FabSwingers.com forum: What do you want people to feel around you?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Please do not say hard/wet!

On a more emotional level - how would you like people to come away from the meeting you. Ideally!

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Energised and inspired.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And I'd never want anyone to feel like they are not good enough. I'm not sure if that's entirely in ones control though..

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

Relaxed and content

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please do not say hard/wet!

On a more emotional level - how would you like people to come away from the meeting you. Ideally!

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Energised and inspired.

Like I’d underpromised but overdelivered.

Also… like they probably need a tetanus shot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy and content

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Please do not say hard/wet!

On a more emotional level - how would you like people to come away from the meeting you. Ideally!

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Energised and inspired.

Like I’d underpromised but overdelivered.

Also… like they probably need a tetanus shot."

Oh you wild thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Confused."

Why?

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Happy/relaxed and amused x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like I’ve made them feel special, and the only person in my world for a few hours.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Like I’ve made them feel special, and the only person in my world for a few hours."

Aww

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

I adore chatting to new people, I want them to feel like I take interest in them as a person not just there physical appearance - sure it’s nice to compliment here or there but I like hearing about there life’s, passions etc

I’d hope people who do meet me feel relaxed, have a good laugh and go away smiling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy and comfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enlightened

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

Feeling like curling up on the sofa in a blanket and having a power nap

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Feeling like curling up on the sofa in a blanket and having a power nap"

Can I just say.. I always feel around you like we can conquer the world

so bit opposite.. but this is great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Feeling like curling up on the sofa in a blanket and having a power nap"

I wouldn’t need telling twice

Love a nap, I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Uplifted

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

Like they’ve made a new friend who they’re already looking forward to seeing again.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Ideally? Like they wouldn't mind talking to me again/further - that's a sign you've had a good conversation with someone. That they've been listened to, rather than just heard.

I don't really think too much about it, first time I think I have. How others view you will always be with their own perceptions/biases/life experiences so you can't control too much of it bar not being a knob.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ideally? Like they wouldn't mind talking to me again/further - that's a sign you've had a good conversation with someone. That they've been listened to, rather than just heard.

I am glad I inspired you to think of it first time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Confused.

Why?

Well as every.single.guy who messages me on here is 'straight' I'd hope they went away more confused than when they arrived

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Like they’ve made a new friend who they’re already looking forward to seeing again. "

That is ideal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ideally? Like they wouldn't mind talking to me again/further - that's a sign you've had a good conversation with someone. That they've been listened to, rather than just heard.

Yeah… like when someone remembers your name next time you speak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pleasantly surprised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Energised

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

With a smile outwardly, or inwardly. Plus a feeling that, despite being a waffling numpty, that bloke they just met is actually pretty decent to be around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Satisfied but wanting more

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Happy

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Yeah… like when someone remembers your name next time you speak."

What kind of dickjockey wouldn't remember your name? You probably need to make more of an impression ShovelHands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really happy and would like to do it again, like something amazing has just gone and happened and chemistry has occurred where you both come out of that occurrence connected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love chatting to new people. Always hoping to leave them feeling in a better place, smile, show warmth and kindness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah… like when someone remembers your name next time you speak.

What kind of dickjockey wouldn't remember your name? You probably need to make more of an impression ShovelHands."

I couldn’t imagine the scenario ever happening to me personally Susan.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

That depends on the person and the type of interaction, a professional meeting would be vastly different to a friend. Also any preconceived ideas they may have about me and their own personal bias and previous experiences may alter their view. Heck, even what mood they're in at that particular time could affect it. I guess what I'm trying to say is there's not much I can do to alter someone's perception of me unless I'm going to be a complete fake, all I can do is act as I deem appropriately in any given situation and people will judge me as they see fit.

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By *rixieMeWoman
over a year ago

Farfarfar away

That they’d like to spend more time with me

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Please do not say hard/wet!

On a more emotional level - how would you like people to come away from the meeting you. Ideally!

Answers on the postcard...

Energised and inspired.

Well it depends - if it’s a guy I’ve just had a meet with - they’re generally exhausted and grateful to get out alive!

When chatting/socialising - I guess I like new acquaintances to think they’ve just met someone they could be friends with. I’m fairly uncomplicated.

