FabSwingers.com forum: Orgasm

By *jEuphoria OP Couple
over a year ago

north kent

Is sex between a man and a woman, better when the woman orgasms through vaginal penetration? As opposed to when she doesn’t.?

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By *ornyharry39Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Love it making a woman orgasm on me while having sex feel her legs trembling and gripping my hard cock more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m taking a bit of a stab in the dark here but I’m going to say that sex is definitely better for women when they orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is sex between a man and a woman, better when the woman orgasms through vaginal penetration? As opposed to when she doesn’t.?"
erm is this a trick question ? Never in the history of sex has a woman had better sex when not reaching orgasm ...someone's goin to tel me diffrent now I bet

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By *ookie_and_NookieCouple
over a year ago

Kent

I think maybe op means when a woman orgasms through vaginal penetration versus an orgasm without penetration? Penetration only orgasms are a rarity for most women!

C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think maybe op means when a woman orgasms through vaginal penetration versus an orgasm without penetration? Penetration only orgasms are a rarity for most women!

C x"

Do you mean, he means is the orgasm better when it’s achieved through vaginal penetration than without penetration? He did say ‘is sex better’ which suggests he didn’t mean the orgasm specifically.

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By *jEuphoria OP Couple
over a year ago

north kent

No, when a woman is having sex with a man.

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By *jEuphoria OP Couple
over a year ago

north kent

Actually, there are a lot of women who orgasm viganally. Most of my friends do. I’m missing something. Probably why I am more of a giver than a receiver.

Multi orgasmic women are SO lucky.

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By *jEuphoria OP Couple
over a year ago

north kent

Actually, there are a lot of women who orgasm viganally. Most of my friends do. I’m missing something. Probably why I am more of a giver than a receiver.

Multi orgasmic women are SO lucky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you are asking whether sex is better for women when they orgasm?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best orgasms are clitoral, I actually find ones through penetration a bit uncomfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My best orgasms are clitoral, I actually find ones through penetration a bit uncomfortable "

OP was asking whether sex is better when women orgasm as opposed to not having an orgasm though. Do you prefer sex when you don’t orgasm?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My best orgasms are clitoral, I actually find ones through penetration a bit uncomfortable

OP was asking whether sex is better when women orgasm as opposed to not having an orgasm though. Do you prefer sex when you don’t orgasm?"

Oh I understood his question to be about the type of orgasm. I had this conversation recently actually. Or similar. I'd be more satisfied after a long hard kink session without orgasm, than a vanilla one with orgasm. Depends totally on the situation really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My best orgasms are clitoral, I actually find ones through penetration a bit uncomfortable

OP was asking whether sex is better when women orgasm as opposed to not having an orgasm though. Do you prefer sex when you don’t orgasm?

That’s understandable, I much prefer a kink session as well, it’s very rare I have vanilla sex at all.

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By *urio77Man
over a year ago

northampton

People here are really struggling with the question and I’m baffled as to why. It’s a simple question and through my experience most woman I’ve been with reach fulfilment when I use my fingers/hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve found that it differs dependant on the person and the situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People here are really struggling with the question and I’m baffled as to why. It’s a simple question and through my experience most woman I’ve been with reach fulfilment when I use my fingers/hand. "

So do you think OP was asking ‘how do most women you’ve been with reach fulfilment’?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve found that it differs dependant on the person and the situation "

What differs and in what way does it differ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve found that it differs dependant on the person and the situation

What differs and in what way does it differ? "

Whether there is an orgasm with penetration, it happens a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve found that it differs dependant on the person and the situation

What differs and in what way does it differ?

Whether there is an orgasm with penetration, it happens a lot "

OP asked whether sex is better when the woman orgasms as opposed to when she doesn’t though not whether women orgasm during sex and how often does it happen.

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over a year ago

"I’ve found that it differs dependant on the person and the situation

What differs and in what way does it differ?

Whether there is an orgasm with penetration, it happens a lot

OP asked whether sex is better when the woman orgasms as opposed to when she doesn’t though not whether women orgasm during sex and how often does it happen. "

Thanks for clearing that up, it’s late lol

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By *etMeBeYourFantasyyMan
over a year ago

bournemouth

Hit me up to ride my face for your pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hit me up to ride my face for your pleasure "

I don’t think you’ve understood what OP’s asking either.

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Actually, there are a lot of women who orgasm viganally. Most of my friends do. I’m missing something. Probably why I am more of a giver than a receiver.

