FabSwingers.com forum: Straight, gay, bi or curious?

By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

I used to think that I was a natural born cocksucker. Recently though, I've started developing agonising thoughts that have been giving me sleepless nights. What triggered this was the other day when I went out for coffee with this gentleman. We were chatting about this and that and he told me that he really fancies seeing his wife fuck me in the arse with her strap-on because, he said, she's very good at fucking people with her strap-on...So, ever since he mentioned these things to me, I have these visions of myself, slowly swiping my tongue on her clitoris, then being forced to suck on her big plastic dick and then submitting myself to her on all fours....So, does this mean that inside me there is a repressed heterosexual trying desperately to come out? Am I just a fully fledged bisexual slut or a gay man who likes perverse things?

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames

"I used to think that I was a natural born cocksucker. Recently though, I've started developing agonising thoughts that have been giving me sleepless nights. What triggered this was the other day when I went out for coffee with this gentleman. We were chatting about this and that and he told me that he really fancies seeing his wife fuck me in the arse with her strap-on because, he said, she's very good at fucking people with her strap-on...So, ever since he mentioned these things to me, I have these visions of myself, slowly swiping my tongue on her clitoris, then being forced to suck on her big plastic dick and then submitting myself to her on all fours....So, does this mean that inside me there is a repressed heterosexual trying desperately to come out? Am I just a fully fledged bisexual slut or a gay man who likes perverse things?

Why do labels / names / categorisation matter to you?

Just be yourself and enjoy whatever you want to enjoy.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Why do you need a label?

Can’t you just enjoy each moment you choose to put yourself in without overthinking what it makes you?

As long as you are happy then explore whatever you wish too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pleasantly mixed bag of contradictions??

I'd just enjoy it if I were you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a normal kinky fucker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait, you suck cock and it's the pegging that has you wondering ?

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

"Wait, you suck cock and it's the pegging that has you wondering ?

But the thought of an actual cis-gendered woman fucking me with her big plastic dick and then maybe asking me to fuck her, drives me so horny.... I'm confused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I really wouldn't admit to any thoughts of being straight! Swingers are the very least bi and will lick all genitals offered.

As long as you are looking lustfully at her husband's cock as she's ramming her strap on into your arse you will be ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" …he really fancies seeing his wife fuck me in the arse with her strap-on because, he said, she's very good at fucking people with her strap-on...

...So, does this mean that inside me there is a repressed heterosexual trying desperately to come out?

So, you’re wondering if you’re straight because you want a woman to do you up the bum while pretending to be a man?

Man, the world is so much more complex than I ever imagined it could be

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By *moothstaffspeepsCouple
over a year ago

Stafford

My better half and I do this often. Don’t stress I say just enjoy it’s incredibly sexy sucking a female with her strap on and watching them climax at the kink !! Xx

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

It is complicated and I feel really conflicted...I mean, I've experienced explosive orgasms while wanking off to videos of men licking pussy and even lesbian porn. Isn't it natural for me to wonder whether I'm more straight than I thought I was?

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Sex is just an act, something to be enjoyed and at times to make babies.

It doesn’t have to be complicated, find someone or an act you quite fancy and enjoy the experience. Afterwards get on with your life. Because one day you’ll be sat in an old persons home wishing you’d just done it rather than think about doing it.

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

You lot are ruddy gullible if you actually thought I was ever conflicted or agonising about anything

but i still want to give each and everyone a hug for actually responding

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By *northernsoulMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Sexuality can be as fluid or absolute as you want it to be - gay, straight and bi are just labels but are probably a lot quicker to say than listing out every kink or fantasy you may have. As long as you're enjoying yourself, having consensual fun and causing no harm, that's all that matters.

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames

"You lot are ruddy gullible if you actually thought I was ever conflicted or agonising about anything

but i still want to give each and everyone a hug for actually responding

xx"

Yeah right ...

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

"You lot are ruddy gullible if you actually thought I was ever conflicted or agonising about anything

but i still want to give each and everyone a hug for actually responding

Yeah right ... "

No, it was actually a joke post which is why I posted it here and not on other sections

The only slightly honest part however was that i met the male of a MF couple the other day and it was a first "get to know" meet.

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames

"You lot are ruddy gullible if you actually thought I was ever conflicted or agonising about anything

but i still want to give each and everyone a hug for actually responding

Yeah right ...

No, it was actually a joke post which is why I posted it here and not on other sections

The only slightly honest part however was that i met the male of a MF couple the other day and it was a first "get to know" meet. "

Glad that you thin the subject of sexuality identity is a joke. Good lad, good use of time

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

Oh in the name of pete, lighten up... there's already too much confrontation about just about everything in this site x

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

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By *FunwithmenMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Does it matter what you label yourself as??

As long as you and the folks you play with enjoy it, why worry???

Have fun, be happy and don't let others (or yourself!) make you feel guilty!

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over a year ago

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