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What is the first thing that you notice in a person?

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

Here is few options to choose from. I would choose the smile.

Eyes

Smile

Hands

Here is a fun option:

Bank account

Or what else is it that you might notice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they're hot

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By *irm hand LukeMan
over a year ago

Berkshire/West Oxfordshire

Watch. On a guy.

Manner. On a girl.

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By *omerset1976Man
over a year ago

Burnham

Usually their bottom!!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face & hair, i have a phobia of poorly applied foundation and bad haircuts

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Being the typical bloke I am on ladies its ass & titties haha then facial expression!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Watch. On a guy.

Manner. On a girl."

Smile- especially teeth.

One of my friends looks absolutely fantastic and would jump her if offered, but till recently her teeth made me bawk as they were black and green. She’s recent had them replaced and my god she looks a million times better.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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Facial hair

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way

Face/arms on a guy

Face/boobs on a woman

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Whether they present a welcoming posture or not.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

It depends on when and where I see them. Often it's face, sometimes physique or bum...occasionally clothing or shoes, but more often than not they draw my attention for the wrong reasons.

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By *irm hand LukeMan
over a year ago

Berkshire/West Oxfordshire


"Watch. On a guy.

Manner. On a girl.

Smile- especially teeth.

One of my friends looks absolutely fantastic and would jump her if offered, but till recently her teeth made me bawk as they were black and green. She’s recent had them replaced and my god she looks a million times better. "

Having my teeth straightened has been the best thing I have ever done in my life by far

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Face - just the overall warmth of someone’s eyes and smile xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Watch. On a guy.

Manner. On a girl."

Until I started using the Fab forums I genuinely had no idea how big a deal watches are for some people. I know we're all different but it's one thing I just can't understand. It doesn't bother me, annoy me or upset me or anything I just don't get it.

I have what I consider to be an expensive watch though I know compared to many its incredibly cheap. I paid for the GPS, on screen mapping and a battery that will last for a 36 hour ultra. I do understand wanting to pay for a nice brand watch as jewellery but not to notice what others are wearing. What is it about a guys watch that is noticeable? Interesting?

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Voice.. And twinkle in their eye

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

I'm reasonably non observant. Both things, situations and conversations pass my by in a flutter. Usually they are pointed out to me a week or day later or sometime after and I'm a bit 'oooh right'.

Unless it's something obvious like dressed goth dress, a bit abrasive or rude .. I take them as they come.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Teeth, every time.

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By *relanddirectMan
over a year ago

cheshire

Confidence, I find it hugely alluring x when someone walks in a room with confidence in themselves they carry themselves differently they ooze sex appeal for me

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By *oubleswing2019Man
over a year ago

Colchester

Never understood the watch thing either.

If I want to know the time, I look at my phone. Or at the PC. Or ask a nice PC.

Seems a bit superfluous having another device on my wrist, that tells me the same thing as other devices around or on me.

I don't notice other people's watches.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

*Shoes might be one.

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By *D of funCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Teeth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends entirely on the situation. It could be a glimpse of her cleavage in the queue at Costa, it could be that she's stopped to buy a homeless person a meal, it could be the smile she gave me (or someone else), it could be the graceful effortless way she runs. All sorts really.

Mr

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Visually has to be their eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their gait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes, always

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By *risxbrisxMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Their 'vibe' regardless of looks. Call it gut feeling?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Can be different things, if they've got big boobs it's usually boobs, they could be wearing good shoes that'll catch my eye. They could have amazing eyes. Bouncy hair. A nice wooly hat. A knitwear dress showing off their curvy body.

It depends on the person and what qualities they have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their face. Faces show a lot of a persons personality and where they are in life right now

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By *regg hornMan
over a year ago

longfield

Teeth

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

His eye contact with me is of the utmost importance when I'm meeting someone.

If I'm perving strangers then its his arse first everytime, love a peachy bum

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By *ddaMan
over a year ago

harrogate

Eyes, always the eyes.

You can hide much with clothes and jewelery. The eyes are always naked!

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Eyes and Smile. You can tell from these things if they are into you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a bloke: what he’s wearing, his teeth, his hands.

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By *ustauseerTV/TS
over a year ago

Sedgemoor

Eyes, hands and the bulge

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Eyes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes, smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their face, if it’s on show. It’s what attracts me to a person.

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their aura. I can tell across the room if they are approachable or not. It’s amazing when somebody has a good vibe about them. (Quite the opposite if it’s a bad one)

When I get closer I notice their eyes.

*I promise I was looking at your eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a leg man,so if they’ve got good legs,that’s good for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It varies I think. Unless I just don't notice what I notice first??

Maybe an overall vibe or some shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Their aura."

This, you can usually feel their energy immediately and know whether you can connect or not

After that I'd say eye contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes and mouth. Always. They tell me so much about someone's warmth, kindness and openness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Their aura. I can tell across the room if they are approachable or not. It’s amazing when somebody has a good vibe about them. (Quite the opposite if it’s a bad one)

When I get closer I notice their eyes.