Multi orgasmic women are SO lucky. "

I orgasm with clit play and sex and also nipple play also have many multiples I am very lucky as I know some women just can't

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

Yes

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By *dy-ukTV/TS
over a year ago

Alcester

Many years ago I saw a female who loved me giving her oral, when I used my fingers and hit her g-spot, she could multiple organ, again and again, like the devil posessed and completely saturate one or travel lodges beds. I guess fingers, penetration worked for us both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So are we classifying fingering a woman as sex now? Is that where the misunderstanding is coming from?

When OP was asking about vaginal penetration during sex I assumed that meant penis in vagina, I didn’t realise that using your fingers to make a woman orgasm would be classed as sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the question is sex better when you orgasms then yes of course it is

If the question is a orgasms without full penetration as good as one without then they are great in different ways

If I orgasms from just having clit played with I can have either a normal body orgasms..best orgasms but hard to achieve for me

If I orgasms from penetration with fingers I am more likely to have a multiple orgasms than I am from full penetration or if done right squirt

Mixture of both of the above wow quivering mess

Full penetration most likely a few separate orgasms but just normal run of the mill orgasms

I'm very lucky and I do orgasms pretty easily

I cant speak for every woman because we are all different I guess

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By *dy-ukTV/TS
over a year ago

Alcester

"So are we classifying fingering a woman as sex now? Is that where the misunderstanding is coming from?

When OP was asking about vaginal penetration during sex I assumed that meant penis in vagina, I didn’t realise that using your fingers to make a woman orgasm would be classed as sex. "

Doesn't matter what it is, if it's inserted in the vagina, penis, fingers, dildo or Tesco's finest cucumber, then it's penetration.

If it's orgasm through erotica, touching eroginous zones, nipple, electricity or hitachi magic wand against her clit, that's non penetration.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So are we classifying fingering a woman as sex now? Is that where the misunderstanding is coming from?

When OP was asking about vaginal penetration during sex I assumed that meant penis in vagina, I didn’t realise that using your fingers to make a woman orgasm would be classed as sex.

Doesn't matter what it is, if it's inserted in the vagina, penis, fingers, dildo or Tesco's finest cucumber, then it's penetration.

If it's orgasm through erotica, touching eroginous zones, nipple, electricity or hitachi magic wand against her clit, that's non penetration."

But it’s not sex is it, and OP was asking about sex.

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By *dy-ukTV/TS
over a year ago

Alcester

Does it really matter?

I chose to penetate this forum (pun intended) and reply with my input. It's what makes forums work, various opinions, interpretations and general replies. .

Otherwise people would be sit on the fence, not post (although sitting on the poet would penetate) and be boring!

You can tell I'm not bothered one bit, no sleep will be lost here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of men see making a woman orgasm through penetration as being the holy grail. But as a previous poster said, the majority of the time women penetration doesn't bring women to orgasm. In my experience oral is usually preferred, and often fingering for an intense orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is sex between a man and a woman, better when the woman orgasms through vaginal penetration? As opposed to when she doesn’t.?"

I’ve read this as, is it better when a woman orgasms from vaginal penetration, without adding in clitoral stimulation, and my answer souls be, when I achieve that, which isn’t that often, then yes, it’s much better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hit me up to ride my face for your pleasure

I don’t think you’ve understood what OP’s asking either. "

Sub it's their interpretation.

Like it or not!

Think you're more Dom this morning dear!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is sex between a man and a woman, better when the woman orgasms through vaginal penetration? As opposed to when she doesn’t.?"

Yes it's more intense for me rather than just clit stimulation on its own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think vaginal orgasms seem more intense. A few women I have been with seem to have multiple orgasms once they start. It's really hot they seem to lose control, makes me cum very quickly if it happens.

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By *oxyFemme72Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Is sex between a man and a woman, better when the woman orgasms through vaginal penetration? As opposed to when she doesn’t.?"

Do you mean if she orgasms through vaginal or clitoral play? Is it the male or female asking the question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Actually, there are a lot of women who orgasm viganally. Most of my friends do. I’m missing something. Probably why I am more of a giver than a receiver.

Multi orgasmic women are SO lucky.

I orgasm with clit play and sex and also nipple play also have many multiples I am very lucky as I know some women just can't "
oh wow so I guess you orgasm alot then ?

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By *jEuphoria OP Couple
over a year ago

north kent

No, for a man.

Do MEN enjoy the feeling of a woman having an orgasm, while they are inside her, BETTER; than when a woman doesn’t?

Sex is great, but on a scale of 1-10, how much better is it when a woman comes?

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By *jEuphoria OP Couple
over a year ago

north kent

No. For the man.

