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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Help us out here ladies,

Is it best for us guys to show that we find a lady sexy and we would like to get to know them to achieve sex.

Or is the more caring and considerate approach is preffered or is this " though" cute is just doesn't do it.

Do you need that innitial alure that your desired in a carnel way to warrant a response from you and your effort.?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there was a single universal answer I think it would have been worked out by now. Every person is different which makes the various ways we can interact an infinite variety of choices. What a woman wants when she's 22 from one guy is likely going to be very different to when she's 30 from another guy or 56 from yet another different partner. Just be yourself, if she likes that then great if she doesn't then it's no use finding out how to act to change her mind as that is all it will be - an act.

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The answer to that would be harder to discover than the meaning of life.

Simply tailor your approach to the person you’re approaching. If all else fails, flop ya big fella out and ask the immortal question. “Fancy a fuck”.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the only reason you want to get to know that woman is “to achieve sex” then I think it’s best you tailor your approach to suit that. Telling her you find her sexy and would like to fuck her is completely fine - she knows where she stands and what you’re offering.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"If the only reason you want to get to know that woman is “to achieve sex” then I think it’s best you tailor your approach to suit that. Telling her you find her sexy and would like to fuck her is completely fine - she knows where she stands and what you’re offering.

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Exactly, I'd rather know that my friendship or anything I actually said or did was of no importance and my vag was the ultimate goal, and once achieved they're likely to vanish or only hit me up when they want another go on my fanny

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If there was a single universal answer I think it would have been worked out by now. Every person is different which makes the various ways we can interact an infinite variety of choices. What a woman wants when she's 22 from one guy is likely going to be very different to when she's 30 from another guy or 56 from yet another different partner. Just be yourself, if she likes that then great if she doesn't then it's no use finding out how to act to change her mind as that is all it will be - an act.

Mr"
Taken on board ,absorbed and understood. Well presented to....thankyou

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If the only reason you want to get to know that woman is “to achieve sex” then I think it’s best you tailor your approach to suit that. Telling her you find her sexy and would like to fuck her is completely fine - she knows where she stands and what you’re offering.

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Blimey ? I may be a bit maturer than most on here and attitudes have changes somewhat from my younger days. Would women these days genuinely be comfortable with that honesty ? Or is simply they,d prefer to hear it now and then, to help their confidence.This regardless of the fact that they very unlikely to act on it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If the only reason you want to get to know that woman is “to achieve sex” then I think it’s best you tailor your approach to suit that. Telling her you find her sexy and would like to fuck her is completely fine - she knows where she stands and what you’re offering.

Exactly, I'd rather know that my friendship or anything I actually said or did was of no importance and my vag was the ultimate goal, and once achieved they're likely to vanish or only hit me up when they want another go on my fanny "
ha ha ...very good..

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"If the only reason you want to get to know that woman is “to achieve sex” then I think it’s best you tailor your approach to suit that. Telling her you find her sexy and would like to fuck her is completely fine - she knows where she stands and what you’re offering.

Blimey ? I may be a bit maturer than most on here and attitudes have changes somewhat from my younger days. Would women these days genuinely be comfortable with that honesty ? Or is simply they,d prefer to hear it now and then, to help their confidence.This regardless of the fact that they very unlikely to act on it."

I think honesty, or lack therefore thus far in their lives is what compells the necessity of it now. Imagine being shown "interest" and a false sense of humanity or basic care just to access sex. Instead of humanising you it does the complete opposite. You feel played and stupid.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

If I like the look of someone and I feel the bio is a match then I will message a woman. Why wouldn’t you. Getting a wink is a nice way for a woman to show she’s interested btw ladies

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