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i am happier in my 40s than my 20s because ..

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By *reelove1969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

bristol

listening to radio 2 and this is the topic of the morning .. are you happier ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know. I'm not in my 40's yet.

I won't be able to say that for much longer, so I am making the most of it!

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By *ack_greenfinchMan
over a year ago

bristol

Yeah, you know what, I think I really am happier now. So much is sorted out that wasn't before, and I'm lot more at ease with myself now.

Oh, and back in my 20's I'd have been really shocked by the thought of swinging - now I just enjoy so much more that life has to offer.

Maybe the body gets tired a little faster, but everything else is better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Past 40 mark, but I feel more confident in myself, feel I have nothing to prove. Having said that, only feel 20 in my head hehehe

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By *U1966Man
over a year ago

Devon

Happier now because i am not married to ex and i have lovely daughter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ill let u know in 20years lol if fabs still going lol

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By *ont Ask Dont GetWoman
over a year ago

amersham

Goodness me, yes. Far more comfortable and confident in my own skin, realised I don't need to be part of a couple to feel happy and complete. Got two beautiful children both starting to make their way in the world. Life is good.

Not got long left in my 40's tho!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very happy in myself now than when I was in my early 20's. im more confident, more secure in myself and know what I want.

Age Is just a number but you can't beat experience and that only comes with a few years under your belt.

Ian

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im happier in my fifties than i was in my forties........................

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im happier in my fifties than i was in my forties........................"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a lot happier , more comfy and secure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am happier, wiser, more laid back, confident Naked, comfortable in my skin.. and Not on a diet....

In my prime...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hated my teens, 20s gave me the opportunity to see the world, 30s were fantastic as it gave me chance to put all the knowledge I had gained to good use land personal exploration, 40s is great. very happy about who I am

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I can't say yet. I fudged my profile to sound more mature

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By *upitersmileCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Honestly I'd have to say I was more confident in my early to mid 20s. Found myself questioning a lot of things and withdrawing over the last few years, but this year has seen it slowly start to climb again. If it keeps going this way I'll be one very confident happy bunny in my 40s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nothing good about getting old is there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My 40s are definitely the best years so far.

However, I only have another 2+ years to go before I hit half century.

I look forward to being 50, and have already started to plan how to celebrate it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More self confidence,both mentally and physically. I'm away from a destructive relationship, my children are older and have blossomed. I have gained control in some aspects of my life and get less stressed by the judgements and opinions of others.

No life isn't perfect, but I'm a lot happier than I was 20 yrs ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not sure as not hit 40 yet

Happier in my thirties than my twenties though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20's was hell... yes I had lots of energy that seems to have been misplaced over the years, but I worked 80 hours a week as we had no money, had two young kids so only one of us could earn etc.

Hit 30's and it leveled a bit, had enough cash in the bank for holidays more importantly if something broke had cash ready to replace it so no stress.

Hit 40's kids left home mortgage paid on two houses and pleasure replaced work as primary focus of life.

Not complaining about any decade, but stress and fear have been put away so I am probably happier now than 20 years ago.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Can i be 20 but know what i know now ?

Loved 20"s very happy days indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes happer now as was a little wilder then ..

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I was much thinner but felt less attractive.

It was the pregnancy and sickness years as I was diagnosed with lupus. Older I can't get pregnant and my health has improved.

Some things are worse but overall I am more content in my 40s than I ever felt in my 20s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, not in the slightest. 20's were brilliant. Young, fit, lots of single friends, great social life, bouncebackability,carefree.

Oh to be Benjamin Button!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"No, not in the slightest. 20's were brilliant. Young, fit, lots of single friends, great social life, bouncebackability,carefree.

Oh to be Benjamin Button!"

And your mum did your washing for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And your mum did your washing for you?"

Uhm, the very early twenties, yes! To be honest -I don't find that doing washing impacts on quality of life too severely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (lola) am not in my 40s yet...Charlie however is 40 today hopefully it's true that life begins at 40

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Each decade had its advantages, its moments of happiness and sadness - Life in your twenties is exciting for different reasons than in your thirties when many people have kids and families. I loved every stage tbh and I am very happy and content as I am now with different adventures and excitements on the horizon (including plans for a Harley but that is another story) - long may it continue.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I have been happy most decades to be honest

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By *upitersmileCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Each decade had its advantages, its moments of happiness and sadness - Life in your twenties is exciting for different reasons than in your thirties when many people have kids and families. I loved every stage tbh and I am very happy and content as I am now with different adventures and excitements on the horizon (including plans for a Harley but that is another story) - long may it continue. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah, you know what, I think I really am happier now. So much is sorted out that wasn't before, and I'm lot more at ease with myself now.

Oh, and back in my 20's I'd have been really shocked by the thought of swinging - now I just enjoy so much more that life has to offer.

Maybe the body gets tired a little faster, but everything else is better."
+1 Billy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lot happier , laid back and more relaxed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends on the day. Gotta say though spent most of my 20s at music festivals, hard to beat.

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