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By *jEuphoria OP Couple
over a year ago

north kent

I said, ‘penetration’ during sex.

It’s the female asking.

How much better is it, for the man, when the woman climaxes?

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By *jEuphoria OP Couple
over a year ago

north kent

Thanks for your reply.

I should have put this question, to men only, lol.

It’s the man’s feelings I was interested in.

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By *jEuphoria OP Couple
over a year ago

north kent

Thanks for your reply.

I should reword the question.

I would like the male point of view please.

How much better is it, for the man, when a woman climaxes during penetration.

(Clitoral stimulation not included.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for your reply.

I should reword the question.

I would like the male point of view please.

How much better is it, for the man, when a woman climaxes during penetration.

(Clitoral stimulation not included.)"

If you use reply+quote, we know who you’re talking to

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By *jEuphoria OP Couple
over a year ago

north kent

"So are we classifying fingering a woman as sex now? Is that where the misunderstanding is coming from?

When OP was asking about vaginal penetration during sex I assumed that meant penis in vagina, I didn’t realise that using your fingers to make a woman orgasm would be classed as sex. "

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By *jEuphoria OP Couple
over a year ago

north kent

"So are we classifying fingering a woman as sex now? Is that where the misunderstanding is coming from?

When OP was asking about vaginal penetration during sex I assumed that meant penis in vagina, I didn’t realise that using your fingers to make a woman orgasm would be classed as sex. "

Thanks for your reply.

I am the female. I was asking, how the male feels, and yea, I was talking about a penis in the vagina.

I would say, yes, fingering IS sex.

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By *jEuphoria OP Couple
over a year ago

north kent

"So you are asking whether sex is better for women when they orgasm? "

Thanks for your reply.

Got the man.

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By *jEuphoria OP Couple
over a year ago

north kent

"Yes

Thanks.??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be happy with any orgasm at this point!

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"I think maybe op means when a woman orgasms through vaginal penetration versus an orgasm without penetration? Penetration only orgasms are a rarity for most women!

C x"

Shhhhh, don't quote facts, they only want to believe porn.

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By *jEuphoria OP Couple
over a year ago

north kent

"Is sex between a man and a woman, better when the woman orgasms through vaginal penetration? As opposed to when she doesn’t.?erm is this a trick question ? Never in the history of sex has a woman had better sex when not reaching orgasm ...someone's goin to tel me diffrent now

I bet "

Thanks for your reply.

Excuse me for my poor, original post.

I meant, from a male point of view.

Does the man enjoy it more when the woman comes?

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By *jEuphoria OP Couple
over a year ago

north kent

"Actually, there are a lot of women who orgasm viganally. Most of my friends do. I’m missing something. Probably why I am more of a giver than a receiver.

Multi orgasmic women are SO lucky.

I orgasm with clit play and sex and also nipple play also have many multiples I am very lucky as I know some women just can't "

Thanks for your reply.

Wow, you are so lucky. ??

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By *jEuphoria OP Couple
over a year ago

north kent

"So you are asking whether sex is better for women when they orgasm? "

Thanks for your reply.

No, for the man.

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By *jEuphoria OP Couple
over a year ago

north kent

"My best orgasms are clitoral, I actually find ones through penetration a bit uncomfortable

OP was asking whether sex is better when women orgasm as opposed to not having an orgasm though. Do you prefer sex when you don’t orgasm?"

Thanks for your reply.

OP, is female.

I was quite d*unk when I posted, Oops.

I take it as it comes, no pun.

I am one of the sad ones that can’t come through penetration, (yet?!!, who knows, maybe one day).

I make up for my loss,( and his, lol.) In other ways.

P.S, I don’t brood about the topic, I just needed opinions as to the difference in sensation.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"My best orgasms are clitoral, I actually find ones through penetration a bit uncomfortable

OP was asking whether sex is better when women orgasm as opposed to not having an orgasm though. Do you prefer sex when you don’t orgasm?

Thanks for your reply.

OP, is female.

I was quite d*unk when I posted, Oops.

I take it as it comes, no pun.

I am one of the sad ones that can’t come through penetration, (yet?!!, who knows, maybe one day).

I make up for my loss,( and his, lol.) In other ways.

P.S, I don’t brood about the topic, I just needed opinions as to the difference in sensation.

Orgasm through penetration alone is rare, please don't see it as a failure, it absolutely is not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My best orgasms are clitoral, I actually find ones through penetration a bit uncomfortable

OP was asking whether sex is better when women orgasm as opposed to not having an orgasm though. Do you prefer sex when you don’t orgasm?

