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By *ynda1978 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Liverpool

What did you do for your 1st meet/social? Was it a drink, something to eat? I would imagine some are a little raunchy too

How did you combat your nerves or were you bold and confident.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a drink or two in a bar, I wasn’t nervous. It was a spontaneous meet

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Went for a walk in the park with her and her dog.

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By *alty surpriseMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Met a lovely couple in a pub...chatted, went back to theirs and yes I was nervous ,but soon at ease

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What did you do for your 1st meet/social? Was it a drink, something to eat? I would imagine some are a little raunchy too

How did you combat your nerves or were you bold and confident. "

Met for coffee , nearly changed our minds at last minute.

Chat got very naughty. Met up again a week later for our first ever FFM which was amazing

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

Coffee, fun conversation and a long slow kiss.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

My first was 3 days after I joined fab and went straight into a scripted by me fantasy and he blew my socks off

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

First fab social was in a coffee shop with a follow up a few weeks later in another coffee shop which in turn was followed by an hotel meet a month after that and resulted in me leaving fab because of the lunacy.

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By *urio77Man
over a year ago

northampton

She came over to my house.We enjoyed a few relaxed drinks, good conversation and had a good laugh together. Things progressed and we both had a great night. It happened exactly how I hoped it would. Drama free NSA. Loved it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went for cake & coffee

Cake & hot drinks always make for good socials

Others have included McDonalds and a walk round an antiques centre with lunch and a natter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I first met my OH over hot chocolate in a Costa Coffee

It was cold and rainy outdoors

I reckon it was my orange knitted bobble hat that sealed the deal

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

Mine was a drink in a pub.

Then to his

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First meet when I signed up on previous account couple of years ago, I'd always been in relationships so never met anyone like this...

Picked her up in the car for a "drive" was very nervous, she lunges for my cock 2 mins into driving had me horny as fuck so we find a country lane and she sucked me til completion was the best BJ I'd had up until then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first meet he actually came to ours we'd been chatting for quite a while though.

Our second meet which was a social we met for drinks at a halfway point then went out for a meal and back out for a couple more drinks. It was great, loved it!

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

A cup of green tea, conversation, a little walk then it quickly progressed

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Couple of drinks and I was bricking it but conversation flowed and she was lovely

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

My first social was a drink at a pub. My last social was a drink and a bite to eat in a pub.

Super simple and pressure free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol a coffee in McDonald's!!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Fucked

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Met for a coffee, I went off him when he got froth on his lip and tried to lick it off seductively going 'mmmmmmmmm' at the same time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meal and a chat in a pub really enjoyable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couple came to my flat and were both naked within 5 mins, I was clearly over dressed so I joined them. A great evening followed!

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

First one who actually turned up was coffee on a saturday morning. Wasn't particularly nervous, he was a delight although we never took it any further.

A quick coffee turned into 4 hours of chatting and laughing, which is always good news!

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Met for a coffee, I went off him when he got froth on his lip and tried to lick it off seductively going 'mmmmmmmmm' at the same time! "

Oh god, how can anyone keep a straight face watching that?

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Coffee shop fun banter and at ease never get nervous just excited x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually just a coffee. Have gone for a walk a couple of times too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went to a pub and the guy miraculously snapped his card on the way to me so I ended up paying for the evening, no second meet

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By *otshot14Woman
over a year ago

nuneaton

I always meet in a coffee shop first,then that way u kind of know from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First Fab group social... I picked a bloke up by the side of the road. We went into the social place and it was weird as. People just standing around staring and not really chatting. Text book Swinger stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First Fab group social... I picked a bloke up by the side of the road. We went into the social place and it was weird as. People just standing around staring and not really chatting. Text book Swinger stuff. "

This sounds awfully familiar

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I usually meet for a coffee. The nerves are part of the excitement- sort of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First Fab group social... I picked a bloke up by the side of the road. We went into the social place and it was weird as. People just standing around staring and not really chatting. Text book Swinger stuff.

This sounds awfully familiar "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm my first, well it was on a previous profile..yes we were both very hungry so much so we left half our drinks and went back to hers which was very near by. I ate, she ate... she was stuffed

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By *elinefineWoman
over a year ago

kempston

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By *heOriginalLoisWoman
over a year ago

London

Excluding the friend who introduced me to Fab. Lunchtime drinks around the corner from my office. Got on like a house on fire and 6 years on we are still friends.

I am lucky that I am in the perfect geographical location for lunchtime socials during the week. You know you only have to endure a short time of you are not enjoying it.

