FabSwingers.com forum: This years focus….

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Rather than saying what’s your resolution …. What is it you want to achieve this year?

Resolutions tend to fail because we put too much pressure in them or they’re a bit of a fad, but if there’s something you want to achieve you tend to plan it and see it through…

So what’s yours? New house? New job? More family time? More filthy fuckery…. You can decide just tell us all what you think you will get done

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

So instead of using 'resolve' we use 'focus' .......

Cos if we resolve we fail but if we focus we succeed ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I resolve to focus on having sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So instead of using 'resolve' we use 'focus' .......

Cos if we resolve we fail but if we focus we succeed ? "

Perhaps…. Focus …. Perhaps…. Determination….perhaps…plan…perhaps… keep up with the jones’

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I resolve to focus on having sex. "

What type?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I resolve to focus on having sex.

What type? "

There's different types

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I resolve to focus on having sex.

What type?

There's different types

That’s what they told me…. Is it a myth ….I need to write a letter to Santa he’ll tell me the truth….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I resolve to focus on having sex.

What type?

There's different types

That’s what they told me…. Is it a myth ….I need to write a letter to Santa he’ll tell me the truth…. "

He's a guy, I doubt it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My new focus is purely gym based from a fitness POV

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Start a new job at the end of January, aside from that I hope to finally pass my driving test after 2yrs of cancellations and pissing lesson money into the wind! To continue to grow my dance/fitness business and hopefully find an open minded woman for some filthy fuckery x

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

New career, more fab party socials, less health issues hopefully, weight loss of my last lockdown stone, swimming again, fun weekends away...

Lots on again this year and that makes me happy. So love the moment you are happy in cos you don't know when it's going to disappear

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I resolve to focus on having sex.

What type?

There's different types

That’s what they told me…. Is it a myth ….I need to write a letter to Santa he’ll tell me the truth….

He's a guy, I doubt it "

He is a guy to some … she is a woman to others…. A mystical creature to some…. If a guy then I am sure there is a woman guiding him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hoping to lose the potatoey look, lose weight and get fitter

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My new focus is purely gym based from a fitness POV

What’s the goal?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Start a new job at the end of January, aside from that I hope to finally pass my driving test after 2yrs of cancellations and pissing lesson money into the wind! To continue to grow my dance/fitness business and hopefully find an open minded woman for some filthy fuckery x"

All aspects covered it seems

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"New career, more fab party socials, less health issues hopefully, weight loss of my last lockdown stone, swimming again, fun weekends away...

Lots on again this year and that makes me happy. So love the moment you are happy in cos you don't know when it's going to disappear "

Very thought provoking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Making a home for myself and my kids. Moving in a few weeks.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'm finally fed up with focuses... might get a Hyundai i40 instead

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I hoping to lose the potatoey look, lose weight and get fitter"

You are a Spud'I'Like......

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I'm finally fed up with focuses... might get a Hyundai i40 instead

Do the Jones's have one?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Making a home for myself and my kids. Moving in a few weeks. "

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Making a home for myself and my kids. Moving in a few weeks. "

How lovely…. New beginnings

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm finally fed up with focuses... might get a Hyundai i40 instead

Love a Hyundai

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I hoping to lose the potatoey look, lose weight and get fitter"

Look great from here…. But always great to be fitter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My new focus is purely gym based from a fitness POV

What’s the goal? "

To get back to where I was a few years ago with running ultras but with more bulk this time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To get my mental health back to where it was three years ago be healthy and happy to find a lady to sit on my face

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My new focus is purely gym based from a fitness POV

What’s the goal?

To get back to where I was a few years ago with running ultras but with more bulk this time "

What’s your key to bulk?

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

This year is about me.

I have been in relationships where I have gladly given myself up,my wants and needs sidelined, so that I could make the lady of my life just that...my life.

I am going to fight to the surface and allow me to be me. No more watering down my attitudes or opinions.

In the past I have held back, simmered and then blown up. I no longer accept this as something a person who cares about themself does.

So, no goals, no direction. Just be me. Love myself enough to put myself 2nd...after my mum who is everything.

I am buying a house and will concentrate on that and renovating my other houses as well. This will form my core concentration.

I will be on here chatting pants in my quiet moments.

I will, at some point, allow myself to let love in again. In what form, who knows but, when I get a garden in another house, a dog is looking good atm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Making a home for myself and my kids. Moving in a few weeks.

How lovely…. New beginnings

Definitely! First place I've bought by myself.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

"New career, more fab party socials, less health issues hopefully, weight loss of my last lockdown stone, swimming again, fun weekends away...

Lots on again this year and that makes me happy. So love the moment you are happy in cos you don't know when it's going to disappear

Very thought provoking "

I nearly lost a close friend to cancer last year so life took on a new meaning for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My new focus is purely gym based from a fitness POV

What’s the goal?

To get back to where I was a few years ago with running ultras but with more bulk this time

What’s your key to bulk?"

Food and heavy weights. Keeping it simple

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By *evil-AngelWoman
over a year ago

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My focus this year is on enjoyment.

I've just started a job I enjoy and my kids are more settled after I separated from their dad so I think I can take some time for me this year.

I'm going to plan in more weekends away - by myself, with friends and for fab fun as well as working on my inner critic and learning to love myself again.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

More filthy fuckery

Start new job

Hit 100kg in bodyweight by end of month

then lean down for mates stag do in summer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Focus entirely on me, got a few ops to do this year

And also will focus on a new career x

Put some stressful stuff behind in 2021, so I’m hopeful to a year of self love actually x

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By *rooperRedMan
over a year ago

Littlehampton

Not end the year alone.