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

"Feeling like curling up on the sofa in a blanket and having a power nap

Can I just say.. I always feel around you like we can conquer the world

so bit opposite.. but this is great.

My going out energy is completely opposite to my sexual tantric energy xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one has put itchy and I'm not sure if I'm disappointed or impressed.

I'd like to people to feel that I enjoyed their company and conversation and with them looking forward to seeing me again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just knowing , that they have just met a genuine guy , and also a smile , hoping my cheeky humour was enough to brighten their day ...oh and also satisfied

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Like a great magician once said ‘always leave the crowd wanting more’

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

That they’ve just put a top shelf memory in the wank bank

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Their most authentic self, whatever that maybe

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Comfortable

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By *eachPreacherMan
over a year ago

Kent/London

Indigestion

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"how would you like people to come away from the meeting you"

Surprised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely nothing. No recollection of them meeting me.

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By *agertha73Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

I try to leave a place better than I found it, however chaotic it was in the beginning. I would like people to leave my company feeling good about themselves and if I contributed to it, all the better.

Him x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relaxed...then any other emotions and feelings will come naturally.

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By *parrow77Man
over a year ago

cheshire

Happy I hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope people are comfortable in my company

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
over a year ago

All over the place

Comfortable is the top one for me

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

"Pleasantly surprised"

This is what most people feel like when meeting me in person.

But I’d like them to feel happy and smiling. They might have taken 1 or 2 interesting facts with them too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That they’ve just put a top shelf memory in the wank bank

Nothing more?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Safe and secure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A warm friendly atmosphere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That they would want to meet me again after having a pretty good time.

Worthwhile is a good word.

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

Relaxed and open.

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By *rPeachyMan
over a year ago

Bristol

An empowering aura of manliness and a delicate aroma of marzipan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a couple of women I’d like to feel around me…

Is that the kind of answer you were trying to avoid Op?

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By *eresa_cdslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Bodmin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like people to go away happy, relaxed and content knowing that the person they have just met portrays herself well in the forum, via messages and via pictures.

I'd hate for people to feel "catfished" in that I don't come across the same as online.

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By *eresa_cdslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Bodmin

Still meeting with the friends I met from here a decade ago so I guess the initial meeting went as they planned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy the feeling that we had some fun coffee natter

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

To feel warm and fuzzy inside, feel comfortable and able to have a good chat and laugh

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Like they've mastered Ikea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like people to feel like I have paid them attention.

Doesn't matter if it's a high level work meeting or a homeless person on the streets that I am talking too as long as I can make them feel listened to, both interactions are the same and of equal value.

I also like to make people feel like they want to suck my cock. Doesn't matter if it's a work meeting or a homeless person on the streets. A BJ is a BJ!

Made myself laugh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want people to have that little pull that they need to see me again as I make them feel good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking forward to meeting again.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Please do not say hard/wet!

On a more emotional level - how would you like people to come away from the meeting you. Ideally!

Answers on the postcard...

Energised and inspired.

Great question, OP and maybe one we should consider when meeting people (in any scenario. not just FAB)

I hope during the meeting people feel relaxed, genuinely listened to and perhaps a bit energised in my company.

When they walk away, I would hope they feel that they did not waste their time, irrespective of what happens afterwards e.g. another meeting or whether or not they will ever meet me again.

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By *idnight RamblerMan
over a year ago

Pershore

When I'm in my coffin and people are looking down on me, I know what I'd like them to say.

It's "look he's still breathing"

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By *yder RavishMan
over a year ago

Roydo Essex

"Please do not say hard/wet!

On a more emotional level - how would you like people to come away from the meeting you. Ideally!

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Energised and inspired.

Relaxed, reinvigorated, entertained, satisfied and happy

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Happy, safe, valued, respected, heard.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I want them to feel shocked, appalled and frankly terrified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Respected, pleasured, and them to be surprised at how well it went

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Enlightened, happier to be in a world that I'm in, have loosened up in a sense they'll allow themselves "silly time" and not feel stupid, but mostly a warm feeling in their tum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like a whirlwind in a shitstorm....asking themselves 'what the fuck happened there'

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Like they can just be themselves around me if meet again, happy, content and relaxed.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"That they’ve just put a top shelf memory in the wank bank

Nothing more?"

