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"Ignore them then " Leave others to their life. | |||
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"I’m single but can’t accommodate.. don’t think my 16 year old lad would appreciate me turning the house into a knocking shop.. " Really? I'd expect the opposite lol xx | |||
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"Maybe they're fed up with people judging them R" | |||
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"I’m single but can’t accommodate.. don’t think my 16 year old lad would appreciate me turning the house into a knocking shop.. Really? I'd expect the opposite lol xx"Haha… you have a point! | |||
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"I’m single but can’t accommodate.. don’t think my 16 year old lad would appreciate me turning the house into a knocking shop.. Really? I'd expect the opposite lol xx
Haha… you have a point! "Lol  xx | |||
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"Well my kid lives with me so not odd having someone round for a fuck session with my kid next door" Exactly… | |||
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"either can't accommodate with something to hide or married want to play away with or without partners consent ...tired of it " I'm also tired of married men messaging me to f%$# their wives, however I don't moan about it  ...just ignore | |||
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"But OP, please don't think I'm being nasty or start.. My home's my home..I don't share it with just anyone, and for that matter I'm not too comfortable with going to the home of others...not straight off the bat" m I agree. OP why don’t you accommodate | |||
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"either can't accommodate with something to hide or married want to play away with or without partners consent ...tired of it " Go to sleep then | |||
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"either can't accommodate with something to hide or married want to play away with or without partners consent ...tired of it " I'm always rather baffled as to why people care about things like this. People who are not what you're looking for have no baring on your use of the site. I also don't equate not accomodating with cheating. If I was a man, I wouldn't invite strangers to my home for sex. | |||
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"I don't really see why but accommodating means someone is married. I don't accomadate because I have no interest in bringing people I don't know to my home or knowing where I live. And I presuame it's the same for men on her who don't. The only time I accomadate is when I meet someone regularly. I do find it very prententious that people expect men to accommodate them on here why should they? Book a hotel or something instead of looking for someone else to accomadate you or accomadate at your home if you think it should be okay for men to. And if you don't like who contacts you then use your filters and actually go look for yourself and find men that fit what you are looking for." | |||
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"I ain't married. I accommodate and I travel "But ... I'm brown with a bit of a belly and an average dick size | |||
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"Assumptions annoy me! …. X" Oh this. But I try not to get annoyed anymore. I’m past that  | |||
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"Assumptions annoy me! …. X Oh this. But I try not to get annoyed anymore. I’m past that "Oh don’t get me wrong I don’t lose sleep over them just find them narrow minded x | |||
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"Here we go again I don't accommodate im cheating a lady don't accommodate she's been careful haha" Exactly. It’s a bloody ridiculous assumption. I know plenty of men who’s children live with them half of the time. I wouldn’t accommodate someone from here in my children’s home in a million years and respect to the men who don’t either. As for people being married, they have as much right to use this site as anyone else. Just don’t meet them if you don’t like it. | |||
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"Just because people can’t accommodate doesn’t mean their married" Yes true maybe their sharing a house and don't want all their hosemates to hear what's going on  | |||
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"Just because people can’t accommodate doesn’t mean their married Yes true maybe their sharing a house and don't want all their hosemates to hear what's going on "Or they have kids | |||
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"Just because people can’t accommodate doesn’t mean their married Yes true maybe their sharing a house and don't want all their hosemates to hear what's going on
Or they have kids"Or don't want strangers in their home. | |||
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"that's we've found fed up with married males contacting us esp those who come up with sob story their wives don't understand them" Why converse with them. One question to ask - can you accommodate? Their answer NO... You move on, block if you wish... End of conversation.... | |||
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"that's we've found fed up with married males contacting us esp those who come up with sob story their wives don't understand them" Maybe they don't. You're in a lucky minority if you're on here happily swinging with your partner. End of the day, you don't know what's going on in someone's life . | |||
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"Assumptions annoy me! " They’re great, aren’t they?
