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By *ubandsub OP   Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Aimed at everyone, whats your thoughts on seeing the same people more than once?

We enjoy the frill of one offs probably more than repeat visits even if the sex was good.

Fuck n go works for us, never had the courage to go dogging, but happy to play with random people.

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth

Love both tbh. I've been meeting same guy for years, it's not once a week lol sometimes just monthly.

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By *awk90Man
over a year ago

Amsterdam

I prefer repeat meets, building a connection and learning about each other's likes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy both. Obvious answer I'm afraid. I enjoy the excitement of meeting new people for a one off. But it's also great to have someone you see regularly. Whilst it doesn't have the thrill of a first meet, it is more sensual when you know what turns each other on.

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By *urenutsMan
over a year ago

waltham cross/Harrow HA1


"Aimed at everyone, whats your thoughts on seeing the same people more than once?

We enjoy the frill of one offs probably more than repeat visits even if the sex was good.

Fuck n go works for us, never had the courage to go dogging, but happy to play with random people.

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Repeat if they up for it. I like to have chemistry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both have there place. One offs are good fun but happy with repeat meets if there’s desire to do so from both parties.

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By *dy-ukTV/TS
over a year ago

Alcester

I've met a few in clubs, from further afield.

If we happened to be in the same club, on the same night again, then definitely.

Some I've met and played with, we added as friends, so after all this covid stuff blows over, maybe we can actually plan to be in the same club together again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done both, personally prefer repeats. To me the sex is usually better after the first meet.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I like both, time and distance can unfortunately make meets between two people a one off as well.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

It depends really. Those that are closer to me and I get on very well with I definitely would love to see again and again thats for sure.. if the feeling is mutual of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both have they place

Regular is good to build trust to movie in to more kink stuff that I wouldn’t do with randoms for safety reasons and trust I would be safe in retrospect

One off are good to just scratch an itch

As long as they upfront on what it is before hand no bs

If they only want a one off just say if I like them that way it happen regardless if it’s a one off or not

Not going to turn down a good night just because it’s only a one off

It’s the lies ghosting and all that I hate

You know the oooo I want this that next thing

Ok let’s meet build trust have a one night

Get home and say oooo it was grate but not for me or just start ghosting messages and stuff

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By *aughtiness69Couple
over a year ago

Kinmel bay

One offs,

There are to many different experiences to try and not enough time lol.

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

My preference would be one offs until the right person comes along then it would be repeat,repeat,repeat.....

Alas that is all wishful thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kink and fetishism takes ages to develop, so whilst on here, I'm looking for a regular.

Clubs is all about one-off's for me.

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By *mooth tongue 4uMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

I have a preference for repeat meets , get to know people and build a connection think the fun gets better as your friendship develops

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By *ornado69Man
over a year ago

Princess Risborough

A mix is good, i like repeat meets. That way you can relax and really enjoy eachother and fulfill a couple or lady's desires.

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By *VanManMan
over a year ago

Pontefract/Doncaster

Fuck and go can and are amazing. You can let yourself go and the idea of chance meet.

Also a repeat can be good down to the individual really.

PS love the rope work you have done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely repeat ones. There's only one I'm regularly meeting now and he gives me all I need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kink and fetishism takes ages to develop, so whilst on here, I'm looking for a regular.

Clubs is all about one-off's for me."

That's a good point. You can explore more with someone you see regularly and build up trust with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think both can be enjoyable.

Some people you meet you need to have more than once though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer regular, sex gets better as you learb eachothers body

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

My wife loves her regulars

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By *yder RavishMan
over a year ago

Ware Hertfordshire


"I think both can be enjoyable.

Some people you meet you need to have more than once though "

I like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to have regular playmates,it's about personality and sense of humour too,if I like a lady I like to see her more,just a greedy boy lol.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Both. Regularity - I'm very much a slow burner and it can take me some time to be attracted to someone. I also like the ease, intimacy and relaxed state familiarity brings - it heightens orgasms, allows for kinkier exploration.

A "one off" for want of a better term? It's exciting, new, shiny. That would be occasional for me - something to add when the mood takes me.

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By *ig bear 65Man
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

Like both my reg fb has got you know my kinks better.we are looking to try 3some with another guy who's top.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Preference is for repeat meets for us

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

One-offs ad repeat meets are a relationship how every you look at it, and the only relationships we want is with each other.