*I promise I was looking at your eyes. "

That’s really interesting. I think I am sometimes oblivious to that stuff, and tend to take people how I find them at face value. I hope I give out a good vibe ... I think I probably do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Their aura.

This, you can usually feel their energy immediately and know whether you can connect or not

After that I'd say eye contact"

Yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Their aura. I can tell across the room if they are approachable or not. It’s amazing when somebody has a good vibe about them. (Quite the opposite if it’s a bad one)

When I get closer I notice their eyes.

*I promise I was looking at your eyes.

That’s really interesting. I think I am sometimes oblivious to that stuff, and tend to take people how I find them at face value. I hope I give out a good vibe ... I think I probably do."

I think it's safe to say you do.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Face, is it kind, is it pleasant, is it welcoming?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Their aura.

This, you can usually feel their energy immediately and know whether you can connect or not

After that I'd say eye contact

Yes!"

All this yes. How they are stood, or are holding themselves. In a poise sense, not if they have their hands in their pants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Their aura.

This, you can usually feel their energy immediately and know whether you can connect or not

After that I'd say eye contact"

I’m glad someone agrees.

Some people call it different things, but I honestly believe some are sensitive to it, others miss it as it’s not important to them ie, not what they are looking for.

Notice my smile, I smile when I am sad. Eyes can’t hide it and my aura will be screaming for help.

I feel I need to lie in a field of flowers right now

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By *ayden_82Man
over a year ago

corby

Shoes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice bum

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Shoes "

You beat me to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smile - can melt me in seconds

Eyes - windows to the soul

Scent - adore a good smelling man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes first, smile second and then I'll take a sneaky look at their arse as they walk away from me

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

How quickly we engage one another.

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Eyes and smile then personality

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Here is few options to choose from. I would choose the smile.

Eyes

Smile

Hands

Here is a fun option:

Bank account

Or what else is it that you might notice?"

Where does bank account come in to it?? No one is likely to discuss that with anyone they meet

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By *ptgadgetMan
over a year ago

Colorado Springs


"Eyes x"

Totally agree with the EYES!

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Eyes and teeth, simultaneously I think

Can't help it

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"Here is few options to choose from. I would choose the smile.

Eyes

Smile

Hands

Here is a fun option:

Bank account

Or what else is it that you might notice?

Where does bank account come in to it?? No one is likely to discuss that with anyone they meet "
That is right and it doesnt come in there so much. I thought that it just sounded fun

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By *illybeachboyMan
over a year ago

Guernsey

Eyes & smile followed by crutch bulge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The door

*it’s a joke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes and smile followed by if the have a sense of humour.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Depends on the situation.

On here it's height.

IRL it's more about their vibe, as in whether they seem pleasant or hostile

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

I think I probably notice what sex they are before anything else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shoes !

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By *idnight RamblerMan
over a year ago

Pershore

Their BMI and posture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There mouth being partially deaf I lip read a little so watch there mouth as they talk there are lots of small lip movements that give away character and make some very sexually appealing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finger nails is a huge thing for me, I can't have dirty finger nails near me. Nails need to be cut and clean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can take a awful lot in in that first glance but I’m mostly drawn to face/eyes/mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes they are the windows to your soul

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hair, weirdly very quickly followed by smile and if it reaches the eyes

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By *itzi999Woman
over a year ago

Slough


"Here is few options to choose from. I would choose the smile.

Eyes

Smile

Hands

Here is a fun option:

Bank account

Or what else is it that you might notice?"

Face

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex


"Face - just the overall warmth of someone’s eyes and smile xx"

Same for me you can tell an honest person by their eyes and smile

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

For me it's their smile, eyes and then bum or arm muscles xT

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It varies. It could be an outstanding physique on a guy - Shagtonight, say no more

Typically the face very quickly.

Demeanour.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

When they approach me......the fucking audacity

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Eyed, smile, teeth

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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago

kildare


"Can be different things, if they've got big boobs it's usually boobs, they could be wearing good shoes that'll catch my eye. They could have amazing eyes. Bouncy hair. A nice wooly hat. A knitwear dress showing off their curvy body.

It depends on the person and what qualities they have. "

I loved reading this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

eyes

hair

shoes

if Ive just ment them in person but if it's an on line thing say here ect then it would be do they make me laugh

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By *hunderace...Man
over a year ago

Dudley

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smile and then they’re eyes

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By *hunderace...Man
over a year ago

Dudley

Face, persona and demeanour will always preempt a thorough head lice examination...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes first then smile second

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes & smile. Even if a woman has a nice figure, if she has an expression like a slapped arse, nothing stirs..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes and their smile. Height is something else too that I notice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Face, persona and demeanour will always preempt a thorough head lice examination... "

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By *ightkitty4uWoman
over a year ago

Epsom

If meeting in person for first time and we’re walking towards each other that awkward is it him moment….

His clothes the way he holds himself if he opens the door….

If perving on here…. Torso, and the fact thee are no cock shots! Love profiles with no cock shots

If in real life in say a bar/store… then it’s about the clothes, then finer details hair, smile, eyes if I can see them!

Different situations different body parts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My penis

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