I particularly like it when people who’ve never met either me or my wife decide what our play dynamic is on our behalf. So special! | |||
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"that's we've found fed up with married males contacting us esp those who come up with sob story their wives don't understand them Maybe they don't. You're in a lucky minority if you're on here happily swinging with your partner. End of the day, you don't know what's going on in someone's life ." Are there are an abundance of married women on here fucking about behind their partner's backs....but they're "hot" & "naughty" apparently | |||
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"I’m single but can’t accommodate.. don’t think my 16 year old lad would appreciate me turning the house into a knocking shop.. " Oh - do you charge then? | |||
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"either can't accommodate with something to hide or married want to play away with or without partners consent ...tired of it " Why just block them and move on .....we've all got our reasons for being on here | |||
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"either can't accommodate with something to hide or married want to play away with or without partners consent ...tired of it " I don’t care if someone is married or not as long as it’s consensual. If you only want single men, chick the profiles and see if they accommodate etc | |||
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"that's we've found fed up with married males contacting us esp those who come up with sob story their wives don't understand them Maybe they don't. You're in a lucky minority if you're on here happily swinging with your partner. End of the day, you don't know what's going on in someone's life . Are there are an abundance of married women on here fucking about behind their partner's backs....but they're "hot" & "naughty" apparently "This ^^ | |||
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"Maybe they're fed up with people judging them R" Yeah, bless their poor wee cheating hearts | |||
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"You could try something radical like putting it in your profile." Even if you put it on your profile, married men (the cheating kind) will still try their luck. | |||
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"You could try something radical like putting it in your profile. Even if you put it on your profile, married men (the cheating kind) will still try their luck. " Yep. That's what pisses me off. | |||
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"Just move on. As long as they are honest on their profile then you can choose if you wanted to cross that line or not. It’s the people who don’t say anything on their profile and then tell you quite a bit into the chat which are frustrating. If we are unsure then we walk away…if our gut instinct is highlighting a red flag and it’s not addressed properly, we walk away. Any red flags we walk away. That’s why we chat and chat to people… One guy happily tried to justify the ring on his wedding ring finger was not because he was married but he was engaged instead
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"either can't accommodate with something to hide or married want to play away with or without partners consent ...tired of it " So because a “man” can’t accom means something to hide or playing away? Pretty presumptuous don’t you think | |||
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"Assumptions annoy me! They’re great, aren’t they?
I particularly like it when people who’ve never met either me or my wife decide what our play dynamic is on our behalf. So special! "These threads are always quite entertaining though . People telling others what they are and what they’re not and what they should and shouldn’t be doing! | |||
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"Most fess up in their messages, if they don't have it on their profile. So they're easy to avoid if you're not down with it " to be fair it’s not hard to work out either even if they don’t fess up lol | |||
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"You could try something radical like putting it in your profile. Even if you put it on your profile, married men (the cheating kind) will still try their luck. " Nah just say you *will* meet married men. Then they won't hide it and you can tell them to sod off... | |||
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"Here we go again I don't accommodate im cheating a lady don't accommodate she's been careful haha Exactly. It’s a bloody ridiculous assumption. I know plenty of men who’s children live with them half of the time. I wouldn’t accommodate someone from here in my children’s home in a million years and respect to the men who don’t either. As for people being married, they have as much right to use this site as anyone else. Just don’t meet them if you don’t like it. " This exactly. Judgemental people on here that can't see beyond black and white. | |||
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"It pisses me right off that so many people make assumptions about others based on situations that they know nothing about. If you don't want to meet married people, don't. If you don't want to meet single people, don't. If you don't want to meet circumcised men, or women with boob jobs, or single parents, don't (these were the first things that came to mind, I couldn't care less about any of these factors personally). And if any of it matters that much to you, ask the person you're speaking to. And make a decision about whether or not they're being truthful. Personally, as long as someone is truthful to me, I don't see it as my business to judge. People have been lying about themselves forever. It isn't a new thing. And they have their reasons. You would think that it was completely new and exclusive to fab from the way some people get all wound up and rant on the forum. (Sorry. Will go back in my box now)" This! I personally couldn’t give a flying fuck what others do and have never ever discussed what I do and don’t do on here. Makes for a much more pleasant existence. | |||