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

Both, we like the excitement of me getting to fuck new guys but we have also been lucky with some great meets & i would definitely like to see them again

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Some people you "click" with on a personal level I'd want to see again. Those that just go through the motions...nope.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I have found that the sex gets better if you repeat a meet.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

Probably repeat meets but there are merits to both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love repeat meets as gets so much better

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Would take either but mine have been repeats,...fortunately. have had a couple of 1 offs but for more obvious reasons

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

Repeats are so much better you get to know one another likes, dislikes, personality and all this helps build up to more intense play

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Definitely repeat meets for me x

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

One offs are great. You are having sex and exploring each other. You are sharing intimacy for thr first time.

But if they are great,why not repeat them. If you keep repeating the dynamic changes and a shared consciousness takes over the exploratory nature.

Does this lead to feelings? Not necessarily. I have feelings for anyone I have sex with. I am a kind and caring person. I want them to enjoy it as much as me. I hope they like and care about my pleasure.

I get that couples don't necessarily want to go that far emotionally and that's fine.

Just know that I will want to repeat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the dynamic im happy with one offs if that's what happens but being a long term you get to no more about them what gets a reaction and what they really like also your all on a journey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One offs as a rule

3 meet max

I don't want emotion & familiarity creeping in

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

A bit of both

D.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do enjoy one off fuck n go's but i prefer fuck sessions with regulars...more kinky and more relaxed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Repeats. I like to build up a proper bond of sorts and really get to explore each others 'likes' and new experiences.

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By *he MedwaysCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

One offs as an audition for repeats for us.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"One offs as an audition for repeats for us."

Do we have to learn lines ?

I can't sing but can tap dance

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By *dd_soxMan
over a year ago

Suffolk

Repeats over one-off every time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A meet to start with would be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have found that the sex gets better if you repeat a meet."

We will never do one offs if we meet. We much prefer regular. You build a relationship which is more than sex alone, which all allows for a much more expressive, relaxed, enjoyable and fulfilling experiences.

You can also do things that you wouldn't or shouldn't do on a one off cos you know what is acceptable and what is not, allows for additional moments of excitement which you couldn't possibly have with strangers.

Without that established chemistry, my thoughts are that many miss out and less fulfilled. Everyone is different in their wants and needs.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Haven’t had a one-off for a while, no appeal anymore, I like to go on a bit of journey and then typically they become long term friends/lovers even if only meeting a couple of times a year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We much prefer one offs, very rarely meet someone more than once!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely repeat meets. The sex gets better as the intimacy and connection builds

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Repeat meets are always the preferred option because, I find that it can take up to around three times of intimacy together to find out what each other really likes, and what sends each other into orbit, be it together one on one, or in group scenarios.

However there is always the danger of one or other getting too close for comfort, so to speak. A glamourous couple who I am still very friendly with, have a policy where they only have sex once with the same people because of too many bad experiences with people becoming too attached, and I had to agree with their point of view because, It's happened to me as well.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

We have a fantastic female friend and enjoy new meets as a three some.

Best of both worlds really.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I think both can be enjoyable.

Some people you meet you need to have more than once though "

Exactly this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to have a FWB or two, and then lots of one offs. I enjoy the thrill xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Repeat meets are always the preferred option because, I find that it can take up to around three times of intimacy together to find out what each other really likes, and what sends each other into orbit, be it together one on one, or in group scenarios.

However there is always the danger of one or other getting too close for comfort, so to speak. A glamourous couple who I am still very friendly with, have a policy where they only have sex once with the same people because of too many bad experiences with people becoming too attached, and I had to agree with their point of view because, It's happened to me as well."

Your second point is true in any scenario, whether friends, work colleagues or social circles. I fear if people are worried about getting "to close for comfort", then I think that raises other questions. just my musings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ideal is a regular friend, one offs are, to me, just a complicated wank.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"Ideal is a regular friend, one offs are, to me, just a complicated wank. "

Surely they are the taster/amuse bouche that allows for the second and third?

Hard to have a repeat meet without a first meet.

I like to be taken for a test drive before you decide.

Apologies for the mixed metaphors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both can work. Advantage of repeat meets is the build of trust which enables testing of boundaries. I find one offs tend to be less adventurous....but great in lots of other ways

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Prefer regular better when your both open minded and up for trying new things together x

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Regular for me. One offs don’t appeal to me at all.

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By *agertha73Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Repeats are all we're interested in x

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

The majority of my meets have been 'one-offs' - but it is, of course, always highly-flattering to be invited back for a repeat meet, or more...