Thanks for your reply.

OP, is female.

I was quite d*unk when I posted, Oops.

I take it as it comes, no pun.

I am one of the sad ones that can’t come through penetration, (yet?!!, who knows, maybe one day).

I make up for my loss,( and his, lol.) In other ways.

P.S, I don’t brood about the topic, I just needed opinions as to the difference in sensation.

Orgasm through penetration alone is rare, please don't see it as a failure, it absolutely is not.

Well said

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By *jEuphoria OP Couple
over a year ago

north kent

"If the question is sex better when you orgasms then yes of course it is

If the question is a orgasms without full penetration as good as one without then they are great in different ways

If I orgasms from just having clit played with I can have either a normal body orgasms..best orgasms but hard to achieve for me

If I orgasms from penetration with fingers I am more likely to have a multiple orgasms than I am from full penetration or if done right squirt

Mixture of both of the above wow quivering mess

Full penetration most likely a few separate orgasms but just normal run of the mill orgasms

I'm very lucky and I do orgasms pretty easily

I cant speak for every woman because we are all different I guess"

Thanks for your reply.

I think there should be more studies regarding this subject.

I actually meant, I needed a man’s opinion, on how it feels, but yours is great, and interesting. Thank you. ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My best orgasms are clitoral, I actually find ones through penetration a bit uncomfortable

OP was asking whether sex is better when women orgasm as opposed to not having an orgasm though. Do you prefer sex when you don’t orgasm?

Thanks for your reply.

OP, is female.

I was quite d*unk when I posted, Oops.

I take it as it comes, no pun.

I am one of the sad ones that can’t come through penetration, (yet?!!, who knows, maybe one day).

I make up for my loss,( and his, lol.) In other ways.

P.S, I don’t brood about the topic, I just needed opinions as to the difference in sensation.

The important is you are far from alone, you'll probably find that not getting orgasm through penetration alone is far from unusual. Sorry guys cocks are not the be all and end all.

recent thread

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1249677

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By *jEuphoria OP Couple
over a year ago

north kent

"I’ve found that it differs dependant on the person and the situation

What differs and in what way does it differ?

Whether there is an orgasm with penetration, it happens a lot

OP asked whether sex is better when the woman orgasms as opposed to when she doesn’t though not whether women orgasm during sex and how often does it happen. "

Thanks for your interesting reply.

So sorry, it was a confusing question.

I am the female, asking how it feels for a man.

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
over a year ago

London

There’s so much more to sex than penetration. Orgasms can come from fingers, tongue, cock and even just the mind alone.

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By *jEuphoria OP Couple
over a year ago

north kent

"Yes

Many thanks. ??

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By *jEuphoria OP Couple
over a year ago

north kent

"I’ve found that it differs dependant on the person and the situation

What differs and in what way does it differ? "

Thanks for your reply.

It does differ, whether you’re with friends or strangers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My best orgasms are clitoral, I actually find ones through penetration a bit uncomfortable

OP was asking whether sex is better when women orgasm as opposed to not having an orgasm though. Do you prefer sex when you don’t orgasm?

Thanks for your reply.

OP, is female.

I was quite d*unk when I posted, Oops.

I take it as it comes, no pun.

I am one of the sad ones that can’t come through penetration, (yet?!!, who knows, maybe one day).

I make up for my loss,( and his, lol.) In other ways.

P.S, I don’t brood about the topic, I just needed opinions as to the difference in sensation.

I am the same as you, I find orgasm rare from penetration alone. It used to bother me but not anymore, it's not an issue when you have an understanding partner

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By *attoo Lover.Man
over a year ago

newcastle

Such a good question.

Being a giver i take my time and work hard at getting a lady there so it is prefered but not escestial.

That leads to the next point. Id rather she didnt then fake it. If i knew she didnt then i can try different things next time.

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Actually, there are a lot of women who orgasm viganally. Most of my friends do. I’m missing something. Probably why I am more of a giver than a receiver.

Multi orgasmic women are SO lucky.

I orgasm with clit play and sex and also nipple play also have many multiples I am very lucky as I know some women just can't oh wow so I guess you orgasm alot then ?"
Sure do mind blowing orgasms

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Actually, there are a lot of women who orgasm viganally. Most of my friends do. I’m missing something. Probably why I am more of a giver than a receiver.

Multi orgasmic women are SO lucky.

I orgasm with clit play and sex and also nipple play also have many multiples I am very lucky as I know some women just can't

Thanks for your reply.

Wow, you are so lucky. ??"

I hope you can achieve penetrative orgasms one day soon

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