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"It pisses me right off that so many people make assumptions about others based on situations that they know nothing about. If you don't want to meet married people, don't. If you don't want to meet single people, don't. If you don't want to meet circumcised men, or women with boob jobs, or single parents, don't (these were the first things that came to mind, I couldn't care less about any of these factors personally). And if any of it matters that much to you, ask the person you're speaking to. And make a decision about whether or not they're being truthful. Personally, as long as someone is truthful to me, I don't see it as my business to judge. People have been lying about themselves forever. It isn't a new thing. And they have their reasons. You would think that it was completely new and exclusive to fab from the way some people get all wound up and rant on the forum. (Sorry. Will go back in my box now)" well said! | |||
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"Here we go again I don't accommodate im cheating a lady don't accommodate she's been careful haha Exactly. It’s a bloody ridiculous assumption. I know plenty of men who’s children live with them half of the time. I wouldn’t accommodate someone from here in my children’s home in a million years and respect to the men who don’t either. As for people being married, they have as much right to use this site as anyone else. Just don’t meet them if you don’t like it. This exactly. Judgemental people on here that can't see beyond black and white." Oh yes. The black and white thing! So so much of it on here. | |||
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"either can't accommodate with something to hide or married want to play away with or without partners consent ...tired of it " What are you tired of? People having their preferences? I suggest you up your filters and conduct your own searches, you may find what you want | |||
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"Here we go again I don't accommodate im cheating a lady don't accommodate she's been careful haha Exactly. It’s a bloody ridiculous assumption. I know plenty of men who’s children live with them half of the time. I wouldn’t accommodate someone from here in my children’s home in a million years and respect to the men who don’t either. As for people being married, they have as much right to use this site as anyone else. Just don’t meet them if you don’t like it. This exactly. Judgemental people on here that can't see beyond black and white. Oh yes. The black and white thing! So so much of it on here. " Exactly. For a swinging site it's full of narrow minded people. | |||
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"Got to say, I've always been slightly irritated by the insistence that I should accommodate." Totally agree. There's privacy etc. Many of us have children living with us etc. Not always that we have something to hide. Best to meet at a neutral point,50/50. Who knows what may be decided down the line if its a regular setup. | |||
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"Most fess up in their messages, if they don't have it on their profile. So they're easy to avoid if you're not down with it to be fair it’s not hard to work out either even if they don’t fess up lol " They could just tell the damn truth to start with couldn't they? Why is the onus on me to spot the signs or ask? Why can't they read my profile where I clearly say don't message if you're attached and she doesn't know? | |||
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"It pisses me right off that so many people make assumptions about others based on situations that they know nothing about. If you don't want to meet married people, don't. If you don't want to meet single people, don't. If you don't want to meet circumcised men, or women with boob jobs, or single parents, don't (these were the first things that came to mind, I couldn't care less about any of these factors personally). And if any of it matters that much to you, ask the person you're speaking to. And make a decision about whether or not they're being truthful. Personally, as long as someone is truthful to me, I don't see it as my business to judge. People have been lying about themselves forever. It isn't a new thing. And they have their reasons. You would think that it was completely new and exclusive to fab from the way some people get all wound up and rant on the forum. (Sorry. Will go back in my box now)" Agreed. Married men and women should be welcome here like anyone else, if you don't want to meet them don't! Lol xx | |||
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"Most fess up in their messages, if they don't have it on their profile. So they're easy to avoid if you're not down with it to be fair it’s not hard to work out either even if they don’t fess up lol They could just tell the damn truth to start with couldn't they? Why is the onus on me to spot the signs or ask? Why can't they read my profile where I clearly say don't message if you're attached and she doesn't know? " Thing is I did read that on your profile and I never messaged.  | |||
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"Most fess up in their messages, if they don't have it on their profile. So they're easy to avoid if you're not down with it to be fair it’s not hard to work out either even if they don’t fess up lol They could just tell the damn truth to start with couldn't they? Why is the onus on me to spot the signs or ask? Why can't they read my profile where I clearly say don't message if you're attached and she doesn't know? Thing is I did read that on your profile and I never messaged. "And I thank you for that | |||
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"Most fess up in their messages, if they don't have it on their profile. So they're easy to avoid if you're not down with it to be fair it’s not hard to work out either even if they don’t fess up lol They could just tell the damn truth to start with couldn't they? Why is the onus on me to spot the signs or ask? Why can't they read my profile where I clearly say don't message if you're attached and she doesn't know? " Oh yes I don’t disagree with that. I don’t have a problem with married men at all. I do have a problem with them lying about being married. Although it’s not happened to me. If it did I wouldn’t be too pleased. | |||
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"Most fess up in their messages, if they don't have it on their profile. So they're easy to avoid if you're not down with it to be fair it’s not hard to work out either even if they don’t fess up lol They could just tell the damn truth to start with couldn't they? Why is the onus on me to spot the signs or ask? Why can't they read my profile where I clearly say don't message if you're attached and she doesn't know? Thing is I did read that on your profile and I never messaged.