....80% of my encounters to date were 'one-offs', and mostly that's all they were ever going to be - though in a number of instances the potential for a further meet (or meets) came up, but for one reason or another didn't happen...

....as for those that turned into 'repeats', they've ranged from once more to a handful of times to numerous times - the latter over the space of anything from three weeks to three months to three years...

....as to which I prefer - I love the thrill of 'one-offs' and getting to cum inside a women who I'm probably never going to see again...

....and at the same time, I love the thrill of having a playmate who wants more than just the once - when they want a repeat meet or more, it suggests I did something right the first time...

....both 'one-offs' and 'repeats' have their merits - for me, it's the best of both worlds...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer repeat meets because I find the more comfortable people feel the more people are willing to explore each other and things just get better. One offs also have there merit the thrill of someone new.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Repeat meets because I prefer getting to know someone and building the connection together x

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By *reestylingWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Repeat and regularly for me. Someone I can spend quality passionate time with. Connection and being relaxed tends to build with naughty trusted lovers. X

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By *ewCoupleHXCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"Aimed at everyone, whats your thoughts on seeing the same people more than once?

We enjoy the frill of one offs probably more than repeat visits even if the sex was good.

Fuck n go works for us, never had the courage to go dogging, but happy to play with random people.

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We have had some fun with one offs but our regular friends are easily the best and we love seeing them. Connection is very important and when you have established this with some regular friends over time, it just makes the whole play side much more relaxed and enjoyable for us.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Repeats for me …. I don’t do one offs

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

We prefer repeats as it lets is build up a bond that allows us to take it further, introducing new and delightful ways to get those nerves tingling.

We aren’t a fuck and go service.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

My preference is for repeats. Trust develops, which makes for a more relaxing experience I find. One offs as a woman meeting on my own terrify me tbh.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Bad experiences ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aimed at everyone, whats your thoughts on seeing the same people more than once?

We enjoy the frill of one offs probably more than repeat visits even if the sex was good.

Fuck n go works for us, never had the courage to go dogging, but happy to play with random people.

"

Fuck and go meets are good but also prefer more meets and possibly become Friends with benefits when trust is established X

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By *he MedwaysCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

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By *he MedwaysCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"One offs as an audition for repeats for us.

Do we have to learn lines ?

I can't sing but can tap dance "

No singing needed just a simple “script” to follow.

And try not to fall into the sink if tap dancing.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I prefer meeting the same people as it’s just more relaxing for me as a) I’m incredibly shy b) I find meeting new people incredibly challenging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done a few one offs and they have been fun, but much rather play with regular freinds

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By *ll 4 herCouple
over a year ago

Bury/Bolton

We find it hard enough to achieve any kind of meet off here through preferences etc. so one offs or more, either would be a welcome change of pace.

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By *relanddirectMan
over a year ago

cheshire

Repeats help build anticipation and filthy plans?

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Both. Regularity - I'm very much a slow burner and it can take me some time to be attracted to someone. I also like the ease, intimacy and relaxed state familiarity brings - it heightens orgasms, allows for kinkier exploration.

A "one off" for want of a better term? It's exciting, new, shiny. That would be occasional for me - something to add when the mood takes me."

I agree with this. Repeats are more comfortable, people I chat to in-between times, there's more trust.

One offs are usually the disappointing meets. I don't find them fulfilling.

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By *G85Woman
over a year ago

Harrogate

Think there are advantages and disadvantages to both. Its usually dependent on my mood.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"My preference is for repeats. Trust develops, which makes for a more relaxing experience I find. One offs as a woman meeting on my own terrify me tbh. "

This is the other issue!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly prefer repeat meets if the chemistry is right.

Clubs tend to be one offs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer one offs. The only time we would see someone again is if we bumped into them in a club

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

I like finding a regular meet

But one off's are ok too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Repeat meets...ideally with 2 to 4 regular FB

With occasional one offs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a dreadful Fabber and very very rarely meet at all

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I like both, distance can make it difficult to see some more than once though

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

We also like both, with our regular meets we have great friendship's, night's out and plenty of time to try new things out. We have a bond and know where each other stand. With new meets you get more of a buzz I suppose but you just don't know the outcome could go either way. Could end up disappointed or adding them to your circle of friends. X

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

After a terrible experience with a FWB, It’s one off’s for me now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like both but repeat meets get to know your body better the more you meet.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Only regular for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like regular

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I've only ever wanted regular.

