FabSwingers.com forum: Cumming to quickly...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The elephant in the room..

Often guilty..

Trust me ladies it's just as frustrating for us guys as for you. Though cannot understand why women believe it's us being selfish? as if it's some thing we have control over.... if anything it means the lady is so hot !! and is a compliment.

Even though the guy has shot he is not spent.. After a few minutes most of are keen to pleasure ladies in other ways. So often I find women misconception is " ok he,s cum bugger so I suppose that's it then "....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No issue for me. Just give him some down time and a little rest then go again. I love it when a guy cums quickly cos it makes me feel like my fanny has magical powers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No issue for me. Just give him some down time and a little rest then go again. I love it when a guy cums quickly cos it makes me feel like my fanny has magical powers. "
ha ha ...perhaps it does ..!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I'm perfectly happy if he cums immediately as long as he's either able to go again later or is good at oral xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No issue for me. Just give him some down time and a little rest then go again. I love it when a guy cums quickly cos it makes me feel like my fanny has magical powers. "

^ this (I'll admit to chuckling at the "makes me feel like my fanny has magical powers"

Yeah, give the fella time to recover, some understanding and patience pays off.

More a fella worries about it, then it manifests as an issue... I wouldn't want the poor guy going that route.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I don’t think it’s selfish. Did someone say it was selfish?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been guilty of this a few times.

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

I have totally the opposite problem

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Found over time have got more control of when to cum

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By *effrey45Man
over a year ago

Lytham

For the ladies it should be taken as a compliment especially if they have gone to the trouble of looking hot and dressed for you

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Not coming is worse than to quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not coming is worse than to quickly

Definitely xx

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I like to cum quickly, means I can get back to the playstation sooner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Communication is key. Perhaps explain the situation, and that although it may happen quickly, by no means is it an end to proceedings.

It happens to me sometimes, when I meet someone new. The excitement of the build up, and the resulting anticipation when we’re in the same room can get the better of me. It’s never been an issue (I’m told).

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

It's a personal mind game, I find when with someone who totally ticks every box it is very difficult to hold back but in your mind you don't want it to end. I hate quickies and hate being the one to come first so always try to hold back/pause to regain focus and allow the lady to have her pleasure first, that's the plan anyway, I can't ay it always goes to plan.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"It's a personal mind game, I find when with someone who totally ticks every box it is very difficult to hold back but in your mind you don't want it to end. I hate quickies and hate being the one to come first so always try to hold back/pause to regain focus and allow the lady to have her pleasure first, that's the plan anyway, I can't ay it always goes to plan."

Cringe

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

"Not coming is worse than to quickly

Definitely xx"

I'm on medication and have nerve damage that cause it . It doesn't mean I have enjoyed it any less but I do understand you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The elephant in the room..

Often guilty..

Yes it can be selfish if he makes no attempt at going again or ensuring the lady also gets to cum. I’ve been with men who can absolutely control their cum. They can hold themselves back until I’ve cum or they ask me if they can cum - super controlled!

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I find it hard to control first time round, round 2 you’ve got me for a while haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it hard to control first time round, round 2 you’ve got me for a while haha

The perfect mix

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not coming is worse than to quickly

Definitely xx

I'm on medication and have nerve damage that cause it . It doesn't mean I have enjoyed it any less but I do understand you"

I'm sorry to hear that. Its probably more of an issue for me than most as I'm a cumslut, I expect other women won't be so bothered xx

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By *parrow77Man
over a year ago

cheshire

It depends on when or how often had regular fun.

If have lots regular I know I last longer from start.

If been while like now 6 months I know I’ll cum fast but recover quick to go again and again and know last longer then.

Worse had was when been goin for hours an I hadn’t cum the lady started get worried she was crap or I didn’t like her - but my body was opposite liked he loads wanted nothing finish and ruin the great fun eventually I did but I started to think about faking it cos seen she looked hurt

As someone said it’s bloody mind games

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

"Not coming is worse than to quickly

Definitely xx

I'm on medication and have nerve damage that cause it . It doesn't mean I have enjoyed it any less but I do understand you

I'm sorry to hear that. Its probably more of an issue for me than most as I'm a cumslut, I expect other women won't be so bothered xx"

I can imagine that's a problem then. The only plus is I have time to make sure I try to satisfy the lady . To me that has always been the most important thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to cum quickly, means I can get back to the playstation sooner."

This, but I like to go to the kitchen and find food to eat instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of fingers and a tongue to use whilst recovering if that happens

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