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"Most fess up in their messages, if they don't have it on their profile. So they're easy to avoid if you're not down with it to be fair it’s not hard to work out either even if they don’t fess up lol They could just tell the damn truth to start with couldn't they? Why is the onus on me to spot the signs or ask? Why can't they read my profile where I clearly say don't message if you're attached and she doesn't know? Oh yes I don’t disagree with that. I don’t have a problem with married men at all. I do have a problem with them lying about being married. Although it’s not happened to me. If it did I wouldn’t be too pleased. " I am perfectly polite and understand that there are reasons. But I have been led on for some time by a guy who didn't tell me (too naive to know then). | |||
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"Most fess up in their messages, if they don't have it on their profile. So they're easy to avoid if you're not down with it to be fair it’s not hard to work out either even if they don’t fess up lol They could just tell the damn truth to start with couldn't they? Why is the onus on me to spot the signs or ask? Why can't they read my profile where I clearly say don't message if you're attached and she doesn't know? Oh yes I don’t disagree with that. I don’t have a problem with married men at all. I do have a problem with them lying about being married. Although it’s not happened to me. If it did I wouldn’t be too pleased. I am perfectly polite and understand that there are reasons. But I have been led on for some time by a guy who didn't tell me (too naive to know then). " Ah I see. Yeah that’s out of order. I’d have hung him by his bollocks x | |||
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"It is possible for married men to be on here without cheating. Swinging and polyamory often involve having multiple partners and them being comfortable with that. Why are hotwives championed on here but husbands vilified? " I don't know that they're vilified I guess there's just not as many women want to have sex with another (knowing) woman's husband as there are men who want to have sex with another ( knowing) man's wife | |||
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"Most fess up in their messages, if they don't have it on their profile. So they're easy to avoid if you're not down with it to be fair it’s not hard to work out either even if they don’t fess up lol They could just tell the damn truth to start with couldn't they? Why is the onus on me to spot the signs or ask? Why can't they read my profile where I clearly say don't message if you're attached and she doesn't know? Oh yes I don’t disagree with that. I don’t have a problem with married men at all. I do have a problem with them lying about being married. Although it’s not happened to me. If it did I wouldn’t be too pleased. I am perfectly polite and understand that there are reasons. But I have been led on for some time by a guy who didn't tell me (too naive to know then). " That's totally unfair on you. Married people should say upfront before meeting and then the person can make an informed decision. | |||
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"Most fess up in their messages, if they don't have it on their profile. So they're easy to avoid if you're not down with it to be fair it’s not hard to work out either even if they don’t fess up lol They could just tell the damn truth to start with couldn't they? Why is the onus on me to spot the signs or ask? Why can't they read my profile where I clearly say don't message if you're attached and she doesn't know? Oh yes I don’t disagree with that. I don’t have a problem with married men at all. I do have a problem with them lying about being married. Although it’s not happened to me. If it did I wouldn’t be too pleased. I am perfectly polite and understand that there are reasons. But I have been led on for some time by a guy who didn't tell me (too naive to know then). Ah I see. Yeah that’s out of order. I’d have hung him by his bollocks x" | |||
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"Most fess up in their messages, if they don't have it on their profile. So they're easy to avoid if you're not down with it to be fair it’s not hard to work out either even if they don’t fess up lol They could just tell the damn truth to start with couldn't they? Why is the onus on me to spot the signs or ask? Why can't they read my profile where I clearly say don't message if you're attached and she doesn't know? Oh yes I don’t disagree with that. I don’t have a problem with married men at all. I do have a problem with them lying about being married. Although it’s not happened to me. If it did I wouldn’t be too pleased. I am perfectly polite and understand that there are reasons. But I have been led on for some time by a guy who didn't tell me (too naive to know then). Ah I see. Yeah that’s out of order. I’d have hung him by his bollocks x" There are those who would find that an acceptable price to pay.. | |||
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"It is possible for married men to be on here without cheating. Swinging and polyamory often involve having multiple partners and them being comfortable with that. Why are hotwives championed on here but husbands vilified? I don't know that they're vilified I guess there's just not as many women want to have sex with another (knowing) woman's husband as there are men who want to have sex with another ( knowing) man's wife " I've seen married men get far more negative attention and threads but then ...more men on the site by far. I don't think anyone needs to be vilified, I've chatted to enough people who are:have cheated to know it's not black and white. | |||
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