Apologies…I’m blaming my jeg-lagged brain

If it’s a FAB meet, I’d want them to feel excited, smiling inside and warm. That they’ve just made a connection that’s going to last…

Plus have a top shelf memory for the wank bank…

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

Erm... Damn that's a good question. Hopefully encouraged to speak openly without judgement I would say is the main one

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Satisfied firstly. Satiated.

Then happy.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Horn... oh, you said not that. Relaxed?

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Comfortable, safe, adored, and when I’ve left, happy memories.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Also...wet.

*Runs

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Relaxed and smiling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The force

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Content. Comfortable. Acknowledged. Loved.

**** And if you come away a little horny then bonus!

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happiness

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By *ilad4kicksMan
over a year ago

Ashford

Feeling comfortable, pleasured , happy They had met me and hopefully would like to see me again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relaxed, understood and happy..

And if you're sexy as fuck I want you turned on too.. sorry couldn't help myself

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wanna feel inside her ^

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I’d like them to be happy that they met me, that it was something positive and maybe that I had some quality that wasn’t common (that might be a stretch though!

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

Happy, satisfied,but at the same time a feeling of wanting more

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Relaxed and had a laugh

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Welcome, comfortable and enjoyable

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Comfortable, relaxed, at ease, themselves and happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is this so hard?! I guess I don't have a great sense of how other people see me. Maybe I'd like them to feel like smiling.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Calm and happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thoughtful and satisfied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relaxed , happy, amused, intrigued and satisfied

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By *uby StarCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Happy, fulfilled, and that warm fuzzy feeling of satisfaction,yet yearning for more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relaxed and comfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Broken and wobbly

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Broken and wobbly

Surely that's the aftermath!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Broken and wobbly

Surely that's the aftermath! "

Well OP asked how we would want someone to feel coming away from the meet

If its during, going by the title instead - shaking with euphoria

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Confident comfortable and affordable

no seriously intrigued

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Broken and wobbly

Surely that's the aftermath!

Well OP asked how we would want someone to feel coming away from the meet

If its during, going by the title instead - shaking with euphoria

Yes they did I misread the opening thread however you have made it perfectly understandable in a nice and sexy way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Comfort happiness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Comfort happiness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ideally? Like they wouldn't mind talking to me again/further - that's a sign you've had a good conversation with someone. That they've been listened to, rather than just heard.

This ^^^

Plus it depends on the situation. Could be happy, content, contrite, horny, frustrated, satisfied - all sorts of things.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

I would like to think people would feel relaxed and happy around us ..But we can’t really control how others see us ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Broken and wobbly

Surely that's the aftermath!

Well OP asked how we would want someone to feel coming away from the meet

If its during, going by the title instead - shaking with euphoria

Yes they did I misread the opening thread however you have made it perfectly understandable in a nice and sexy way x"

You can intepret as you wish

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Please do not say hard/wet!

On a more emotional level - how would you like people to come away from the meeting you. Ideally!

Answers on the postcard...

Energised and inspired.

Great question, OP and maybe one we should consider when meeting people (in any scenario. not just FAB)

I hope during the meeting people feel relaxed, genuinely listened to and perhaps a bit energised in my company.

When they walk away, I would hope they feel that they did not waste their time, irrespective of what happens afterwards e.g. another meeting or whether or not they will ever meet me again.

Thank you. I didnt mean just fab meet. In general.

These are very rare occurrences when I feel I wasted my time. Every moments adds to collection of them somehow.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That depends on the person and the type of interaction, a professional meeting would be vastly different to a friend. Also any preconceived ideas they may have about me and their own personal bias and previous experiences may alter their view. Heck, even what mood they're in at that particular time could affect it. I guess what I'm trying to say is there's not much I can do to alter someone's perception of me unless I'm going to be a complete fake, all I can do is act as I deem appropriately in any given situation and people will judge me as they see fit. "

I suppose I wasn't specific enough. I didnt consider much those other factors. Do you mean that no matter how we want to come across people might see and digest us in a way different to what we intended? I intended for us to make a blissful wish.. what would be the ideal memory of the encounter with someone on a personal level.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smiling

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By *ookie_and_NookieCouple
over a year ago

Kent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scared with a drop in temperature, mwuhahahahahahaaaaaa!!!!

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