FabSwingers.com forum: Do you thank you?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I realise a lot of profiles get a lot of attention / fabs so probabl wouldn’t …. But those of you that do t get fabbed that often do you thank people for the fabs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, but I do thank people for winks, either with a view to chat or to say I’m not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t send people thank yous for fabs

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I don't even look at what has been fabbed.

I would never start sending potentially unwanted messages either

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

No, as it seems to be just another excuse for folks I've no interest in to attempt to change my mind.

I just appreciate the fab to mystlf as a nice gesture

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I do it on my profile bio, but not individually.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

"I realise a lot of profiles get a lot of attention / fabs so probabl wouldn’t …. But those of you that do t get fabbed that often do you thank people for the fabs? "

I try to when I get the chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d never be able to keep up!

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

When I first joined I thanked someone and he started a thread on here about it.

I didn't realise it wasn't the done thing until I read that thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I wasn't aware this was a thing? I always go and have a look at the person who liked the pictures though and have a nose around! If they are close by or a spark then I sometimes send a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get many fabs so I try to thank everyone.. even gay men I have no interest In!

Guess that shows how needy I am.lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No, as it seems to be just another excuse for folks I've no interest in to attempt to change my mind.

I just appreciate the fab to mystlf as a nice gesture"

Fair

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Nope. Thanking people for fabs seems a little excessive... plus then I wouldn't have time to dick about in the forum

LvM

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

No because a long time ago I was told women get flooded with thank you for fabbing messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I put up a new pic and a guy fabs it and texts me to say he likes it then I thank him.

But I don't converse further unless something catches my interest.

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I have been thanked a few times. Seems strange though as it's from those I have fabbed from a fabathon thread. Makes me wonder if anyone really bothers to fab men in those

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely get any fabs and if I do they are from guys.

I did once thank someone for fabbing a picture because it came out of the blue and we have already spoken.

I’ve had a few fabs today so that’s a change, I don’t quite know what that means though, nothing else has changed.

But no, I don’t thank them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have once or twice, when it was unexpected, from someone that I liked

… but I don’t do the cool thing very well lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't thank people for fabs or winks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fab them back and thats it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, and I don’t like getting messages thanking me either

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

‘Thank you for you kind fab. Now….fancy a fuck?’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for fabs but if we get a compliment we usually say "thankyou" even if its off prople that arnt what we are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"‘Thank you for you kind fab. Now….fancy a fuck?’ "

Go on then you horny bugger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s very rare I’ve thanked someone for a fab unless it’s someone I know very well and it turns into banter

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

"‘Thank you for you kind fab. Now….fancy a fuck?’

Go on then you horny bugger"

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"I have been thanked a few times. Seems strange though as it's from those I have fabbed from a fabathon thread. Makes me wonder if anyone really bothers to fab men in those

From the guys I chat to I don't think many on those threads fab them. I think many people join those threads and sit back waiting to be adored, few actually actively fab on them and even then they tend to only bother with their favourites.

Same with any of that type of thread that requires an activity: say something nice, send a nice message, anything that requires an effort will end with a very small number of people actually doing the do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely notice as I don’t check but I do actually say ‘cheers!’ In my head, on occasion. Not if they’ve fanned them all though. That’s weird.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’d never be able to keep up! "

I thought that would be the case with most

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

I do thank everyone who messages me even if it’s a no thank you x

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

If I'm into the person who sent said fab/wink then yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not hand a thank you from ones that never reply. It's either message deleted or blocked

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

No. I don't want to pester someone who appreciates my pictures, sometimes people just want to look and not engage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course. And I always make sure to hand deliver a note to their front door thanking them for fingering me. I put on my red Dior lipstick and seal the envelope with a kiss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have occasionally thanked someone for fabbing one or more of my pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of course. And I always make sure to hand deliver a note to their front door thanking them for fingering me. I put on my red Dior lipstick and seal the envelope with a kiss. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No, and I don’t like getting messages thanking me either "

Noted

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I do thank everyone who messages me even if it’s a no thank you x "

Very kind

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Of course. And I always make sure to hand deliver a note to their front door thanking them for fingering me. I put on my red Dior lipstick and seal the envelope with a kiss. "

Your service is appreciated

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

No, but I do return the favour by fabbing their pics that I like or the ones that stands out the most

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No, but I do return the favour by fabbing their pics that I like or the ones that stands out the most "

Sounds like a fair trade

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thank my fabbers its only being polite

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"I have been thanked a few times. Seems strange though as it's from those I have fabbed from a fabathon thread. Makes me wonder if anyone really bothers to fab men in those

That's what I guessed. I try to only join fabbing threads when I've got the time to look at a lot of profiles and actually fab them. I tend to only go onto men's profiles though. I figure women probably get enough attention round here

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

No it was my understanding that people just like to like and don't enjoy having a follow up, and when they look at your profile, they don't want a, "I saw you looked at my profile" message.

If they want discourse, they can message.

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