In the absence of that I have now gone years without

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (Mrs PD) prefer one offs, it's just sex, i don't want a relationship or connection beyond the sex, i don't want a connection with anyone other than my husband.

Mr PD likes a connection which can be difficult trying to get it right for both of us.

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

.

Regular, find out what makes each other tick, makes for better sex

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I prefer repeat meets. One offs feel a little transactional to me.

Different in a club setting I guess but most of my meets happen at my home, because they're people I know and trust.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I’ve always preferred regular meets with a few one offs thrown in, even the one offs have been great but it’s the distance that stopped them being a regular thing at the time

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Repeat… I like the journey. One offs don’t do anything for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wanna repeat. Over and over again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For guys I prefer the one off. Mine are usually spontaneous meets so difficult to plan,

For couples and ladies. I love to get to know them and explore our fantasies so definitely second, third or more meets with lots of chatting in between too!

Stimulate the brain as well as the sex organs

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way

Repeats definitely. That way I can really drive them wild as I know what they like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally fuck and run doesn't work for me id rather get to know someone and find out where her buttons are and what makes her tick

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By *ubandsub OP   Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

I guess its all about what you want, id of thought more guys would be happy for fuck and go, me and boobs have the conection, we have a great sex life, just we like a extra oerson to join us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy regular but also wouldn't say no to one offs. It's all good fun with the right people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex is art and practise makes perfect

Repeat meet deffo

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By *tarkersandcrutchCouple
over a year ago

TELFORD

We have done both. We enjoy the excitement of meeting someone new,lots of things to explore and buttons to press, finding out what they like, what makes them tic. but love the connection of a regular meet where we all know what each other likes, we all know boundaries, spent time getting to get to know each other and read each others bodies. This is a hard question to answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck and go sounds so pathetic and there are worlds of pleasure to explore

Although I agree men as a group are sheep

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By *andSCouple
over a year ago

PDI for now

Repeat meetings are for us. The friendship you build up adds to the excitement while being intimate. Ticking something off their bucket list is quite a thrill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both. He cums n goes and comes back for more or one offs both work well for me. I hate to plan though more spontaneous

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By *ubmissive Couple4funCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

We prefer a regular bull

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Only really interested in regular.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer repeated meets with the same people, just because I find the sex gets better the more you know someone. A little bit of a connection is important I have found.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love sex for the 1st time.

I love having sex with strangers for the first time..

I really do enjoy having sex with a stranger for the first time..

I want to fuck for that first time feeling... It's so addictive!! And I need it.. My fella's sex is out of this world! But when he can't fuck me I want someone new! I don't want to use the same person more then a few times..

Gallo can I have sex with Strangers please? I need to fuck Strangers

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By *eterandJaneadventuresCouple
over a year ago

Sutton

We enjoy a mixed combination. Meeting and playing with regular couples and single where a mutual friendship and interest in likes has been established. Being introduced to others via regular friends gives us the thrill of exploring a new dalliance. Then there is the excitement ( and hopefully no disappointment ) of meeting with new play friends for the first time. In general making friends ships and fun ships is what we enjoy in our social swing life journey. ,

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By *ralwizardMan
over a year ago

Thornaby


"Aimed at everyone, whats your thoughts on seeing the same people more than once?

We enjoy the frill of one offs probably more than repeat visits even if the sex was good.

Fuck n go works for us, never had the courage to go dogging, but happy to play with random people.

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Hey happy to arrange dogging sometime, with my female friend and I.... Been trying to arrange since before Xmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a female regular and a male regular and the sex is a mazing with both but i do enjoy the excitment of meeting fuck n go's, gets my heart pounding..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Repeats all the way for me

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Depends. Fuck and go is fun.

Repeat meets is good as long as one party is not just meeting that one person. Because that's when feelings might start and then it gets messy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Repeat. Always.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few regular arrangements but for reasons I won't go into, I've been put off. Strictly one offs for me from now on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One offs are great. You are having sex and exploring each other. You are sharing intimacy for thr first time.

But if they are great,why not repeat them. If you keep repeating the dynamic changes and a shared consciousness takes over the exploratory nature.

Does this lead to feelings? Not necessarily. I have feelings for anyone I have sex with. I am a kind and caring person. I want them to enjoy it as much as me. I hope they like and care about my pleasure.

I get that couples don't necessarily want to go that far emotionally and that's fine.

Just know that I will want to repeat. "

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Do enjoy repeats more

Build up a connection and have time to explore their sexual desires more

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