Getting over my financial worries.

Get my business off the ground.

Overcome my social anxiety.

Lots to work on. And I'm supposed to be a coach.

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Getting better again

Getting fitter

Attending clubs

New job

And lots of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happiness

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By *agertha73Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"I resolve to focus on having sex. "

Good idea

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This year is about me.

I have been in relationships where I have gladly given myself up,my wants and needs sidelined, so that I could make the lady of my life just that...my life.

I am going to fight to the surface and allow me to be me. No more watering down my attitudes or opinions.

In the past I have held back, simmered and then blown up. I no longer accept this as something a person who cares about themself does.

So, no goals, no direction. Just be me. Love myself enough to put myself 2nd...after my mum who is everything.

I am buying a house and will concentrate on that and renovating my other houses as well. This will form my core concentration.

I will be on here chatting pants in my quiet moments.

I will, at some point, allow myself to let love in again. In what form, who knows but, when I get a garden in another house, a dog is looking good atm.

Got to love yourself before anyone else can.

And love a good renovation… big changes?

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Getting my body fixed

Continuing some amazing friendships

Getting off here and going dating

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Making a home for myself and my kids. Moving in a few weeks.

How lovely…. New beginnings

Definitely! First place I've bought by myself."

Love it…. I loved my first gaff… make it your own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Learning a new skill relating to my job

Continual improvement in fitness around weight training and better cardio

Put a bit more effort in to try and get meets from Fab

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By *agertha73Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"My focus this year is on enjoyment.

I've just started a job I enjoy and my kids are more settled after I separated from their dad so I think I can take some time for me this year.

I'm going to plan in more weekends away - by myself, with friends and for fab fun as well as working on my inner critic and learning to love myself again."

Good luck with all your goals, and a successful 2022 x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"New career, more fab party socials, less health issues hopefully, weight loss of my last lockdown stone, swimming again, fun weekends away...

Lots on again this year and that makes me happy. So love the moment you are happy in cos you don't know when it's going to disappear

Very thought provoking

I nearly lost a close friend to cancer last year so life took on a new meaning for me

The big moments tend to provoke change

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My focus this year is on enjoyment.

I've just started a job I enjoy and my kids are more settled after I separated from their dad so I think I can take some time for me this year.

I'm going to plan in more weekends away - by myself, with friends and for fab fun as well as working on my inner critic and learning to love myself again."

Self

Love

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"More filthy fuckery

Start new job

Hit 100kg in bodyweight by end of month

then lean down for mates stag do in summer!"

Big goals

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Focus entirely on me, got a few ops to do this year

And also will focus on a new career x

Put some stressful stuff behind in 2021, so I’m hopeful to a year of self love actually x

Perfect

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not end the year alone.

Getting over my financial worries.

Get my business off the ground.

Overcome my social anxiety.

Lots to work on. And I'm supposed to be a coach."

take little steps

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Happiness "

It’s the key

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By *evil-AngelWoman
over a year ago

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"My focus this year is on enjoyment.

I've just started a job I enjoy and my kids are more settled after I separated from their dad so I think I can take some time for me this year.

I'm going to plan in more weekends away - by myself, with friends and for fab fun as well as working on my inner critic and learning to love myself again.

Good luck with all your goals, and a successful 2022 x"

Thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Getting my body fixed

Continuing some amazing friendships

Getting off here and going dating

Ooo dating…. How daring of you :p

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Our focus will be on a new business we're starting up this month!

M and M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going to ensure I make more time for myself this year

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There’s a lot of self discovery planned this year ….

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"This year is about me.

I have been in relationships where I have gladly given myself up,my wants and needs sidelined, so that I could make the lady of my life just that...my life.

I am going to fight to the surface and allow me to be me. No more watering down my attitudes or opinions.

In the past I have held back, simmered and then blown up. I no longer accept this as something a person who cares about themself does.

So, no goals, no direction. Just be me. Love myself enough to put myself 2nd...after my mum who is everything.

I am buying a house and will concentrate on that and renovating my other houses as well. This will form my core concentration.

I will be on here chatting pants in my quiet moments.

I will, at some point, allow myself to let love in again. In what form, who knows but, when I get a garden in another house, a dog is looking good atm.

Got to love yourself before anyone else can.

And love a good renovation… big changes? "

Not really. Just a full refurb of 4 bed 2 bathroom, georgian semi...about 45k.

My other house that is urgent after tenants move out, hasn't been touched for 15 yrs apart from repairs. About 35k on that one. All basic stuff really.

The Georgian one I am buying is as a result of my moving 100 miles to be someone who I was never going to make happy.

So a long way from home and building a new life and perhaps property business.

I wouldnt say I would ever love myself, but I need to fall in like at least

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

I'm going to be putting myself 1st, carry on healing myself and finding me.

I changed myself quite a few yeaes ago, so I could fit in with others and I always put my friends and family before me, I was a people pleaser. I actually didn't like the person I became and I took a good hard look and myself and started changing the bits I didn't like. I have started to like the person I'm becoming. I have not contacted people who I thought were my friends, and they haven't contacted me either.

I would like to find someone to have a relationship with, to grow with, to go on our personal journey and all the things that go with it.

My middle child(26) is moving out of the family home in the next few months, this will also give me space to grow more.

And I am thinking very hard about moving away from this town.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm going to be putting myself 1st, carry on healing myself and finding me.

I would like to find someone to have a relationship with, to grow with, to go on our personal journey and all the things that go with it.

My middle child(26) is moving out of the family home in the next few months, this will also give me space to grow more.

And I am thinking very hard about moving away from this town.

Lots to think about…. How come you want to move?

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