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By *elinefineWoman
over a year ago

kempston

At a feed store when I went to collect horse feed. He worked close by so it was convenient. Ended up stood next to my car chatting for about an hour and I ended up very sunburnt!! We met again a week or so later at my house and it was a much less civilised meet

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Met for a coffee, I went off him when he got froth on his lip and tried to lick it off seductively going 'mmmmmmmmm' at the same time!

Oh god, how can anyone keep a straight face watching that? "

My face was a kind of face

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

My first swinging experience was a club with Cal.

Had a great night including going to a room and having sex with another couple. We jumped in at the deep end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Met for a coffee, I went off him when he got froth on his lip and tried to lick it off seductively going 'mmmmmmmmm' at the same time!

Oh god, how can anyone keep a straight face watching that?

My face was a kind of face "

That’s hilarious

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Chat in a pub. One of my favourite people to this day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met him at a hotel, with instructions of what to do in the first 20 seconds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was stupid and drove to his house without a social meet first. Chatted for a bit, went upstairs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meals can be quite awkward on a first meet unless you have developed a good rapport whith them previously and ice already broken. If you find there is not chemistry (being polite) kind of stuck with them, stilted conversation and false niceties. Atleast for the meal.

We normally would meet for drinks only for the first meet, progessing to maybe a meal or more if there is a chemistry there.

Everyone is different

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By *awty-discreetMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I’ve done both…a coffee n chat, aswell as straight round to hers…both very enjoyable for entirely different reasons lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chatted for a few weeks then she came over to mine one evening for a drink. Was a really pleasant evening, lots of good chat and giggles eventually leading into the bedroom, good times!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Met in the park. Took my dog.

Ended up in floods of tears coz he told me I had a good heart and I wasn't used to being paid compliments, just abuse.

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By *ixedDevilMan
over a year ago

Bootyville

I went to hers. Had a few drinks. Engaged in a little foreplay on the sofa before moving into the bedroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Met for a coffee, I went off him when he got froth on his lip and tried to lick it off seductively going 'mmmmmmmmm' at the same time! "

feckin hilarious... Is he on the forum

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire


"What did you do for your 1st meet/social? Was it a drink, something to eat? I would imagine some are a little raunchy too

How did you combat your nerves or were you bold and confident. "

1st meet was supposed to be social only and we got on like a house on fire and things moved on pretty quickly.

We were both nervous but settled quickly as I managed to do a "Frank Spencer" impression.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

I went to his house, he seduced me with an unbelievable Thai tapas meal and banging tunes, we drank, ate, danced and laughed - I felt 100% relaxed and like we had met before - probably why he’s still a fwb x

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK

MY first meets came on a previous profile and all were pleasant - coffee, dog walk, bit to eat.

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

My very first social was with a single female and I went as always with no expectations at all and shaking like a leaf, within 10 seconds of her sitting in my passenger seat our lips met and it escalated very quickly, totally threw me.

Second social was more respectful an normal with a couple in their own house and an hour long drinking coffee and chatting about general things and this site, it went well and led to further meets, I was less nervous and more confident and go to each social with more confidence every time. Best thing is to expect nothing but a pleasant chat to feel more relaxed and help the other person be more relaxed.

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By *ich_ChesterMan
over a year ago

Chester

Met in a local pub close to her as she did not drive, a few drinks, plenty of chat and laughs, ended with plenty of flirtatious looks and touches and finished with a lingering kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was going to their house to meet the f of the couple... I talk for England when I'm nervous so it was OK but she was really shy and nervous but kept playing with her tongue bar which really turned me on.... I was well behaved though and didn't act upon it. Was back within 4 days for a playdate

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went to a couples house for coffee and they made me feel totally at ease and despite my nervousness we actually had an intelligent chat.

Gorgeous kiss on the way out which sealed the deal.

Met 2 weeks later for some very nice playtime

Good fwb's 2 years later.

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!


"What did you do for your 1st meet/social? Was it a drink, something to eat? I would imagine some are a little raunchy too

How did you combat your nerves or were you bold and confident. "

We went to a pub, it was the ladies suggestion, she didn’t realise it was a folk open mic night! It was awesome and terrible but great!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First Fab group social... I picked a bloke up by the side of the road. We went into the social place and it was weird as. People just standing around staring and not really chatting. Text book Swinger stuff. "

This is what makes us nervous of attending clubs......queue the barrage of people saying its not like that.... We have read loads of verifications to say the opposite but its still makes us nervous about the pressure etc. we might try one day

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I met a couple at their place and he stayed downstairs while me and her went upstairs to play. I was nervous for a bit when first arrived but they went when she took her gown off to reveal her completely naked body

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Met for a coffee, I went off him when he got froth on his lip and tried to lick it off seductively going 'mmmmmmmmm' at the same time!

feckin hilarious... Is he on the forum "

No!!!!

