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"I prefer long sessions too. There are so, so many things to do together; it's perfectly easy to lose track of time and spend two hours inside a partner. It was a bit of a shock to discover that so many people's idea of "lasting" is under twenty minutes. Why a shock? Everyone’s different and likes different things. Surely that’s not a shock?" People wanting different things is not a shock. Obviously. Discovering that I'm such an outlier when I previously had no idea was the shock. I suppose I absorbed the idea "Three pumps and done is bad", incorrectly extrapolated it out into "The longer the better", and then trained myself accordingly. It was therefore a surprise to find myself in the position where the length of time an apparent majority of people find normal and satisfying feels like a blind, frantic hurry to me. | |||
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"I prefer long sessions too. There are so, so many things to do together; it's perfectly easy to lose track of time and spend two hours inside a partner. It was a bit of a shock to discover that so many people's idea of "lasting" is under twenty minutes. Why a shock? Everyone’s different and likes different things. Surely that’s not a shock? People wanting different things is not a shock. Obviously. Discovering that I'm such an outlier when I previously had no idea was the shock. I suppose I absorbed the idea "Three pumps and done is bad", incorrectly extrapolated it out into "The longer the better", and then trained myself accordingly. It was therefore a surprise to find myself in the position where the length of time an apparent majority of people find normal and satisfying feels like a blind, frantic hurry to me. " Fair enough. | |||
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"penetration, I even like to take my time warming everything up could be 30-45 mins all in, probably bore some people haha " that would only be getting started for me, | |||
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"Ooh I am so with you OP! Would love an over nighter with a mystery man if hubby allows as I can play all night! Hubby has recently cracked his ribs so we've been taking it very slowly and carefully. The long slow sex has me cumming again and again. The kissing, the touching, the sensual slow build up. Mmm my kind of sex!" thats exactly how it's supposed to be. I thought that's what everyone would want | |||
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"Yip i perfer all nighters and stuff with the time it takes me to get ready and such But I mean it’s not all sex It’s it’s incorporated in to multiple things Brakes inbween rounds chat massages change off outfits Lap dances fashion shows a good chat and giggle Before you know it it’s check out time the next day lol " sounds more like a fashion show ?? | |||
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"Yip i perfer all nighters and stuff with the time it takes me to get ready and such But I mean it’s not all sex It’s it’s incorporated in to multiple things Brakes inbween rounds chat massages change off outfits Lap dances fashion shows a good chat and giggle Before you know it it’s check out time the next day lol sounds more like a fashion show ?? " And there’s nothing wrong with that | |||
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"Ooh I am so with you OP! Would love an over nighter with a mystery man if hubby allows as I can play all night! Hubby has recently cracked his ribs so we've been taking it very slowly and carefully. The long slow sex has me cumming again and again. The kissing, the touching, the sensual slow build up. Mmm my kind of sex!thats exactly how it's supposed to be. I thought that's what everyone would want" Apparently not! I think I need to make it clearer in the profile I'm not into quickies. | |||
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