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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have a friend that is perimenopausal and with this seems to be experiencing clitoris atrophy.

Can anyone recommend treatments toys etc that may help. She seems to be finding it more and more difficult to climax.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kind of you to ask for her OP

Wish I could offer some advice, hopefully some others may be able to help xxx

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Seek medical advice for topical oestrogen treatment, which is the only solution for atrophy. It's caused by low oestrogen. These things must be prescribed and she may be best advised seeking the opinion of a urogynaecologist, a specialist in such things.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I can't answer your OP, but I had this issue following childbirth and miscarriage. I found that my clit after each one changed and that different things worked after each event. For me it was all about going back to basics and forgetting what I used to like and exploring what I did now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a friend that is perimenopausal and with this seems to be experiencing clitoris atrophy.

Can anyone recommend treatments toys etc that may help. She seems to be finding it more and more difficult to climax."

Get her to use the Balance App and also follow Dr Louise Newson who specialises in the perimenopause & menopause.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your advice guys, I will pass all info to her. She has tried various toys, but they seem hit and miss really.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"I have a friend that is perimenopausal and with this seems to be experiencing clitoris atrophy.

Can anyone recommend treatments toys etc that may help. She seems to be finding it more and more difficult to climax.

Get her to use the Balance App and also follow Dr Louise Newson who specialises in the perimenopause & menopause."

And this uploaded the balance app recently and Dr Newson after watching a podcast

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Toys won't help unless she gets treatment. As has been advised estrogen cream or pessaries, prescribed by a professional. Also daily moisturisation using something like virgin coconut oil and loads of lube during any sexual activity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a brand of lube that I swear by. I get it prescribed it’s called “ YES “you can get a lube and a VM (vaginal moisturiser) really helped me with getting back into sex after surgery’s and various gynea issues.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your suggestions ladies, I'm trying encourage her to visit her GP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hrt will help, as will regular sexual activity (with or without partner) as it increases the blood flow and keeps it healthy.

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