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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago

London

We spent the morning on the London underground giving tourists the wrong directions then had a romantic afternoon at the laundrette washing my shirts.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

First meet on here went for a “hike” in the local forestry park. Never again, he was a super fast walker and I almost died trying to keep pace!!

We’re still in touch though

Usually it’s just a coffee. I wish I could do drive by socials, where you just get a wee glimpse and drive on with a yay or a nay. First meets make me so anxious.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Met for a coffee, I went off him when he got froth on his lip and tried to lick it off seductively going 'mmmmmmmmm' at the same time!

feckin hilarious... Is he on the forum

No!!!! "

Most things only women can make look sexy, it's such a cruel world

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Met for a coffee, I went off him when he got froth on his lip and tried to lick it off seductively going 'mmmmmmmmm' at the same time!

feckin hilarious... Is he on the forum

No!!!!

Most things only women can make look sexy, it's such a cruel world "

Isn't it? He nearly put me off mankind tbh! I think I burnt my tongue on my drink I just had to get outta there

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Met for a coffee, I went off him when he got froth on his lip and tried to lick it off seductively going 'mmmmmmmmm' at the same time!

feckin hilarious... Is he on the forum

No!!!!

Most things only women can make look sexy, it's such a cruel world

Isn't it? He nearly put me off mankind tbh! I think I burnt my tongue on my drink I just had to get outta there "

I guess this is a lesson all guys should take note of, don't order cream if on a coffee social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

met for a coffee nearby her place of work. didn’t get any froth on my lip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still waiting for my first meet from here

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

She was a pilot for a major airline.

First meet was afternoon tea in the City.

Second meet was in a flight simulator near Gatwick.

The third meet, during a quiet Bank Holiday, was back in the flight simulator...this time there wasn't much 'flying'.

I now know why they call it The Cockpit.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

We were supposed to be going for a drink but he stood me up.

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By *oodguyeddieMan
over a year ago

l36


"We were supposed to be going for a drink but he stood me up."

He must be mad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We were supposed to be going for a drink but he stood me up.

He must be mad

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Thats shocking

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Met up both had few bottles of wine was late at night so booked a room and enjoyed what time we had together until morning

We Both were confident as we'd been chatting for months until both had free time available.I've always been this way

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By *recious69Woman
over a year ago

caversham

I’m married so have to be very discreet - I find it quite hard juggling when I can meet but first would be a social perhaps in a coffee shop and then hopefully a nice walk somewhere where there are a few secluded spots

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Had drink at her local. Meeting was great and we had a lot to talk about.

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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago

Serendipity

Went for a coffee, I wasn’t nervous as we had chatted for a while beforehand.

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!


"Met for a coffee, I went off him when he got froth on his lip and tried to lick it off seductively going 'mmmmmmmmm' at the same time! "

Had to read that again, I thought he tried to lick your lip at first!!!

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By *lmightyjay38Man
over a year ago

grimsby

Not been lucky enough for either just get !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not been offered one yet

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By *he MedwaysCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

He came to our hotel room where Mary was blindfolded and sitting on the bed. We played with her for an hour or so then had a break we’re he went to next door bar and we changed and then met for a couple of drinks and a chat to make sure everyone was happy to continue then we followed Mary back to the room for the continuation of the evening.

Worked so well that we repeated it with our next meet with a new guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My very first social was a chat in a car me and the lady in the back whilst her hubby was in the front

It was only meant to be a chat to see if we all liked each other

Rest assured we liked each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first and only was a coffee and a very detailed duscussion about my intentions and playing safe. Respected every question and gave totally honest answers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should also add that I was sh*tting myself too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met in an Italian and got to know a little more about one another and had a little flirt. Personality is a big one for me so this was only after we had casually messaged for a while. I was nervous but I think it adds to the excitement. We made sure all involved knew it was strictly a social and then invited him around to ours for a meal and debauchery the second meet

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Coffee in the day is good for a first meet.

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By *ynda1978 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Liverpool

Thanks all, gone with the simplest..... a coffee. Wish me luck

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Love the nerves and butterflies.

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

It was long ago but as I remember we met for a drink to get to know each other and then I invited her to my hotel room and we fucked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met at his house. Kinky sex. Went home.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"What did you do for your 1st meet/social? Was it a drink, something to eat? I would imagine some are a little raunchy too

How did you combat your nerves or were you bold and confident. "

Met in Costas on a Tuesday afternoon for a coffee and a chat.

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