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Being blocked after accepting friends invite ???

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By *unseeker6969 OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere

What’s peoples thoughts on couples blocking men after accepting friends invite and sharing pictures chatting to arrange a social ???

I’ve chatted for a few days with a Essex couple and things don’t make sense..

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Have u got face pics In friends only? Maybe they knew you

Or maybe they changed their minds, people often do and in an ideal world they'd tell you before they block.

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By *tanXXXMan
over a year ago

North east

Standard sort of scenario getting blocked for no apparent reasoning

I wouldn't lose any sleep over it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s peoples thoughts on couples blocking men after accepting friends invite and sharing pictures chatting to arrange a social ???

I’ve chatted for a few days with a Essex couple and things don’t make sense.. "

Did you do sex chat with them? Probably just a man wanking.

Or maybe they know you.

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By *unseeker6969 OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere

Face pictures are private and they sent face pictures but thinking about some of there pictures compared to friends pictures bodies are totally different sizes. They wanted to arrange a meet in a parked up camper van so I thought it could be real after they gave address details where they park up.

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By *unseeker6969 OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere

Yeah finding that out a lot.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

OP try the reply & quote button

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By *ensual-dominant-passionMan
over a year ago

sheffield

I don’t care if anyone blocks me… their loss lol

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By *unseeker6969 OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere

Just find it very annoying but getting used to it sometimes it’s funny.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Was it a photo verified profile? New or old, did they have a good number of photos, meet verifications.

Maybe you only spoke to one half of the couple and the other said no or they simply changed their minds.

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By *unseeker6969 OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere

Normally name and shame.

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By *unseeker6969 OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere

Verified and meets listed and they have about 20 pictures but the friends pictures I’d say there’s a good 8 dress sizes different for the female from the profile pictures. Possible spoke to just a male.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Verified and meets listed and they have about 20 pictures but the friends pictures I’d say there’s a good 8 dress sizes different for the female from the profile pictures. Possible spoke to just a male. "

Could be from not being so active through covid but it's just a guess, I'd say more than likely you only spoke to the male half but I don't know

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

This may shock you BUT ....... I have NO thoughts on it.

What are YOUR thoughts. It's your experience.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"Normally name and shame. "

Don't do that, you'll get a ban op

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By *unseeker6969 OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere

My thoughts are too many time wasters and talkers

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By *unseeker6969 OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere

Not been banned in the past named and shamed a lot.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"My thoughts are too many time wasters and talkers "

Think about it. You spent YOUR time talking to them ....

Did you enjoy it ?

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

People are strange and act in ways you sometimes can’t understand.

I think the reason it sometimes stings as much as it does is because it is hard to get meets, and so when you get so far and then let down its a bit frustrating.

Try not to let it get to you.

Get out to clubs and socials and just have fun. Forget making fucking your priority, and just have fun.

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By *ornynorfolkguyMan
over a year ago

North Norfolk

Just block and move on.

Don’t name and shame either, not cool.

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By *unseeker6969 OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere

Thanks, learnt a lesson during the 1st lockdown had a really good social with a couple chatted a lot thought out the lock down and then removed from friends then blocked without reason chatted for nearly a year. Fucking isn’t my priority it’s building up trust for regular fun.

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By *unseeker6969 OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere

They blocked me, not cool to warn others about the behaviours of some ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get warning others if there was a potential threat, or if those persons were dangerous...but that is what site admin are for, to report profiles if necessary.

Maybe they saw something in your friend's only pics that turned then off..who knows why.

There are lots of not very nice things that people do, blocking is frustrating...but it is allowed.

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By *unseeker6969 OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere

They said they were both happy with my pictures, yeah I understand blocking but after arranging a plan to meet then blocking totally strange.

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ


"They said they were both happy with my pictures, yeah I understand blocking but after arranging a plan to meet then blocking totally strange. "

They could have a world of reasons. They do not have to explain. Politeness might suggest it but that is not a right. Do not name. People who suggest it are trying to get you barred. We only have your side to assess. You would not be the first to have your nose out of joint and get vindictive, under the pretence of "thinking of others".

Learn from the experience then gracefully and simply move on

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"They said they were both happy with my pictures, yeah I understand blocking but after arranging a plan to meet then blocking totally strange.

They could have a world of reasons. They do not have to explain. Politeness might suggest it but that is not a right. Do not name. People who suggest it are trying to get you barred. We only have your side to assess. You would not be the first to have your nose out of joint and get vindictive, under the pretence of "thinking of others".

Learn from the experience then gracefully and simply move on "

This exactly - naming and shaming is not cool at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Face pictures are private and they sent face pictures but thinking about some of there pictures compared to friends pictures bodies are totally different sizes. They wanted to arrange a meet in a parked up camper van so I thought it could be real after they gave address details where they park up. "

They found someone else they liked better, who probably wasn't bothered about those '8' dress size increases you mentioned....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not been banned in the past named and shamed a lot. "

You name and shame because someone has potentially changed their mind ?

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By *unseeker6969 OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere

Would of bothered me but why lie in the first place

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

They nicked all your friend only pics to wank over.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Face pictures are private and they sent face pictures but thinking about some of there pictures compared to friends pictures bodies are totally different sizes. They wanted to arrange a meet in a parked up camper van so I thought it could be real after they gave address details where they park up. "

Probably a dude after wank pics.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

It may have nothing at all to do with you. They may have had a falling out, a difference of opinion, when the reality of meeting at this moment in their life approached.

Don't lose sleep over it. You will never fathom other people's motives/actions.

C

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By *unseeker6969 OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere

At least tell me lol

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By *unseeker6969 OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere

Won’t lose sleep just gonna be more aware of couple even more now

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"What’s peoples thoughts on couples blocking men after accepting friends invite and sharing pictures chatting to arrange a social ???

I’ve chatted for a few days with a Essex couple and things don’t make sense.. "

Probably just a guy pretending .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Won’t lose sleep just gonna be more aware of couple even more now "

Op- use reply+quote, so we know who you’re talking to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably just a guy pick hunting OP, sorry its happened to you xx

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By *unseeker6969 OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere

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By *unseeker6969 OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere


"Won’t lose sleep just gonna be more aware of couple even more now

Op- use reply+quote, so we know who you’re talking to "
sorry new to the forum posts really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At least tell me lol"

Trouble is with people - they don't need to justify, give a reason!

We all have to deal with that, it isn't anything personal.

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By *unseeker6969 OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere


"At least tell me lol

Trouble is with people - they don't need to justify, give a reason!

We all have to deal with that, it isn't anything personal.

"

Yeah can understand that some people have manners some don’t.

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