and effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell me about it, I swear 45 is the upper limit for most people I’m interested in so I’m screwed in a few weeks when I turn 46!

Yep, I'm 51 in under 3 weeks. Might as well give up now... "

? Life of wanking into old socks for you now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell me about it, I swear 45 is the upper limit for most people I’m interested in so I’m screwed in a few weeks when I turn 46!

Yep, I'm 51 in under 3 weeks. Might as well give up now...

? Life of wanking into old socks for you now."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wot if you look younger than your age ?? you should be able to message still

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wot if you look younger than your age ?? you should be able to message still "

Why?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tell me about it, I swear 45 is the upper limit for most people I’m interested in so I’m screwed in a few weeks when I turn 46!

Yep, I'm 51 in under 3 weeks. Might as well give up now...

Prefer to wank in my knickers

? Life of wanking into old socks for you now."

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By *nergeticlemurMan
over a year ago

wiltshire

I'm on the complete opposite end of the spectrum I seem to be to young for most people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm on the complete opposite end of the spectrum I seem to be to young for most people! "

The same advice for you as those who miss our because of upper age limits.

You can’t change it, you just gotta own it and divert your effort to those who will meet you. There’s zero point in being butthurt about those who won’t. You’d drive yourself mad.

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes


"Might still be worth a message you never know…

You can't a lot of the time. It blocks it.

"

I've met a few who's age range I have been outside but they approached me, usually after I had fabbed a few of their photos, if they do check who fabs their photos and they like your profile then they will contact you whatever your age. Not much else you can do to try to attract their attention.

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By *nergeticlemurMan
over a year ago

wiltshire


"I'm on the complete opposite end of the spectrum I seem to be to young for most people!

The same advice for you as those who miss our because of upper age limits.

You can’t change it, you just gotta own it and divert your effort to those who will meet you. There’s zero point in being butthurt about those who won’t. You’d drive yourself mad. "

haha don't worry I'm not worked up by it or anything! Just one of those things in life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm on the complete opposite end of the spectrum I seem to be to young for most people!

The same advice for you as those who miss our because of upper age limits.

You can’t change it, you just gotta own it and divert your effort to those who will meet you. There’s zero point in being butthurt about those who won’t. You’d drive yourself mad.

haha don't worry I'm not worked up by it or anything! Just one of those things in life "

An excellent strategy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you can. Take a chance and message just incase

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you can. Take a chance and message just incase "

A lot of women would find that approach disrespectful though. Better to let them approach you if the wish to look outside their stipulated age limits.

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By *Booboo-Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"If you can. Take a chance and message just incase "

That's the whole point of an age range. When people say they only want to be messaged by certain people you need to respect it.

Women get so many messages and they are already pissed off at people not reading their bios and respecting their wishes.

Its just spoiling it for everyone else.

Sorry, but just my 2p.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what a lot do turn back the clock

My first meet on here was 2010 with a couple they were in they mid 50s they still here to day and still in they mid 50s

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you can. Take a chance and message just incase

That's the whole point of an age range. When people say they only want to be messaged by certain people you need to respect it.

Women get so many messages and they are already pissed off at people not reading their bios and respecting their wishes.

Its just spoiling it for everyone else.

Sorry, but just my 2p."
respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My age limits are set so anyone can message me if they want.

I don't see the concrete relation between age limits here for that and who you want to have sex with in terms of their age."

Not everyone feels the way you do. That's why age limits are available.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell me about it, I swear 45 is the upper limit for most people I’m interested in so I’m screwed in a few weeks when I turn 46!"

I'd still do you, up until the time you were born.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

It's peoples choice. Got to be over 6ft. Got to be a certain age. Got to be vwe. It is what it is just keep trying there's plenty of members.

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

I’m just usually blocked full stop . Has to be said younger women seem to be into cross dressing more but I’ve definitely missed the boat xxx

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By *akie32Man
over a year ago

winchester


"Wot if you look younger than your age ?? you should be able to message still "

why????

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By *akie32Man
over a year ago

winchester


"If you can. Take a chance and message just incase "

thats why so many men have a bad rep on here, respect whats writen on the profile

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"Why is it your always 1yr over the threshold and you fancy someone lol aww well upwards and onwards "

Check again the day before your birthday and you might get a surprise as they may have upped their ranges when they had their birthday and before yours goes up again

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

That's the way it is in the world cyberspace courtship. Relax and grow old disgracefully applying the moto of, "The piss tanks play group," as a lady friend once called it, commonly known as Alcholics Anonymous:

"GOD grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference."

Many a true word said in jest, I discovered that saying during the time I was keeping a smile on the face of an alcholics wife when his get up and go had got up and went.

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands


"Tell me about it, I swear 45 is the upper limit for most people I’m interested in so I’m screwed in a few weeks when I turn 46!

Yep, I'm 51 in under 3 weeks. Might as well give up now... "

You should be so lucky, I will be 82 in a couple of weeks.

Take advantage of the 18 - 99 default sector, I am now out of action through health issues but it worked for me up to a couple of years ago

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