FabSwingers.com forum: if you found a cheating friend....

By *andamo OP Couple
over a year ago

thornton heath

So we've been friends for 8-9 years. The new dad seems to love her but is VERY jealous. He has set up two acc. One for him and a couple thing. It seems like cheating but I don't know the ins and outs. I feel like a duck because I am non-comfrontational and I can't have that conversation. My Mrs knows but won't say anything. One might say it's not my business but she's our friend, and sprogs are.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Your phrase "I don't know the ins and outs" about sums this up. It's not your drama

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By *unnyman84Man
over a year ago

maidstone

"So we've been friends for 8-9 years. The new dad seems to love her but is VERY jealous. He has set up two acc. One for him and a couple thing. It seems like cheating but I don't know the ins and outs. I feel like a duck because I am non-comfrontational and I can't have that conversation. My Mrs knows but won't say anything. One might say it's not my business but she's our friend, and sprogs are."

Is that milk dripping from your nipple??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you mean he's jealous?

Are her pics on the couple profile?

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

Is the couple account with her or some other woman?

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

My thoughts would be that I don't know their relationship dynamic. They may swing as a couple for all I know or give each other permission to play with others.

The only time I'd get involved in someone else's relationship would be if there was some kind of abuse involved and one of them needed help. Other than that, none of my business and not my drama.

Katie.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

I wouldn't get involved I would just provide support if needed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's you're friend at the end of the day, do what's best

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Can you be a bit clearer anput who the accounts are for and how you know it's him?

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I would leave alone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but with all respect, it's not in detail enough for me... So if you're having a difficult time describing. Then I wouldn't get involved at all.

Unless you don't value the friendship.....Messy situation, isn't it!

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Like you said you don't know the ins and outs but have decided to jump to conclusions it seems.

If you feel you have to tell her do but be ready for repercussions if you are wrong and sometimes even when you are right it can end a friendship.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Am I the only one that's a bit confuzzled?

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By *orkshireDrifterMan
over a year ago

Nafferton, nr Driffield.

"She's you're friend at the end of the day, do what's best "

But explore more to try to get more facts.

You can be your own detective, setting up a second covert profile and see how he responds.

Don't rush in and spoil a friendship.

Also look at your own motives in this whole dynamic. Are you feeling over protective because you have developed some feelings for the woman? The wording of your posting rather indicates that as possible. You may be unaware of those feelings.

Tread carefully.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"She's you're friend at the end of the day, do what's best "

what is best?

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

Mention it to the one you think is cheating, then they can explain or it’ll precipitate them stopping!

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

There are numerous couples on the forum who have a couple's profile and a single one. So I'd say it's not that uncommon here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm generally pretty good at deciphering typo's (I need to be to read my own messages back) and reasonable at working out what people are trying to say but I can't work out this one out OP.

Who is the new dad? - should that be new man as in new b/f for your friend?

Is your friend on the couples profile?

Do you think she/he doesn't know this profile exists? Or that the single one exists?

Sorry, I'm just confused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm generally pretty good at deciphering typo's (I need to be to read my own messages back) and reasonable at working out what people are trying to say but I can't work out this one out OP.

Who is the new dad? - should that be new man as in new b/f for your friend?

Is your friend on the couples profile?

Do you think she/he doesn't know this profile exists? Or that the single one exists?

Sorry, I'm just confused.

Mr"

I’m glad you’ve asked this as I’ve read the OP a few times and thought it was just me that was confused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I the only one that's a bit confuzzled? "

Nope, i can't decipher either

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